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Don’t Say She Lost

08.5.2009 | 8:40 pm

Susan died tonight (August 5) at 7:25pm. It was a hard, long day, and Susan fought right to the end, for much longer than anyone would have thought she could.

My mom, my sisters Kellene and Jodi, and my Brother-in-Law Rocky were all here to support my family as Susan passed away.

I’ll have more to say soon, but consider this. Susan inspired me to expand the focus of my blog from nothing but bike-related jokes to a serious and pitched fight against cancer.

Then she inspired 500+ of you to join Team Fatty, the largest LiveStrong Challenge Team there has ever been.

And Team Fatty has raised close to more than $500,000 — a record amount.

Susan’s part in the battle is over, but she didn’t lose. She led the charge. She showed the rest of us how to fight: with determination, focus, creativity, and outrageous endurance.

Now it’s up to the rest of us to Fight Like Susan.

2,442 Comments

  1. Comment by Ravan | 08.5.2009 | 8:43 pm

    No words can ease your pain. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  2. Comment by Bubba | 08.5.2009 | 8:43 pm

    My sincere condolences. May God continue to bless your life…and your efforts to fight this menace that takes too many lives too soon.

  3. Comment by Charles Goodman | 08.5.2009 | 8:44 pm

    Just For Today I will live one day only, forgetting yesterday and tomorrow, and not trying to solve the whole problem of life at once.

    Just For Today I will be unafraid of life and death; unafraid to enjoy the beautiful and be happy. People are as happy as they make up their minds to be.

    Just For Today I will adjust myself to what is, and try not to make everything over to suit me. If I cannot have what I like, I will try to like what I have.

    Just For Today I will be agreeable, cheerful, charitable, do my best, praise people for what they do, not criticize them for what they cannot do; and if I find fault, I will forgive it and forget it. I will try not to improve or regulate anybody except for myself.

    Just For Today I will have a plan. I may not follow it exactly, but I will have one. It will save me from worry, hurry and indecision.

    Just For Today I will get off my nerves and not get on theirs. I will appreciate them for what they do and what they are.

    Just For Today I will not show it if my feelings are hurt.

    Just For Today I will find a little time for quiet, to relax and to realize what life is and can be, and get a better perspective of myself.

    Just For Today I will look at life with fresh eyes and discover the wonder of it; I will knw that as I give to the world so the world will give to me.

  4. Comment by Kari Callin | 08.5.2009 | 8:45 pm

    My heart and prayers go out to you, your children, and your families for your loss.

  5. Comment by Gayle | 08.5.2009 | 8:45 pm

    I just read your tweet and did a RT. I learned about your blog through a Lance Armstrong tweet and have loved reading every word. I am inspired by all you have done.

    I am so sad by your news. I send you and your family all my heartfelt condolences.

  6. Comment by Chris Driggers | 08.5.2009 | 8:45 pm

    You have a lot of people thinking about you and your family at this time.

    More than you can imagine.

    You will be amazed at what we can do together.

  7. Comment by Tug | 08.5.2009 | 8:46 pm

    Found you through Carrie Hasson’s twitter, & am so very sorry…you and your family have my prayers.

  8. Comment by elisabeth | 08.5.2009 | 8:47 pm

    So so sorry for you loss…I am so happy to have found your blog and see this amazing journey of you, your wife, and your family. You have all been truly inspiring and encouraged so many to fight like Susan!

  9. Comment by devin | 08.5.2009 | 8:47 pm

    Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Thank you for sharing such difficult times with us, you are a brave man who has done much good for his wife, his family and society. We are proud of you.

    Win Susan

  10. Comment by Kate | 08.5.2009 | 8:47 pm

    Sympathies from Ontario.

  11. Comment by Katie Bee | 08.5.2009 | 8:47 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. I will donate in Susan’s Honor.

  12. Comment by Alan | 08.5.2009 | 8:47 pm

    We’re all thinking of you and your family. Susan was not just an incredible fighter, but an amazing example for all of us of a person who didn’t let her disease define who she was. Thank you again for sharing all that you have with all of us.

  13. Comment by Adrien | 08.5.2009 | 8:47 pm

    My deepest condolences for you and your family. I’m so terribly sorry.

  14. Comment by BamaJim | 08.5.2009 | 8:47 pm

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You remain in our prayers.

  15. Comment by Brandy | 08.5.2009 | 8:48 pm

    You and your family are in my thoughts.

    You are right, FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  16. Comment by Amy | 08.5.2009 | 8:48 pm

    My thoughts are with all of you tonight. What an inspiring woman you married..

  17. Comment by Becca | 08.5.2009 | 8:49 pm

    Oh, Elden. I read your blog often and never comment, but I have been thinking about you and your family often for weeks. I am so, so sorry for your loss. Words can’t even express.

  18. Comment by Ryan | 08.5.2009 | 8:49 pm

    Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family from all of us in the cycling family and those of us who deal with cancer in our families.

    RIP Susan
    liveSTRONG fatty

  19. Comment by gingela5 | 08.5.2009 | 8:49 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. And thank you and her for bringing that much more awareness to this awful disease.

  20. Comment by Melissa | 08.5.2009 | 8:49 pm

    I am so very sorry. Thank you for sharing the story and courage of Susan and all of your family.

  21. Comment by Brandon Hammond | 08.5.2009 | 8:49 pm

    You are absolutely in a ton of people’s thoughts and prayers. Susan absolutely did not lose, and you and she have inspired so many to WIN this fight!

  22. Comment by Shaun Darragh | 08.5.2009 | 8:50 pm

    My Deepest sympathies and respect to you and your family. I am thinking of you and Susan now.

    I have only been acquainted with your struggle for a few months now but you and Susan have both been an incredible inspiration to me personally.

    I know what I went through last winter with my mom, and what I’m gearing up to go through with my dad in a few months, and I hope that I can live up to your example when the time comes for dad. Damn I hate cancer.

    I’m so so so sorry.

  23. Comment by Kim | 08.5.2009 | 8:50 pm

    You and your family are in my thoughts. Sympathies from Portland, OR.

  24. Comment by Rose | 08.5.2009 | 8:50 pm

    Thinking of you all always, condolences from Melbourne Australia, you and Susan have truly touched our lives!

  25. Comment by Jenny | 08.5.2009 | 8:50 pm

    Sympathies from my family to yours. You are in our thoughts. We can only hope that we too could FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  26. Comment by Melissa | 08.5.2009 | 8:50 pm

    Keeping you and your family in my prayers. I have been truly inspired by your blog and the fight that you and Susan put up against cancer.Such a horrible disease taking our loved ones too soon. Be strong and FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  27. Comment by Matt | 08.5.2009 | 8:50 pm

    You have been strong throughout this fight – she’s in a better place and while your pain seems intense – her’s is over.

  28. Comment by peter westerholm | 08.5.2009 | 8:50 pm

    peace to you and your family. I have followed you for a long time and learned alot…….

  29. Comment by Christina | 08.5.2009 | 8:51 pm

    My thoughts are with your family tonight and always.

  30. Comment by Ben LaForce | 08.5.2009 | 8:51 pm

    read your blog for a while, first time commenting. i feel terrible about you loss tonight and hope you make it through alright.

  31. Comment by Jenni | 08.5.2009 | 8:51 pm

    You, Susan and your family have been such an inspiration to me and so many others, and I know you will all continue to be. Susan leaves such a rich legacy. Imagine how we could change the world if we could all accomplish what Susan did in her too-short life.
    Truly, my thoughts are with you and your children and all who loved Susan. Love and prayers surround you.

  32. Comment by Nancy Peacock | 08.5.2009 | 8:51 pm

    I’ll miss her, and I didn’t know her.
    Can’t imagine how much you will too.
    I’ve been expecting this post, but it didn’t make it any easier. Tears are still flowing.
    Praying for you and your children and all your family Fatty.
    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  33. Comment by Maile in Florida | 08.5.2009 | 8:51 pm

    I am so sorry. Susan is an inspiration, and I will always remember what it means to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

    Aloha ‘oe, Susan.

  34. Comment by Andrea | 08.5.2009 | 8:51 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family tonight. Thank you for sharing Susan’s story with us. You are a strong man with an amazing family.

  35. Comment by Kalgrm | 08.5.2009 | 8:51 pm

    My thoughts are with you and your family, Fatty. You’re probably the strongest bloke on the net, so I won’t suggest you be strong: you’re already there.

    Thanks for sharing your family’s story. You’re an inspiration to thousands across the world. I’ll be Fighting Like Susan too.

    Graeme

  36. Comment by Subbu | 08.5.2009 | 8:51 pm

    So sorry for your loss. You are an inspiring guy.

  37. Comment by Peter | 08.5.2009 | 8:52 pm

    So sorry, she has inspired many.

  38. Comment by Jennifer | 08.5.2009 | 8:52 pm

    I am very sorry. I first found your blog when PW helped you with a fundraiser. I read about Susan’s fight, and her strength despite her tremendous suffering was inspiring. Also inspiring was your love and commitment through it all.

  39. Comment by Lisa | 08.5.2009 | 8:52 pm

    I am so very sorry. Breast cancer and all cancer are horrible diseases. Peace to you and your family.

  40. Comment by Jamieson | 08.5.2009 | 8:52 pm

    Condolences to you and your family, be grateful that your family is with you in this loss.

    You and Susan have been a great inspiration.

  41. Comment by Big Boned | 08.5.2009 | 8:52 pm

    Fatty,
    No words can comfort. My prayers are with you and your family.
    May God bless and comfort you and as He will Susan.
    BB

  42. Comment by Cara | 08.5.2009 | 8:53 pm

    My prayers are with you and your family tonight. Susan’s story is awe inspiring and she will be remebered

  43. Comment by MaryKaye | 08.5.2009 | 8:53 pm

    Sympathies from Colorado.

  44. Comment by chris u | 08.5.2009 | 8:53 pm

    My condolences. I just lost my gramps to cancer a week and a half ago. Stay strong and god bless.

  45. Comment by Kyle | 08.5.2009 | 8:54 pm

    My heartfelt sympathy to all of Susan’s family and friends.

  46. Comment by Procrastamom | 08.5.2009 | 8:55 pm

    You and your family are in my thoughts, Fatty. My deepest condolances.

  47. Comment by nancy | 08.5.2009 | 8:55 pm

    God bless. She inspired us all. We are thinking of you all with love and prayers, hug your children tight.

    Ride Leadville, and kick butt. She’ll be watching.

  48. Comment by John | 08.5.2009 | 8:55 pm

    Elden,
    I’m so sorry. Thoughts and prayers to you and your kids. My family and I wish you and yours peace and grace.

  49. Comment by Joel | 08.5.2009 | 8:55 pm

    Very sorry for your loss, sincerely.

    Thank you for sharing the inspiration of Susan’s fight and for your commitment to fighting this disease. We are all with you.

  50. Comment by pcomeau | 08.5.2009 | 8:55 pm

    As always our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  51. Comment by Leigh | 08.5.2009 | 8:56 pm

    Praying for your family, as always.

  52. Comment by nate | 08.5.2009 | 8:56 pm

    So sorry for your lost. My condolences to you and your family.

  53. Comment by Chris Annunziata | 08.5.2009 | 8:56 pm

    I am so very sorry. I hope you can find some comfort in the fact that you inspired thousands of strangers to join the fight against cancer. All our love and our deepest condolences.

    Chris and Melissa Annunziata

  54. Comment by Angela | 08.5.2009 | 8:56 pm

    I have no words… but my thoughts & prayers are with you all. I will never stop fighting for Susan & for everyone.

    I am so sorry for your loss of such an incredible woman.

  55. Comment by jenny | 08.5.2009 | 8:56 pm

    Praying for you and your family…what a fight!!

  56. Comment by JessinNYC | 08.5.2009 | 8:56 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Its truly amazing what she accomplished through her strong fight.

  57. Comment by Truett Aitken | 08.5.2009 | 8:56 pm

    If I had an ounce of Susan’s strength I could face any challenge. I am thanking her in my prayers for her inspiration. Thank you for letting us into your lives. I will hold you both in my thoughts as it has made me stronger to just see a glimpse of your life. God bless you, your kids, and all the others in this fight. Lance said he was crush hearing that Susan had passed moments after sending a tweet about her, but in a way, it was very appropriate. I would like to cheer her on for this leg of her journey.

    GO SUSAN!!!!!!

    You inspired us. You are amazing.

  58. Comment by Catlin Humes | 08.5.2009 | 8:56 pm

    Although I’ve only started reading your blog a few months ago, I too have been inspired by You and Susan’s everyday battle. She was such a fighter and I saw the love you had for her in every post. I wish you comfort in this most difficult time.

  59. Comment by Jenn | 08.5.2009 | 8:57 pm

    Prayers going up in Colorado. Thank you for sharing your and Susan’s story with all of us.

  60. Comment by WheelDancer | 08.5.2009 | 8:57 pm

    So sorry to hear the news but am glad Susan’s suffering has ended. It’s been a long hard battle and I am truly grateful that you have the grit to share this deeply personal story with us.

    For you Eldon, I hope the joy of her memory soon replaces the pain of her passing.

    Peace to you and yours and let’s all rise up and whip the snot out of cancer.

  61. Comment by Amanda | 08.5.2009 | 8:57 pm

    My condolences. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Just remember the good times when the days get dark.

  62. Comment by Kevin L | 08.5.2009 | 8:57 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. Susan, and yourself, have served as an inspiration for many people. You and your family are in my thoughts.

    FIGHT

  63. Comment by Jason | 08.5.2009 | 8:57 pm

    Elden, I’m really sorry. What a legacy for you and your children to build on…

  64. Comment by Jeanne | 08.5.2009 | 8:58 pm

    Your family is dear — may all of you continue to fight like Susan!

  65. Comment by Micah | 08.5.2009 | 8:58 pm

    My heart dropped when I saw your post. Although we cannot understand what you’re feeling, our thoughts and prayers will be with you in the coming days.

    Best wishes and good luck in your quest to beat cancer for good. When that occurs, we can be sure that you and Susan had something to do with it. Keep pushing for the win!

  66. Comment by Shamu | 08.5.2009 | 8:58 pm

    Fatty, lost my father in law to leukemia a day ago – I can’t say I know how you feel, but our thoughts and prayers are with you. Susan passed on with dignity, surrounded by love, and she continues to shine as a beacon to so many of us affected by this terrible disease. Her life had meaning for thousands – what else could we possibly ask for?
    Be Strong, for you have so many pulling for both of you!

  67. Comment by bikesgonewild | 08.5.2009 | 8:58 pm

    …if you try, you win & susan won…

    …i’m so sorry to hear she passed, eldon…you are one of the most righteous human beings i’ve ever “known” even if it’s simply over the internet…

    …just got off my bike & i’m crying like a child…stay strong, fatty, so many folks love ya…

  68. Comment by Emily | 08.5.2009 | 8:58 pm

    You have all waged an epic battle and touched so, so many lives in the process. The amount of good you’ve done is unfathomable. I will do my part to carry on her fight. Wishing you peace.

  69. Comment by bike girl | 08.5.2009 | 8:58 pm

    Thank you for sharing your struggle.

  70. Comment by Jennifer | 08.5.2009 | 8:59 pm

    You are all in our thoughts tonight.
    Love to you all from Seattle.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  71. Comment by Lissee (formerly known as Bitter) | 08.5.2009 | 9:00 pm

    My thoughts are with you and your family. My hope is that you will find peace, acceptance, and understanding in the days to come.

    Fight Like Susan!

  72. Comment by Sonoma | 08.5.2009 | 9:00 pm

    Susan left this world for another in which pain and suffering are unknown. Your pain will be real but you are destined to be together again in that new world. Stay strong, don’t be afraid to cry. In time, I pray the good memories being to outweigh the miserable days.

  73. Comment by Mark Blacknell | 08.5.2009 | 9:00 pm

    I’m sorry, Elden.

  74. Comment by Alyson | 08.5.2009 | 9:00 pm

    Am just so sad to get the news about Susan. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your kids & your families.

    xoxo

  75. Comment by Luke | 08.5.2009 | 9:00 pm

    Sorry Elden.

  76. Comment by Bush Babe | 08.5.2009 | 9:01 pm

    Have just retweeted my response and added the FIGHT LIKE SUSAN mantra. Such a lot of tweets mentioning her – I hope this wave of heartfelt response helps you manage a little of your grief.

    You blog is a lovely mix of your passion for biking and your love for your family… and a tribute to Susan too. It seems hers has been a full life. And one that will no doubt make a real difference.
    {Hugs}
    BB

  77. Comment by Tracy | 08.5.2009 | 9:01 pm

    So sorry.
    My Mum is fighting Breast Cancer way over in NZ. I told her about your Blog a while ago and she found real joy in it. Susan helped and will continue to help my Mum through her absolute balls out strength. Thanks.
    Tracy

  78. Comment by lindsay | 08.5.2009 | 9:01 pm

    i am so sorry for your loss. please know that both you and susan are wonderful, inspirational, and incredibly brave. my thoughts are with you and your family.

  79. Comment by MaggiB | 08.5.2009 | 9:01 pm

    Oh, Elden. My heart goes out to you, the kids and your extended family. I’m so, so sorry; but so grateful for her strength and inspiration. All of my sympathies.

    FIGHT. LIKE. SUSAN.

  80. Comment by ericjms | 08.5.2009 | 9:02 pm

    Elden, I’m terribly sorry for your loss.

    But at the same time, I’m happy for what you have earned. A strong community ready to support you and your cause, even if we’re not in America (like myself). And best of all, a true Saint in heaven.

    Susan’s story has been one of the toughest cancer cases I’ve heard of. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

    Best regards, Eric (from Costa Rica)

  81. Comment by CellPhoneGuy | 08.5.2009 | 9:02 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss, but remember that it was not in vain. Susan fought the good fight and humbled us all with her selflessness and you have shown us how to be strong, even when you dont want to be.

    I can only hope that my family never has to deal with this disease, but if we do, I hope we can follow the Eldon & Susan Nelson example of fighting cancer.

  82. Comment by Heather D. | 08.5.2009 | 9:02 pm

    I’m so sorry Eldon. Sending love from Pleasant Grove.

  83. Comment by Paul | 08.5.2009 | 9:03 pm

    I am so sorry. Susan was an inspiration to me.

    Fight like Susan until this disease is a footnote.

  84. Comment by judith | 08.5.2009 | 9:03 pm

    I am sorry for your trouble. Both you and Susan have been very inspirational for me. She was a leader! Fight and LIVE like Susan!

  85. Comment by Flahute | 08.5.2009 | 9:03 pm

    I’m not the most religious person in the world, but you and your family will be in my prayers tonight.

  86. Comment by Peter | 08.5.2009 | 9:03 pm

    I’m so sorry. Susan is an inspiration to all of us. For now, hug your kids, they need you more than ever. Much love from all of your web-friends.

  87. Comment by Creative Junkie | 08.5.2009 | 9:03 pm

    I’ve been following your story for awhile now and I always held on for a miracle. I’m so very sorry.

    I hope that miracle manifests itself in finding a cure for this hideous disease.

  88. Comment by Devvy | 08.5.2009 | 9:03 pm

    My deepest condolences, Elden. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

  89. Comment by Jeremy | 08.5.2009 | 9:03 pm

    Be in peace knowing that Susan has left a lasting impact on so many people and has established a foundation in cancer research/prevention/handling that others will be able to live healthy lives.

    My thoughts will be with you and your family.

  90. Comment by Stephanie | 08.5.2009 | 9:03 pm

    I have been reading your blog for a while but haven’t commented.

    You, Susan and your family are inspirational! My condolences to your family.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  91. Comment by Jennifer | 08.5.2009 | 9:03 pm

    Sending many prayers to you and your family–you have a special Angel that will always be watching over you!! She will show you her presence in many ways…

    God Bless!

  92. Comment by Jennifer | 08.5.2009 | 9:04 pm

    I am so sorry… may you and your family feel peace and comfort. I’m sorry….

  93. Comment by justrun | 08.5.2009 | 9:04 pm

    Peace to you and your family, Elden. I think through reading your site, I’ve learned nothing but how to win. Bless you all, you’re my heroes.

  94. Comment by Amy | 08.5.2009 | 9:04 pm

    We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

  95. Comment by Mile High Mark | 08.5.2009 | 9:04 pm

    I’m very, very sorry for your loss. Your strength has been an inspiration to countless people. I know that mere words cannot heal the pain that you’re feeling, but you and your family will be in my thoughts.

  96. Comment by RJS | 08.5.2009 | 9:05 pm

    Sending prayers your way – and money to fight cancer.

  97. Comment by Megan | 08.5.2009 | 9:05 pm

    You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you find comfort in surrounding yourself with the many who love you– you and Susan have done so much for so many. Love to you all.

  98. Comment by kurtz | 08.5.2009 | 9:05 pm

    best wishes to you and your family.

  99. Comment by Myrnie | 08.5.2009 | 9:06 pm

    What a beautiful woman, a beautiful life, a beautiful legacy. I hope I can fight every day to be more like Susan. Fight like Susan!

  100. Comment by Jon | 08.5.2009 | 9:06 pm

    Elden, thank you for taking us along on Susan’s journey and inspiring us to fight alongside of her. She will be missed.

  101. Comment by Michael in TN | 08.5.2009 | 9:07 pm

    I am so so sorry.
    Susan, and your whole family, is an inspiration.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  102. Comment by bryantp | 08.5.2009 | 9:07 pm

    We love you Fatty!

  103. Comment by jen | 08.5.2009 | 9:07 pm

    You have both inspired us all with your strength, courage, and honesty. Sending good thoughts your way tonight.

  104. Comment by Stephanie | 08.5.2009 | 9:07 pm

    This poem brought me comfort at a difficult time:

    When I must leave you
    for a little while
    Please do not grieve
    and shed wild tears
    and hug your sorrow
    to you through the years

    Start out bravely
    with a gallant smile
    and for my sake
    and in my name,
    live on and do
    all things the same

    Feed not your loneliness
    on empty days,
    but fill each waking hour
    in useful ways

    Reach out your hand
    in comfort and cheer,
    and I in turn
    will comfort you
    and hold you near

    Never, never
    be afraid to die,
    For I am waiting
    for you in the sky

    BY, Helen Steiner Rice

  105. Comment by Grizzly Adam | 08.5.2009 | 9:07 pm

    You both fought like champions. I’m sure your kids did as well. I’ll wear my pink jersey on tomorrows ride in honor of your families epic fight against this unfair, cruel disease.

    My prayers are with you Elden.

  106. Comment by Chasqui Morgan | 08.5.2009 | 9:08 pm

    Susan lives now, more than ever, within each of our hearts.

  107. Comment by Jim | 08.5.2009 | 9:08 pm

    Truly saddened to hear this. Seeing the strength you ahve taken from this makes me that you are continuing a fight begun long ago.

    Thoughts with you and your family.

  108. Comment by Hannah Hawley | 08.5.2009 | 9:08 pm

    My heart goes out to you and yours. Healing energy coming your way.
    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  109. Comment by MonsieurM | 08.5.2009 | 9:08 pm

    Words are not enough to say how I feel… from a complete stranger who thinks you are a great family, my thoughts are with you. With your help, Susan made the world a better place by inspiring us with her courage and her strength.

  110. Comment by ondine | 08.5.2009 | 9:08 pm

    Fatty, i keep typing and then deleting what i have written because words cannot begin to help ease any of the sadness and pain your family must be in right now. Your blog has touched and inspired so many and for that we thank you. I’m so very sorry for your loss and send love across the oceans from Perth, Australia.

  111. Comment by UtRider | 08.5.2009 | 9:09 pm

    Susan is an inspiration. Thank you so much for sharing. Her life has touched my entire family and her memory will keep us fighting. Cancer is the one that will lose!

  112. Comment by Kara | 08.5.2009 | 9:09 pm

    Your entire family is an inspiration to us all. I know Susan is in heaven and looking down over us all.

  113. Comment by Bob | 08.5.2009 | 9:09 pm

    Requiescat…

  114. Comment by theveganvagabond | 08.5.2009 | 9:09 pm

    RIP Susan.
    You are an inspiration.

  115. Comment by Sunya | 08.5.2009 | 9:09 pm

    You and yours are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Fight like Susan!

  116. Comment by Annie | 08.5.2009 | 9:09 pm

    May your family be surrounded by those you love, and find peace. Susan fought a brave fight, surrounded by her family of warriors. I will always FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  117. Comment by Lorachristine | 08.5.2009 | 9:09 pm

    LiveStrong for Susan and we will all continue to Fight like Susan! I hope I am as fortunate as her to have such a loving and supportive family and I hope I can be at least half the woman to my fiance as she was to you. All my best to you and your family.

  118. Comment by Rob M. | 08.5.2009 | 9:10 pm

    “Don’t say she lost.”

    Elden, we have all lost. And we have all gained by her life. Especially those of us who only knew Susan through this blog.

    Thank you for sharing Susan’s journey.

    I am so sorry.

  119. Comment by Meg | 08.5.2009 | 9:10 pm

    I’m sorry, Elden.

  120. Comment by Greg Marshall | 08.5.2009 | 9:10 pm

    Much love and condolences.

    I may be a person who you and your family have never met, but I know that Susan, your family, and you, Elden, have touched many lives and hearts, as you’ve touched mine.

    If we all continue to fight the fight, this will never be a losing battle.

    Thank you for the inspiration, Susan.

  121. Comment by Doug and Michelle | 08.5.2009 | 9:10 pm

    We knew this day would come but each day when we read your blog and she was still hanging in there, still fighting, there was hope. Tonight there still is. Your story helped us all to see what really matters. Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us. God bless you and your children. Susan lives on.

  122. Comment by OKC29erClub | 08.5.2009 | 9:10 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. God Bless!!

  123. Comment by Kelly | 08.5.2009 | 9:11 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. May she rest in peace, and may we all be as strong and brave as Susan.

  124. Comment by Dave&Ruth | 08.5.2009 | 9:11 pm

    Our absolute deepest condolences to you and your family, we think of you and your family constantly. You and Susan have been a huge inspiration to my wife (whose Dad passed away of cancer 2 months ago) and I to join the fight.

  125. Comment by MelissaF | 08.5.2009 | 9:11 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

  126. Comment by Andy | 08.5.2009 | 9:12 pm

    Our hearts go out to you and your family.

  127. Comment by Jote | 08.5.2009 | 9:12 pm

    Elden…thank you for sharing your fight, Susan’s fight with all of us. You have uplifted and inspired…made me laugh and cry, often in the same post. I have donated to Team Fatty before in my father’s honor. Tonight my family donates in honor of your family and in memory of Susan and all she stood for. Peace to you. <3

  128. Comment by Sarahtk | 08.5.2009 | 9:13 pm

    A longtime reader here…feeling the weight of sorrow upon reading this post and hearing the news of Susan’s passing, but too, I feel a sense of relief for Susan, who fought so strongly and so bravely, and no longer has to. I hope she is peace and light surrounding you and your children, and that you feel her closely for the rest of your days.

  129. Comment by Mary | 08.5.2009 | 9:13 pm

    I am determined to fight like Susan. What a strong woman! I know you’re very proud of her. May she now rest in peace.

  130. Comment by moya | 08.5.2009 | 9:13 pm

    i’m so sorry. thank you so much for sharing.

  131. Comment by Vito | 08.5.2009 | 9:13 pm

    Elden, Thank you for sharing Susan’s story with the rest of us. What an inspiration. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    I know what jersey I’ll be wearing in Saturday’s Ore 2 Shore mtn. bike race.

    Nigity – “Always keep a smile in your heart.”

    Peace to you and your family Elden.

  132. Comment by Jamie | 08.5.2009 | 9:14 pm

    This saddens me greatly.

    KEEP FIGHTING LIKE SUSAN.

  133. Comment by John E | 08.5.2009 | 9:15 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you guys. Thank you so much for sharing Susan’s fight with us.

  134. Comment by Tricia | 08.5.2009 | 9:15 pm

    My condolences from San Diego to you & your family

  135. Comment by annainaspen | 08.5.2009 | 9:15 pm

    I’m so so sorry, Elden. You and your family remain in my thoughts and prayers.
    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  136. Comment by Ted | 08.5.2009 | 9:15 pm

    So sorry to hear about Susan’s passing. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  137. Comment by MJ | 08.5.2009 | 9:16 pm

    Thank you for all you and Susan have done to fight cancer. Livestrong…

  138. Comment by Joel | 08.5.2009 | 9:16 pm

    Heartfelt condolences for all of you, and know that you’re surrounded by the goodwill of all of the people you’ve touched.

    WIN

  139. Comment by Mary | 08.5.2009 | 9:16 pm

    Elden and family

    Beautiful words for Susan.

    We love you.

  140. Comment by Bobby | 08.5.2009 | 9:17 pm

    I was deeply saddened when I read that Susan had died today. I am so sorry for your loss. Susan inspired many by fighting until the end and you have inspired as well with your love and devotion for her. God Bless you and your children during this difficult time.

  141. Comment by chapell | 08.5.2009 | 9:17 pm

    I am so sorry for your and your family. Thank you for sharing your life and battle with all of us. Peace be with you.

  142. Comment by Abram Landes | 08.5.2009 | 9:17 pm

    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family – I feel like I have known your family and know that we share deeply in your loss.

    Fight like Susan!

  143. Comment by Rantwick | 08.5.2009 | 9:18 pm

    Susan’s fight and your involvement in it have been and continue to be a source of great inspiration. I want to thank you for involving us all in it. Fighting Like Susan is something real that I and so many others now aspire to.

    Take care man, and cut yourself all kinds of slack. Remember that there is no wrong way for you to be right now, and though it may not seem so, all will be well.

  144. Comment by Steph | 08.5.2009 | 9:18 pm

    I wish you and your family more of the strength and courage you have shown, it is not an easy time, and all of you will be in my prayers. Susan’s story has inspired many people and I hope will continue to inspire. Thank you for sharing your story and hers with all of us.

  145. Comment by Woody | 08.5.2009 | 9:18 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Thank you for letting us get to know Susan.

  146. Comment by Brandon | 08.5.2009 | 9:18 pm

    I can’t begin to put into words about how sorry I am for you and your families loss.

  147. Comment by Eloise | 08.5.2009 | 9:18 pm

    Susan was an amazing and inspirational woman. My sincere condolences to you and the children on your tremendous loss.

  148. Comment by Tom | 08.5.2009 | 9:18 pm

    Susan is an inspiration to us all.

  149. Comment by Brian | 08.5.2009 | 9:19 pm

    Elden, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers, God Bless you and be well.

  150. Comment by Becky | 08.5.2009 | 9:19 pm

    You put it perfectly and I will strive every day to fight like Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. I have been incredibly inspired reading about Susan’s strength and her amazing amount of fight…

  151. Comment by Gabe | 08.5.2009 | 9:19 pm

    I am so very truly sorry for your loss. Your postings have been so strongly inspirational that I find myself reading them several times over. All my best to you and your family.

  152. Comment by Lee Gordon | 08.5.2009 | 9:19 pm

    Our deepest Condolences from Alberta, Canada. I was just thinking of her today when i was on the trail. I got the news on Lance’s twitter
    Keep your chin up and stay strong.

  153. Comment by Dave | 08.5.2009 | 9:19 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and yours, and to all of us who have lost a true inspiration in the fight against cancer.

  154. Comment by KK | 08.5.2009 | 9:19 pm

    I’m sorry for your loss — your family is in my thoughts.

  155. Comment by chiggins | 08.5.2009 | 9:20 pm

    Aw, man. I am so sorry for your loss. Condolences and thoughts to you and the family, Elden.

  156. Comment by jm | 08.5.2009 | 9:20 pm

    I found your blog through the ‘nowhere century and have followed it diligently since. I finally made the connection of our mutual friend Sam who has had everything positive to say about Susan’s will to fight. It is inspiration that will stay with me.

    Your family is in our prayers tonight. May God bless you. Fight Like Susan.

  157. Comment by Chad | 08.5.2009 | 9:20 pm

    I am so sorry for your family’s loss.

  158. Comment by Jodie | 08.5.2009 | 9:21 pm

    I’ve been following your blog for about 2 years, but not like the last couple of months. I’ve been checking for news of Susan every day lately. Both of you have inspired me so much. I’m sorry for your loss. Somehow I think Susan would say she’s won, despite what we can see. God bless you and the kids and the family and friends who will help you through this. You are in my prayers.

  159. Comment by Barb | 08.5.2009 | 9:21 pm

    In speaking about Susan you have been speaking for so many of us. With your loss we all lose, but with your efforts for Susan some of us may win.

    I’m so sorry for your loss tonight.

  160. Comment by Karen | 08.5.2009 | 9:21 pm

    I cannot properly express my condolences, as there are no good words to say it.

    You are in my thoughts and prayers, as are your children and Susan.

    Thank you for sharing her story with us. It made her special to more people than you can imagine.

  161. Comment by lara | 08.5.2009 | 9:21 pm

    we love you, elden…my thoughts are prayers are with you and your family. i’ll be wearing my fatty jersey tomorrow on my ride… for susan up the colorado national monument. she is truly an inspiration.

  162. Comment by Philly Jen | 08.5.2009 | 9:21 pm

    Oh Elden, I am so sorry. I hope Susan is at peace, and I hope that in time, you and your family will be, too.

    So many of us care for you all. We won’t let you down.

    = GIVE LIKE FATTY =
    = FIGHT LIKE SUSAN =

  163. Comment by Rusty | 08.5.2009 | 9:21 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My heart goes out to you.

  164. Comment by Robin | 08.5.2009 | 9:21 pm

    I received this poem when my mom passed away from lung cancer in 1994. It truly helped get me through a very tough time. I am so sorry for your loss and I am inspired by Susan’s strength! She was very lucky to have you. Thank you so much for sharing your story of her courage. I know that she may have lost the battle in her own life but BECAUSE of her life she will live on and on and ultimately be a force to be reckoned with! I hope you enjoy the poem and that it heals your heart like it did mine.
    Many blessings always-

    Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free;
    I’m following the path God laid for me.
    I took His hand when I heard Him call;
    I turned my back and left it all.

    I could not stay another day,
    To laugh, to love, to work or play.
    Tasks left undone must stay that way;
    I found the peace at the close of day.

    If my parting has left a void,
    then fill it with remembered joy.
    A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss;
    Ah yes, these things, I too, will miss.

    Be not burdened with times of sorrow;
    I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
    My life’s been full, I savored much;
    Good friends, good times, a loved ones touch.

    Perhaps my time seemed all too brief;
    Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief.
    Lift up your heart and share with me;
    God wanted me now, He set me free.
    Author Unknown

  165. Comment by cbarb | 08.5.2009 | 9:22 pm

    I just saw Lance’s Tweet about Susan and I knew right away what Susan it was. Man, I really sad about that. My heart goes out to you. stay STRONG

  166. Comment by Shelia | 08.5.2009 | 9:22 pm

    Cancer took my mom,,,I know your pain.
    Im so very sorry. Sending love & prayers from Texas.
    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN,,what an amazing woman!!God Speed…

  167. Comment by my middle name is fred | 08.5.2009 | 9:22 pm

    Elden – My deepest sympathies to you, your children, and the rest of your family.

  168. Comment by Kamala | 08.5.2009 | 9:22 pm

    Everywhere I go wearing my Team Fatty jersey, people shout “WIN SUSAN!” And Susan did win. Susan inspired Elden, who created Team Fatty. We are legion and we are growing. Team Fatty will live on forever in untold number of hearts and minds, and Susan will live on forever with us. Slumber in peace and in victory.

  169. Comment by Merry | 08.5.2009 | 9:23 pm

    My first reaction was to cry. Yes, over someone I’ve never met but who I’ve been rooting for for quite some time.

    My second reaction was to say “Screw that, Celebrate Susan!” (And you, and your life together.)

    So I raise my glass to you both:
    Susan and FC!

  170. Comment by Rebecca | 08.5.2009 | 9:23 pm

    Susan was always an inspiration to me. She fought the same type of breast cancer that I continue to fight. I thought of her often while riding the pet scan machine and waiting for the latest results. I knew that she had blazed the path for women like me and I never wanted to let her down.

    I am so sad that you have had to lose someone loved so much by so many that never even met her. Thank you so much for sharing so much of yourselves and inspiring so many.

  171. Comment by Sean F. | 08.5.2009 | 9:23 pm

    Your story has touched me and my family.
    Our thoughts are with you and your family.

  172. Comment by aussie kev | 08.5.2009 | 9:24 pm

    condolences from my family here in qld australia.

    i am so sorry for your loss

    allez fatties

    k

  173. Comment by Jeanie B. | 08.5.2009 | 9:24 pm

    You have channeled the pain that Susan has experienced into hope against this dreadful disease. I am so very sorry for your loss.

  174. Comment by JeffC | 08.5.2009 | 9:24 pm

    Thank you for sharing so much about Susan’s courageous fight with cancer with us, your readers. You and your family are in mine and countless others’ thoughts and prayers.

  175. Comment by Liesel | 08.5.2009 | 9:24 pm

    It can never be enough but my thoughts are with you and your family. You and Susan have found an eloquent way to express how something so horrible has touched your family, transformed it, and allowed you both to do great things. Keep fighting.

  176. Comment by Neil | 08.5.2009 | 9:25 pm

    I have greatly admired you and your family’s strength for some time now and you all are in my thoughts. They sure don’t make a whole lot of folks like you guys these days, and this world is a better place for having the Nelson clan in it. Susan passed far too soon, but through this community, her memory will live on and her fight will continue.

    Fight like Susan!!!!

  177. Comment by thejerry | 08.5.2009 | 9:25 pm

    You are right, Fatty, she did not lose.

  178. Comment by wishiwasmerckx | 08.5.2009 | 9:25 pm

    “Don’t cry because it’s over; smile because it happened.” – Winnie the Pooh

    I am genuinely sorry for your loss.

  179. Comment by robbie | 08.5.2009 | 9:26 pm

    I have been reading your blog for the past year and have enjoyed following you and your family and your love for bikes. So sorry to hear about Susan. You and your family are in my prayer.

  180. Comment by Dustin | 08.5.2009 | 9:26 pm

    A truly inspiring fight, best wishes to you and your family.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  181. Comment by Paula Kirsch | 08.5.2009 | 9:26 pm

    Elden, you and your precious children are in my thoughts. Susan’s victory was in the community her cancer created, we will all mourn her and celebrate what she brought to us. Her life, and yours, have such deep meaning to countless people, God Bless you all..

    Paula Kirsch

  182. Comment by Linda | 08.5.2009 | 9:27 pm

    My sympathies go out to you and your family. You have touched many lives with your talents and gifts of caring, loving and sharing.

  183. Comment by getinlost | 08.5.2009 | 9:28 pm

    So very sorry.

    Be strong
    LiveSTRONG
    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  184. Comment by lucy | 08.5.2009 | 9:28 pm

    The lights go out all around me
    One last candle to keep out the night
    And then the darkness surrounds me
    I know I’m alive
    But I feel like I died
    And all that’s left is to accept that it’s over
    My dreams ran like sand through the fists that I made
    I try to keep warm but I just grow colder
    I feel like I’m slipping away

    After all this has passed
    I still will remain
    After I’ve cried my last
    There’ll be beauty from pain
    Though it won’t be today
    Someday I’ll hope again
    And there’ll be beauty from pain
    You will bring beauty from my pain

    My whole world is the pain inside me
    The best I can do is just get through the day
    When life before is only a memory
    I wonder why God lets me walk through this place
    And though I can’t understand why this happened
    I know that I will when I look back someday
    And see how you’ve brought beauty from ashes
    And made me as gold purified through these flames

    After all this has passed
    I still will remain
    After I’ve cried my last
    There’ll be beauty from pain
    Though it won’t be today
    Someday I’ll hope again
    And there’ll be beauty from pain
    You will bring beauty from my pain

    Here I am at the end of me
    Trying to hold to what I can’t see
    I forgot how to hope
    This night’s been so long
    I cling to your promise
    There will be a dawn

    After all this has passed
    I still will remain
    After I’ve cried my last
    There’ll be beauty from pain
    Though it won’t be today
    Someday I’ll hope again
    And there’ll be beauty from pain
    You will bring beauty from my pain

  185. Comment by NW Bicyclist | 08.5.2009 | 9:29 pm

    Fatty –

    Of course we never met in person, but after reading your blog for so long, I really felt a connection to you and your family.

    Like you said, Susan was leading the charge against cancer, and everything she did set an example for you, your family, and the readers of this blog.

    Your family is in my family’s hearts tonight, and we are so sorry for your loss. May we all learn a lesson from how she lived and fought.

    Best wishes,
    Drew

  186. Comment by Matt | 08.5.2009 | 9:29 pm

    My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Thank you for all that you and Susan have done to raise awareness and bring valuable resources to the fight against cancer.

  187. Comment by Chrissy | 08.5.2009 | 9:29 pm

    I am sitting here crying for your loss, for Susan’s fight, and for not appreciating every single moment I have in life. You are a great man and Susan was one lucky girl.

  188. Comment by nmlind | 08.5.2009 | 9:29 pm

    Thank you for your posts regarding Susan. They keep us tethered to real life.

    May you and your children *GROW* from this and become stronger.

    Let’s continue to fight this battle.

  189. Comment by Travis | 08.5.2009 | 9:30 pm

    Susan will leave a legacy behind her, if we fight, try as we might as half as she did, we would all achieve so much more.
    Our thoughts are with you and your family Elden.

    Peace.

    Travis & Helen

  190. Comment by John | 08.5.2009 | 9:30 pm

    My deepest condolences Elden. I don’t know what to say.

  191. Comment by Joe Elswick | 08.5.2009 | 9:30 pm

    Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family tonight.

    Fare winds and following seas Susan

    You have and will continue to be an inspiration.

    Joe

  192. Comment by NaysWay | 08.5.2009 | 9:30 pm

    Oh my gosh. I have been reading and praying and not wanting to comment just hoping so very hard… I am so, so, so sorry.

  193. Comment by DeLynn | 08.5.2009 | 9:30 pm

    Prayers for you and your family.

  194. Comment by Alston Family | 08.5.2009 | 9:31 pm

    Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

  195. Comment by Karen | 08.5.2009 | 9:31 pm

    Eldon – I am so sorry for your terrible loss. How lucky were you to have her! This is a terrible loss, terribly unfair…

    My heartfelt gratitude to you for sharing your story. Please continue so that we all know you and your kids are okay.

    I am so, so sorry.

  196. Comment by Rant | 08.5.2009 | 9:31 pm

    Wow. I never met Susan (or Fatty, yet), but I’m still crushed. My deepest condolences on to you and your family. Fatty, your stories about Susan and her fight against cancer have been an inspiration, and will continue to be an inspiration for countless people.

    Dan Rosen
    a/k/a Rant

  197. Comment by will | 08.5.2009 | 9:31 pm

    Thanks for sharing so much. Susan’s fight, and your writing, have helped make cancer so real and human for so many people. That is what will ultimately motivate us to end this disease and spare future generations such heartache. What a great, epic, couple. Thank you, thank you.

  198. Comment by Lydia A | 08.5.2009 | 9:31 pm

    Fatty, I am so sorry for your family. No words can ease your pain but please know you have much support out there.

  199. Comment by Michelle | 08.5.2009 | 9:32 pm

    Susan,

    I did not know you or your family but the love that surrounds you all is overwhelming. It spills out to people you have never met.

    RIP sweet woman. You were so loved.

  200. Comment by Sarah Goodyear | 08.5.2009 | 9:32 pm

    Peace to you and your children.

  201. Comment by Aunt B. | 08.5.2009 | 9:32 pm

    I have been praying for you all week. I have been afraid to check your blog. You and Susan share one of the sweetest love stories that I know of. I know she is resting with God. I will continue to pray for your family.

  202. Comment by Tom in Denver | 08.5.2009 | 9:32 pm

    Where did my first comments go? FC, stay Strong my friend. Your boys need you. If you ever find yourself in Denver, shoot me an email and you will be taken care of.

  203. Comment by Vivienne | 08.5.2009 | 9:32 pm

    I’m heartbroken for you and for your children. I’m so sorry… Yet I am inspired by you and encouraged to know that there is an outlet available to channel this hate for cancer into a viable fight against it. You are all in my prayers.

  204. Comment by Susan Samson | 08.5.2009 | 9:32 pm

    I am walking in the Breast Cancer 3-Day in November, and I will be walking for your Susan & your children. I found your blog through Pioneer Woman’s and have been truly inspired by all that you have done. Keep up the good fight!!

  205. Comment by Wes | 08.5.2009 | 9:33 pm

    The thoughts and prayers of myself, my family, and all the Fattys out there are with you and you beautiful children.

    The battle is over, but the war is far from lost. Susan’s fight against this insidious disease has inspired legions of new recruits to the assembled army fighting for a cure.
    WIN SUSAN!

  206. Comment by Vince C | 08.5.2009 | 9:33 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  207. Comment by Kelly | 08.5.2009 | 9:34 pm

    I can’t believe I am crying and I don’t even know you, but I feel like I know you from reading your blog. I am so sorry for your loss. I admire your strength and Susan’s courage. Reading your story has been inspirational. Peace and love.

  208. Comment by born4felt | 08.5.2009 | 9:34 pm

    God, I’m crushed. It really says something about you and Susan that you can move so many people you never met. God bless you and your family.

    b4f

  209. Comment by calitexican | 08.5.2009 | 9:34 pm

    our thoughts are with you and your family! GO SUSAN!! we will be able to continue the fight based on the head start she gave us. now all y’all: go fight cancer! i’m gonna tell my cousin right now i love her, she just went in for her 3rd treatment. she is 31 years young.

  210. Comment by Cyndi | 08.5.2009 | 9:34 pm

    Godspeed, Susan, and kudos for a race well run. Eldon and family, may you find some comfort in knowing how very many lives you touched.

  211. Comment by Allyson | 08.5.2009 | 9:34 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have tears in my eyes and I don’t even know you. Just know that you are not alone. She will still be there with you, if only in spirit.

    May you find peace and comfort during this time.

  212. Comment by Chip | 08.5.2009 | 9:34 pm

    Susan’s fight is our fight. She will never be forgotten. You both are an inspiration in strength, faith, and devotion.

  213. Comment by Ali B. | 08.5.2009 | 9:35 pm

    You & Susan have been an inspiration to so many. Thank you for sharing & fighting. My sincerest condolences this evening. Ali

  214. Comment by Vince | 08.5.2009 | 9:35 pm

    My deepest condolensces to you and your family. Your family’s battle with cancer has helped me to appreciate my own family and to realize that nobody is immune.

    On top of the great things you and Susan have accomplished in the fight against cancer, you’ve also helped others to see life, love, and family as what they really are–the most precious things in the world.

    God bless you and your family.

    -Vince

  215. Comment by margiesbooboo | 08.5.2009 | 9:36 pm

    keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers

  216. Comment by annieqst | 08.5.2009 | 9:36 pm

    Oh Fatty…I’m so sorry to read the news. Susan was a true fighter, but so were the rest of you. She’s been an inspiration to so many of us…as have been you. The biggest hugs to you and your children. Wings to Susan.

  217. Comment by pauline | 08.5.2009 | 9:36 pm

    I am sorry to hear of your loss. Susan’s spirit will live on with your fight! My thoughts are with you and your boys at this very sad time x

  218. Comment by Daly Bond family | 08.5.2009 | 9:37 pm

    All thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

  219. Comment by Tim Jackson | 08.5.2009 | 9:38 pm

    I don’t even know what to say.

    You, as well as Susan, have been an inspiration to me as well. Your character is something amazing my friend.

    Susan’s fight is over, but her legacy of impact will go on for years to come.

    I wish “the right words” existed that I could say or write. But they don’t.

    Just know that you have friends across the globe and that many of us are saddened beyond words right now.

    My very best to you and your family.

  220. Comment by JT | 08.5.2009 | 9:38 pm

    Deepest sympathy from north of the border. The words before and I’m sure after mine are only a small example of the number of lives Susan and you have inspired and will continue to inspire in the months and years to come. take care

  221. Comment by Jenn | 08.5.2009 | 9:38 pm

    You and your family inspire me, Eldon, you really do. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN. She did not lose, but ho boy, what all of us who read this blog have gained by ‘knowing’ her and you. I wish you peace. I am so sorry.

  222. Comment by bikerchick | 08.5.2009 | 9:38 pm

    Deepest sympathies to the fine Family Fatty. So very glad you were surrounded by love and support. I have no pithy advice, but I do thank you for inviting us all on what you made into a magnificent and intimate journey. Be strong, Elden, as we know you are.

  223. Comment by Lerjoy | 08.5.2009 | 9:38 pm

    My heart sank and tears flowed. You are in our thoughts.

  224. Comment by Connie | 08.5.2009 | 9:38 pm

    Praying that you and your family will feel God’s strength and peace as He holds you up through all of this. So sorry for your loss.

  225. Comment by B Crounse | 08.5.2009 | 9:38 pm

    I am so sorry for you and your children. I don’t know you but I have tears in my eyes.

    I lost my father when I was six; I’ve been there. Keep Susan’s memory alive for your children, especially the young ones.

  226. Comment by Bandit | 08.5.2009 | 9:38 pm

    My prayers are with you and your family. Thanks for sharing Susan and your story. When I face it, and it seems we all do, I will remember to fight like Susan.

  227. Comment by Daniel D. | 08.5.2009 | 9:38 pm

    So very sorry.
    Thanks for sharing Susan’s fight with us. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

  228. Comment by Meaghan | 08.5.2009 | 9:39 pm

    My deepest condolences and prayers for your strength to keep fighting in her honor. I am so very sorry that your family has to go through this.

  229. Comment by Matt Carter | 08.5.2009 | 9:39 pm

    You are all in our thoughts tonight Elden. I am still in awe of the strength humanity and even humor you all brought forth during this most difficult of challenges. I look forward to joining you again as you keep fighting like Susan. Be well and know you have all of us thinking about you and pulling for you and the kids now.

  230. Comment by Shauna Park | 08.5.2009 | 9:39 pm

    Elden, I am so so sorry. I loved Susan so much when you were in our ward. I have missed you guys a lot. She will be missed by all, but will live on in our hearts.

  231. Comment by Shauna | 08.5.2009 | 9:40 pm

    My sympathies to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your battle, and for reminding us all why we should do more. My prayers are with you.

  232. Comment by Mir | 08.5.2009 | 9:40 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as well. What an amazing woman she was to have inspired the thousands of people she did.

    She didn’t lose – the world lost her.

  233. Comment by velogirl | 08.5.2009 | 9:40 pm

    peace to you + Susan + everyone touched by your lives.

    Lorri

  234. Comment by Ken | 08.5.2009 | 9:41 pm

    Deeply, truly, sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family tonight.

  235. Comment by Wendy | 08.5.2009 | 9:41 pm

    Sending love and peace to you and your family from Minneapolis. I am so proud of the way Susan fought. Even though I never met her, I will never forget her story.

  236. Comment by Kimberly | 08.5.2009 | 9:41 pm

    Sincerest sympathies and prayers to you and your family from St. George, Utah.

  237. Comment by Gaye | 08.5.2009 | 9:41 pm

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost a friend nearly two years ago, and then a dear friend was diagnosed just last week at 36 weeks pregnant with her second son. I wish I had found your blog earlier, but I’m so awed by the fact that your wife’s journey has inspired so many to donate to finding a cure for this horrible, horrible disease. Sending thoughts of peace and comfort to you and your family.

  238. Comment by Stan | 08.5.2009 | 9:41 pm

    So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Live for her and stay strong.

  239. Comment by Keith | 08.5.2009 | 9:42 pm

    I was headed tot the twin six site to look into the totm for August…needless to say, I am so sorry for your loss and the challenges that your family has faced.

  240. Comment by Mtbnomore | 08.5.2009 | 9:42 pm

    Elden, I am so sorry. We’re all ready to stand up and continue the fight with you.

  241. Comment by Leigh | 08.5.2009 | 9:43 pm

    Prayers to your family. I found your blog through The Pioneer Woman and have been following your family’s triumphs and struggles. God bless you with peace.

  242. Comment by Esther | 08.5.2009 | 9:43 pm

    Blessings and hugs to you and yours……..She was a winner and still is. You too. You both accomplished so much together and seperately.
    Hang in there – time really will make it bearable and, yes, Fight Like Susan.

  243. Comment by Carly | 08.5.2009 | 9:43 pm

    Fatty,
    I can’t fully express my sadness upon reading your blog tonight. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

    I want you to know that coincidentally, I launched my own Livestrong fundraising campaign TODAY in honour of my aunt who is battling metaplastic breast cancer. I begin my own fundraising journey totally INSPIRED by what you and Susan have accomplished.
    Thank you for everything you have done in the fight against this terrible disease.

    May we all continue on to fight like Susan

  244. Comment by Jennifer | 08.5.2009 | 9:44 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your family.

  245. Comment by Stacey | 08.5.2009 | 9:44 pm

    I’ve been coming here occasionally from Ree at The Pioneer Woman and you, Susan and your entire family have captured my attention and thoughts. I’ve been checking regularly to see how Susan’s fight has been going and to see how your rides have been too. I am truly sorry for all of you who will be missing her even though I know she’s at peace now. May you and your family find some peace too. Hang in there and know you’re never alone. Blessings!

  246. Comment by Jill | 08.5.2009 | 9:44 pm

    I am saddened to hear this. Susan is in a beautiful place. And we are all better for having been touched by her spirit.

    Thanks, Susan.

  247. Comment by John S | 08.5.2009 | 9:44 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. Know that you are in many peoples’ thoughts tonight. Peace.

  248. Comment by Jen | 08.5.2009 | 9:45 pm

    You are a good man, a good husband, and a good father. You are a man who brought people together around a cause that is so important. Susan’s pain is gone now. May God help you and your children heal and may God help us all be as strong as Susan showed us we could be. Fight Like Susan.

  249. Comment by Craig (sinbad62) | 08.5.2009 | 9:45 pm

    While I sit here with tears, We need to be inspired with the love of thoes that are suffering.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!!!!

  250. Comment by Bryan | 08.5.2009 | 9:45 pm

    I’m sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. You, Susan and your blog have been an inspiration to so many.

  251. Comment by Christy478 | 08.5.2009 | 9:45 pm

    Susan is an inspiration ~ I’ve learned so many valuable lessons that I’ll always carry with me thanks to your sharing. I vow to fight like Susan every day.

    We love you.

  252. Comment by Del Duncan | 08.5.2009 | 9:46 pm

    I’d like to offer my condolences for the loss of Susan. I didn’t know either of you and just came across this by chance in Twitter but what I’ve read tonight touches me. I lost my cousin Darrell to cancer when he was 27 and I was 19, some 30 years ago. The last time I saw him was Christmas Eve 1978, and he didn’t know I was there. He died Christmas Day. My aunt and uncle, who are still living are now in their 80’s and have never been the same. It’s painful to watch someone you love have their life taken slowly away. It’sadmirable that you’ve shared as you have and taken up the fundraising challenge to help beat back this disease. I’ve donated tonight in honor of Susan.

  253. Comment by LA Daze | 08.5.2009 | 9:46 pm

    I’ve got tears in my eyes. I’ve been following your blog for a very long time now, and this post made my heart sink. I am so sorry and I offer my deepest condolences…your family is in my prayers. Stay strong Fatty!

  254. Comment by Steve | 08.5.2009 | 9:46 pm

    Condolences from Houston. You’re in our prayers.

  255. Comment by Kit | 08.5.2009 | 9:46 pm

    I hope you know that all your readers are here for you. I know this sounds corny, but while I was getting married last week I kept thinking during the ceremony about your devotion to each other. I can only hope that if I try really hard, get really lucky, and eat my broccoli I’ll be able one day maybe to have that connection with my own husband.

  256. Comment by VA Biker | 08.5.2009 | 9:46 pm

    Regardless of what’s happened before today, I am still stunned by this news. Fight Like Susan indeed. You and your entire family are in my thoughts. May peace be with you all.

  257. Comment by molly | 08.5.2009 | 9:46 pm

    Fatty,
    So sorry to read today’s blog! Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. What a blessing Susan was/is.

  258. Comment by Amy | 08.5.2009 | 9:47 pm

    Long time lurker, and first time commenting *and* donating.

    You’ve given so much: to Susan herself in her most desperate hour; to the legacy of Susan, which now doesn’t rest solely in the minds and hearts of those who knew and loved her personally, but an entire community of people the world over who will continue to remember FIGHT LIKE SUSAN long after this dark hour is behind you; to the struggle against a disease in the hopes that others won’t suffer as you and your family have suffered.

    And through all of your efforts we get to see a reflection of how *beautiful* Susan must be. Even though most of us don’t know her personally, we have to stand in awe of a person who has inspired such devotion–to Susan herself, to her legacy, to the fight against the disease that took her life.

    We should all be so beautiful. We should all be so lucky in our love. We should all be so *brave*.

    God bless you all.

    *FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!*

  259. Comment by Marcia | 08.5.2009 | 9:47 pm

    The hole in your life may be with you always, but I wish you loving memories, the tears and hugs of friends and family, the support of the survivor community and the continuing fight to soften the edges.

  260. Comment by john | 08.5.2009 | 9:47 pm

    Life is not about winning or losing, it’s about the journey, where you go, whatever you do and what you share. Susan had a great journey, just not as long a one as we all hoped.
    Thanks for sharing your deepest thoughts and lives with us all so openly; you, Susan and your children have been an inspiration and strength to us all.
    Sorry for your loss, but wow do you have some great memories, fantastic family and support. Use them as much as you need now, I’m sure they will give.
    Best wishes and I love the Winnie the Pooh quote posted by wishiwasmerckx.
    John

  261. Comment by Geoff | 08.5.2009 | 9:47 pm

    Goddamn. Keep fighting.

  262. Comment by April | 08.5.2009 | 9:47 pm

    I am very sorry for your family’s loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers

  263. Comment by Mark | 08.5.2009 | 9:47 pm

    Rest in peace Susan. Your fight is remembered.

  264. Comment by Bridget | 08.5.2009 | 9:48 pm

    Susan won.

    Peace to your family from mine…

  265. Comment by Linda | 08.5.2009 | 9:48 pm

    My heart is breaking for you and the kids, but I believe that Susan has found her new bliss…
    Linda

  266. Comment by Hal Johnson | 08.5.2009 | 9:48 pm

    My heart goes out to you for the loss of your wife. She is one remarkable woman.

  267. Comment by Philg | 08.5.2009 | 9:49 pm

    May god hold your family tightly in these times. As I’m sure he holds Susan. Fight like Susan. What a great way to honor her.

  268. Comment by Sasha | 08.5.2009 | 9:49 pm

    Dammit. Words can’t describe adequately how sad I am for you and your family. A small part of me hoped for a miracle, even as I read your blog each day it was updated. I just checked Twitter and saw Lance Armstrong’s post and my heart dropped. Please know that Susan didn’t die in vain and your blog posts have inspired hundreds like myself to fight in her honor and others who have lost the fight and for those still fighting, to beat this ugly, twisted, brutal monster called cancer. My sincere condolences to you and your family. I am struck by how strong you and your children are and inspired by it. God Bless you and take care of you when you need it most.

  269. Comment by Bridey | 08.5.2009 | 9:49 pm

    Deepest condolences from Los Angeles, Elden, to you and your family. I am so very sorry.

  270. Comment by jen | 08.5.2009 | 9:49 pm

    I’m so, so sorry. Words just aren’t enough. Stay strong and I know we all will FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  271. Comment by PedalDiva | 08.5.2009 | 9:49 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family on this tragic loss. On behalf of Susan, we will continue to fight the valiant fight…and WIN!

  272. Comment by Shirley | 08.5.2009 | 9:50 pm

    Dear Elden,
    I’m so sorry to hear the news none of us wanted to hear. Thank you for sharing your family with us over the years – its truly been a gift to everyone reading. May you find some comfort tonight in your family and beautiful children.

    love and prayers from Fort Collins, CO

  273. Comment by john john | 08.5.2009 | 9:50 pm

    I am so sorry for your and your family. Thank you for sharing your life and battle with all of us. -john roanoke va.

  274. Comment by Daren | 08.5.2009 | 9:51 pm

    Thank you for sharing your journey. You have touched many and turned a terrible situation into a catalist for good. God bless you and your family.

  275. Comment by Sasha | 08.5.2009 | 9:51 pm

    Found this Tweet by AnnCurry and thought it was fitting. “The past is a ghost, the future a dream, and all we ever have is now.” -Bill Cosby

  276. Comment by Wade | 08.5.2009 | 9:51 pm

    Our sympathies from Australia.

  277. Comment by duane | 08.5.2009 | 9:52 pm

    keeping you in my prayers

  278. Comment by Jenn | 08.5.2009 | 9:53 pm

    I am so sorry to get tonight’s news. My condolences to your beautiful family. Susan was an amazing woman and an inspiration.

    Will be thinking of you and the children….

  279. Comment by DJW | 08.5.2009 | 9:53 pm

    Elden, I’m so sorry for you and your family’s loss. As a cancer survivor and as one watching my mother herself fight the battle with breast cancer, I can’t tell you how much Susan inspires us. I shared with my mother her story as related through your blog, and all the good work you are doing. My mom is about as far away from the biking scene as you can get, yet feels deeply connected to Susan and you. Thank you for sharing and inspiring us both.

    And while biking is noble enough to write about exclusively, I’m thankful your blog became something so much more than that.

    We are fighting to win. Thanks for supplying so much strength and courage, and for doing so much real work to change how cancer affects us all.

  280. Comment by Hannah | 08.5.2009 | 9:53 pm

    I am so sorry to hear of Susan’s passing. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  281. Comment by Bryce | 08.5.2009 | 9:53 pm

    I’m so sorry Fatty, my thoughts go out to you.

  282. Comment by James | 08.5.2009 | 9:53 pm

    My thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Peace be with you.

  283. Comment by drKim | 08.5.2009 | 9:54 pm

    Susan’s strength and spirit will be with you and your children always. She will continue to inspire, and her legacy will go on in more ways than you can probably even imagine. We are all crying with you now for the loss of her physical being. Please use this community for strength. I think I speak for every single reader when I say we are here for you.

    My sincere condolences.
    We will all continue to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  284. Comment by TimRides | 08.5.2009 | 9:55 pm

    So so sorry.

    Susan won: she fought the battle on her terms, and with your help she raised an army to fight cancer. We now proudly fight her fight.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  285. Comment by Jen | 08.5.2009 | 9:57 pm

    I usually watch the TdF with my mother, but this year I was out of town… Today I had the pleasure of explaining to her the story behind Bob Roll’s shaved head, and telling her that I donated to your Livestrong Challenge team in memory of my granddad (her father) who died of cancer 12 years ago, and in honor of Susan.

    I am inspired!

    Best wishes,
    Jen

  286. Comment by Judy | 08.5.2009 | 9:57 pm

    Sending blessings and love to you and your family. Namaste

  287. Comment by Kathleen@ForgingAhead | 08.5.2009 | 9:57 pm

    Love and hugs to you and your family Elden. The universe mourns with you.

  288. Comment by Troy | 08.5.2009 | 9:57 pm

    There is no goodbye, only until we say hello again. Let’s double that $500K as we all FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  289. Comment by Greg | 08.5.2009 | 9:57 pm

    Fatty, You have my deepest sympathies! I have relived the loss of my own wife through your blog! You and Susan have been and will be a inspiration to many that face cancer! We are all winners because of what both of you have shared! Stay Strong, LiveStrong for Susan, ride Leadville in her honor and may god bless you and your family!

  290. Comment by Leslie | 08.5.2009 | 9:58 pm

    Oh, nooooo. I’m so sorry. Much sympathy to you and to your family and friends.

  291. Comment by Garett Graubins | 08.5.2009 | 9:58 pm

    I’ve been following your journey on and off, and I thought you would like to know that you and Susan have motivated me to try to cherish moments more than I ever have. My deepest prayers are with you, Susan, and your family.

    I’m going to go upstairs to bed now and hug my wife tight.

    Peaceful wishes,

    Garett Graubins
    Lafayette, CO

  292. Comment by KanyonKris | 08.5.2009 | 9:58 pm

    The title startled me, the post hit me hard. Even knowing it was coming eventually.

    I met Susan once, briefly, at your house after the TriathAlon. I could sense her vibrance, strength and calm. I’m very sad she’s gone.

    Our family will continue to have you and your children in our thoughts and prayers. So sorry.

  293. Comment by Michaela | 08.5.2009 | 9:59 pm

    My deepest, DEEPEST sympathy. I check your blog every day, my heart in my throat, for this very post. I’m so very impressed by you and your family, and my thoughts are with you.

  294. Comment by Jean Ray | 08.5.2009 | 9:59 pm

    I am so saddened by this news. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I am new to this blog– I discovered it a couple of weeks ago through Lance’s tweet. Yet, in this short time, I have been so moved by your posts and by Susan’s fight. You’re so right– she did not lose, she was an incredible inspiration to others and did much to raise awareness about cancer, especially breast cancer, and, through this blog, to raise funds for LiveStrong. And know that she was so blessed to have you. Your love and commitment to caring for her had to be a tremendous comfort throughout her illness and especially these final weeks. Not everyone is so fortunate. She made a difference, and so do you. Yes, we must all continue to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  295. Comment by April | 08.5.2009 | 9:59 pm

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

  296. Comment by stewOZ & miss | 08.5.2009 | 9:59 pm

    We’re so sorry for your loss Elden. Please keep your family close and don’t be afriad to ask for help.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  297. Comment by oilcanracer | 08.5.2009 | 10:00 pm

    elden i cried when i read this, but am reminded of both your strength and love.
    please accepted a virtual hug and condolences from myself and family.

    as always fight like susan we chant.

  298. Comment by Sarah | 08.5.2009 | 10:00 pm

    I am so incredibly sorry for your loss – my heart truly goes out to you. Never stop fighting for a cure!

  299. Comment by Theresa | 08.5.2009 | 10:00 pm

    I am sorry. Mum and my brother Jimmie died from different forms of cancer. It is not the disease that is despisable but the deterioration of the person you love.

    Thank you for sharing your family journey so eloquently and feelingly.

  300. Comment by Rebecca | 08.5.2009 | 10:00 pm

    Tears stream down my face as I type this. I found your blog and heard of your story from Ree.

    I am praying for your peace and comfort! “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted”

    We have donated in her honor, God Bless!!!

  301. Comment by Clair | 08.5.2009 | 10:01 pm

    My condolences to you and your family.

  302. Comment by Nona | 08.5.2009 | 10:02 pm

    Susan will be sincerely missed my heart goes out to your family tonight.

  303. Comment by Dan | 08.5.2009 | 10:02 pm

    Wishing you and your family peace.
    You and Susan are an inspiration to us all.
    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  304. Comment by James Todd | 08.5.2009 | 10:02 pm

    I signed up for Team Fatty for Livestrong Challenge Austin tonight. I want to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN. Thoughts and prayers for you and the kids. -JT

  305. Comment by GregP | 08.5.2009 | 10:02 pm

    I’m sorry for your loss Elden. Your family will continue to be in my prayers.

  306. Comment by JDS | 08.5.2009 | 10:02 pm

    So so so sorry. You and your children will remain in my prayers as you absorb this loss and do the terribly hard work of grieving.

  307. Comment by bruce horn | 08.5.2009 | 10:03 pm

    My sincere condolences. I am sad to hear of your loss and am amazed at the strength and courage you and your family have had in the face of this battle. May God bless you with the knowledge that you are loved.

    Peace brother.

  308. Comment by Anonymous | 08.5.2009 | 10:03 pm

    Our deepest sympathies from all your readers in the Philippines.

  309. Comment by Alicia | 08.5.2009 | 10:03 pm

    so very sorry…your family is in our prayers…our hearts go out to you and yours.

  310. Comment by Shah'ada | 08.5.2009 | 10:03 pm

    I have followed along your story since Ree posted and I want to thank you for putting your life out in the spotlight for me to learn from. My thoughts are with your family.

  311. Comment by Cindy | 08.5.2009 | 10:03 pm

    Many prayers are coming your way. I pray for peace and strength for your family.

  312. Comment by Fred | 08.5.2009 | 10:04 pm

    Elden, I am so sorry to here this news. As much as you think you are ready, it is never easy to lose a loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  313. Comment by brian | 08.5.2009 | 10:04 pm

    My deepest sympathy for you and yours. It is now your fight to win Fatty but we are all behind you. Keep pedaling.

  314. Comment by Jay | 08.5.2009 | 10:04 pm

    Susan is deeply blessed to have you and your family in her support. Not everyone has that at such a terrible time. May God be with you as you and your kids go through more grief and, eventually, healing.

    My mom survived breast cancer three years ago, but I’ve never donated before. I’m joining your team.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  315. Comment by Rob | 08.5.2009 | 10:04 pm

    Sincerest Condolences. You, Susan and your family have inspired us all. Inspiration never dies.

  316. Comment by Deborah | 08.5.2009 | 10:05 pm

    My heart goes out to you and your brave family. We will fight on in her honor.

  317. Comment by Eber | 08.5.2009 | 10:05 pm

    I was holding out for a miracle.

    With the news tonight I realized we all got one in Susan’s life and your unique ability to rally the masses.

    Thanks to you and Susan, I think we’ve only just begun to see the great things that will come from the movement your family has started.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

    WIN!

  318. Comment by Kay | 08.5.2009 | 10:06 pm

    My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

  319. Comment by pat | 08.5.2009 | 10:07 pm

    my sympathies to you and your families…

    namaste

  320. Comment by Alejo | 08.5.2009 | 10:07 pm

    Fatty,
    I will keep Susan in my heart for she was a brave woman.
    Pain will recede slowly. Your memories of her will remain.
    She’ll not be forgotten.
    Susan, you and your family are in my prayers.
    Alejo (a shy reader)

  321. Comment by Mindy | 08.5.2009 | 10:07 pm

    I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you, your family and friends.

  322. Comment by Wild Dingo | 08.5.2009 | 10:08 pm

    You have my deepest sympathy and heartfelt sorrow. Susan and your family have inspired me, personally, as well as help me inspire others, and will continue to inspire me always, all the days of my life.
    Peace.

  323. Comment by Faye | 08.5.2009 | 10:08 pm

    Sincere condolences from Nashville, TN.

  324. Comment by mo - team fatty s.j. | 08.5.2009 | 10:08 pm

    peace – and know we will WIN someday.

  325. Comment by Kelly Walker | 08.5.2009 | 10:08 pm

    Words can’t express the emotions my husband and I have felt tonight when we heard the news. Your family has been such an inspiration to us. You have become our family by including us in your joy, pain and your fight against cancer. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will continue to fight like Susan.

  326. Comment by SYJ | 08.5.2009 | 10:08 pm

    May God bless you and your family, Elden…

    for being an incredible husband

    for being an incredible father

    for being an incredible friend

    for being an incredible inspiration.

    Susan will continue to live through you, through your children, and through the thousands you have touched – directly or indirectly – and inspired to take up the fight against this insidious illness.

    you and yours will remain in my prayers, such as they are…and it will be with thoughts of you that I do my part to *fight like Susan*

  327. Comment by Deb | 08.5.2009 | 10:08 pm

    You shared so much with everyone. Susan’s courage, and yours, has made a difference in so many others’ lives. Thank you for your courage. Thank you for fighting. Thank you for caring about others. We will ride in Philly and Austin in honor of Susan — and for my best friend Susan, who is fighting, too. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  328. Comment by Chris | 08.5.2009 | 10:09 pm

    I am sorry for your families loss. You and Susan have inspired me.

    Thank you for sharing your lives with all of us.

  329. Comment by Laura | 08.5.2009 | 10:09 pm

    Prayers for you and your family. I resolve now to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  330. Comment by Julian | 08.5.2009 | 10:09 pm

    Fatty,
    My sincere condolences on your loss. You are right she led the charge and she has inspired you and all of us. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your children and family.

    Julian

  331. Comment by stirlingpiper | 08.5.2009 | 10:10 pm

    Truly…your family has inspired and touched my life. I will always remember to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN! My prayers and blessings to all of you!

  332. Comment by kestrel | 08.5.2009 | 10:10 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family – but bouyed, perhaps, with the knowledge that if anyone knows how to fight – it’s you and your family. All of you have been incandescent in your will to fight and fight on, and it will see you through. In a way, there can be joy in this – in that none of you gave up, none of you lost your humanity, joy, humor, strength. You knit yourselves into an unstoppable force… Peace, Susan… and peace, Elden.

  333. Comment by Matt | 08.5.2009 | 10:10 pm

    Especially now, continued prayers from Cleveland.

  334. Comment by Steve | 08.5.2009 | 10:11 pm

    I’m sorry for your loss, but I’m greatful that she was able to lead this fight and inspire so many to make the world more aware of cancer. Her courage was certainly fueled by the love of her family, and she is no doubt at peace knowing she’s done her part in making the world a better place through the many hearts she’s touched.

    All the best to you and your family,
    Steve

  335. Comment by robin | 08.5.2009 | 10:12 pm

    my heartfelt condolences from pacific grove ca …. you are in my thoughts as well as my mother who also fought the same fight.

  336. Comment by philocyclist | 08.5.2009 | 10:13 pm

    I’m so very sorry, Fatty. Nothing I say here will make it better. But know that you did everything you could for her, for yourself, for your family. This sucks royally. But Susan was lucky she had you by her side.

    Susan found a way to let you go to Leadville. Go, and kick some butt. For Susan.

  337. Comment by lh | 08.5.2009 | 10:13 pm

    this is only my second visit to this site. i am so sorry and heartbroken over your loss. i am going to go have a big cry now. i will say a prayer for your family. prayer is the only thing that helps ease the loss.

  338. Comment by James | 08.5.2009 | 10:13 pm

    My sincere condolences to you and your family.
    RIP Susan, the pain is gone now.

  339. Comment by HansInColorado | 08.5.2009 | 10:14 pm

    My thoughts and best wishes with you and your family.

  340. Comment by cloud19th | 08.5.2009 | 10:14 pm

    She didn’t lose and she isn’t lost. Our bodies are only shells.
    Your family is in my thoughts and prayers

  341. Comment by Dorothy | 08.5.2009 | 10:14 pm

    Fighting like Susan. Something I will always strive to do.

    She is truly inspirational… I again see how much so, from something my sister told me just days ago…

    I learned of the gift she gave of a beautiful, beaded bracelet, which she worked on during the time my brother in law, Bry, had been to your home to help with some remodeling.

    Susan had said to Bry that she wanted to do something for HIM while he was working for her, thinking of the time he was spending away from his family. She wanted to give back. She was always thinking of others.

    Her example was truly without parallel. As is yours.
    Thank you.

    My prayers are with you and your family.

  342. Comment by Vitriolix | 08.5.2009 | 10:15 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. Thank you so much for everything you and she have done.

  343. Comment by jv | 08.5.2009 | 10:15 pm

    So sorry I hope only the best for you and your family, a mother and wife can never be replaced in a household.

  344. Comment by Jeannine | 08.5.2009 | 10:16 pm

    I’m so sorry. Prayers and love from Minnesota.

  345. Comment by Hautacam | 08.5.2009 | 10:16 pm

    I’ve worked on farms and from the start
    The muckle horses won my heart
    With big broad backs they proudly stand
    The uncrowned kings o’er all the land
    And yet for all their power and strength
    They’re as gentle as a summer’s wind

    Chorus (after each verse):
    So steady, boys, walk on
    Our work is nearly done
    Nor more we’ll till or plough the fields
    The horses’ day is gone
    And this will be our last trip home
    So steady, boys, walk on

    Now you’ll hear men sing their songs of praise
    Of Arab stallions in a race
    Or hunters that fly with the hounds
    To chase the fox and run him down
    But none o’ them compare, I vow
    To a workin’ pair that pulls a plough

    And all the years I’ve plied my trade
    And all the fields we’ve ploughed and laid
    I never thought I’d see the time
    When a Clydesdale’s work would ever end
    But progress runs its driven course
    And tractors have replaced the horse

    As we head back, our friends have lined
    The road to be there one last time
    For none of them would want to miss
    The chance to see us pass like this
    They’ll say they saw in years to come
    The muckle horses’ last trip home

    (Chorus)

    Battlefield Band

    My heart is with your family.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN AND ELDON!

    Andrew

  346. Comment by erin | 08.5.2009 | 10:16 pm

    Wishing your and your family peace.

  347. Comment by @PeckishCyclist | 08.5.2009 | 10:17 pm

    Holding healing and comforting thoughts for you and your family–and donating in memory of Susan and in honor of her fight.
    Go Team Fatty!
    Fight Like Susan!
    Shelley

  348. Comment by melissa | 08.5.2009 | 10:18 pm

    I am so sorry to hear of Susan’s passing. No matter how prepared you are for this day, it is always hardy. My heart goes out to you and your family. You and Susan, with your open candor of the issues you faced every day with courage and humor have inspired and strengthened me. Your whole family has done great things! Deep peace to you……….

  349. Comment by Zach | 08.5.2009 | 10:18 pm

    Prayers from Okayama, Japan.

    Look at how far we’ve all come–following in this blog’s evolution. ‘Inspiring’ hardly seems enough to describe watching her journey unfold from the sidelines.

    Go Susan.

  350. Comment by Olivia | 08.5.2009 | 10:19 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss, but so inspired by Susan’s valiant fight. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

  351. Comment by MichaelB | 08.5.2009 | 10:19 pm

    Elden, I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss but thank you for sharing a very personal story that was Susan’s battle. The world is a better place because of yours and Susan’s courage.

  352. Comment by Paul | 08.5.2009 | 10:20 pm

    Thoughts and prayers tonight for you and your family from Louisiana. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  353. Comment by Velojew | 08.5.2009 | 10:21 pm

    Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.

  354. Comment by Melanie | 08.5.2009 | 10:21 pm

    So very sorry, Elden. My prayers are with you all.

  355. Comment by K | 08.5.2009 | 10:21 pm

    Prayers for you and your family… Susan is truly an inspiration and I want to thank you for sharing your story with us all. Our hearts are with you.

    Fight Like Susan!!!

  356. Comment by Jeff H | 08.5.2009 | 10:21 pm

    My condolences to you and your family Elden. So very, very sorry for your loss.

  357. Comment by Patriot Girl | 08.5.2009 | 10:21 pm

    Hugs to you and your family. You and Susan are an inspiration… I wish you peace. Again… hugs to you and your family.

  358. Comment by Steve | 08.5.2009 | 10:22 pm

    Our prayers and love from Pleasant Grove, too. Your accounts of Susan’s (and your) experiences have helped us realize what matters most. My wife and I will continue to fight like Susan, right along with you.

  359. Comment by Bob B | 08.5.2009 | 10:22 pm

    Heartbreaking. Susan fought a great fight.

  360. Comment by Brian | 08.5.2009 | 10:22 pm

    Go Susan!!!

    Livestrong!!!

  361. Comment by alas | 08.5.2009 | 10:22 pm

    I am so sorry for the misery the disease put you through. Take care of yourself and your kiddies and I hope that from this day forward all goes better than anyone can imagine. You and your blog have done yeoman like work in advancing awareness of and commitment to fighting cancer. Should God exist he or she blesses you and yours.

  362. Comment by Amy | 08.5.2009 | 10:23 pm

    I found you through Pioneer Woman’s site, and I want to say even though I only recently heard about you, Susan’s story was so inspirational. My thoughts go out to you and your children at this time. I wish I could hug all of you.

  363. Comment by Tony P | 08.5.2009 | 10:23 pm

    Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers tonight. I’m so very sorry Elden.

  364. Comment by Beth | 08.5.2009 | 10:23 pm

    I wanted to write and send my sincerest condolences to you and your family, and also tell you how much it means to me to see how you and your Susan have fought and led against this disease. My mother-in-law, also named Susan, is currently fighting her own fight, and yours and Susan’s determination and dedication are and will continue to be an inspiration.

  365. Comment by Sramtaro | 08.5.2009 | 10:23 pm

    Susan won.

    She had a life filled with people who loved her and whom she loved.
    That sound’s like a heck of a lot more than not losing.

    She won, Elden. She won.

  366. Comment by Wendy | 08.5.2009 | 10:23 pm

    My love to you and your kids.

  367. Comment by -George | 08.5.2009 | 10:23 pm

    You and Susan are a true inspiration. Sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family strength.

  368. Comment by Grae T | 08.5.2009 | 10:24 pm

    I am sorry for your loss, but I am glad for the inspiration that you & Susan have given to thousands of people. The strength, courage and dignity you have both shown, is the stuff most people could only dream of having in a situation like yours. Big hugs to you & the kids.
    “Waking, I knew a dream, and the sadness like a pouring flood”
    Wei Zhuang,Tang Dynasty

  369. Comment by Jan | 08.5.2009 | 10:24 pm

    You and your family have my heartfelt condolences.
    Prayers to you.

  370. Comment by Ruth | 08.5.2009 | 10:24 pm

    My mom died a year ago July 25th from cancer at age 55. I agree that they did not lose the fight…there is much more dignity in how they fought until the end! As the child that has lost a parent (even as a 33 year old woman) your new purpose is to keep the memory of your children’s mother alive. They may at some point have blurred memories of the way she talked or laughed so it is up to you. You must make their favorite recipes that she made. On their birthdays you must tell them what it was like the day they were born. On your anniversary you must tell them how you met their mother and how you dated her and about your wedding day. I absolutely treasure that piece of my history and realize I now have my dad’s memory (yikes :)) to remind me. Families Are Forever and may you live on the faith that you may one day be reunited as a family. May God Bless you and yours with peace at this time like only he can.

  371. Comment by Linda | 08.5.2009 | 10:25 pm

    So sorry. Our prayers are with your family. We have lost loved ones to this terrible disease, so we understand your pain. Our hearts truly go out to you.

  372. Comment by melonee | 08.5.2009 | 10:25 pm

    Fight like Susan!!!!!!!

  373. Comment by Rick | 08.5.2009 | 10:25 pm

    My prayers are with Susan, You, and the kids.

  374. Comment by Emilee | 08.5.2009 | 10:25 pm

    My heart aches for you and your sweet family. I am friends with your sis and have heard updates from her all of the time. I was hoping for the miracle for your family that I was not granted six months ago when I lost my thirty-two year old husband to cancer. Raw feelings are surfacing once again as I hear of your present suffering. May God bless your family at this difficult time!

  375. Comment by janet | 08.5.2009 | 10:25 pm

    love and peace

  376. Comment by Mathew | 08.5.2009 | 10:26 pm

    Terrible sorry to hear of your loss.

  377. Comment by Dan | 08.5.2009 | 10:27 pm

    Condolences from Colorado. I started reading your site for the bike related humor, but you have done so much more than that and become a force for good. You are an inspiration.

  378. Comment by Spoony | 08.5.2009 | 10:27 pm

    A silent reader…
    It’s sad, but she and this blog give hope…

  379. Comment by Kronda | 08.5.2009 | 10:27 pm

    Elden, I lost my mom to colon cancer a couple of years ago. I used to think ‘heart break’ was a metaphore but now I know better. I’m so sorry for your loss. I think I can safely say, this next while will be the worst time of your life–but it gets better.

    Now would be a good time to use your superpower and delegate as much of the mundane responsibilities as you can. Take care of yourself now and let others take care of you and the kids.

    Love from Portland, OR.

  380. Comment by Katie | 08.5.2009 | 10:28 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Susan was an inspiration to many people, as are you and your family.

  381. Comment by Sunny | 08.5.2009 | 10:29 pm

    My deepest condolences.

  382. Comment by david | 08.5.2009 | 10:29 pm

    Maximum respect and peace to Susan. To you and yours.

    WIN

  383. Comment by Cindi | 08.5.2009 | 10:30 pm

    I’m so very sorry.

    As a 4 year cancer survivor, I’ve been following Susan’s courageous story for a while now. She has been an inspiration to so many people.

    Susan has won. Through her, and you, the word has been spread, monies have been raised, research is being done.

    Please accept my deepest sympathies, along with my utmost respect.

  384. Comment by Kris | 08.5.2009 | 10:31 pm

    My sincere condolences…it’s tough to lose those we love, but you made the best of it and fought for her and for the cause against cancer. My Aunt passed two days ago from cancer, she was 50, we’ll all miss her very much. Thanks for your continued efforts to fight Cancer.

  385. Comment by Mike the Elf | 08.5.2009 | 10:34 pm

    Thank you Brother N for the example you and your family have always been. My prayers will be with you all. I know how hard it is to lose someone to breast cancer and I know the pain that comes with it, but there is always someone who knows every pain and sorrow. Sister N is now with Him. I love you all, love a long time friend from Heatheridge 5th.

  386. Comment by Emmanuelle | 08.5.2009 | 10:34 pm

    My sympathies.
    (hugs)

  387. Comment by Shellee | 08.5.2009 | 10:35 pm

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

  388. Comment by Gina | 08.5.2009 | 10:36 pm

    Your whole family is in my prayers.

  389. Comment by Jenny | 08.5.2009 | 10:36 pm

    We have learned to love and respect you and Susan through this courageous blog. Thank you for teaching us to fight and love more deeply. God bless you and thank you!

  390. Comment by belinda | 08.5.2009 | 10:36 pm

    Having had cancer twice, I’m overcome by this news. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Susan will live on in my heart, even though a complete stranger. She will give me strength. I will fight like Susan. I will Livestrong. I will do all I can to help defeat cancer.

  391. Comment by sandra | 08.5.2009 | 10:36 pm

    I hope that you and your family can find some peace in the fact that Susan is now free of pain. God bless you all.

  392. Comment by Janet Kay | 08.5.2009 | 10:38 pm

    I’m so very sorry for your loss.

  393. Comment by Scott Baryenbruch | 08.5.2009 | 10:39 pm

    I fight to WIN by helping others in need.

    Susan’s inspiration will live on!

    You are in our thoughts.

  394. Comment by Argentius | 08.5.2009 | 10:39 pm

    Sincerest condolences from myself and the entire team at Raleigh / Diamondback on your loss.

    Win, Susan, forever.

  395. Comment by ben | 08.5.2009 | 10:39 pm

    i am so sorry for your loss. I draw comfort from the Lords promise that “to absent from the body is to present with the Lord.”

    It hurts, but the company on the other side is great to keep.

    I will continue to pray for you and your family.

    thank you for such an intimate look into your life.

    God Bless you Nelson family

  396. Comment by jpo | 08.5.2009 | 10:39 pm

    Elden, so very sorry. You have been so strong through this ordeal, and provided everything that Susan needed. She’ll win in the end when we beat cancer once and for all. Stay strong for now.

  397. Comment by The Germany's | 08.5.2009 | 10:40 pm

    From our hearts to yours…..

    Our fight continues…..WIN WIN WIN WIN WIN

  398. Comment by Asthmagirl | 08.5.2009 | 10:40 pm

    When Susan died, I was holding my brand new grandson. I hope he will never have to face the cancer battle you and your family has had to face. Thank you for fighting so hard. Thank you for sharing Susan’s battle with us. Thank you for leading the charge.

    I hope that your many wonderful memories of Susan will bring you and your family peace and solace in the days to come. She was an inspiration to so many.

  399. Comment by Deedle | 08.5.2009 | 10:40 pm

    I’m so sorry, Elden. Peace to you and your family.

  400. Comment by tiretrax | 08.5.2009 | 10:40 pm

    my deepest condolences to you and your families. i’ll donate again in her name. she must have been a remarkable person.

  401. Comment by Kathy | 08.5.2009 | 10:41 pm

    From Flagstaff, AZ

    I am of few words, but believe in the awesome powers of grace, courage and love. All of which transcends this life, and something we all witnessed in your very personal story about Susan. Thank you for sharing with us this inspiring lesson.

    Peace to you, your children, and your family.

  402. Comment by Arno | 08.5.2009 | 10:41 pm

    My condolances to you and your family. She has put in a huge fight and it was great to see she took everything cancer could throw at her and still managed to give you more time together. Cancer won another battle but because of people like Susan and what she has shown us, cancer will not win the war.
    Livestrong Eldon!

  403. Comment by Mikeonhisbike | 08.5.2009 | 10:41 pm

    I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing your struggles with us. May Heavenly Father bless you and your family to make it through the next year. Trust in him and he’ll help you out. He loves you and wants your family to succeed.

  404. Comment by Joe | 08.5.2009 | 10:42 pm

    I just discovered your site a couple of weeks ago. Today, I saw Lance’s mention of Susan, and knew she had passed. Thank you for taking on this challenge, and Susan, thank you for your fight. May you rest in peace.

  405. Comment by hmgf | 08.5.2009 | 10:42 pm

    My most sincere condolences.

  406. Comment by Josh | 08.5.2009 | 10:42 pm

    Heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathies to you and your family. Susan’s life and fighting spirit will not only be a forever memory, but a motivator to live strong, and fight hard for the best life can offer. It’s amazing how you have captured her life and your passions on this blog. I have never met you or Susan, but I have tears streaming down my face. They are tears of sadness of your loss and of pain for all those who have suffered at the blade of this killer. Let’s all spread the word to “Fight Like Susan”. It is my mantra for life from now on. Her name will never be forgotten.

    Peace to you and your family from Fredericksburg, VA.

  407. Comment by brad | 08.5.2009 | 10:42 pm

    both of you have made a difference.

  408. Comment by Les | 08.5.2009 | 10:43 pm

    Deepest sympathies. I’ve have been following your blog for a while now. You and your wife are amazing examples of human spirit. You both inspire people and yes “FIGHT LIKE SUSAN”.

  409. Comment by Musicianmommy | 08.5.2009 | 10:43 pm

    Our deepest condolences to you and your family from ours in Istanbul, Turkey. I will teach my children to Fight like Susan…

  410. Comment by Heather G | 08.5.2009 | 10:45 pm

    Even amidst the suffering, Susan *lived* – and her life inspired so many others. And you, Elden, with your willingness to be so open on your blog, detailing the anguish and grief, but also the love and joy — you have profoundly touched so many hearts. Thank you, Elden for sharing your love and your life. And thank you, Susan, for your courageous will to fight.

    Fight – and Live – like Susan.

  411. Comment by Dave699 | 08.5.2009 | 10:45 pm

    Very sorry to hear about this, Fatty, but you and your family have set an amazing example of dealing with adversity and being strong. Thank you.

  412. Comment by Karen | 08.5.2009 | 10:45 pm

    May Susan rest in peace. God bless you and your family.

  413. Comment by Travis | 08.5.2009 | 10:46 pm

    Deepest condolences to you and yours. The way your family has turned your personal tragedy into a vessel for good has effected more lives in a way that can never be repaid. You are why the world can still be considered good. Your family has inspired me in a way that can not be expressed through words. Suffice it to say, thank you, and all of my positive thoughts are with you and yours.

  414. Comment by Mel | 08.5.2009 | 10:46 pm

    My heart felt condolences to you and your family. I am truly sad for your loss :(

  415. Comment by Dutch Girlie On a Bike | 08.5.2009 | 10:46 pm

    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I don’t know what else to say…..

    Suzanne in The Netherlands

  416. Comment by Jenn @ Juggling Life | 08.5.2009 | 10:46 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope that all you have done to help others, in the name of your wife, brings comfort to you and your family.

  417. Comment by Rob | 08.5.2009 | 10:46 pm

    My condolences to you and your family for your loss.

  418. Comment by Dogwood | 08.5.2009 | 10:46 pm

    Win!

  419. Comment by Victoria | 08.5.2009 | 10:47 pm

    Oh Susan. You are and inspiration. Peace.

  420. Comment by Jenna | 08.5.2009 | 10:47 pm

    My deepest condolences. Susan, you, your kids, and your support team are amazingly strong. If we all fight like your family, I have no doubts about what we can do.

  421. Comment by Nathan Taylor | 08.5.2009 | 10:47 pm

    When my grandfather passed away from cancer 3 years ago, I didn’t feel like he had lost. Susan’s fight continues through the people who supported her, and you through all of this.

  422. Comment by Fatherofmany | 08.5.2009 | 10:48 pm

    Thoughts and prayers for you and your family from across the pond here in Australia. May God hold and bless you through the tough times ahead. Remember the good stuff and keep living strong.

  423. Comment by Macey | 08.5.2009 | 10:48 pm

    My heart is with you and your children right now. I’ve been reading your blog, and have sent many prayers upward for your sweet Susan.
    What a strong woman. Keep fighting. I know SHE did.
    Macey

  424. Comment by Aaron | 08.5.2009 | 10:48 pm

    I am so very sorry Elden. My deepest condolences for you, and your family.

  425. Comment by Caroline | 08.5.2009 | 10:49 pm

    I only started following your blog 2 weeks ago… I’m still in 2007 but you have provided more inspiration for biking and fighting cancer in those short days than I could have imagined. My mom recently was diagnosed with cancer – I want her to read this blog so she can be inspired to fight the way Susan did. Her legacy will live on in the hearts of those who fought with her.

    I LiveStrong for Susan.

  426. Comment by Cathy B. | 08.5.2009 | 10:49 pm

    I just found your blog through PW – today. I’ll add my condolences to the rest, and hope the thoughts and prayers of everyone here give you and your family some comfort.

  427. Comment by TJ | 08.5.2009 | 10:49 pm

    would that we could change it all for you, we would

    would that we could live our lives with the dignity and grace and strength of spirit and love that you and susan have shown, we should

    would that we could continue this journey with you, and fight like susan, we will

  428. Comment by Jeff L. | 08.5.2009 | 10:50 pm

    My deepest sympathies to you and your children. Susan helped to inspire so many of us. I never would have taken up this fight if not for you and Susan. I hope you are somehow able to find peace.

  429. Comment by Bravo Delta | 08.5.2009 | 10:50 pm

    Fatty, we are all sending you strength to get through this dark time.
    Stay strong for your family and we will stand shoulder to shoulder with you in the battle to eradicate Cancer from our vocabulary. We will fight and win like Susan, thank you for sharing your experience with us and for letting us help in some all way..

    BD

  430. Comment by Rob | 08.5.2009 | 10:50 pm

    Your sharing of your & Susan’s ups and downs in this fight has given me and many others an invaluable example of how to stand strong when faced with great adversity.
    Wishing you peace & tailwinds-

  431. Comment by Laura | 08.5.2009 | 10:50 pm

    The title loaded first – and my heart dropped, knowing what the rest would say. I am so sorry, Elden. Lean on those around you. We’re here for you, even if you can’t see most of us.

  432. Comment by Bryn | 08.5.2009 | 10:50 pm

    Be proud, be brave and stay strong!

    She died leading the front line of the cause that you made the world that little bit more aware of!

    For your rationality, your persistence and your fight, you truly are a hero!

    Forever & Always!

  433. Comment by Leslie | 08.5.2009 | 10:52 pm

    Thank you so much for sharing Susan’s long and courageous fight with all of us. Although many of us have never met you tonight we feel like we lost a friend. We have followed you sometimes with a giggle and sometimes with tears streaming but one thing was always constant… it was always with much admiration and love. May the wonderful years you spent together and the memories you made as a family comfort you tonight. God Bless.

  434. Comment by Sally | 08.5.2009 | 10:52 pm

    Thank you for sharing your story. Both Susan and you have inspired so many people far and wide. My deepest sympathies are with you and your family.

  435. Comment by Nancy | 08.5.2009 | 10:52 pm

    You and your family will continue to be in my prayers and thoughts. Thanks for sharing Susan with us, and I hope you will continue the fight in her name as long as you can. She has left a remarkable legacy with her grace, strength, perseverance, talent and style, living life with all those qualities and more. She fought and won on so many levels. Peace to you and may angels bike around you all in the days to come.

  436. Comment by Danielle | 08.5.2009 | 10:52 pm

    My mom is a cancer patient advocate and says that sometimes God takes the cancer out of a person, and sometimes he takes the person out of the cancer. I am so sorry for your loss, but I am glad that tonight Susan is out of the cancer forever.

  437. Comment by Rich Wielgosz | 08.5.2009 | 10:52 pm

    My deepest condolences.

  438. Comment by Hank | 08.5.2009 | 10:53 pm

    Losing can only happen if you stop fighting – and I don’t think Team Fatty is going to slow down any time soon.

    God bless Fatty.

  439. Comment by Beth | 08.5.2009 | 10:54 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family and Susan’s…I am so, so sorry for your loss. We will all Fight Like Susan…she will be our inspiration to always fight. You will continue to be in my prayers for peace and strength.

  440. Comment by Robert | 08.5.2009 | 10:54 pm

    Condolences.

  441. Comment by Tonia | 08.5.2009 | 10:55 pm

    Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. You are an inspiration, as is Susan, and it has been an honor to have these daily glimpses into your life.

    Prayers from Texas….Fight Like Susan!

  442. Comment by Dave | 08.5.2009 | 10:55 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family.

    She has done so much, and has inspired so many, and we will ALL continue to fight for her!

  443. Comment by Helena | 08.5.2009 | 10:55 pm

    Peace in your heart, passion in your fight.

  444. Comment by Niall | 08.5.2009 | 10:55 pm

    My condolences Fatty. Susan’s fighting spirit will endure…

  445. Comment by Melissa | 08.5.2009 | 10:56 pm

    My heart aches for you and your children. Peace be with you.

  446. Comment by SteveS | 08.5.2009 | 10:56 pm

    Although you and I might share some similar hopes for a future reunion with our dearest friends and family, it doesn’t stop the hurt and the loneliness right now. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family tonight. God bless.

    FIGHT FOR SUSAN

  447. Comment by Donna Tocci | 08.5.2009 | 10:56 pm

    So, so sorry to hear this news, Elden. Susan was a brave, strong woman who taught us all the true meaning of the word “fight”. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.

  448. Comment by Joi | 08.5.2009 | 10:56 pm

    My deepest condolences. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  449. Comment by Laura from PA | 08.5.2009 | 10:58 pm

    I’m so so sorry to hear about this. I come from Pioneer Woman’s site. Nothing can ease your pain, but hopefully sharing it with the hundreds of people that are currently supporting you gives you something to feel comforted by. I will be praying for you and your family. I hope you can find peace soon.

  450. Comment by TB | 08.5.2009 | 10:58 pm

    Eldon – My thoughts and prayers are with you. May the inspiration of Susan live on, and continue to drive you to be the amazing guy that you are. Livestrong.

  451. Comment by Brooke | 08.5.2009 | 10:58 pm

    Elden,
    You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please allow yourself the time to heal and take care of yourself. You are now embarking on another difficult journey, but may you find comfort in knowing that a part of Susan will always be there with you and your friends will continue to be here cheering you on.

  452. Comment by Mike | 08.5.2009 | 10:59 pm

    Fight the good fight, Fat. 445th, as they say…

  453. Comment by KP | 08.5.2009 | 10:59 pm

    Sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers

  454. Comment by UltraRob | 08.5.2009 | 10:59 pm

    I’m praying for you and the kids.

  455. Comment by Anonymous | 08.5.2009 | 11:00 pm

    I am so sorry. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your fight with us. You will be in our prayers.

  456. Comment by Tripp | 08.5.2009 | 11:01 pm

    Elden:

    You and Susan are an inspiration to me, and I’m sure countless others.

    Stay strong.

  457. Comment by HobbleCreek Possee | 08.5.2009 | 11:02 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers have been with you and continue to be. We are so sorry for your loss, but grateful that Susan is in a place of peace. She is an inspiration to all and so are you, Eldon. Continue to Livestrong!

    Deepest Condolences,

    Vince and Krista Adams

  458. Comment by Jose Ramirez | 08.5.2009 | 11:02 pm

    My heart and prayers are with Susan, your kids and you, please accept my condolences.
    This is a time I never thought it would or never wanted to happen.
    But I know you are strong and you’ll get through this.
    This is the most difficult race you’ll have to ride, but sooner or later you’ll see the finish line.
    I know that Team Fatty will carry on and be stronger tha ever on fighting this horrible disease.

    God bless

  459. Comment by LarsA | 08.5.2009 | 11:03 pm

    Also very sorry to read this.

  460. Comment by nycifyouare | 08.5.2009 | 11:04 pm

    I just wanted to say that I am deeply sorry for your loss. I don’t know how you feel, I can’t even imagine how you feel, but I just want to say that you and Susan have done an amazing thing for cancer. My mom has cancer, and it scares me to the bone, and if wasn’t for people like you and Susan, people like my mom wouldn’t have a chance.

  461. Comment by Pinkbike | 08.5.2009 | 11:05 pm

    It’s been a long journey, hasn’t it? And Susan was so very brave, every step of the way. And her inspiration was passed right along to all of us, thanks to you, Fatty. Her legacy will continue to ripple through both the cancer community and the bike community, bringing us all together in this fight that is so very, very important.

    You’re right. Susan did not lose. We all gained. Generations will gain. All from her courage.

    We all love you, Fatty, you and your family. Stay strong.

  462. Comment by Benn | 08.5.2009 | 11:06 pm

    Prayers and love from Washington.

  463. Comment by Marielle | 08.5.2009 | 11:06 pm

    I am very sorry for your loss. Our prayers and good thoughts are with you and your family.

  464. Comment by donbiker | 08.5.2009 | 11:06 pm

    Condolences. Such a painful loss.

    Cancer is a wily adversary. There are so many forms just of breast cancer. Progress is ongoing. My breast cancer which metastasized last year after 9 years in remission is being held in check with medications that were not available 10 years ago. Thanks so much for your valiant help in this battle.

    So sad that a vibrant young woman is struck down while this 77 year old geezer is spared.

  465. Comment by andy | 08.5.2009 | 11:06 pm

    so sorry for your loss.

  466. Comment by Steph | 08.5.2009 | 11:07 pm

    The love you two shared is an inspiration to all of us….the strength, love, tenderness and passion.

    My heart is with you and your family and will keep you in my prayers.

  467. Comment by Walker Wilkson | 08.5.2009 | 11:08 pm

    I am so sorry to hear this. Condolences and my sympathy for you and your family.

  468. Comment by scott | 08.5.2009 | 11:08 pm

    “She led the charge. She showed the rest of us how to fight: with determination, focus, creativity, and outrageous endurance.”

    The same could be said about you my friend.

  469. Comment by diamondjim | 08.5.2009 | 11:09 pm

    I lost my mum to TFC when she was about Susan’s age and I was 14. My dad was our rock through this. We can celebrate a life well lived, and her legacy in us. I trust you can too. Good luck – thoughts and prayers to you and yours.

  470. Comment by Nathan | 08.5.2009 | 11:10 pm

    My heart goes out to you and your family.

    You and Susan have been an inspiration to me and countless others. You are incredibly brave.

    Hang in there.

    Sending you kind thoughts from Oakland, California.

  471. Comment by Anne | 08.5.2009 | 11:12 pm

    My deepest sympathy and condolences from Southern California. You all are in my prayers.

  472. Comment by klmilliard | 08.5.2009 | 11:13 pm

    I only came upon this blog recently, but you and Susan have inspired me to do what I can in the fight against cancer. I am very sorry for you and I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

  473. Comment by somcak | 08.5.2009 | 11:13 pm

    Hugs. I’ve been a silent follower for over a year. I’m crying. Bless you.

  474. Comment by Charles | 08.5.2009 | 11:13 pm

    My Mother, who like your wife was named Susan, and Aunt both died of cancer. My Mom when I was in grade school and my Aunt while I was a Junior in College. I am so sorry to hear that your wife’s death. I heard about everything that you are doing to raise money for cancer research.

    Thank you for fighting the good fight. Hopefully, some day in the future, everybody will be able to win it. In the meanwhile, I can only offer my sincere condolences.

  475. Comment by Keith | 08.5.2009 | 11:14 pm

    My wife Kasia and I are keeping thoughts of warmth and comfort for the Nelson family.

    Blue skies, Susan.

  476. Comment by melinda | 08.5.2009 | 11:15 pm

    I’m so sorry, Fatty. You’ve changed thousands of lives here.

  477. Comment by Alli | 08.5.2009 | 11:15 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. You family has inspired me in the fight against cancer. I’m keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

  478. Comment by Lisa | 08.5.2009 | 11:16 pm

    I am so sorry for you and your family. You will all be in my prayers. Peace to your courageous wife.

  479. Comment by Anonymous | 08.5.2009 | 11:18 pm

    You have also shown us how to fight. We need to ban together even more to support each over in our battle. Cancer may be winning the game but we are catching up. We are he to support you. And we will fight like Susan.

  480. Comment by Jessica Volkmer | 08.5.2009 | 11:18 pm

    Dear Fatty,
    I’m sorry that Susan died. My heart sank when I read your news. Susan had so many strangers praying for her and thinking of her. My husband and I will be praying for you and your children. I feel like you guys are a part of our family. I am going to have a hard time going to sleep tonight.
    Jessica

  481. Comment by Clydesteve | 08.5.2009 | 11:19 pm

    Dear Elden & family,

    My deepest heartfelt condolences for your loss. I completely got it when I saw your title: Don’t say she lost. What Susan did is finish her fight. And what a glorious fight.

    That is just what I felt about my cousin’s death just about a year to the week ago from pancreatic cancer. David, like Susan fought hard, and with dignity.

    You and Susan have been and continue to be a personal inspiration to me on several levels.

    You are in my prayers.

    Steve

  482. Comment by Bryan (not that one) | 08.5.2009 | 11:19 pm

    Fatty, my wife and I are very sorry for you and your family. You all continue to be in our prayers.

  483. Comment by Julie | 08.5.2009 | 11:21 pm

    Susan was a very blessed woman to have you by her side. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  484. Comment by Oscar | 08.5.2009 | 11:22 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. My heart truly goes out to you, your children and the rest of your family.

  485. Comment by Joshica D. | 08.5.2009 | 11:22 pm

    It has been such a privilege to watch her fight with such resolve. We love you Elden. And we love Susan.

  486. Comment by Erin Dunn | 08.5.2009 | 11:22 pm

    I will be thinking about you and the family…you are all inspiring and amazing and your story has been moving. (I use the word ‘moving’ because I don’t know of any word that holds enough weight to fit in it’s place).

  487. Comment by snapper | 08.5.2009 | 11:23 pm

    I’m so sorry, Elden. Like so many others, I kept hoping and paying for a miracle in spite of what seemed imminent. May peace and comfort and the Spirit of the Lord be with you and your family now. Thank you for sharing yours and Susan’s story. It has been an inspiration and touched so many. Embrace your memories and draw strength from them for you and your kids. Continued prayers going your way.

  488. Comment by Mark (the rando guy in Seattle) | 08.5.2009 | 11:24 pm

    Elden — I’m proud to be on Susan’s team. You and your family are in my family’s thoughts.

    Mark

  489. Comment by Gary | 08.5.2009 | 11:24 pm

    RIP Susan.

    Elden, be strong for those kids man, Susan I’m sure will be watching over you all.

  490. Comment by Leslie | 08.5.2009 | 11:28 pm

    Elden, I am so sorry. Susan has been and will continue to be an inspiration to many for her tremendous courage.

    You and your family will be in my prayers today and for the next little while.

  491. Comment by Rose | 08.5.2009 | 11:29 pm

    Dearest Fatty and family,

    I can’t express how devastated I am for you. Fatty, you have done so much already for the fight against cancer and I know you have so much more to accomplish. I hope you and your family continue to fight like Susan to win this battle against cancer.

  492. Comment by Nikki | 08.5.2009 | 11:29 pm

    I don’t leave comments here….not for lack of wanting to say anything….but mostly not knowing what to say.
    Today is no different. I see you inspiring so many.
    I see you loving your wife and family.
    I see you hurting and aching, and being transparent.
    If we all lived like this, and were able to die with so much love by our side….carrying on our legacy.
    Then lives would be lived fully, and without worry of fading away into memories.
    Susan lives on. Your journey has just begun.
    Know that you are not alone.
    And this young lady will be praying for you again tonight.

  493. Comment by Trish | 08.5.2009 | 11:30 pm

    Dear Elden,
    I’ve only just ‘met’ you. . . and the truth be known -I don’t really even know how to ride a bike. . . but I have loved and lost – my mother and more recently, her mother, my grandmother, over the past 15 months. . . . both to cancer. I wish you strength and peace to carry on and lead a happy and healthy family.
    With deepest sympathy,
    Trish

  494. Comment by KDAY | 08.5.2009 | 11:30 pm

    susan was an inspiration to us all. because of her we will all fight a little harder,

  495. Comment by m00se | 08.5.2009 | 11:31 pm

    Blessings to your family in these turbulent times. Her fight changed the way a lot of people looked at life, and that we can all FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

    I look up to you both. Be strong, friend.

  496. Comment by Fritz | 08.5.2009 | 11:32 pm

    Fatty, condolences to you and the rest of your family. You are in our thoughts here in NY.

  497. Comment by Bill F. | 08.5.2009 | 11:33 pm

    Elden,
    The one word that comes to mind is “courage”. I have been inspired by you, by Susan and by your kids. My heart is sad but my spirit is confident you will be with her again.

    Billy

  498. Comment by Liz A. | 08.5.2009 | 11:33 pm

    Deepest sympathies to you and your family. Hug your children close and know that Susan is no longer in pain. You have inspired so many.

  499. Comment by Pat | 08.5.2009 | 11:33 pm

    What can be said at a time like this? Please know that you and your family are in our prayers and in our thoughts. Your comments about Susan have made her an inspiration to all of us, and I hope you know what an example you have been of strength, and love through all the time I have been reading your blog. What a blessing for Susan to have a husband who so obviously loved and supported her and cared so tenderly for her. Give your children a kiss and hold them tight for me, and always keep their mom alive in their minds with lots of stories and memories of her. We send our love to you and your family.

  500. Comment by cyclechic | 08.5.2009 | 11:33 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Susan was strong until the end and her memory will live on forever through you and your children.

  501. Comment by Anonymous | 08.5.2009 | 11:33 pm

    With 486 comments there is probably nothing else to say but I wanted to let you know one more person found Susan and you to be in inspiration of really living life and of loving kindness to one another and everyone else. She left an amazing legacy of her family and will continue to bless the lives of others. That may not be any help now but may be later. I am sorry she is no longer here to walk the road with you.

  502. Comment by Scott Ferguson | 08.5.2009 | 11:34 pm

    I’m so sorry for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you now.

  503. Comment by Sue W | 08.5.2009 | 11:35 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear about Susan’s passing. Elden, you and Susan are both winners. You both fought a good fight, and its up to the rest of us to keep fighting in Susan’s memory.

    FIGHT FOR SUSAN!

  504. Comment by FatJeff | 08.5.2009 | 11:35 pm

    Aloha oi Susan, your story touched many, and inspired more to the fight.

  505. Comment by Jeanie | 08.5.2009 | 11:36 pm

    My condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. May you be blessed in your time of need.

  506. Comment by Canadian Roadie | 08.5.2009 | 11:37 pm

    I am saddened and inspired. May your family provide the support you need. I am thinking of you.
    Andrea

  507. Comment by Brian. | 08.5.2009 | 11:38 pm

    God bless your courage and thank you for using you and susan’s story to bring even more attention to the need for a cure. My prayers are with you and your family.
    Never give up. Never surrender!

  508. Comment by Jan R. | 08.5.2009 | 11:39 pm

    Fatty,
    as I have told you before …
    I said the MiSherberach for Susan everyday.
    I will continue to say it for your family as you learn to walk this walk of life without her physically by your side.

    God Speed to Susan.
    May her memory be a blessing.
    Jan R.
    Oak Park, CA

  509. Comment by Janet | 08.5.2009 | 11:40 pm

    She is free, and whole and perfect again… Thank you Fatty, for sharing this time with all of us. Her legacy, and your amazing journey, will change the lives of many. Prayers from me to you and yours.

  510. Comment by Chaz | 08.5.2009 | 11:40 pm

    I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your children. My very best to all of you.

  511. Comment by Rob | 08.5.2009 | 11:42 pm

    You and yours are in my thoughts. I’m making a donation to Livestrong.com now in her memory.

  512. Comment by Terry | 08.5.2009 | 11:43 pm

    Our most sincere condolences. Susan’s fight has been an inspiration to many of us. Thank you for sharing so much of her spirit to so many.

  513. Comment by Stephen Waits | 08.5.2009 | 11:43 pm

    Thank you Susan. I never met you, but you and your family touched me. Thank you. Nobody could ever say you lost.

  514. Comment by John Stevenson | 08.5.2009 | 11:44 pm

    Elden

    Deepest sympathies from me and everyone at the Future bike krewe. You and your family are in our thoughts.

    John

  515. Comment by Amy | 08.5.2009 | 11:45 pm

    Susan is an inspiration, and her story will encourage us to not blow our chance to fight like her.

  516. Comment by adam | 08.5.2009 | 11:45 pm

    Fatty -

    The fight Susan put on 99.99% of us could never match. You’re in the 0.01%. Her fight will never end. It will live on in the spirit of those who knew her. It hurt when my girlfriend called and told me. She’s in a happier place now where this dreaded disease doesn’t exist & she doesn’t hurt anymore. She never lost. No one loses to cancer. Cancer loses to them, as every case makes us stronger at treating it and one step closer to a cure. Cancer can’t evolve. We can.

    Keep up the good fight, Fatty. You are a true gentleman, and you and your family have, and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers There’s lots of love in the universe being sent in your general direction.

  517. Comment by miss & stewOZ | 08.5.2009 | 11:48 pm

    We’re so sorry. We are only two of many, many people who are standing by you and your family. You have taught us all something very very valuable.

    Please take care and take time out for yourself as well.

  518. Comment by j-p | 08.5.2009 | 11:48 pm

    Fatty- you have verbalized a lot of the thoughts and feelings I have struggled to understand since my Dad passed last year. Thank you. The fight for Susan and against cancer will not lessen. My family will be praying for yours.

  519. Comment by MVSC | 08.5.2009 | 11:48 pm

    Heartbreaking and inspiring. My heartfelt condolences.

  520. Comment by Karin | 08.5.2009 | 11:49 pm

    My deepest condolences. I will be praying for you and your family… for a peace that defies understanding.

  521. Comment by Mal | 08.5.2009 | 11:52 pm

    My deepest sympathies to you and your kids. Thank you for the continuing inspiration.
    The fight against cancer will continue in Susan’s name

  522. Comment by Randy | 08.5.2009 | 11:53 pm

    I’m very sorry, Elden.

  523. Comment by Kingfisher412 | 08.5.2009 | 11:53 pm

    Susan was a fierce warrior who showed us how to fight with courage and grace. She is at peace now. May the love, compassion and tremendous admiration of your legions of readers across the globe enfold you, your children and family in comfort and peace.

  524. Comment by Doozyanner | 08.5.2009 | 11:54 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  525. Comment by bill | 08.5.2009 | 11:54 pm

    My very sincere condolences to you, I am very proud to be riding in Philly on your team and wish you all the best. You done good.

  526. Comment by Kirsten | 08.5.2009 | 11:55 pm

    My prayers are with you and your family. May you be at peace knowing that she now is. Your wife is an inspiration to us all.

  527. Comment by Dave | 08.5.2009 | 11:55 pm

    Our thoughts are with you, Susan will not be forgotten and her influence will live on!

  528. Comment by Meaghan | 08.5.2009 | 11:56 pm

    Nothing I can say that hasn’t already been said. Thank you for being such a huge impact on the lives of so many. I think I’m going to call a few people and fix some relationships now…
    Thinking about you, and sending some major hugs to a truly inspiring family.

  529. Comment by Rita | 08.5.2009 | 11:56 pm

    Condolences to you and the family, Fatty. May Susan rest peacefully, having brought us all together by her lessons and yours. I’m so sorry she’s gone.

  530. Comment by BEEF | 08.5.2009 | 11:58 pm

    Mate,

    Just got into the office and heard the news about Susan.

    Tears in my eyes and that’s tough to admit for a guy like me…..

    My thoughts are with you, your friends and family.

    That was some fight Susan put up…..be very proud of that.

    Peace…….

  531. Comment by Jenn | 08.5.2009 | 11:58 pm

    By the way, Elden, I can spell and I know you aren’t Eldon. I just thought I would add that to my first comment, 2 hours and 250 comments later. Look at what a difference you and Susan have made. Thinking of you still…

  532. Comment by jenjen | 08.6.2009 | 12:00 am

    Oh Elden,
    I am so, so sorry. She was such an amazing person. So kind. Such a great artist. So selfless. So caring. Such a great mom. A wonderful writer. Funny. Smart. Optimistic. And such a quiet fighter. I will miss her so much.

    XOXO
    Jen

  533. Comment by Little1 | 08.6.2009 | 12:01 am

    There are no words… only tears for a person I never knew, a family I may never know but who I feel intricately connected to and love!

    Peace be with all of you

  534. Comment by Christine | 08.6.2009 | 12:01 am

    Elden:

    Many prayers have been offered on your behalf and will continue. You and Susan turned your experiences with a devastating disease into an opportunity to touch and bless the lives of many.

    From Gridley with love- Christine and family.

  535. Comment by Abby | 08.6.2009 | 12:02 am

    A life cut so short – and yet, so many of us still around can only dream of what you all have already achieved in so many aspects of your lives. Winners indeed……

    Deepest condolences Fatty, to you and your family. All our prayers here in Australia are with you.

  536. Comment by sday | 08.6.2009 | 12:06 am

    We pray for you. Your family is our inspiration. Susan is an angel. Thank you for teaching us how to live and love strong Susan. Our sincere condolences.

  537. Comment by Josh | 08.6.2009 | 12:06 am

    condolences from Omaha.

  538. Comment by Jim H | 08.6.2009 | 12:06 am

    I’ve been reading your blog for a couple months now. Your daily quest to find a little strength by getting away on a bike struck a chord. So did trading pulls with equipe Fat Cyclist in Seattle. You and Susan have a lot of friends.

    But your courage is the part that’s really kept us reading. Yours and your whole family’s. Courage is contagious and you’ve all had an incredible amount to give. You and Susan are still giving it. Even now. Unbelievable.

    Sincerest condolences from our entire family.

  539. Comment by Matt Gruenwald | 08.6.2009 | 12:06 am

    Eldon and Family, our thoughts and prayers go out to you. May Susan’s story be an inspiration to many, and may her spirit continue to give strength to those who feel weak.

    =====

    Now that I’m gone,
    remember me with a smile and laughter.
    And if you need to cry,
    cry with your brother or sister
    who walks in grief beside you.

    And when you need me,
    put your arms around anyone
    and give to them
    what you need to give to me.

    There are so many
    who need so much.
    I want to leave you something,
    something much better
    than words or sounds.

    Look for me
    in the people
    I’ve known and loved or helped
    in some special way.
    Let me live in your heart
    as well as your mind.

    You can love me most
    by letting your love
    reach out to our loved ones,
    by embracing them
    and living in their love.

    Love does not die,
    people do.
    So, when all that’s left of me is love,
    give me away as best you can.

    -Auther Unknown

  540. Comment by Sheri Bush | 08.6.2009 | 12:06 am

    Susan was a brave inspiring lady. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  541. Comment by Nick | 08.6.2009 | 12:07 am

    I’m very sorry to hear that Susan is gone. The strength that you both showed through her battle has been amazing, and through sharing that battle and inspiring others to join the fight against cancer, you have made the world a little better place. Your goal in starting Team Fatty, to give Susan a legacy, has been more than realized.

    Your family is in my prayers, and I hope it’s at least some comfort to see all the good that has come out of this ordeal.

    Rest in peace Susan

  542. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 12:09 am

    Sending my condolences and thinking of you…

  543. Comment by Barbara | 08.6.2009 | 12:09 am

    God bless you all.

  544. Comment by Joe D | 08.6.2009 | 12:10 am

    We’ll miss our sweet friend. Thank you Eldon for sharing your lives with us. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Joe & Susan

  545. Comment by Phil | 08.6.2009 | 12:11 am

    As others have said, there are not really any words that can be said at times like this, apart from my condolences. You and yours are in my thoughts.

  546. Comment by Laura H. | 08.6.2009 | 12:14 am

    Elden,

    Susan’s legacy will grow and thrive in your children, but it is in the original definition of the word “legacy” that the rest of us will find our inspiration…”a body of persons sent on a mission.”

    Fight Like Susan!

  547. Comment by Lucia | 08.6.2009 | 12:14 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. You are absolutely right, Susan has had a phenomenal impact on cancer fundraising, and is a personal inspiration to thousands and thousands. How many of us can say that after a lifetime? She will be missed, but we will push forward, fighting the good fight against cancer–prevention, diagnosis, and treatment. Susan’s life will save others.

  548. Comment by Chandi | 08.6.2009 | 12:15 am

    You and your family are in my thoughts.

  549. Comment by D.R. | 08.6.2009 | 12:15 am

    My condolences. I cannot imagine the loss.

  550. Comment by ian | 08.6.2009 | 12:15 am

    Shine on. You and your family have demonstrated an incredible amount of courage. I am grateful for everything you have communicated and shared with your readers. You must know we all owe you a large measure of what-it-means-to-a-part-of-this-world. Thank you for that spirit, Susan’s parents and Elden’s parents.

    We all ride together, shining on.

  551. Comment by Chris Hess | 08.6.2009 | 12:17 am

    Mate… my thoughts are with you and the kids. Susan, you and the kids are an inspiration for us all.

    Fight Like Susan! INDEED!

  552. Comment by Brian | 08.6.2009 | 12:17 am

    My most sincere condolences go out to you and your family. We will all keep fighting with the spirit that Susan has given us.

  553. Comment by Mary Eileen | 08.6.2009 | 12:18 am

    Deepest condolences from Montreal, Quebec, and Reno, Nevada…

  554. Comment by stuckinmypedals | 08.6.2009 | 12:19 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll continue to pray for you and your family.

  555. Comment by Peter | 08.6.2009 | 12:19 am

    I’m so sorry to hear this.

  556. Comment by J. Karlik | 08.6.2009 | 12:20 am

    I also send my condolences. It is obvious that you and Susan had many many great friends.

    She is now with God, and I will pray for you and your boys.

    God bless and let’s end this terrible disease.

  557. Comment by Shaun from AUS | 08.6.2009 | 12:21 am

    I am so so sorry for you and your family. This is the saddest post ever. Susan is now at peace. Hope you can take strength from the thousands world wide whose thoughts are with you.

  558. Comment by Stuart | 08.6.2009 | 12:21 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.

  559. Comment by Hoggy | 08.6.2009 | 12:23 am

    It has never felt weird or strange to well up with tears or openly cry about Susan or to be inspired about Susan’s (and Fatty’s) strength even considering they are 2 people I never really knew and will likely never meet. But I suspect many people following this blog the same. my condolonces to you and your family Eldon, and long may the fight continue.

  560. Comment by laineyme | 08.6.2009 | 12:27 am

    My Heart goes out to you, your children and your family during this difficult time.
    May Susan’s fighting spirit and passion lend you all strength.
    Rest in peace Susan with the knowledge that the fight you started will be continued by the thousands that you have inspired and touched

  561. Comment by Kris | 08.6.2009 | 12:28 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family. Susan taught all of us how to WIN. May we fight on in her memory.

  562. Comment by Bisso | 08.6.2009 | 12:29 am

    Fatty,

    Like everyone i hope that in some way our few heart-felt words remind you and will always remind you of the joy and inspiration your whole family has given to us, your friends from all over the world.

    You have suffered and lost like so many of us have suffered and lost loved ones. some of us are lucky and have friends and family that, in time, help us get through the pain and the loss.

    Thank you for sharing the roller-coaster you have been riding. The way you have dealt with everything that has been thrown at you both is nothing short of amazing. Truly, truly inspirational and i feel honoured you have allowed us to be a part of it all.

    A beer tonight and a ride tomorrow in your honour.

  563. Comment by Jeannette Beckerdite | 08.6.2009 | 12:29 am

    I cannot express in words how sorry I am for you and your family. You are all in my prayers. Susan was a fighter, and I hope that I can live up to that same example.

  564. Comment by MIke | 08.6.2009 | 12:34 am

    so sorry for you and the family. Sending love to you all from the UK.

  565. Comment by Amanda Howell | 08.6.2009 | 12:35 am

    I am so very sorry….You and your family are in my prayers. I cannot imagine the pain you all are experiencing. So so sorry….

  566. Comment by Clericeric | 08.6.2009 | 12:41 am

    You and Susan are an inspiration to me, and will continue to be so. Thank you for sharing your lives, and your battles with all of us in the blogosphere. You and your family are in my prayers tonight and in the days to come.

  567. Comment by Tiff | 08.6.2009 | 12:41 am

    I hope that in some tiny way it helps you & your family to know that Susan is honored by so many people across the world. We didn’t know her like you, but we can join in saying that she was a very special human being, an inspiration.

    Fatty, you said Susan “showed the rest of us how to fight: with determination, focus, creativity, and outrageous endurance.” Well I just want to add that you have showed the rest of us how to love: with determination, focus, creativity & outrageous endurance. Thank you for demonstrating love like that.

    My heartfelt thoughts & prayers go out to you and your children. I’ll be praying for you all in the days/weeks/months ahead. May we all live our lives well & love like you & fight like Susan.

  568. Comment by Yukirin Boy | 08.6.2009 | 12:43 am

    my sincerest condolences to you and your family from Tokyo, Japan. Susan inspired us all.

  569. Comment by bobbieh | 08.6.2009 | 12:44 am

    WIN Susan ~

  570. Comment by Shiva | 08.6.2009 | 12:44 am

    Our deepest condolences. You and your family are in our prayers.

  571. Comment by jim | 08.6.2009 | 12:44 am

    I can not say anything at all to help, but did want you to know I am thinking of you and Susan. I am deeply sorry that I can not do more.

    You are right she (and you) have inspired so many. Keep up the good work.

    Thank you,

    jim

  572. Comment by BuzzLiteBoy | 08.6.2009 | 12:45 am

    Peace to you and your family.

  573. Comment by The Martin's | 08.6.2009 | 12:53 am

    I have only been reading for a month and I feel so blessed to have found you and thank you to your family for sharing your story. You are amazing people and I am sure that I can never know your pain. You have been so selfless to help others while fighting thru your own battles…what an inspiring family you are…peace and love be with you all.

  574. Comment by Shawn in socal | 08.6.2009 | 12:53 am

    I am so sorry for your loss fatty. I have been a long time lurker and you and Susan have been an inspiration. My thoughts are with your family.

  575. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 12:56 am

    I don’t have the words. So sorry.

  576. Comment by Tom | 08.6.2009 | 12:58 am

    I’m not ashamed to say I cried when I heard the news.
    But your blog and susan’s inspirational struggle
    has encouraged over 500+ people to join Team Fatty, and you have touched thousands and thousands of readers.
    I will be fighting like susan, doing all I can to help raise awareness and funds for the fight against cancer.
    This is her legacy: an army of fighters.

  577. Comment by Minx | 08.6.2009 | 12:58 am

    Susan has been – and will be forever an inspiration to us all. I have quietly ridden my bike for her many times over the past year and will do so again today. My love to you and your family.

  578. Comment by Tim | 08.6.2009 | 1:03 am

    My sincere condolences.

  579. Comment by Scott S | 08.6.2009 | 1:07 am

    My condolences to you and your family, Elden. Please know that you and Susan are both HUGE inspirations to many of us!

  580. Comment by dwb | 08.6.2009 | 1:10 am

    Sept. 24, 1996 4:05 p.m. edt I lost my father to multiple myeloma. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  581. Comment by Arizona | 08.6.2009 | 1:12 am

    Families can be together forever. Our prayers are with you. We are so sorry.

  582. Comment by eliel | 08.6.2009 | 1:15 am

    I’m so sorry fatty. My deepest condolences. Susan will always be in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. *hugs*

  583. Comment by Grayduncs | 08.6.2009 | 1:16 am

    There can not be a reader of this blog who has not been awed, humbled and inspired by the experience of Susan, yourself and your family. This is not the time to measure your achievements or consider how to take them forwards but they should be acknowledged.

    My condolences to you and your family, my thoughts are with you.

  584. Comment by Beej | 08.6.2009 | 1:16 am

    I don’t know what to say. My thoughts are with you and yours.

  585. Comment by Beth | 08.6.2009 | 1:17 am

    You and your family have my heartfelt sympathy. Susan has my deep admiration. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us.

  586. Comment by Gordon & Heidi | 08.6.2009 | 1:18 am

    We are so sorry for your loss. You have been a great example of how to fight cancer with passion, love, and hope. Our continued prayers are with your family and we celebrate Susan’s life with you.

  587. Comment by psychorider | 08.6.2009 | 1:20 am

    So sorry to hear. Thank you so much for sharing your story and Susan’s story with us, including so many personal and inspiring moments. I was led to your blog by my friend SBJ about a year ago. I have enjoyed reading your blog and your story and your fight. Sadly now it’s up to you to fight on your own, and with your children. You and Susan are an inspiration to so many, and may you and Susan continue to inspire generations to come.

  588. Comment by Dave | 08.6.2009 | 1:22 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. You are all inspirational.

  589. Comment by T | 08.6.2009 | 1:23 am

    I’ve been following Susan’s battle through your blog for some time and to read how she fought that awful disease was truely inspiring. I’m so so sorry for your loss.

    My thoughts go to you and your family.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  590. Comment by tyler | 08.6.2009 | 1:25 am

    win susan!

  591. Comment by Heather | 08.6.2009 | 1:27 am

    I will carry her fighting spirit with me as I continue on in my own journey. May you and your family’s celebration of Susan’s life coninue to inspire, incite, ignite.

  592. Comment by Lindy | 08.6.2009 | 1:28 am

    Deepest sympathies to you and your family. You have inspired so many.

  593. Comment by Jo, UK | 08.6.2009 | 1:28 am

    So very sorry for your loss.

  594. Comment by Judy | 08.6.2009 | 1:29 am

    I am sorry to hear of your loss. My thouhgts are with you and you family at this difficult time.
    Susan’s strength was an inspiration even towards the end.
    Take care and please continue with the blog.
    With love xxx

  595. Comment by Vet Sculler | 08.6.2009 | 1:30 am

    Elden

    I’m so, so sorry for your loss. I was thinking of you on my ride in to work this morning (proudly sporting my 2009 FC shorts), and the fact that Team Fatty is truly global; that’s a hell of a memorial for Susan.

    My love to you and the kids

    Paul W
    London UK

  596. Comment by Kristy | 08.6.2009 | 1:31 am

    Although I have never met you or Susan in person, I feel like I know you from following your blog for over a year now. Thank you for sharing your battle with us. We will continue to fight this terrible disease. Love and prayers.

  597. Comment by KatieA978 | 08.6.2009 | 1:31 am

    So much love for you and the entire family.

    Susan IS an inspiration to everyone, and you have both touched so many people with your heartfelt words and stories of love, family, community and courage.

    You’ve created a community of people wanting to win a war against cancer, and together we can do our damnedest to beat it.

    We all want to fight like Susan.

    Love,
    Katie

  598. Comment by Praveen D V | 08.6.2009 | 1:32 am

    My deepest condolences and praying for you and your family.

  599. Comment by Greg Hayes | 08.6.2009 | 1:33 am

    Heard about you and your family through Lance Armstrong, this is my first post and I am so sorry that it is to give you my condolences.

    Sending thoughts and prayers from London.

    GH

  600. Comment by Hillphobic | 08.6.2009 | 1:34 am

    We’re so sorry, Elden.

    We’ve all come to know Susan from reading your blog and will miss her greatly now. Her fight against this terrible disease was truly inspirational – as well as gut-wrenching and tragic. Lean on your extended family and friends for support in the coming weeks and take special care of those four little kids.

    Our thoughts are with you now. We’ll keep on fighting like Susan down here in Australia.

  601. Comment by dr_robert | 08.6.2009 | 1:35 am

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  602. Comment by Ows | 08.6.2009 | 1:36 am

    Sincerest condolences to you and your family, Elden.
    This blog is an inspiration to me and, by the looks of things, thousands of others.
    I wish you the strength to forge ahead, and I shall remember Susan for the courage she showed.

    Millay says it best:

    My candle burns at both ends;
    It will not last the night;
    But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends;
    It gives a lovely light!

  603. Comment by Shiffon | 08.6.2009 | 1:39 am

    As soon as I saw the blog title today before the site fully loaded I knew, and I cried.
    You and Susan have offered me the experience to see how awful cancer is. I’ve never had personal contact with the disease, but now I now that you, your family and most of all Susan are as close in my heart and my prays as my own family.

    Your loss, is our loss. We all fight together.
    I send you love, peace and rest.

    Shiffon, Sydney Australia.

  604. Comment by Dave | 08.6.2009 | 1:40 am

    Condolences from the southern tip of Africa. You are in our thoughts.

  605. Comment by AJ | 08.6.2009 | 1:41 am

    You have been inspirational in everything you have written and done. Your humanity and compassion has shone through.

    I’ll ride hard for you and your family when I ride4life in two weeks in Ireland.

    We will continue to Fight like Susan,

    Livestrong
    AJ (Devon, UK)

  606. Comment by col | 08.6.2009 | 1:45 am

    I am very sorry for your loss, Condolences from Ireland.

  607. Comment by James | 08.6.2009 | 1:47 am

    Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Fatty.

  608. Comment by Dave Shephard UK | 08.6.2009 | 1:48 am

    Really sorry and saddened to hear the news about Susan. Reading your blog made realise I need to be grateful everyday for what I have – and that the trivial things that ’stress’ me from day to day are just that… trivial. Be strong.

    Dave S (UK)

  609. Comment by Mike D | 08.6.2009 | 1:51 am

    Thinking about you brother…

  610. Comment by Ingrid | 08.6.2009 | 1:51 am

    Elden, now you are a survivor, as is my husband, he too helped his wife of 22 years, fight and die from Non Hodgkins Lymphoma in 2001. I shared your story with him, he knows intimately, the pain of the experience you & your family are going through. He is an incredible man, with 2 great sons who are men now. I see them as survivors of cancer, as you and your family are. I am so blessed that Ben and I found each other. I too know disease, MS is my battle and Ben chose to be with me knowing what I am living with, he is right back in the thick of illness, supporting me as we fight to live stronger every day. Thank you for the video “JOY” I used to ride the same trail and many others in the Wasatch. It brought goosebumps and helped me acutely remember that pure joy. Thank you for your honesty and willingness to share your life with the world. It inspires me to say” I can do this”, I can try harder, I am not a victim, I can be stronger. live in each moment, live with love. Ride your Best in the leadville, just do it. Thank you. Go well Be safe

  611. Comment by Sam | 08.6.2009 | 1:52 am

    There is little that I can say that has not already been said. May I join the chorus of voices giving condolences and love to you and your family.

    Thank you for sharing Susan’s story with us, she will go on to inspire so many people!

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!

  612. Comment by Sean | 08.6.2009 | 1:54 am

    Deepest sympathy to you and your family from here in Los Angeles. Very sorry for your loss Fatty.

  613. Comment by Tom | 08.6.2009 | 1:56 am

    so sorry to hear the news, thoughts from England to you and your family. FLS.

  614. Comment by Phil B | 08.6.2009 | 1:57 am

    Very sorry to hear Susan passed away last night, my thoughts and wishes are with you.
    PB

  615. Comment by ricky | 08.6.2009 | 1:58 am

    our our thoughts and prayers are with you. stay strong.

  616. Comment by Rob | 08.6.2009 | 1:59 am

    Eldon, so so sorry for your loss!!

    In the short time that I have followed Susan’s story I have been inspired and amazed in equal amounts. What a woman!!!!

    The courage that you have shown is truly astounding!!!

    As soon as I heard your news my heart sank. It cant be real!!!!!

    My heart goes out to you and your family.

    Rob
    England

  617. Comment by Phill | 08.6.2009 | 2:04 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

  618. Comment by sarah | 08.6.2009 | 2:08 am

    i’m so sorry.

    please take good care of yourself.

    love to your family from california.

  619. Comment by Joe | 08.6.2009 | 2:09 am

    Thinking of you and your family. Through your blog, I feel like I’ve come to know you and share your loss.

  620. Comment by Wanderer | 08.6.2009 | 2:12 am

    Never forget, never give up. My deepest and most sincere condolences to you and your family. Keep your head up! FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!
    Tom – Portland, OR

  621. Comment by Mattyboy UK | 08.6.2009 | 2:14 am

    Thinking of you Fatty and your family.

    You’ve inspired us all to fight cancer in anyway we can, thanks for being able to share it via your blog.

    Blue Skies, Elden, blue skies.

  622. Comment by Eric D | 08.6.2009 | 2:15 am

    Quiet yet fierce in battle, Susan will live on and be missed! Eldon, you and your family are an inspiration and example to us all. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!

  623. Comment by mtbcat | 08.6.2009 | 2:16 am

    Truly sorry to hear about your loss – condolences to you and your family.

  624. Comment by ~Kristi | 08.6.2009 | 2:17 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope Susan is at peace and also that you and your the kids will find some peace.

  625. Comment by bsugi | 08.6.2009 | 2:20 am

    I always feared seeing this post, but I know Susan is in a far better place smiling down on all of us. Thinking of you and your family.
    Sending lots of hugs to you
    Take care!
    -bsugi

  626. Comment by Fuzzy | 08.6.2009 | 2:23 am

    Elden,

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Susan isn’t gone- she is with you always. Every time you think of her, she is in the room. Every time you see your children, you are seeing part of Susan. She will be with you forever, still inspiring and fighting.

    Luv ‘n Stuff
    Fuzzy from the UK

  627. Comment by Misbehavious | 08.6.2009 | 2:26 am

    I never met Susan, but she has inspired me to raise even more money for cancer related charities and in particular Marie Curie Cancer Care so that the terminally ill and their families get the support they need.

    RIP Susan

  628. Comment by Jeff Jones | 08.6.2009 | 2:29 am

    Elden,

    I’ll echo what John Stevenson said: we’re all very sad to hear of Susan’s passing. Absolutely gutted for you.

    But your fight has been and remains inspirational.

    Jeff

  629. Comment by Candice Flores | 08.6.2009 | 2:30 am

    oh, Elden…I’ve been checking this site a number of times each day, more and more concerned, and when there were no new entries I kept thinking…oh, please, no…you and Susan were in my thoughts all day today…and will be for many, many days to come.

  630. Comment by Alicia | 08.6.2009 | 2:32 am

    A Spanish writer said once “Since we can’t make life longer, let’s concentrate in making it wider” I think Susan lived a wide deep life and you guys should be proud of that. I’m really sorry for your loss

  631. Comment by Gary Lake | 08.6.2009 | 2:35 am

    Susan’s fight has been nothing short of heroic! I guess I was always prepared for this post everytime I logged on, ironically I still couldn’t believe my eyes when I eventually saw it.

    You’ve both been an inspiration in what it means to be strong, my thoughts are with you buddy!

  632. Comment by Russ | 08.6.2009 | 2:35 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I stand ready to continue the fight.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!

  633. Comment by Jaana | 08.6.2009 | 2:36 am

    I found your blog through Pioneer Woman and want you to know that both you and Susan inspired me greatly. Praying for peace for you and yours tonight. God bless you all.

  634. Comment by Dave | 08.6.2009 | 2:37 am

    As one who has read of Susan’s spirit in your ever-supportive posts, I’m sure she’s proud of your achievements and thankful she had such a great husband.

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

  635. Comment by Patty | 08.6.2009 | 2:38 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your children and all who loved Susan.

    Patty – Greeneville,TN

  636. Comment by Terri | 08.6.2009 | 2:39 am

    I’m so sorry…love to you and your family.

  637. Comment by James Gillies | 08.6.2009 | 2:40 am

    You are both an inspiration!

    James, UK

  638. Comment by Conor | 08.6.2009 | 2:46 am

    Begin Again

    Begin again to the summoning birds
    to the sight of light at the window,
    begin to the roar of morning traffic all along Pembroke Road.
    Every beginning is a promise born in light
    and dying in dark determination
    and exaltation of springtime flowering
    the way to work.
    Begin to the pageant of queuing girls
    the arrogant loneliness of swans in the canal bridges linking the past and the future
    old friends passing though with us still.
    Begin to the loneliness that cannot end since it perhaps is what makes us begin,
    begin to wonder at unknown faces at crying birds in the sudden rain at branches stark in the willing sunlight at seagulls foraging for bread at couples sharing a sunny secret alone together while making good.
    Though we live in a world that dreams of ending
    that always seems about to give in
    something that will not acknowledge conclusion insists that we forever begin.

    Brendan Kennelly (1936- )

    Peace to all of you.

  639. Comment by Onan the Barbarian | 08.6.2009 | 2:46 am

    As so many others have said here, I’m so sorry for your loss.

  640. Comment by Ant | 08.6.2009 | 2:48 am

    Elden, so much has been said and every word of it is meant.

    Your lovely wife Susan, through you, has inspired I suspect hundreds of thousands of people to donate, raise money, raise awareness, spread the word, and get serious about fighting cancer.

    Not to mention inspiring hundreds of thousands of people to get out and ride their bikes.

    When I’m riding single trail in the middle of nowhere, and the only person that I come across tells me that they have a FC jersey the same as mine, that tells me how far the word has spread.

    An amazing woman who will be greatly honoured, and greatly missed.

    We’ll all continue the fight with you – and I certainly hope that you can continue leading the fight.

  641. Comment by flossy | 08.6.2009 | 2:49 am

    Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Mourn Susan’s passing and celebrate her life. You and Susan are both an inspiration. Our thoughts are with you and your children

  642. Comment by Jake | 08.6.2009 | 2:52 am

    That is truly awful news, My deepest condolences to you and your family.

    Keep up with the campaigning you will make a difference!

  643. Comment by A PW Reader | 08.6.2009 | 2:53 am

    My prayers go out. Thank you for allowing us to be there with you and your family!

  644. Comment by Johan | 08.6.2009 | 2:57 am

    So very sorry for your loss. Continue to inspire.

    Johan
    South Africa

  645. Comment by conor | 08.6.2009 | 2:57 am

    Heart felt condolences to you and your family. Remain strong and be proud of what both Susan and yourself have achieved in the fight against cancer.

    Conor

  646. Comment by Linda | 08.6.2009 | 2:58 am

    Grace and peace to all of you. Susan showed us all how to fight, you’re right, Elden. How to fight with dignity and gritty determination and grace. What a legacy for your children.

  647. Comment by Patricia Woodruff | 08.6.2009 | 3:00 am

    You came into my life at a time a family member had been given a cancer diagnosis. Your family seems close to me now. Thank you for sharing and helping so many others by giving us Susan. Hugs from Sarasota.

  648. Comment by Nev | 08.6.2009 | 3:00 am

    Only recently found your blog, but I’m so sad to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

  649. Comment by Mark | 08.6.2009 | 3:01 am

    Elden,

    You should be so proud of Susan for inspiring you and equally we are proud of you for inspiring us.

    A lot of us have been touched by cancer through family and friends but your words eloquent and insightful have done so much.

    Susan RIP.

  650. Comment by Amanda | 08.6.2009 | 3:03 am

    I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.

  651. Comment by Jeremy | 08.6.2009 | 3:07 am

    I never realized that reading so few words could make me so sad.

    Though I do not know you or your family, I express my deepest condolences and prayer. I hope that in some small way Susan’s death will inspire others to fight cancer even harder and that will be her immortal legacy.

  652. Comment by Hamish A | 08.6.2009 | 3:07 am

    There’s nothing I can possibly add that hasn’t already been said. Susan is truly an inspiration in this fight and we’ll carry it on in her name. We will win.

    I’m so terribly sorry for all of you. Prayers & love coming your way.

    Stay Strong.

  653. Comment by Jeremy | 08.6.2009 | 3:10 am

    So sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  654. Comment by Andrew Newman | 08.6.2009 | 3:11 am

    I am so sorry. You, Susan, and your family are an inspiration.

  655. Comment by Jon Burns | 08.6.2009 | 3:13 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  656. Comment by Steve | 08.6.2009 | 3:14 am

    Do not stand at my grave and weep,
    I am not there, I do not sleep.
    I am in a thousand winds that blow,
    I am the softly falling snow.
    I am the gentle showers of rain,
    I am the fields of ripening grain.
    I am in the morning hush,
    I am in the graceful rush
    Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
    I am the starshine of the night.
    I am in the flowers that bloom,
    I am in a quiet room.
    I am in the birds that sing,
    I am in each lovely thing.
    Do not stand at my grave and cry,
    I am not there. I do not die.

    Mary Elizabeth Frye.

  657. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 3:14 am

    I hope and trust you and your children have the strength to overcome this. Thank you for sharing your moving story, it’s an inspiration on many levels.

    Mike,
    Amsterdam

  658. Comment by Chris | 08.6.2009 | 3:16 am

    I agree with you. I hate it when people say a battle with cancer is lost.

    God’s speed to you all. Continue to blaze the way you have. Susan will livestrong forever in us all. Take care.

  659. Comment by Paul Ruffy | 08.6.2009 | 3:18 am

    God Bless.
    A shining light in the fight against cancer.

  660. Comment by ekimq | 08.6.2009 | 3:24 am

    Susan will live on in thousands of hearts. Her legacy will reach wider than she could ever have hoped. She will bring joy to many who will never even hear her name.

    That is no comfort to you today; it will be small comfort in the coming days, but it will be a huge source of pride in the years which lie ahead.

    Thank you Elden (and your family too), you have brought us all the zest and a little of your pain. Hopefully we can all take some of your burden.

    You, Susan and the family are in our prayers.

  661. Comment by sherri | 08.6.2009 | 3:25 am

    So sorry. Hope you and your family can find peace.

  662. Comment by Jo | 08.6.2009 | 3:27 am

    The courage that you and Susan have shown in such difficult times is an amazing inspiration and incredible legacy.

    That you have had the strength to share your journey will no doubt support and help countless others both now and in the future.

    My greatest sympathies to you and the family.

    Jo
    UK

  663. Comment by Luis vasconcelos | 08.6.2009 | 3:27 am

    How I have deen dreading to type your site adress every morning. The news would surely came but I believed that maybe it would not happen, not if I typed real gentle, like when you cycle up a mountain in order not to wake the mountain up…
    It happened, Susan has escaped the peloton and will lead us now, just like she has in the last months. I will try to follow.
    My deepest simpathies from Portugal

  664. Comment by Connie | 08.6.2009 | 3:30 am

    Elden: You have created a huge community of people who are here to surround you and your family with love, caring and support. I hope you feel it, because you have given and continue to give so much to all of us. You inspire each of us to live our best possible life. Thank you. Please wrap your family in our loving arms for comfort. We are all here for you as you have been for us. Fight like Susan. She has taught us all and will continue.

  665. Comment by sdj | 08.6.2009 | 3:31 am

    Deepest sympathies from England. You inspire many across The Pond too. Continue the great work.

  666. Comment by Freedom | 08.6.2009 | 3:35 am

    LOVE

  667. Comment by danielle | 08.6.2009 | 3:35 am

    Our thoughts are with you and your family. You and Susan have been an inspiration…

  668. Comment by MiSzA | 08.6.2009 | 3:37 am

    My deepest and sincere…

  669. Comment by Helen | 08.6.2009 | 3:37 am

    I’m so sorry. You have both been an inspiration to us all, and will continue to be.

  670. Comment by WKF | 08.6.2009 | 3:37 am

    God Bless you all.

  671. Comment by James | 08.6.2009 | 3:40 am

    You and Susan have inspired us all. I’ll never forget. Peace to Susan, you and your family.

  672. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 3:46 am

    It has already been said by so many people here and again, I have been so touched and inspired by reading your blog. I hope you can find some strength from the huge amount of support and love coming to you from all over the world as I know many others will find strength from reading your blog. Thank you for sharing with us and my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
    Sarah
    UK

  673. Comment by william | 08.6.2009 | 3:47 am

    I am very sorry to hear that. You inspire me with how you have kept going through this and kept your family together.
    My thoughts are with you all

    William

  674. Comment by Shadowduck | 08.6.2009 | 3:50 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family. *hug*

  675. Comment by Shane Emmons | 08.6.2009 | 3:51 am

    Our thoughts are with you. You and Susan are an inspiration to hundreds.

  676. Comment by Tony Tennant | 08.6.2009 | 3:52 am

    Elden and Families, rest your hearts in the Grace & His peace you so deserve, know you are Loved, and cared for by many… as One, being watched over.
    She is with the Lamb now. SO sorry for your pain and wishing you love and blessings.. God speed!!

    We can’t all ride the same trail but we do carry you with us.

    Much Comfort & Solice

    Birds Fort, Tejas

  677. Comment by Randy | 08.6.2009 | 3:52 am

    Very Very sorry for your loss.

  678. Comment by Eric Pilsk | 08.6.2009 | 3:55 am

    This is the blog entry I have so never wanted to see. You both have and I think always will inspire me to fight, to think and to do. Go in peace.

  679. Comment by Ingrid | 08.6.2009 | 3:55 am

    If it is true what they say that you are not really dead until you ar truly forgotten then Susan will continue to be with us in spirit for a very long time.
    For me you both have given the battle against cancer a face. Thank you for that.
    I will wear Susan’s bracelet with even more respect and honor.
    Wishing you all the strenght you will need, now and in every other difficult moment in the future.
    Ingrid, Netherlands

  680. Comment by Gabriel | 08.6.2009 | 3:56 am

    My thoughts are with you, Susan and your family – at least the people that loved her and she loved were there right up until the end.

    Gabriel

  681. Comment by Frank & Mer | 08.6.2009 | 3:56 am

    Our thoughts are with you and your family. May Susan rest in peace.

  682. Comment by eandjmum | 08.6.2009 | 4:01 am

    Remember the good times… celebrate Susan’s life… you are an inspiration – like Susan

  683. Comment by John Lamar | 08.6.2009 | 4:03 am

    Susan’s and your courage have turned adversity into victory against this horrible disease. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  684. Comment by Louize | 08.6.2009 | 4:03 am

    So sorry to hear the news :(

  685. Comment by Michelle | 08.6.2009 | 4:04 am

    I am very sorry for your loss Elden. God Bless you and your family at this time. Your blog has been such an inspiration to us all in so many ways. I feel as though we’ve all lost a friend, but at the same time she is no longer suffering. Fight Like Susan! Peace to you and your children.

  686. Comment by Richie | 08.6.2009 | 4:05 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May Susan rest in peace.

  687. Comment by Jeremy | 08.6.2009 | 4:07 am

    Prayers go out to Susan and your family. The number of responses above is a testament to the good works you’ve done in her memory.

  688. Comment by Bragger | 08.6.2009 | 4:07 am

    Susan’s fight is over, but ours goes on. May she rest in peace, and may you and your children cherish her memories. God bless you.

  689. Comment by Francesca | 08.6.2009 | 4:09 am

    Sincere condolences to you and your family. May Susan rest in peace.

  690. Comment by Kevin | 08.6.2009 | 4:10 am

    So sad to hear the news, but inspired by the courage you and Susan showed. Heartfelt best wishes.

  691. Comment by Si | 08.6.2009 | 4:14 am

    You inspired me to start my own website about mountain biking and I’ve always found your site to be a real inspiration. I remember when you first broke the news about Susan’s fight. My heart nearly jumped out of my chest when I read it and since that day I’ve found myself regularly thinking about you and your family. You’ve all been so incredibly strong for each other. May Susan rest in peace.

    Sympathies from the UK.

  692. Comment by Saso | 08.6.2009 | 4:15 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. I wish you a lot of strength.

  693. Comment by Robb Sutton | 08.6.2009 | 4:16 am

    She is now in a better place and pain free. You guys have taken a terrible situation and turned it into hope for others. That takes a lot of strength and courage. My deepest condolences and prayers for you and your family.

  694. Comment by Albert | 08.6.2009 | 4:16 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you are your family.

  695. Comment by jim | 08.6.2009 | 4:17 am

    Our deepest condolences to you and yours. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and add to your strength.

  696. Comment by JP Miller | 08.6.2009 | 4:18 am

    Elden-

    Win Susan. You have been and continue to be an inspiration to so many through her fight and your own.

  697. Comment by Tony | 08.6.2009 | 4:20 am

    I have followed you and Susans Ordeal through your blog for quite a time. Have Peace, and be well. May God be with you and your family. Rest assured your readers all mourn with you.

  698. Comment by ToddBS | 08.6.2009 | 4:22 am

    Such a tragic loss, even when you knew it would happen. You’ve already shown yourself more than strong enough to continue the fight though. I think your kids have benefited from that strength, and will continue to do so. Best wishes.

  699. Comment by mofembot in france | 08.6.2009 | 4:25 am

    You don’t know me, and this is the first time I’ve come to this website, having been directed here via a DailyKos diary. Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss, and my thanks for your channeling your grief to helping fight against such a cruel disease.

    More than two years ago, we lost our 15-year-old nephew to a form of cancer that, by rights, he should have only gotten past the age of 40 after smoking his entire life. After 11 months of treatment, including surgery to remove most of his tongue, and then another one to replace a bone in his arm dissolved by a tumor, my nephew died relatively peacefully surrounded by his immediate family.

    He and they were lucky to have a good health insurance plan and a huge amount of support from extended family, friends, and (once my nephew’s story started circulating) very kind strangers. After his funeral, I thought about the many, many people in America who were struggling with serious, life-threatening illness, and who had neither the informal support structure my nephew had, nor comprehensive health insurance and treatment. For some, their loved ones will die and not only are they left bereft, but they are left facing complete financial ruin. It should not be this way in America.

    I contribute to my nephew’s memorial team in the annual Race for Life held in his home town, so I will not be participating in the drawing for that lovely bike. (As I live in France, both the shipping and the customs fees would be daunting.) But I thank you again for being proactively engaged in finding a cure for the dreadful illness that took your wife.

    Peace and consolation to you, your sons, and to all who loved Susan.

  700. Comment by Donna | 08.6.2009 | 4:26 am

    My prayers go our for you and your children and for wonderful Susan, who is now at peace. Bless you all for your courage, spirit, determination and love.

  701. Comment by Shiny Flu | 08.6.2009 | 4:29 am

    I will never forget. Susan, your family and yourself are an inspiration. I’m so sorry

  702. Comment by Petit Chévre | 08.6.2009 | 4:32 am

    My deepest sympathies. We have never met, nor even conversed but I consider you a friend because of your writing, because of the struggle you shared with us all.

    My prayers go out to you and your family.

    Peace

  703. Comment by gail | 08.6.2009 | 4:34 am

    What a wonderful example Susan has given her family and all of us, with countless lessons for how to live our lives right to the end. She is in every way a winner. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

  704. Comment by Leigh | 08.6.2009 | 4:35 am

    I am very sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and your children.

  705. Comment by Surly Dave | 08.6.2009 | 4:36 am

    Sorry to hear it. My sympathies to you and your family. Susan’s courage, and yours, in the face of this evil disease has been an inspiration.

  706. Comment by Matthew Allen | 08.6.2009 | 4:38 am

    I’m so sorry Fatty. May she rest in peace.

    Matthew

  707. Comment by Sherri | 08.6.2009 | 4:38 am

    My deepest sympathies are with you and your family at this very difficult time. God Bless you and “live strong”, knowing what wonderful things you had and how her legacy will continue on through you.

  708. Comment by Jacqui | 08.6.2009 | 4:42 am

    All condolences to you and the family. My thoughts are with you, as I was in that place a week ago myself.

    Thanks for the blog, be strong, FIGHT

  709. Comment by Phil | 08.6.2009 | 4:44 am

    Thank you for sharing Susan’s fight with Cancer. I will be praying for you in coming days.

  710. Comment by Matty | 08.6.2009 | 4:44 am

    Elden

    my thoughts are with you and you family at this time of loss.

    I am currently recovering from a cycling accident, having come off and fractured my pelvis. However with time on my hands I was able to find this site through Lance Armstrong. So much of life is about perspective. Having read of some of the experiences of you and your family, I have a new perspective about my own situation.

    Hopefully I will return to my bike and regain my fitness. This will be a new challenge. Those first rides back on my bike will be for you all. You remain in my thoughts.

    Matty – Hertfordshire – UK

  711. Comment by Leah | 08.6.2009 | 4:45 am

    Please know your family will be in my prayers. ((((hugs)))

  712. Comment by sapie | 08.6.2009 | 4:46 am

    Yesterday I bought a LHT frame to build up. Today I decided to call her Susan. We love you Elden.

  713. Comment by Kali Durga | 08.6.2009 | 4:48 am

    I’m so sorry, Elden.

    In going through the absolute worst anyone could imagine, both you and Susan brought out the best in each other and many, many other people. I’m so glad that you had so much of your family with you when this finally happened. The love you all have for each other has been obvious throughout this blog and it’s what will carry you through.

    May the memory of Susan live on.

  714. Comment by Hospice RN too | 08.6.2009 | 4:51 am

    There are no words to make the pain go away now. I have unfortunately been expecting this post, but was sad to see it today-my heart dropped. How amazing you, Susan, and your family have been and will be in the future!

    My thougths and prayers are with you and your family.

  715. Comment by Leslie | 08.6.2009 | 4:51 am

    May the peace that passes all understanding be with you and your family. Susan has been such an inspiration, AS HAVE YOU. You’ll never know how many people you’ve touched, but please take a moment and feel all of us there, at your back, supporting you. I’m so sorry for your loss, and thankful for Susan’s life.

  716. Comment by Dan | 08.6.2009 | 4:52 am

    Susan and you have touched so many lives for the better. We love you man.

  717. Comment by TB | 08.6.2009 | 4:53 am

    Sympathies from Whitinsville, MA. Praying for you and your family.

  718. Comment by Jason | 08.6.2009 | 4:53 am

    F*ck Cancer. Remember, always.

  719. Comment by Rox | 08.6.2009 | 4:53 am

    I’m so sorry to hear this. She does inspire all of us and you and your family inspire us too. Hang tough, stay strong and know that we all love you.

  720. Comment by fbr | 08.6.2009 | 4:54 am

    So sorry for all the pain, my prayers are with you.

  721. Comment by Annalisa | 08.6.2009 | 4:54 am

    Elden (Fatty),

    I’m so very sorry. I’ve been afraid to open your blog the past week because I knew that it was impending and felt so helpless. Then I thought of Susan and of her huge fight and your fight and helpless just doesn’t fit into that equation. I’m in the Netherlands but will fight cancer here with Susan at the helm. I was a cyclist in the early to mid ’80’s (road) and love to follow your blog and your fight. Please accept my condolences and I wish you strength in the coming time which you will need to adjust. But Susan will always be there. I was widowed at 26. Husband was a professional cyclist riding for PDMagnetics in the late ’80’s (when Greg LeMond was the lead rider – Sean Kelly – Pedro Delgado etc.). He died of a heart defect but that wasn’t made public until all of the rumors re: EPO use etc. were vented. It tainted his memory (not for me) but feel free to look him up. He was Dutch national road champ in 1987. Died in 1990 after the Sicilian week (pre-season) and finished the tour in 1989 a very proud cyclist. Johannes Draaijer. So, I know what it’s like to lose the one you love. Peace to you.

    Annalisa (Draaijer) Schmad

  722. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 4:54 am

    I’m so very sorry for your loss–I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

  723. Comment by Andy | 08.6.2009 | 4:59 am

    so sorry, hang in there my friend

  724. Comment by Paul | 08.6.2009 | 5:00 am

    My deepest condolances, I can’t imagine how you’ve maintained your spirit this far, but I’m sure you’ll continue to keep your chin up. Keep up the FIGHT, and continue all the good work.

    Paul (from London)

  725. Comment by Mary Beth | 08.6.2009 | 5:01 am

    Dear Elden and family,
    God bless you and yours always. Susan and you all fought a brave fight and taught us so much about love, honor, friendship, caring, inner strength. I feel you are a nurse now Elden. You have joined the millions of us throughout time who loved and cared for our family who needed us through pain and suffering. I hope you have some peace. You were the BEST BEST husband to Susan. She is watching over you now smiling and happy waiting for your next bike adventures. God bless you always.
    MB

  726. Comment by Bill | 08.6.2009 | 5:05 am

    Prayers for God’s peace to fill you and your loved ones!

  727. Comment by Paul Gutman | 08.6.2009 | 5:05 am

    Elden–my deepest condolences and wishes for peace for you all. Your story has terrified and inspired me. 3 years into my own marriage I cannot fathom the fight and torture you’ve been through, and the possibility that I might also have to experience that is horrifying and terrifying.

    But your response, your bravery, and the way you have converted your energies has truly been inspiring, and makes me hopeful of the sort of person I and we all can strive to be.

  728. Comment by Andy | 08.6.2009 | 5:07 am

    So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.

    Andy (UK)

  729. Comment by Warwick | 08.6.2009 | 5:07 am

    Elden
    you have let us into your lives, thank you for sharing and making a difference

    You and your family are in our prayers

    Sydney, Australia

  730. Comment by Tracylyn | 08.6.2009 | 5:07 am

    My heart breaks for you and your family.

  731. Comment by Aristotelis Grammatikakis | 08.6.2009 | 5:07 am

    Her memory will stay strong as she has already become a symbol to those fighting the disease. She seemed to be a remarkable and unique woman. I can’t begin to imagine your suffering, but I trust that you begin a new phase in your life and a whole new fight with renewed vigour and strength.
    Suzan didn’t lose. Her body may have been beaten but her spirit never was.
    Suzan Won.

  732. Comment by Teamfubar | 08.6.2009 | 5:07 am

    Elden and family.

    I went through a similar experience two years ago. Please be strong in knowing you did everything possible for her. Comfort each other. It doesn’t make it easier, but know the pain will get easier and soon, you will be reliving the good times, not these last few months.

    I read this early, as I am up early for a ride before work. This morning I ride for Susan!

  733. Comment by Susan Tomlinson | 08.6.2009 | 5:07 am

    I’m sorry, Elden. Peace to your family.

  734. Comment by Nick | 08.6.2009 | 5:08 am

    Sympathies from Michigan.

  735. Comment by KitchenSink | 08.6.2009 | 5:09 am

    When the sun goes down beneath the horizon,
    It is not set, the heavens glow a full hour after its departure,
    And when a good person dies,
    The sky of this world is luminous long after they are out of sight,
    Such a person cannot die and be lost from this world,
    For when they go they leave behind much of themselves,
    Being dead they speak.

  736. Comment by Bobby | 08.6.2009 | 5:11 am

    My deepest sympathies and condolences go out to you and your family. You are a man blessed with the gift of courage, strength, and family. These will help you see through these tough times. God bless you

  737. Comment by SarahinNE | 08.6.2009 | 5:11 am

    Sympathies from Nebraska.

  738. Comment by Mike K. | 08.6.2009 | 5:14 am

    I’m very sorry for your loss. All the best to you and your family, and thanks so much for making a difference and raising awareness.

  739. Comment by Matt | 08.6.2009 | 5:16 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. You and Susan have inspired thousands of people to fight.

  740. Comment by Udo | 08.6.2009 | 5:17 am

    May you and yoour’s find some consolation by this song from a German, who loost his wife and brother within a week by cancer:
    the wind will slice
    the air like ice
    and seabirds screech at me
    the elements
    will darkly duel
    but your lighthouse i see
    i stand awake
    and grip the wheel
    against a violent sea
    i’m climbing up horizon bound
    because that’s where you’ll be

    Use the link for website for this song, it’s english!

  741. Comment by nick | 08.6.2009 | 5:17 am

    I’m so sorry to hear this. My sympathies, and wishes for peace for you and your family.

  742. Comment by Marie-Claude | 08.6.2009 | 5:18 am

    My deepest sympathies and condolences to you and your family.

  743. Comment by Diana | 08.6.2009 | 5:18 am

    My condolences to you and your family. It’s nice to hear that many loved ones were there..

  744. Comment by Pat | 08.6.2009 | 5:18 am

    Thoughts and prayers with Susan and your family. She did win as she faced this terrible disease with courage and strength. Thanks for sharing the journey.
    Regards.

  745. Comment by Marie | 08.6.2009 | 5:19 am

    I wish you and your family all the strength you need… good luck ‘picking up your life’ again, somewhere, somehow, some day..

  746. Comment by clark | 08.6.2009 | 5:20 am

    I am truly sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  747. Comment by Matt | 08.6.2009 | 5:20 am

    Sorry to hear the news this morning, she inspired you an and in turn you inspired us, something we are all thankful for, keep fighting…

  748. Comment by Miss Lola | 08.6.2009 | 5:21 am

    Susan’s battle has touched me deeply…God Bless you all.

  749. Comment by Christa | 08.6.2009 | 5:21 am

    Sorry for your loss.

  750. Comment by ChefJT | 08.6.2009 | 5:24 am

    Her pain has ended. For that I am grateful.

    My prayers now are for you, Elden, and your children, for strength during this time of sorrow. Susan has, and will continue to be an inspiration to many. I’m so terribly sorry for your loss.

    God bless you, Fatty, and your family.
    God bless you, Susan.

  751. Comment by Evia | 08.6.2009 | 5:24 am

    What an amazing woman – sorry for your loss. Praying for all of you.

  752. Comment by jank | 08.6.2009 | 5:26 am

    Peace for now.

    Susan’s fight has inspired us all.

  753. Comment by George Swain | 08.6.2009 | 5:26 am

    My deepest condolences are with you and your kids. You and Susan are an inspiration to others who are now or will some day face similar struggles. Be well.

  754. Comment by Jason | 08.6.2009 | 5:27 am

    So sorry.

    You and Susan inspired and united folks from all over the world to help fight a terrible and soul sucking disease. These are ways that the memories of our loved ones are never forgotten.

    Thought are with you and your family.

  755. Comment by Marcy | 08.6.2009 | 5:29 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. May you find peace in the memories of Susan. She inspired us all!

  756. Comment by Tracy | 08.6.2009 | 5:30 am

    I am so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  757. Comment by allan | 08.6.2009 | 5:30 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  758. Comment by spa | 08.6.2009 | 5:31 am

    I didn’t know her, but I will never forget her. Or you. Peace.

  759. Comment by Steve A | 08.6.2009 | 5:31 am

    My thoughts go to you and your family. You are correct that Susan led the fight. It is her time to rest! Take care.

  760. Comment by Elliott | 08.6.2009 | 5:31 am

    I won’t offer prayers as they are not who I am but I will offer thoughts of healing and condolence.

    Your story has touched me. I am inspired that at the same time you cared for your wife and family that you still found the time for your passion. Be with your family but take some time for yourself on your favourite trails to find healing in your passion. Ride for Susan as that is what I think she too would want.

    My thoughts and wishes are with you and your family.

  761. Comment by Bykmor | 08.6.2009 | 5:31 am

    Some people take opportunities to make change, for the better. Susan, with the help of Elden, did. Fight like Susan. Thank you both for your inspiration.

  762. Comment by Jeannette James | 08.6.2009 | 5:32 am

    Fatty, I am soooo sad for you. My daughter’s best friend died of breast cancer 2 years today in much the same way as Susan. I have been sharing parts of your blog with my cycle group, the funny bits, and they have loved and laughed with you. My best wishes and thoughts, Jeannette.

  763. Comment by Buckshot77 | 08.6.2009 | 5:34 am

    Eldon, no words can change the way things are, but know that the actions of yourself and Susan have inspired thousands of us to fight along side you. Take comfort in what you’ve all ready accomplished and knowing that what you continue to do in the future will honor her life. We’re here fighting right with you.

  764. Comment by Cheryl T | 08.6.2009 | 5:34 am

    So very sorry for your loss.

  765. Comment by Tyler | 08.6.2009 | 5:35 am

    Fatty, you, your family and friends are in my thoughts. My condolences to all of you. We will continue to Fight Like Susan, she’s an inspiration.

  766. Comment by julia | 08.6.2009 | 5:36 am

    My sympathies to you and your family. julie

  767. Comment by Eloy | 08.6.2009 | 5:39 am

    My condolences. Susan and you are an inspiration.

  768. Comment by Steve Miller | 08.6.2009 | 5:39 am

    Thanks for sharing your and Susan’s fight with us. It is and will continue to be an inspiration. I will be praying for you and your family.

  769. Comment by Julie | 08.6.2009 | 5:41 am

    So very sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  770. Comment by lady clay | 08.6.2009 | 5:41 am

    Thinking of you from Atlanta.

  771. Comment by Henrik | 08.6.2009 | 5:42 am

    Sorry to hear the bad news.
    I’ve been in your shoes 7 years ago and I know that nothing I say will ease the pain. But still I feel the need to express my sadness of your families loss.

    Henrik from Denmark

  772. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 5:42 am

    So sad to hear. You have been amazing. All the best to you and your family.

  773. Comment by Terri A. | 08.6.2009 | 5:43 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  774. Comment by viii_ball | 08.6.2009 | 5:43 am

    Of course its a sad time for those left behind but we all know in our hearts that Susan has won and is now no longer suffering the bonds of this world. Elden, be strong for your children as your collective family will be strong for you. LiveStrong!

  775. Comment by Cindy Cor | 08.6.2009 | 5:44 am

    Love, prayers, and peace, my friend. A whole community mourns with you and your family.

  776. Comment by StephS | 08.6.2009 | 5:44 am

    God bless Susan and all of you. The next few days, weeks will be tough but take time to remember good times and give your kids lots of hugs.

  777. Comment by Leah | 08.6.2009 | 5:45 am

    My thoughts are with you. No she didn’t lose. She made many of us better people. Peace.

  778. Comment by Erwin | 08.6.2009 | 5:45 am

    Fatty,

    I would like to add my condolences. My best friend’s wife passed on after suffering from breast cancer about a year ago. My thoughts are with you.

  779. Comment by gargoyle030 | 08.6.2009 | 5:46 am

    Elden and family — Peace and prayers for you from MN.

  780. Comment by Evan | 08.6.2009 | 5:47 am

    You and Susan are inspirations to all of us.

  781. Comment by DeborahB | 08.6.2009 | 5:47 am

    Oh Elden. I’m so sorry for your loss. So many people have been touched by her story, so for that we thank you. We will continue the fight. God bless you and the kids through the rough weeks ahead.

  782. Comment by Darien | 08.6.2009 | 5:47 am

    I’m so very sorry.

  783. Comment by Marsha | 08.6.2009 | 5:49 am

    I mourn with you. Thank you for sharing Susan’s story.

  784. Comment by Tery | 08.6.2009 | 5:49 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  785. Comment by Another Evan | 08.6.2009 | 5:49 am

    I think it’s fair to say that everyone’s thoughts are with you and your family.

  786. Comment by Paul | 08.6.2009 | 5:50 am

    Sorry for your loss.

  787. Comment by Nisha | 08.6.2009 | 5:51 am

    condolences from Brenham, Texas

  788. Comment by Gena | 08.6.2009 | 5:51 am

    God bless you and your precious children. You have showm them how to be a true companion. WIN SUSAN! May you be surrounded by the love of God and may his arms be wrapped around you and your family.
    God Bless. Keep Fighting.

  789. Comment by Shelley | 08.6.2009 | 5:51 am

    Speechless! So very sorry for your loss.

  790. Comment by Wine Dog | 08.6.2009 | 5:53 am

    Last night was the night we’d all hoped would never come. I’m very sorry for the loss of your wife and the mother of your children. She was a very special woman who changed lives. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  791. Comment by Shaun | 08.6.2009 | 5:56 am

    My deepest condolences go out to you and your kids, Fatty.

    Thank-you for sharing with us and having the bravery to bring Susans fight to the attention of the world. I’m finding it hard to put into words how sad I am to hear about Susan. My wife has gone through breast cancer at a young age and had to endure surgery, chemo, radiation and a long recovery. We all need more people like you to inspire us all and fight this bastard cancer and be rid of it one day forever.

    Goodbye Susan, you will never be forgotten by people who never met you but have all been touched by you.

    Fight hard, Fatty.

  792. Comment by Ellen | 08.6.2009 | 5:56 am

    My prayers and thoughts are with you…

  793. Comment by Juancho | 08.6.2009 | 5:57 am

    One pedal stroke at a time now. You have a good crew around you. Let them take the pulls.

    peace, jr

  794. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 5:57 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts will be with you and your family today.

  795. Comment by bob | 08.6.2009 | 5:57 am

    I’m sorry for your loss and am praying for you, your children, your extended family and Susan.

  796. Comment by Bob | 08.6.2009 | 5:57 am

    The cancer lost – it’s gone. Susan’s spirit lives on forever.

    Take care.

    Bob

  797. Comment by Sheila | 08.6.2009 | 5:58 am

    I’m so sorry.

  798. Comment by Belinda | 08.6.2009 | 5:58 am

    My condolences to you and your family. And my thank you to Susan for sharing her story thru your blog. May she rest peacefully among the angels as she watches over her loved ones. Susan is an inspiration!

  799. Comment by Fletch | 08.6.2009 | 5:59 am

    Sorry for your news.Lets carry on the fight in her name, if we are half as determined as she was – we will win.
    Love to the family.

  800. Comment by Spruce Hill | 08.6.2009 | 5:59 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers. She fought hard, for herself and for all breast cancer survivors. Hopefully someday no one will have to die from this terrible disease.

    http://motherswithcancer.wordpress.com/

  801. Comment by shannon | 08.6.2009 | 5:59 am

    i’m so sorry, Elden.

  802. Comment by C-re | 08.6.2009 | 5:59 am

    I pray for peace for you and your sons as you go through the painful motions of loss. I know that you and your kids know that Susan is in a better place, pain free and is watching down over you.

    You have been such a brave and strong husband for Susan. God Bless.

  803. Comment by Willie Nelson | 08.6.2009 | 5:59 am

    We are saddened by the news. We won’t forget her. Ever. Thank you for sharing with us a very personal journey.

  804. Comment by brokeMBA | 08.6.2009 | 6:00 am

    Susan is an inspiration. I am so sorry for your loss. Hug the kids and be thankful for the wonderful family you have. We all will have your family in our thoughts.

  805. Comment by Den | 08.6.2009 | 6:00 am

    Love and warm thoughts to you and your family.

    Thank you for sharing the journey…

    Praying for you always.

  806. Comment by VT Rob | 08.6.2009 | 6:00 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

  807. Comment by Trudy Medrano | 08.6.2009 | 6:00 am

    Please accept my deepest condolences for you and your family.

  808. Comment by Ben | 08.6.2009 | 6:00 am

    I’m sorry for your loss Elden, my thoughts are with you and your family.

    Ben from Australia

  809. Comment by Michael Maddox | 08.6.2009 | 6:00 am

    Godspeed Susan, you will be missed.

    And all our hopes and wishes are with you, Elden and family, as you struggle through this difficult time. May each day be brighter than the last.

  810. Comment by Paul | 08.6.2009 | 6:01 am

    Elden, my deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family.

  811. Comment by km | 08.6.2009 | 6:03 am

    My sincere condolences at your(and our) loss of such an inspirational person.

  812. Comment by Shauna | 08.6.2009 | 6:04 am

    I am so sorry to hear Susan is gone. I have been reading your blog for years and have never written to you until now. I’m sure there are many thousands of people like me who have laughed and cried while reading you blog. All of us are thinking of you and your family today. We will all miss Susan and send you our love and condolences.

  813. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 6:04 am

    Her fight is over. Ours is not. You both are an inspiration to many. You have my prayers.

  814. Comment by Kim | 08.6.2009 | 6:04 am

    My sincere condolences to you and your family. Susan is an inspiration.
    Kim from Austin, TX.

  815. Comment by Dawn- H Texas | 08.6.2009 | 6:05 am

    God bless Susan.

  816. Comment by Sandra | 08.6.2009 | 6:06 am

    I am so sorry, my thoughts are with all who love and miss Susan.

  817. Comment by Tracey | 08.6.2009 | 6:07 am

    Love never truly dies. Peace to your family.

  818. Comment by Tashva | 08.6.2009 | 6:07 am

    I’m sorry. My prayers have been with you and your family and will continue to be.

    Blessings to you all in this time.

  819. Comment by Josh | 08.6.2009 | 6:07 am

    I’ve read your blog for a long time, but have never posted anything. Your family is and will be an inspiration, and I’m very sorry for your loss.

  820. Comment by medici | 08.6.2009 | 6:08 am

    Thank you for inviting us in. Both you and Susan are unforgettable.

    Heidi Kuehne

  821. Comment by Ken | 08.6.2009 | 6:08 am

    Susan won. She won the heart of a good man who took care of her and loved her to the end. She won the love of a family who will remember her forever. She won the hearts of thousands of blog readers.

    I am a better person for having read about Susan over these past few years. My family wishes your family the sincerest of condolences and warmest thoughts for this trying time.

  822. Comment by Nina in Ohio | 08.6.2009 | 6:08 am

    John said it best – her fight is over and ours is not. Thanks for sharing your very soul during this fight and letting those of us who have family fighting cancer know that we are not alone in our anger, despair, and hope.

    My deepest condolences to you, your beautiful children, and your extended family.

  823. Comment by Kevin | 08.6.2009 | 6:09 am

    You’re a stronger man then I. Susan will always be remembered for her strength and efforts. Fight like susan.

  824. Comment by Kristi (from Texas) | 08.6.2009 | 6:10 am

    So very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your family.

  825. Comment by lkb3 | 08.6.2009 | 6:11 am

    Our prayers are with you and your family.

  826. Comment by Leslie | 08.6.2009 | 6:11 am

    Elden,

    It is hard to know what to say, which is the situation you face every day. And yet you write — to and for all of us. Thank you. Thank you for sharing your experience and for telling the truth. Thank you for fighting cancer. Thank you for sharing yourself with all of us. Thank you to Susan for allowing you to share her experience.

    I’m a 4 year breast cancer survivor (married to a road biker) — I hate the fact that so many people are afraid to talk about or think about cancer. You have helped to break through the barrier a bit. And you’ve raised a lot of money and done so many good things.

    My heart goes out to you and your family today and always. I think about you guys every day, and I will continue to do that. I’m sending you strength and love and hopefully some wonderful, healing bike rides.

    Leslie

  827. Comment by Peter Doucet | 08.6.2009 | 6:12 am

    My deepest condolences-

    Be well in the love that will always be.

  828. Comment by tcrdave | 08.6.2009 | 6:12 am

    My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. Thank you for sharing her with all of us. Susan will be greatly missed.

    Dave in Pasco, Washington

  829. Comment by Jane | 08.6.2009 | 6:14 am

    So sorry for your loss. Thinking about you all today.

  830. Comment by Tracie | 08.6.2009 | 6:15 am

    I’m so sorry for your family’s pain. A dear friend of mine also lost a loved one to cancer this week. I hope your family can find some peace and grace in these days and that your memories of Susan will be full of joy! Just don’t stop talking about her. I have lost my father and brother to terminal illness and share stories about them to my children, who also talk about them (and they never knew them). Memories and pictures are a gift!

  831. Comment by Trapperdan | 08.6.2009 | 6:15 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  832. Comment by Leah Weiss Caruso | 08.6.2009 | 6:15 am

    Condolences to your whole family. So sorry for your loss. You, Susan and your family have inspired so many people – you are a gift. thank you.

  833. Comment by Rob | 08.6.2009 | 6:15 am

    Elden,
    Deepest condolences to you and your family, Susan was an inspiration to so many and you conveyed her strength and courage with honour. May the Lord bring peace to your family.

  834. Comment by Sailinghome | 08.6.2009 | 6:16 am

    I’m so sorry to hear that Susan has passed away… nothing I can say will help, we have been and continue to be inspired by you and Susan.

  835. Comment by Richard | 08.6.2009 | 6:17 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family.

  836. Comment by Another Fat Cyclist | 08.6.2009 | 6:17 am

    So Sorry, man. Your fight against cancer is her legacy. Prayers for you and yours.

  837. Comment by Becky | 08.6.2009 | 6:18 am

    My deepest condolences to you, your family and to all that have been touched by your wife’s spirit. Cancer sucks.

  838. Comment by Danny | 08.6.2009 | 6:19 am

    God bless Susan, Fatty & family.

    Fight Like Susan

  839. Comment by Chris | 08.6.2009 | 6:19 am

    I knew how the story would end, but I still gasp. I won’t say Susan lost. I promise. We prayed for you, Susan and the kids last night as a family. Our prayers will continue.
    Condolences and blessings, Chris and Family

  840. Comment by Luis | 08.6.2009 | 6:20 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  841. Comment by Ama | 08.6.2009 | 6:20 am

    My sincere condolences to you and your family. You all remain in my thoughts and prayers.

  842. Comment by Kimberly | 08.6.2009 | 6:20 am

    My wishes that your family and friends can all have as much strength as Susan in these coming days. You are an inspiration to us all.

  843. Comment by Nate V. | 08.6.2009 | 6:20 am

    Elden,
    I’m so so sorry for your loss. The courage and hope that Susan, yourself and your family showed through this very very difficult time will be the legacy that you leave. My prayers go out to you and yours.

    Nate

  844. Comment by Denise | 08.6.2009 | 6:20 am

    I am so sorry for your loss.

    I have been inspired by Susan’s fight.

    I pray for strength for you and your family.

  845. Comment by Big Mike In Oz | 08.6.2009 | 6:20 am

    This has caused me to return to Livestrong and double my entries for the Orbea, such is my need to prove to cancer that it can’t win this war.

  846. Comment by Marla K. | 08.6.2009 | 6:21 am

    Susan is more than a conquerer. She has won the race! Her life, your life, and your life together has touched so many. Grace and Peace to you and your family!

  847. Comment by kentucky joe | 08.6.2009 | 6:21 am

    I feel your loss albeit in a small way but Susan’s story has inspired me and she lives on in my heart and mind though I never met her in person. My thoughts, admiration and pride go out to you and your families during the difficult days ahead. I can’t imagine the journey your family has been on but I like to think because of reading your story, that I would at least have the handbook on how to handle it with class, dignity, humility and determination throughout the entire battle.

  848. Comment by Cyclin' Missy | 08.6.2009 | 6:21 am

    Grace and peace to you and your family.

    We will keep on fighting with Susan’s inspiration in our hearts.

  849. Comment by Trae | 08.6.2009 | 6:22 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today. I’d be extremely blessed to be as strong as she was. God bless.

  850. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 6:22 am

    Thank you Susan, and thank you Fatty.

  851. Comment by David | 08.6.2009 | 6:22 am

    Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Doing what I can to raise funds to fight the fight.

  852. Comment by Laura | 08.6.2009 | 6:23 am

    Bless Susan. You and Susan have touched the world and are making such a difference. Thank you.

  853. Comment by Joe | 08.6.2009 | 6:24 am

    Sincerest condolences to you and your family. Your words and life have inspired me to do more.

  854. Comment by Hughes | 08.6.2009 | 6:25 am

    Woke up and read the news. Then I biked to work, thinking about it on the way.
    I have been reading your blog for the last 2 years, made a few comments, but nothing like the bunch that always were ready with a comment.

    My wife asked why I was sad today, and I replied, a friend’s wife passed away.
    I might not have met in person, but like many here, I followed your blog daily. We might be all over the globe (Mexico my case) but we all are with you in these moments and our thoughts are with you and yours.

    My most sincere sympathies. Susan won!!

  855. Comment by steventoby | 08.6.2009 | 6:25 am

    Stay strong Fatty! My condolences to you.
    I’m gonna fight as best I can to do my part.

  856. Comment by mom8k | 08.6.2009 | 6:26 am

    Grace, mercy and peace to you and yours.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you.
    It has been a long and valiant fight.

  857. Comment by Claire | 08.6.2009 | 6:26 am

    Condolences to you and your family, you fought side by side with Susan. There are no words to say to try and make this better for you, but I am thankful that Susan is free from pain and that you all were with her. I hope you take comfort that lots of strangers were rooting for you and Susan and are sending their wishes across the information superhighway from across the globe. x x x x

  858. Comment by Bob | 08.6.2009 | 6:26 am

    – I just want to say I’m sorry and my thoughts are with you. Stay strong.

  859. Comment by Remdog | 08.6.2009 | 6:26 am

    No…she did not lose. She succeeded with you in bringing more & more people to fight this thing.

    I’ll keep fighting here in Canada & spreading the Team Fatty word.

  860. Comment by Jennifer | 08.6.2009 | 6:27 am

    Guess I’ve been waiting for this post for awhile. My God, did she fight hard and courageously! What an inspiration.
    I will make a donation in her name and in my father’s name and in sister-in-law’s name and the in the name of the lady who works at the thrift store I frequent who has lost her long brown hair to chemo.
    Take care of yourself and your family.
    You’re in my thoughts and I’m about to go for a ride so I’m gonna dig out my FC jersey and wear it in her honor.
    Jennifer in Tampa

  861. Comment by Christopher | 08.6.2009 | 6:27 am

    I lost my mom a few years ago, and I wish that I could have had the courage and strength to say something half as encouraging when I lost her as what you’ve just said in the wake of your loss.

    Keep it fat, Elden.

  862. Comment by Wes | 08.6.2009 | 6:27 am

    Oh, Fatty… If Susan lost, then I want to lose as good as she did. The sun is a little darker, the sky a little less blue. The bird’s song is less sweeter, and the hill is a little higher. This damn bike just isn’t going as fast… We’ll all miss Susan. We are so proud of her, and you.

  863. Comment by T-odd | 08.6.2009 | 6:28 am

    I found out in a tweet from Lance Armstrong. So sorry. I don’t have a huge following on my blog, but I directed readers to your site to remember Susan and help in your fight against cancer.

    My condolences to you and your family. You have all done a great thing by sharing your lives with all of us.

    Take care and god bless.

  864. Comment by JTM | 08.6.2009 | 6:28 am

    A pit formed in my stomach when I hit the site this morning for my faty fix. My most sincere condolences. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

  865. Comment by ant1 | 08.6.2009 | 6:29 am

    What a shame that all the good Susan and yourself have been able to bring to the rest of the world came as such a great expense to your family. I would have never guessed I could be so moved by strangers on the internet, but you have taken something that, unfortunately, many have to live through privately and managed to turn it into something public and positive for the rest of the world to benefit from. You are a great man Elden, and along with Susan have been a great inspiration to so many. Keep up the fight, the world needs people like you.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  866. Comment by leeb | 08.6.2009 | 6:29 am

    Prayers and prayers and prayers your way.

  867. Comment by E | 08.6.2009 | 6:29 am

    I am so sorry to hear this. I’m thinking of you and your family, and hoping that sooner or later we’ll make progress on this disease.

  868. Comment by crazycommutingcyclist | 08.6.2009 | 6:29 am

    I was sad to read that Susan had passed. My family prayers are with you and your family and God are with you and your children. You and Susan have made a difference and I am sure both of you will continue to do so. God Bless you.

  869. Comment by Suze | 08.6.2009 | 6:29 am

    God bless Susan, you and your family.

  870. Comment by Murchball | 08.6.2009 | 6:29 am

    I’m so sorry. Condolences to you and your family.

  871. Comment by ~Mad | 08.6.2009 | 6:30 am

    Holding kind thoughts for you and yours today….and following.
    My best to you.
    ~Mad(elyn) in Alabama

  872. Comment by Lindaloo | 08.6.2009 | 6:30 am

    An inspiration to me, I will take the lessons I’ve learned from Susan with me as I make my way through the challenges that I encounter. Strengh, reseiliency,humor. tenacity, and grace. My ptayers are for all of you.

  873. Comment by patrick | 08.6.2009 | 6:30 am

    Thanks, Susan and Elden. Creating so much good out of such a horrible thing is something to be really, really proud of. Peace to you and your family.

  874. Comment by Rachel | 08.6.2009 | 6:31 am

    My prayers are with you and your family. May God be with you to bring you peace and comfort.

  875. Comment by Todd | 08.6.2009 | 6:31 am

    The grace and strength which both of you have demonstrated through this ordeal is a sign of victory, indeed. God’s peace be upon you and your children as you grieve.

  876. Comment by c downunder | 08.6.2009 | 6:32 am

    Fatty,

    My condolences to you & your family. May you remember the good times w susan & the love shared.

    Thank you for being brave enough to share your pain with the world. I’ll continue to wear my FC jersey with a smile :)

    Take care

  877. Comment by Mark | 08.6.2009 | 6:32 am

    So very sorry and send my prayers to you and your family. Your story has inspired many to ride, walk, run, and whatever else they can to fight cancer. Livestrong and God bless Susan.

  878. Comment by mom8k | 08.6.2009 | 6:32 am

    ps I’m so glad you posted that thank you video the other day. I (and my husband) were touched by her grace–and yours. Thank YOU and God Bless.

  879. Comment by Pete | 08.6.2009 | 6:33 am

    So sorry to hear, hope you and the kids find strength in each other and Susan’s love that’s still with you.

  880. Comment by Tracy (Oklahoma) | 08.6.2009 | 6:34 am

    God Bless Susan, you, your children and all your family at this time and the days, weeks, years ahead. My deepest condolences to you all. Susan was an inspiration to all that knew her, and to those of us who didn’t. Thank you for sharing your most precious journey with all of us. I am so sorry for your pain.

  881. Comment by Jeff K | 08.6.2009 | 6:34 am

    Elden, very sorry to hear about Susan, please accept my condolences.

    We all have a lot of FIGHT to give.

    Peace to you and your family.

  882. Comment by Jocelyn | 08.6.2009 | 6:35 am

    Susan was here for a short time; but accomplished exactly what she was placed on this Earth to do. Prayers and smiles for you and your family.

  883. Comment by Sandy | 08.6.2009 | 6:35 am

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

    Thoughts and prayers coming from Perth, Australia.

    Take care

  884. Comment by Ferenc | 08.6.2009 | 6:36 am

    My sincere condolences for you and your family. You are inspiring a lot of people around the globe. The fight goes on, we keep on riding and will never forget Susan!

  885. Comment by mikeweb | 08.6.2009 | 6:36 am

    Eldon, Susan’s fight and you and your family’s rock-solid strength and openness all along have been an incredible inspiration.

    Do know that she is in a better place and that her memory and example will live on – ARE living on – through her example and your voice and deeds here.

    Mike Webster

  886. Comment by Caroleigh | 08.6.2009 | 6:37 am

    Elden – I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my Mom to cancer 7 months ago and can’t imagine what it is like to lose your life partner and love. I know there is nothing I can say to help ease your pain. I will be riding in the Philly LiveStrong Challenge and will be thinking of Susan and your family.

  887. Comment by lisa jackson | 08.6.2009 | 6:37 am

    I dont know you and didnt know Susan. but my heart goes out to you. my 2 yr old grandson Aiden battled ATRT brain cancer and earned his wings 4 mo after being diagnosed. i promise you just like i promised Aiden i will use the rest of my life to fight cancer.

  888. Comment by scotty | 08.6.2009 | 6:38 am

    peace

  889. Comment by Tom G. | 08.6.2009 | 6:38 am

    Elden,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief.

    Take the Lord’s wheel. He’ll help you over the climb.
    Peace,
    Tom

  890. Comment by Rob | 08.6.2009 | 6:38 am

    I’m so sorry, Elden. Susan didn’t lose, but I think we’ve lost a very special person. I wish you and your family all the best in this very difficult time.

  891. Comment by Spanky | 08.6.2009 | 6:38 am

    Elden,

    I’m so sorry. Be strong for yourself and for those who depend on you. My prayers are with you all. God bless you.

  892. Comment by Paul Whitehurst | 08.6.2009 | 6:40 am

    Sorry for your and your family’s loss.

  893. Comment by Scott | 08.6.2009 | 6:40 am

    The prayers of our family are with yours. God bless.

  894. Comment by Born 4 Lycra | 08.6.2009 | 6:40 am

    Oh mate words will never say enough. I’m in tears. I will be proud to stand alongside you as we continue to Fight like Susan. Love to the you and the Kids. Take Care.

  895. Comment by Tariq | 08.6.2009 | 6:40 am

    I work for a company that makes drugs to fight cancer. It’s news like this that reminds me why I come into the office each day.

    Fatty, my deepest condolences to you and your family.

    You’re absolutely right – Susan didn’t lose. You win by fighting, which is exactly what she did.

  896. Comment by Joe | 08.6.2009 | 6:41 am

    Susan, thanks for your inspiration! Fatty, peace and comfort to you and your family. Live strong – fight like Susan!

  897. Comment by Eric | 08.6.2009 | 6:41 am

    Fatty,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You and Susan are an inspiration.

    Fight like Susan!

  898. Comment by Captain Lou | 08.6.2009 | 6:41 am

    You are in our thoughts and prayers, Fatty.

  899. Comment by Laura Willoughby | 08.6.2009 | 6:43 am

    Fatty -
    My husband follows your blog religiously and often forwards me the status of your wife. I sit here crying as I hear the news and I have never even met you. I despise this disease. My friend continues her 10 year fight against breast cancer so finding a cure for this wretched disease is close to my heart. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I am just incredibly sorry.

  900. Comment by Michael Schlei | 08.6.2009 | 6:43 am

    Thank you Elden, for giving us men the tools and the inspiration to “step up” for the Susans in our lives. You have showed us how to take up the fight when it’s difficult to see our loved ones hurting. It’s what true men do. I hope I can “Serve Like Elden” if it ever becomes my turn.

    I know that Susan is right now putting on a team Fatty jersey saying “It’s my turn to ride with you Elden” and on the back of the jersey it doesn’t say “Win!” her’s says “I Won!”
    May God’s peace and comfort wash over you and your family Elden.

    Michael Schlei
    Houston, TX

  901. Comment by Andy | 08.6.2009 | 6:43 am

    *Hugs*, lots and lots of *Hugs*.

  902. Comment by Clayton | 08.6.2009 | 6:44 am

    Sincerest condolences. Susan inspired us all to take action, and that’s a big Win. Thank you Susan.

  903. Comment by Doominator | 08.6.2009 | 6:44 am

    Fatty, we don’t know one another but my whole family has been following Susan’s battle through your amazing blog. I just wanted to send out my sincere condolences!

    Fight like Susan!

    from Montreal, QC, Canada

  904. Comment by JEnn | 08.6.2009 | 6:44 am

    I’m so sorry. Susan and your whole family are in our thoughts.

  905. Comment by JP | 08.6.2009 | 6:45 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss, words simply cannot express the void left with susan not here … our thoughts and prayers are with you….

  906. Comment by Brooklyn | 08.6.2009 | 6:46 am

    Everlasting peace to your LOVE and your family.
    xoxoxoxox

  907. Comment by Renata | 08.6.2009 | 6:46 am

    Fatty and family,

    I am so sorry for your loss, your news made me cry.

  908. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 6:46 am

    You are not grieving alone. You are in my prayers.

  909. Comment by Laurie | 08.6.2009 | 6:47 am

    Please know that you are and have been in my prayers. I pray that you will feel God wrapping his arms around your family today. From State College, PA

  910. Comment by Streak | 08.6.2009 | 6:48 am

    You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. Susan has shown us all how to fight and that is what I will do and motivate others to do as well.

    Fight like Susan!

  911. Comment by Robert | 08.6.2009 | 6:48 am

    My sympathies from Alabama…

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  912. Comment by dana (born 4 lycras daughter) | 08.6.2009 | 6:48 am

    my father tells me everything that he reads on your blog, the ride downhill/uphill with one of your daughters and every single video you have posted i have watched

    i am extremly sorry for you loss, i thank you for all the fundraising you do for cancer, i have lost my grandfather to many different types and i know how it feels, not exactly but of sorts…

    i hope that everything gets better soon, and that susans memory never fades :)

    you are a good father for what you do for your children, a good husband for how you looked after your wife and a good man for coping as well as you would have. many of us would not have coped as well as you have

    Win Susan

    xx

    dana

  913. Comment by GeWilli | 08.6.2009 | 6:49 am

    Thank you Susan.

    For your fight. For your inspiration to everyone.

    Thank you Susan. Rest in Peace.

  914. Comment by Rhey | 08.6.2009 | 6:49 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family.

  915. Comment by Big Shorty | 08.6.2009 | 6:49 am

    Elden,

    Wow…no words to say that haven’t been said already. What an amazing lady Susan is…the inspiration when combined with your forum & abilities created a reaction which inspired people around the world and lead to $500K for LiveSTRONG. I say $600K is in reach..

    I’ve been a supporter, now a fundraiser.

    Thoughts and prayers to everyone who was touched by Susan.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

    BigShorty

  916. Comment by Mark | 08.6.2009 | 6:50 am

    My heart is heavy because of your loss.

  917. Comment by Grant | 08.6.2009 | 6:50 am

    My wife and I will be praying for you and yours, Elden.

  918. Comment by nancy | 08.6.2009 | 6:50 am

    Lost both my parents to cancer. It’s a tough battle for all involved. Peace now to you and your family.

  919. Comment by FattMass | 08.6.2009 | 6:50 am

    Elden,

    I type with a very heavy heart this morning. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. Hold them tight. It’s up to the rest of us to continue the fight and continue we will.

    Godspeed

  920. Comment by Marie | 08.6.2009 | 6:51 am

    My deepest condoleances to you and your familly. Susan was a fighter and so are you. All my love go to you and to the fight that you have put up and continue putting up against cancer.

  921. Comment by Emily | 08.6.2009 | 6:51 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children today and through the coming weeks and months. I’m so proud that I got to “know” you and Susan through your blog. Thank you for sharing her story and yours. Fight Like Susan is beautiful…

  922. Comment by Fat Cathy | 08.6.2009 | 6:52 am

    Heartfelt condolances to you and your family from North Carolina. We’ll keep you in our thoughts.

  923. Comment by Reggie | 08.6.2009 | 6:53 am

    Susan, you and your family have been a great inspiration, my sympathies are with you. I’ve only known you and susan through this blog and countless links to it but I have grown attached and am devastated to get this news.

  924. Comment by FliesOnly | 08.6.2009 | 6:53 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family.

  925. Comment by Matt | 08.6.2009 | 6:53 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  926. Comment by Jay | 08.6.2009 | 6:53 am

    Are thoughts are with you and your children.

  927. Comment by Chris | 08.6.2009 | 6:54 am

    She will be remembered.

    Fight like Susan.

  928. Comment by Reader | 08.6.2009 | 6:54 am

    Sincere condolences.

  929. Comment by c3 | 08.6.2009 | 6:54 am

    No, Susan didn’t lose.

    What she leaves behind in her family, in her friends, and in her countless supporters is a testament to the best kind of life. She fought for every minute, wrung out every bit of life she could, and left a legacy of faithfulness, courage, and strength that will help carry those who have to now go on without her.

    Thank you to both of you for sharing your strength with so many people. The fight goes on.

  930. Comment by Josh | 08.6.2009 | 6:55 am

    I’m so very sorry Elden. I realize I’m just another condolence amongst hundreds, but you and Susan and your family are a source of impressive courage to everyone here.

    -A long time fan.

  931. Comment by bjdfh | 08.6.2009 | 6:55 am

    Susan was an inspiration to all of us. Peace to all of you. What you are doing for all cancer families is inspirational.

  932. Comment by Rae | 08.6.2009 | 6:55 am

    I will add Susan to the list of people I fight for in this war against cancer. Stay strong and see Susan everyday in your kids.

  933. Comment by Bridget | 08.6.2009 | 6:55 am

    I am so sorry to hear (read) this. My heart goes out to you and your family. I’m sure Susan is in a better place and watching over all of you.
    Much love and respect,
    Bridget

  934. Comment by AndyK | 08.6.2009 | 6:56 am

    Elden,

    Sorry for your loss, keep fighting the good fight brother!!

    Condolences from New Hampshire

  935. Comment by Patrick | 08.6.2009 | 6:56 am

    You must be so proud of her

  936. Comment by TracieB | 08.6.2009 | 6:56 am

    Sympathies to you from Italy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  937. Comment by Paula | 08.6.2009 | 6:56 am

    Thoughts of peace and love are with your family.

    Fight like Susan!

  938. Comment by Emy | 08.6.2009 | 6:56 am

    Elden,

    I am so incredibly sorry. I am praying for you and your family. You all have been so strong, and Susan the strongest of all. Thank you for sharing with us and allowing us to be educated, encouraged, and inspired by Susan’s fight. Susan won, in ways never imagined.

  939. Comment by Pascale | 08.6.2009 | 6:56 am

    Hai Elden,

    I started following you’re blog two weeks ago, because Lance had put a link on his Twitter.
    I was touched by you’re story.
    I understood Suzan was very sick but I didn’t know how quickly after I started reading you’re blog she would pass away :(
    Thanks you for sharing you’re story.
    I wish you and you’re kids and everybody who was close to Suzan all the best, my thoughts are with all of you!
    Suzan will always be around, watching over all of you guy’s! I’m sure of that!!!

    Lot’s of love from Holland,

    Pascale Bierhuizen

  940. Comment by Chris | 08.6.2009 | 6:57 am

    Peace.

  941. Comment by Tracey | 08.6.2009 | 6:57 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn your loss and celebrate Susan’s life. May the love and warmth of friends and family comfort you today and always.

  942. Comment by tim | 08.6.2009 | 6:57 am

    thoughts from Merseyside, England.
    Much love to you and your family.
    Thanks for the inspirational writing and the inspiratational behaviour from you and yours.
    So sorry for your loss.

    Fight like Susan.

  943. Comment by Sprite's Keeper | 08.6.2009 | 6:58 am

    I did not want to see this post in my Reader, Eldon. I’m so sorry. But I will tell you that Susan’s bravery and determination has inspired me so much to live my life to the fullest. And your words have given a voice to her fight against cancer. My prayers are focused on you and yours.

  944. Comment by Dana | 08.6.2009 | 6:59 am

    i will always remember susan.

  945. Comment by Brenda | 08.6.2009 | 7:00 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  946. Comment by sheri | 08.6.2009 | 7:00 am

    I saw you through Pioneer Woman’s website. Peace to you and your family. Thank you for inspiring others with your story. I will be walking in the Susan G. Koman Race for the Cure this weekend in Kansas City in honor of some people very dear to me also. Keep up the fight!

  947. Comment by John Cully | 08.6.2009 | 7:00 am

    Elden,
    You don’t know me, but I’ve read and enjoyed your blog for a long time. I lost both my parents to cancer, and have followed your wife’s fight and the extraordinary way you’ve channeled your energy to fight for a greater good, while caring for your wife, with great admiration.

    My thoughts and condolences are with you and your family, and I pray for Susan’s spirit to live on in your children and in your efforts against cancer.

    With respect,
    John Cully

  948. Comment by MOCougFan | 08.6.2009 | 7:00 am

    I’ve always been impressed by your courage and your strength throughout this horrible time. You are an inspiration. I hop for the best for you and your family now. I know it will be very difficult.

    I’m sorry my friend.

  949. Comment by Julie | 08.6.2009 | 7:00 am

    I’m so glad that you opened your family’s and your own struggle up to your readers. I started reading for the cycling jokes, I stayed because of your and Susan’s humanity and courage. My deepest condolences…

  950. Comment by Debi | 08.6.2009 | 7:01 am

    I offer my thoughts and prayers of comfort from Atlanta. I am sorry for your loss. I am inspired by the love and energy displayed by all here.

  951. Comment by sandy | 08.6.2009 | 7:02 am

    Susan knows how you and her have touched so many people by this blog and her fight against cancer. She has through your words impacted lives and made a difference. She has won!

  952. Comment by cindyf | 08.6.2009 | 7:02 am

    Elden, I’ve been a long-time reader, no-time commenter. I’ve been stingy with my money. But not today. Today I donate to the Fight Like Susan cancer research fund. Today I hug my kids a little closer. Today I kiss my husband like he’s never been kissed before. Thank you for helping us remember how precious and wonderful life is.

  953. Comment by Laura S | 08.6.2009 | 7:02 am

    God’s blessings and comfort to your family.

  954. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 7:02 am

    My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Susan’s fight has touched many of us and given us a glimpse into what the fight with cancer is all about. Thank you for sharing.

  955. Comment by Will | 08.6.2009 | 7:02 am

    All the best to you and your family. Don’t stop what you’ve started here.

  956. Comment by Joe Biker | 08.6.2009 | 7:03 am

    Tear in my eye fatty. You’re a strong writer, strong rider, but even a stronger husband & father. Now it’s time to hold your kids close…and let your family take care of you.

  957. Comment by tricia | 08.6.2009 | 7:04 am

    Thank you for sharing your life with us. We have been touched.

  958. Comment by lrh | 08.6.2009 | 7:05 am

    I am so sorry. You and Susan are such an inspiration. Thank you.

  959. Comment by Redbird74 | 08.6.2009 | 7:06 am

    I went for a ride yesterday morning and wore my Team Fatty jersey. Got a few thumbs ups along the way as people read the back. I wonder how many people were out yesterday with the WIN on their sleeve. Have you and your family in my prayers and will be thinking of Susan on the road today. We all know that Susan has won.

    Prayers and thoughts from my family to yours.

  960. Comment by Margaret | 08.6.2009 | 7:06 am

    My sincerest condolences to you and your family. I’ve been sitting here wondering how reading the blog of a stranger could leave me fighting tears, but I am.

    Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. Your entire family is an inspiration to anybody going through this fight.

  961. Comment by Ron | 08.6.2009 | 7:08 am

    Sympathies from West Virginia.

  962. Comment by JEB | 08.6.2009 | 7:09 am

    I am sorry for your loss, but my goodness, look at what you and Susan accomplished along the way. You both inspired so many and did so much. And the effects will last forever.

  963. Comment by KYClyde | 08.6.2009 | 7:10 am

    Elden,
    As a long time follower, I have seen the most courageous fight by you and your family. I know that condolences don’t take the hurt away, but know that you and Susan have insipred us all to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  964. Comment by Claire | 08.6.2009 | 7:10 am

    So sorry to hear this news, Elden. My sympathies and thoughts are with you, your children, your families, and your friends.

  965. Comment by Alex M Lewis | 08.6.2009 | 7:10 am

    I am so sorry for your loss, I hope the following helps.

    Do not stand at my grave and weep,
    I am not there, I do not sleep.
    I am in a thousand winds that blow,
    I am the softly falling snow.
    I am the gentle showers of rain,
    I am the fields of ripening grain.
    I am in the morning hush,
    I am in the graceful rush
    Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
    I am the starshine of the night.
    I am in the flowers that bloom,
    I am in a quiet room.
    I am in the birds that sing,
    I am in each lovely thing.
    Do not stand at my grave and cry,
    I am not there. I do not die.

  966. Comment by Dave | 08.6.2009 | 7:10 am

    My very sincerest condolences, Fatty. Susan’s story and your own, will continue to inspire me.

  967. Comment by Brad | 08.6.2009 | 7:10 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Fatty. I’ve been deeply inspired by Susan’s strength and courage. Thanks to the work she has inspired this site to take, Susan’s battle is still being fought.

  968. Comment by Kristine | 08.6.2009 | 7:11 am

    I am sorry for your loss. Susan is so proud of you and your accomplishments. My heart goes out to you and your whole family.

    Stay strong

  969. Comment by john deeley | 08.6.2009 | 7:12 am

    So Sorry to hear the news.

    Your Blog has lifted hearts and spirits and given hope to so many people. Susan will be remembered, as will you for the love you shared for each other and for life.

    My very best wishes to you all

  970. Comment by Tom Byrne | 08.6.2009 | 7:12 am

    My condolences on you and your family’s loss. Susan’s fight was and remains inspirational – I cannot imagine where she (and you and yours) found the strength to fight so steadfastly and gracefully.

    You are all in my prayers.

  971. Comment by Ned | 08.6.2009 | 7:12 am

    My deepest condlences to you and your family – I hope that your family will find peace in these trying hours -

  972. Comment by Mark | 08.6.2009 | 7:12 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Elden.

  973. Comment by kale | 08.6.2009 | 7:12 am

    I’m deeply sorry for you and your family’s loss, and grateful for the gifts Susan has given the world with her life.

    Elden, this may sound stupid but – don’t pass up any hugs for a while.

  974. Comment by Jennifer | 08.6.2009 | 7:13 am

    I am deeply sorry for the loss of your wife. I found your blog through Ree.

    If we all fought like Susan how different this world would be.

    You and your family will be in my thoughts.

  975. Comment by Tim Tiscornia | 08.6.2009 | 7:14 am

    Elden,

    I was thinking of you and Susan the other day when I saw some Fatty’s bike the other direction around Mercer Island. So sorry to hear this news. Our thoughts are with you and Susan/You will be top of mind as we train for and ride in Austin.

    Tim Tiscornia
    Mercer Island, WA

  976. Comment by Rie | 08.6.2009 | 7:14 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing and allowing us to fight alongside you.

  977. Comment by Vicki M. | 08.6.2009 | 7:16 am

    I am praying for you and your family today. I pray you will have peace and hope and comfort. And I will continue to pray for a long time. God bless you and your children.

  978. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 7:16 am

    I’m very sorry for your loss and thank you to you and Susan for your bravery to share all this.

    When I lost my sister, I felt I might never smile again but I kept hearing how other, happy people, have had tragedies in their lives. There will be a brighter day.

  979. Comment by JTinSC | 08.6.2009 | 7:16 am

    . . . i wore my FC jersey this morning for a 5 am ride. now I know why. win

  980. Comment by Justin | 08.6.2009 | 7:17 am

    I am sorry.

  981. Comment by Teri | 08.6.2009 | 7:18 am

    RIP Susan.

  982. Comment by Tracy | 08.6.2009 | 7:18 am

    My heartfelt condolences and wishes for continued strength for you and your family.

  983. Comment by Val | 08.6.2009 | 7:19 am

    May the Lord sustain you during this time.

  984. Comment by tracym | 08.6.2009 | 7:19 am

    My thoughts and prayers and hugs go out to you and your families. Susan and YOU are such an inspiration. Warmly, Tracy

  985. Comment by Terry | 08.6.2009 | 7:19 am

    Rest in peace brave Susan. My sincere condolences to Susan’s family, you have all fought so bravely.

  986. Comment by AJ | 08.6.2009 | 7:19 am

    You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May you be blessed with comfort and peace. Know that you and Susan have changed the world.

  987. Comment by Alecia | 08.6.2009 | 7:19 am

    You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless you all.

  988. Comment by Rick | 08.6.2009 | 7:20 am

    So sorry Elden.

  989. Comment by Richard Bundro | 08.6.2009 | 7:20 am

    Fatty-
    I’ve been reading your site for a long time. I was reading it in December when my father an otherwise strong 57 year old was diagnosed with late stage stomach cancer. I was reading the April when he lost his fight after only 5 months. Not a day goes by when I don’t miss my dad. Nothing I can say will ease your pain, and I’m truly sorry for you loss. I am also very thankful for all of you efforts. Hopefully, because of what you are doing to raise both funding and awareness, someday we will actually be able to defeat this awful disease.

  990. Comment by Ryan | 08.6.2009 | 7:20 am

    peace be with you.

  991. Comment by Emilie | 08.6.2009 | 7:20 am

    Peace to you and yours. And sweet final peace for Susan.

  992. Comment by DG | 08.6.2009 | 7:20 am

    So sorry to hear this.

    Deepest sympathy from Ireland.

    Keep up the fight.

  993. Comment by Iron Girl Trixie | 08.6.2009 | 7:20 am

    Fatty,

    Wow! Look at the community you and Susan have inspired. I am truly awed and amazed to see such goodness come from such a terrible situation. I second the multitude of comments above (cause they all say it so well). Even though, I’m tearin’ up from the news, my head is thinking back to your post a few days ago – Leadville or not. I think Susan really wanted you to go and so did she. But she wasn’t able to in her current condition. The gang should go (even the kids) and make it an incredible Susan “kicks behind party” with all of your closest friends. Although, I can imagine the next few Livestrong Events will be chock full of celebrating Susan!

  994. Comment by jilrubia | 08.6.2009 | 7:21 am

    Thank you for sharing your life with us. Susan will always be in inspriation to me because sometimes winning a fight has more to do with how it happens than the end result. I’m so very sorry for the loss of your special wife, mother and friend.

  995. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 7:21 am

    you were all so lucky to have had each other. i wish you guidence in your new life.

  996. Comment by Steve H | 08.6.2009 | 7:21 am

    I started reading for the cycling humour. I kept reading in awe for your courageous fight against this evil disease. My heartfelt condolences and prayers are with you.

  997. Comment by Len in NSW Australia | 08.6.2009 | 7:22 am

    Eldon

    It was with great sorrow that I read that God has recalled another angel.I am so sorry for your loss.Your family have been an inspirationThankyou so much for sharing Susan with us all.My thoughts & prayers are with you & your wonderful children.Godspped my friend

  998. Comment by Krissa | 08.6.2009 | 7:22 am

    There are no words. Peace now, for you and yours; rest for Susan.

    We will fight.

  999. Comment by Brice | 08.6.2009 | 7:23 am

    I am sorry. Susan touched many including myself.

  1000. Comment by Andy | 08.6.2009 | 7:23 am

    Sincere condolences from Washington D.C. Have very much admired the stength and grace shown by you and your family during Susan’s struggle. Wishing you and yours the best.

  1001. Comment by hoon | 08.6.2009 | 7:23 am

    keep up the fight! our thoughts go out to you and your family.

  1002. Comment by Pink | 08.6.2009 | 7:24 am

    Have probably shed more tears for you and Susan and your family in the last year than I’ve done in ten years.

    You all fought the brave fight with valor and strength.

    You will find the right way to grieve and honor her.

    prayers to all of you

  1003. Comment by Andrea | 08.6.2009 | 7:24 am

    God bless you and your family.

  1004. Comment by Jaime O. | 08.6.2009 | 7:24 am

    No words Fatty. Thinking of you and the kids…and Susan’s amazing legacy.

  1005. Comment by Big Mel | 08.6.2009 | 7:24 am

    May the peace that passes all understanding be with you and your children.

    God bless you each moment of each and every day.

  1006. Comment by mgr | 08.6.2009 | 7:25 am

    Peace and condolences, Elden. Sorry for your loss.

  1007. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 7:25 am

    Thank you so much for sharing all of this with your community. Peace, strength and love to you and your family. We can all only hope to be as strong as Susan.

  1008. Comment by kiwi | 08.6.2009 | 7:27 am

    I don’t know what to say,I have never meet you and your family, but my heart hurts for you and kids,

    FIGHT Like SUSAN

    Kiwi

  1009. Comment by dodey | 08.6.2009 | 7:27 am

    went for a ride this morning thinking of you and your family. it was appropriate that it was raining. the heavens are weeping.

  1010. Comment by Lizzy | 08.6.2009 | 7:29 am

    Fight like Susan, indeed.

    Be strong.
    LiveStrong.

  1011. Comment by ridethewomble | 08.6.2009 | 7:29 am

    Sorry, Fatty.

  1012. Comment by Tessa | 08.6.2009 | 7:29 am

    May God bless each of you through this difficult time & always. Susan is an inspiration to us all.

  1013. Comment by The GPC | 08.6.2009 | 7:29 am

    Mine and my family’s thoughts are with you Elden and the kids. We will never say she lost and your journey with your own fight against cancer, the lives you have touched and the people you have inspired is just beginning.

    GPC

  1014. Comment by Lorie | 08.6.2009 | 7:29 am

    Hugs and prayers to you and all your family, Elden.

  1015. Comment by PB and Jazz | 08.6.2009 | 7:29 am

    Condolences to you and your family. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  1016. Comment by Rob P | 08.6.2009 | 7:30 am

    My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Take care of yourselves.

  1017. Comment by GAC | 08.6.2009 | 7:30 am

    I am very sorry for your loss. You and Susan have inspired so many to fight for a good cause, and you’ve accomplished a lot. You both have shown us the true meaning of grace.

  1018. Comment by Sean | 08.6.2009 | 7:30 am

    You have my sincerest condolences.

  1019. Comment by Gillian. England | 08.6.2009 | 7:30 am

    I know how hard this is for your children. I watched my Mother die a long slow and painful death. You begin to pray for an end, but when it comes it’s no easier to bare.
    I can’t imagine how this must be for you. To lose the person you choose to spend the rest of your life with. That must be hard too.
    My prayers are with you all.

  1020. Comment by jt | 08.6.2009 | 7:30 am

    Fatty,
    I’m so sorry. My condolences to you and your family.

    Fight LIKE Susan

    jt

  1021. Comment by Christopher | 08.6.2009 | 7:31 am

    I’m so sorry Elden. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  1022. Comment by damokate | 08.6.2009 | 7:31 am

    Peace.

  1023. Comment by EdL | 08.6.2009 | 7:32 am

    So sorry to hear. My deepest condolences.

  1024. Comment by Erik B. | 08.6.2009 | 7:33 am

    Impressive is her inspiration to so many. Impressive, your strength in such difficult times. You have both made and continue to make a positive impact in this world and have changed lives.

    I’m so sorry that she has too early transcended her physical self, Fatty…. she will always be with you and your family.

    Let’s all keep the fire burning and Fight Like Susan!

  1025. Comment by Martin | 08.6.2009 | 7:33 am

    Condolences to you and your family.

    Take care.

  1026. Comment by Stefanie | 08.6.2009 | 7:34 am

    Blessings and grace.

    Susan inspires us all, and always will.

  1027. Comment by Carl | 08.6.2009 | 7:35 am

    Susan is a winner! Come on people, there is still time to join us in Philly or Austin!

    Love to Fatty, the kids, and all of Susan’s loved ones from Youngstown, Ohio.

  1028. Comment by Ruth Ann | 08.6.2009 | 7:35 am

    God’s peace and comfort be with you and your family. She is holding her head up high up there with God. I know you are so very proud. My thoughts will especially be with you in these next few weeks. I have been there, having lost a husband, and it seems after a few weeks, reality really sets in. Cherish the memories, cherish the memories. God bless you all.

  1029. Comment by GenghisKhan | 08.6.2009 | 7:35 am

    Ditto all the great sentiments and condolences of previous commenters. Nothing new to add, just condolences and thanks for sharing your experience with us.

  1030. Comment by mnbiker | 08.6.2009 | 7:36 am

    My deepest sympathies to you are your family! Your story has touched thuosands and will do great things in the fight against this horrible disease.

  1031. Comment by MattC | 08.6.2009 | 7:37 am

    I’ve got tears in my eyes and can’t type now…but you are in my thoughts. Be strong like Susan.

  1032. Comment by Dave | 08.6.2009 | 7:37 am

    You and your family will be in my thoughts.

  1033. Comment by Rudi | 08.6.2009 | 7:38 am

    I posted on your earlier thread, but I share my condolences for you, your family and Susan. FIGHT ON!

  1034. Comment by Angi | 08.6.2009 | 7:38 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so very sorry for your loss.

  1035. Comment by just a guy | 08.6.2009 | 7:38 am

    I’m really sorry for your loss. I hope others will Fight Like Susan.

  1036. Comment by Jouni Ranta | 08.6.2009 | 7:39 am

    Elden, deepest condolences to you and yours. Know that strong arms are around you.

  1037. Comment by ErinW | 08.6.2009 | 7:39 am

    Dear Elden,
    I too found you through Lance’s twitter and have been truly moved by your family’s struggle and am saddened to hear about Susan’s passing. I took up triathlons this year and my mantra is “it’s gonna hurt, suck it up” because basically swimming is hard, but cancer is harder, riding is hard, but cancer is harder, running is hard, but cancer is harder. I’m sending you all my love from Oakville, Ontario Canada. I’ve got my next tri in two weeks here in Toronto. I’m dedicating it to you and Susan.

  1038. Comment by Kim and Kelley | 08.6.2009 | 7:39 am

    Fatty and family,
    We are so sorry.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1039. Comment by michael corbridge | 08.6.2009 | 7:39 am

    I am so very sorry to learn of your loss. On my morning ride today, I stopped at Woods Hole, looked out over the sparkling sea, and sent a prayer to Susan and your family.

  1040. Comment by brian chasm | 08.6.2009 | 7:39 am

    condolences from kansas city here. ive been following your blog for years now. feel like i know you guys on a personal level, my heart aches for you. i have been incredibly inspired by your strength and positivity, by susan’s strength, and by the strength of your children.

    you are a strong man and you will get through this, and will undoubtfully have many people to help you with this part of the journey of life. take care, elden.

    -brian

  1041. Comment by CeeCee | 08.6.2009 | 7:40 am

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. So many of us are strangers.
    My deepest condolences to your entire family.
    Prayers from Austin.

  1042. Comment by Jeff | 08.6.2009 | 7:41 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. May her memory live on forever.

  1043. Comment by NoTrail | 08.6.2009 | 7:41 am

    Susan was an amazing fighter through all of this … and so were you Elden. Wishing only the best for you and your family in the future. Peace.

  1044. Comment by patty | 08.6.2009 | 7:41 am

    Condolences from New Jersey. Your strength and that of your kids, friends, and family will get you through this. You and Susan have touched more people than you will know. Keep fighting the good fight.

  1045. Comment by Clay | 08.6.2009 | 7:42 am

    This is a day I had hoped would never come … Prayers for you and your wonderful children, Elden.

  1046. Comment by fatkatonabike | 08.6.2009 | 7:42 am

    You are right, Susan did not lose! Even in your time of sadness, you are an inspiration. God bless you and your family Elden.

  1047. Comment by andy | 08.6.2009 | 7:42 am

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  1048. Comment by bfp | 08.6.2009 | 7:42 am

    long long time lurker–just wanted to say–thank you so much for sharing susan’s story with the world. it has changed my life.

    much tenderness and respect,

  1049. Comment by Kevin in Atlanta | 08.6.2009 | 7:43 am

    I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. Through your blog Susan has been an inspiration to me, and although I’ve never met any of you, I feel like I know you and I hurt for you right now.

    Keep up your fight against cancer.

  1050. Comment by Todd | 08.6.2009 | 7:44 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I feel privileged to have been able to donate as part of her fight – she inspired me to contribute.

  1051. Comment by Ben | 08.6.2009 | 7:44 am

    Elden,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you today. This is absolutely heart wrenching to see, but her fight inspired something amazing. I know, I just know that you’ll continue this fight and make her life, and this horrible disease, into something amazing.

    Ben aka Chubby Super Biker

  1052. Comment by Matt Boulanger | 08.6.2009 | 7:45 am

    Sending you my thoughts and prayers, Elden. I’ve directed my tens of readers to your site. I hope in this difficult time you can feel the collective embrace and gratitude from everybody whose life you and Susan have touched.

  1053. Comment by sllym | 08.6.2009 | 7:45 am

    I am so, so sorry.

  1054. Comment by Eric W. | 08.6.2009 | 7:45 am

    I’m a relative newcomer to your blog, but have been deeply touched by everything you’ve gone through and the moving way in which you have been able to share your feelings and experiences with us. My deepest, most sincere condolonces to you, your family, and all of your and Susan’s friends. My thoughts are with you in Washington, DC today…

  1055. Comment by ConnieJeanne | 08.6.2009 | 7:47 am

    Peace be with you and your family.

  1056. Comment by MrsEAM | 08.6.2009 | 7:48 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. Thank you for allowing this community of strangers and friends to be part of the journey, and for providing a way for all of us to fight for and with Susan. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers during the next few difficult days and weeks.

  1057. Comment by Hannah Handpainted | 08.6.2009 | 7:48 am

    You don’t know me–and I don’t know what to say but I am amazed at your entire family. Your strength, your pain, even your dedication to cycling amazes me (I need to get out of an exercise rut), and I just know that amazing people like you will again be happier, have the more peaceful life beyond cancer that you deserve. I just wish your family happiness and peace.

  1058. Comment by Dave L | 08.6.2009 | 7:49 am

    Our thoughts are with you and your family.

  1059. Comment by Rick S. | 08.6.2009 | 7:50 am

    Susan showed me what it is to fight. Inspiring. Our family is thinking of you and hope you find peace.

  1060. Comment by Julia | 08.6.2009 | 7:50 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am terribly sorry that this had to happen to you and your family. I hope you don’t take this the wrong way when I continue to think and feel and say, Win Susan.

  1061. Comment by Dan O | 08.6.2009 | 7:50 am

    Deepest condolences, it’s time for all of us to fight like Susan

  1062. Comment by Andrea | 08.6.2009 | 7:50 am

    Condolences from the Midwest. Will walk for Susan at the Susan G Komen Kansas City Race for the Cure this Sunday.

  1063. Comment by Robert | 08.6.2009 | 7:50 am

    May the Good Lord bless you and your family today. I know that there are no words that can ease this pain, but may we all continue to fight this horrible disease!

  1064. Comment by josh | 08.6.2009 | 7:51 am

    you and susan have touched all of our lives.

    my deepest condolences.

  1065. Comment by Clydesdale | 08.6.2009 | 7:51 am

    RIP Susan

    Know that you have done a wonderfull job in raising your amazing children and inspiring hordes of people!

    You will be missed and you leave your family in good hands.

    LIVESTRONG FATTY!!

  1066. Comment by Linda | 08.6.2009 | 7:52 am

    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Susan is finally free of all pain. God bless you all.

    Hugs and love.

  1067. Comment by Lya | 08.6.2009 | 7:52 am

    Thank you for creating something good with your blog and awareness, out of a horrible and private situation.

  1068. Comment by Lisa | 08.6.2009 | 7:52 am

    Rest now Susan. Love to you and yours.

  1069. Comment by SDM | 08.6.2009 | 7:52 am

    Peace to yu and your family…stay strong and LiveSTRONG

  1070. Comment by CB | 08.6.2009 | 7:53 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family…Hang in there.

  1071. Comment by Yaniel | 08.6.2009 | 7:53 am

    My deepest condolences for your loss. I’ll keep you and yours in my heart. I’m very sorry for your loss.

  1072. Comment by whitney | 08.6.2009 | 7:53 am

    I’m so sorry to hear about Susan’s passing. Know that she lives on in all of us who have been moved, inspired, and spurred to action because of her story. Peace.

  1073. Comment by NW | 08.6.2009 | 7:53 am

    Yes Susan did. I am so sorry for your loss.

  1074. Comment by Curtis Blood | 08.6.2009 | 7:54 am

    I am sorry for your loss. God be with you and your family.

  1075. Comment by Paul | 08.6.2009 | 7:54 am

    Fatty I don’t know what to say. I want to be eloquent and insightful and i just can’t be. I’m so sorry.

  1076. Comment by Paul M | 08.6.2009 | 7:54 am

    I going to do the Livestrong challenge here in Austin for you guys. Trying to decide between the run or the ride (hmm, maybe both?), but either way, I plan to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1077. Comment by etucker | 08.6.2009 | 7:55 am

    Your recent posts brought back my memories of the summer of 1996 when we lost my Mom to Lymphoma. It is really hard when someone you love has to go through that. Know that the hurt will heal some, but not all the way (which is a good thing IMO), and you will be able to enjoy the good memories. I think of my Mom as a guardian angle for our family, and Susan will now fill that role for you and your sons. Keep the faith and know that all of us in the cancer community are with you.

  1078. Comment by Durner | 08.6.2009 | 7:56 am

    Keep up the fight and thanks to you and your family for fighting so hard from the start.

  1079. Comment by Mickie Ortiz | 08.6.2009 | 7:56 am

    I did not know Susan and it has been a long time since I have seen you Elden, but Kellene and Rocky have kept us posted on her battle that by default became your battle too. I am sad for you and your sweet young family. This is a huge trial. I don’t know how to cope with this kind of loss, I just know that God will watch over you and that through His merciful plan you can be together again. Without that knowledge it would be an unbearable loss. May God and His angels bless you in the coming days weeks and months that lie ahead.

  1080. Comment by mtnbkr | 08.6.2009 | 7:57 am

    So very sorry for you and the kids…

    Susan can finally rest. Team Fatty will now carry on the fight.

    Love and Peace from CT. Fighting Like Susan!!

  1081. Comment by Catherine | 08.6.2009 | 7:58 am

    Thank you for sharing so much of Susan’s grace and strength with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

  1082. Comment by Karen Towns | 08.6.2009 | 7:59 am

    My mother died 4 years ago on August 2 of CA breast. Same horrible story except hers came back in her stomach. So yuck.

    My new filthiest curse word is cancer. It’s so vile I won’t even use it on my worst enemies.

    I am thankful for heaven- no more sickness there. Thanks to Jesus.

    You are fighting the good fight. Keep the faith!

    You and your family are in my prayers.

    Karen

  1083. Comment by Tstaniec | 08.6.2009 | 7:59 am

    I am sad for you. I am inspired by you. My heart goes out to you. I am in awe of your strengh. I am so sorry.

  1084. Comment by Paul | 08.6.2009 | 7:59 am

    My sincere condolences to you and your family. Please take care of each other as Susan would have wanted you to.

  1085. Comment by Christy | 08.6.2009 | 8:00 am

    Thoughts and prayers for you and your family from Tennessee.

  1086. Comment by Becky | 08.6.2009 | 8:01 am

    Peace be with you and your family. You are truly inspirational.

  1087. Comment by Matt | 08.6.2009 | 8:02 am

    I’m sorry, Elden.

  1088. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 8:02 am

    Fatty,

    So sorry for your loss.

    Through raising awareness and raising funds for the fight against cancer Susan leaves a legacy to be immensely proud of.

  1089. Comment by Ricardo | 08.6.2009 | 8:02 am

    I’m sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

  1090. Comment by Kathleen | 08.6.2009 | 8:03 am

    Through your blog I’ve been able to witness cancer in a way that I’ve never experienced before. I have been deeply moved by Susan’s struggle, and by your ability to cope and keep your humor through it all. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

  1091. Comment by Heidi | 08.6.2009 | 8:03 am

    like many others — landed here some weeks ago via Levi Leipheimer’s (if I remember correctly) and LA’s twitters.
    like many others — a stranger.
    like many others — praying for your family and that same spirit of endurance your wife clearly had surround you & your boys.
    Once my husband is home tonight we’ll be looking into where we can throw our support. I figure my old stomping ground of Philly will probably do just fine.
    H in Alberta, Canada

  1092. Comment by Julian | 08.6.2009 | 8:03 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1093. Comment by Jenn | 08.6.2009 | 8:03 am

    One day i found my way to your blog via the pioneer woman and I was hooked. I haven’t been on a bike since I was a child, I know nothing about cycling and I don’t know your family, but I was hooked. For a few days I couldn’t figure out why I was always drawn to your blog to read about something I knew nothing about. One day I figured it out. It was/is your devotion and love for your wife and children. Thru your blog I could feel the love you felt, the devotion and the compassion. I wish you and your family peace and love during the months and years ahead and I will continue checking in often and even though I still don’t ride, I can appreciate your passion for the sport and your family.

  1094. Comment by tom | 08.6.2009 | 8:04 am

    So sorry Elden. Thank you for sharing your story and upping the ante in the fight against cancer.

  1095. Comment by Doug | 08.6.2009 | 8:04 am

    Susan inspired many of us. As do you, Elden.

  1096. Comment by Bryan | 08.6.2009 | 8:04 am

    My condolences Fatty. May the lord watch over you and your family during this extremely difficult time. Susan, and you are the biggest fighters and both of you inspire me! God Bless You All!

    Sincerely,

    Bryan and Sara

  1097. Comment by leroy | 08.6.2009 | 8:05 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family.

    When one considers the family you and Susan have raised and the fight against cancer you and Susan have led, how can anyone doubt that Susan won?

    My own small experience suggests that the pain of your loss will ease, but you will still miss her. You will find comfort in the realization that Susan will be with you in your heart.

    My prayer for you is that some day soon you find yourself thinking about the good you and Susan have done, the family you have raised and that you smile.

    Much love and condolences,

    L.

  1098. Comment by Michael | 08.6.2009 | 8:05 am

    so, sorry sorry to hear this news. Please keep riding and writing. You genuinely inspire me to be better.

  1099. Comment by Jenni Laurita | 08.6.2009 | 8:05 am

    Saw this last night and fell asleep with tears in my eyes. So much love coming your way. Good advice up there somewhere- let others do the pulling for a while, you’ve earned it.
    Going home from vacation and donating more to my page in Susan’s memory.
    Love love love,
    jenni

  1100. Comment by Paul | 08.6.2009 | 8:05 am

    Thoughts and tears are with you, Fatty.

  1101. Comment by Jess | 08.6.2009 | 8:05 am

    Even in her passing, she has inspired one more. She will continue to do so.

    My husband has followed your blog for some time. He has spoken of Susan’s fight. He said I should really read the blog sometime.

    I did today, and I cannot say I’m sorry I did.

    Your family is in my thoughts.

  1102. Comment by jennifer | 08.6.2009 | 8:06 am

    We love you and are truly praying for your family.

  1103. Comment by km | 08.6.2009 | 8:06 am

    God bless you and your family we’re all with you.

  1104. Comment by Ka_Jun | 08.6.2009 | 8:06 am

    My sincere and deep condolences to you and your family. I pray for comfort for you and your family. Peace to you and your house.

  1105. Comment by VT Telegirl | 08.6.2009 | 8:06 am

    I am so sorry. Peace be with you and your family.

  1106. Comment by db | 08.6.2009 | 8:06 am

    We will miss you, Susan. Peace and strength to the entire family.

  1107. Comment by Daniel | 08.6.2009 | 8:07 am

    Elden, you and Susan are an inspiration for all of us. I am so sorry for your loss, but I know that the strength of your family and your community will see you through. We’re all standing by you, fighting like Susan.

  1108. Comment by Vanilla | 08.6.2009 | 8:07 am

    My sincere condolences. I have only been reading your blog for a couple of months, but you and Susan have been a huge inspiration.

  1109. Comment by Carole | 08.6.2009 | 8:08 am

    May she rest in peace and may you and your family find comfort and strength. You all are in my prayers.

  1110. Comment by Micah Aaron | 08.6.2009 | 8:09 am

    You and Susan have inspired me ever since I started reading your blog and I know you both will continue to inspire me. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.

  1111. Comment by p.j. | 08.6.2009 | 8:09 am

    Elden,

    My most heartfelt condolences to you, your children, Susan’s family and yours. May you all find peace and comfort in your memories of Susan’s courage and your mutual commitment to making her life count. Susan’s legacy will be a blessing for many, many people.

    Take care, p.j.

  1112. Comment by MJ | 08.6.2009 | 8:09 am

    I cannot imagine the grief that you and your family are coping with right now. I only hope that the thoughts and prayers of all these people brings some comfort, so I add my own thoughts and prayers to theirs.

  1113. Comment by TimothyDay | 08.6.2009 | 8:10 am

    Condolences from Philadelphia

  1114. Comment by Jon | 08.6.2009 | 8:10 am

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with all of us. I do hope that we readers can offer you additional strength. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

  1115. Comment by Portia | 08.6.2009 | 8:10 am

    My sympathy to you and your family. Susan was an excellent example to all women, may she rest in peace.

  1116. Comment by mymosk | 08.6.2009 | 8:11 am

    Your whole family has been in insiration. My prayers are with you all.

  1117. Comment by Steve | 08.6.2009 | 8:11 am

    A hard fought battle and a lasting legacy!

    Team Fatty
    LiveStrong San Jose

  1118. Comment by Kent | 08.6.2009 | 8:11 am

    Wondering if Susan wanted you to go to Leadville and this was her way of giving you the wings to fly. I’d sure hate to be your competition.

  1119. Comment by Bruce | 08.6.2009 | 8:12 am

    My prayers go to you and your family. Please take comfort in knowing that Susan no longer feels the pain of this hideous disease. My hope is that you and the kids cope with the pain of your loss.
    May God bless you all,
    Bruce

  1120. Comment by JC | 08.6.2009 | 8:13 am

    Thank you so much for sharing Susan’s story and inspiring so many people to take up the fight with her. My heart is sad for you, but knows that she is now an angel. Prayers from Team Fatty Michigan Fighting For Susan.

  1121. Comment by Jayme | 08.6.2009 | 8:15 am

    Your’s is the first I check every morning when I take my morning break to find out how Susan is. I am so very sorry. Prayers are with you from Duluth, MN.

  1122. Comment by Gordon | 08.6.2009 | 8:15 am

    You, Susan and the rest of your family have been a shining example of how to deal with adversity. I hope that I would be able to manifest half of the grace you’ve exhibited under half of the stress you’ve undergone.

  1123. Comment by Will | 08.6.2009 | 8:16 am

    You are both an inspiration.

  1124. Comment by Hilslug | 08.6.2009 | 8:16 am

    Tears and prayers for you and your family. I will keep fighting.

  1125. Comment by Rebecca | 08.6.2009 | 8:17 am

    Our family joins our prayers with all the others going up to send you comfort and peace.

  1126. Comment by Melissa | 08.6.2009 | 8:17 am

    So sorry for you and your families loss. Thank you for sharing.

    Mnay hugs and prayers from Kansas.

  1127. Comment by Terri | 08.6.2009 | 8:18 am

    Elden,
    Susan fought and led a powerful charge and even though I don’t know you all personally, the Nelsons changed my life. You too have set a beautiful example of courage and determination and love. I thank you for sharing your very private experience with the world and pray for you and your family that you find stength and peace in your heart and continue the fight against this horrible disease. You, Susan and your kids have inspired me so much.

  1128. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 8:18 am

    With spirit like yours and everyone who has shared their condolences, Susan will live on for a very long time. I can only imagine the pain and loss you are going through and even though Susan can’t be with you and your family she has moved on to a much better place where pain and suffering have no business hanging around. Stay strong and lean on family and the many friends you have here at Team Fatty.

    May God bless Susan’s soul so that she rests in everlasting peace.

    -Mike

  1129. Comment by NightAngel | 08.6.2009 | 8:18 am

    I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    Keep up the good work- and the good fight.

  1130. Comment by Linda | 08.6.2009 | 8:19 am

    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

  1131. Comment by Rachel from Missouri | 08.6.2009 | 8:19 am

    The past few weeks I’ve thought it would be a relief when the end finally came. But I burst into tears when I read the news.
    “I didn’t even know her,” I sobbed to my husband. “Yes, you did,” he said, “though his blog.”

    You have shown me that suffering together is preferable to living without the one you love.

  1132. Comment by Tom Gruver | 08.6.2009 | 8:19 am

    Such a loss. Our thoughts are with you back in Redmond!

  1133. Comment by Russ | 08.6.2009 | 8:19 am

    God bless you buddy, and your family too. Susan’s fight is inspiring, but your battle to choose positive ways of fighting has been as much or more of a personal inspiration for me.

  1134. Comment by Toni | 08.6.2009 | 8:19 am

    I am so deeply sorry for your loss, but forever inspired by Susan–and you. I wish you and your family peace.

  1135. Comment by jay | 08.6.2009 | 8:19 am

    We are thinking of you Elden and family.

  1136. Comment by Mike and Sherry | 08.6.2009 | 8:20 am

    Our heartfelt condolences to you and your children. As many others have said Susan and you have become an inspiration… Roll on!

  1137. Comment by Mario | 08.6.2009 | 8:20 am

    Unless one has experienced it, no words can describe what you are feeling. Be strong. You and your family are in my thoughts.

  1138. Comment by Ian | 08.6.2009 | 8:20 am

    Peace to you and your family.

  1139. Comment by Laura | 08.6.2009 | 8:20 am

    I wandered onto your website a while back and have continued to return. I find it strange how I feel about people I’ve never met. All I can say is your family is beautiful. My heart is with you all.

  1140. Comment by Frank F | 08.6.2009 | 8:20 am

    I wish I could be as strong as Susan and you. I wish I could carry some of your grief, if only to lighten your load.

  1141. Comment by Shram | 08.6.2009 | 8:21 am

    My condolences, this is one of the most real blogs out there, I hope you keep it up.
    WIN FOR SUSAN

  1142. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 8:21 am

    Elden, I’m so sorry. My condolences at this difficult time.

  1143. Comment by Lynne | 08.6.2009 | 8:21 am

    tears flow; words fail. But the he incredible gift you and Susan have given us all shines in this dark time.

    Thank you both for sharing your story, for leading the fight. The courage, grace, and inspiration you both provide will long stand as a testament to the power of love and the strength of the human spirit.

    Peace and strength to you and your family now as you work through this horrible, painful time. You are all in my prayers.

  1144. Comment by Becky | 08.6.2009 | 8:24 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1145. Comment by Bob E | 08.6.2009 | 8:24 am

    Elden, Our family thanks you, your family and especially Susan’s courage and endurance in leading the battle against cancer. Susan inspired so many. Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers for months. May you and the kids find the comfort and support you need.

  1146. Comment by Allyson | 08.6.2009 | 8:24 am

    Peace for you and your family, Elden.

  1147. Comment by Sam | 08.6.2009 | 8:24 am

    I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.

  1148. Comment by Lowrydr | 08.6.2009 | 8:25 am

    She has been released from her pain and confusion.
    She has not lost rather she has won.
    She will lead the fight at a higher level.
    She has not left you as she is there in the faces and hearts of your children.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!!

    Us other mear mortals hold you in our thoughts and grieve for your familys loss of a guiding light.
    You are strong and will hold the family up in this terrible time that you now journey through.

    We are here for you to lean on when ever you wish.

    Peace, Thoughts and Prayers to you and yours Eldon.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!!

  1149. Comment by Purduerose | 08.6.2009 | 8:25 am

    Susan can not loose the battle she has You, your family and all of your blogging friends to fight. As long as we keep fighting eventually she will win!

    I’m sorry for your loss. All I can do is keep you and your family in my thoughts. (and keep fighting).

  1150. Comment by Tamra | 08.6.2009 | 8:25 am

    I was introduced to your family by Ree when she did the fundraiser/giveaway. I have been following your blog since. I have wanted to comment many times to encourage you and Susan and your family as you all battled cancer. I had nothing different to say then the many people that love you and expressed concern and sympathy so I didn’t. But today, I want to tell you that my heart is heavy. My deepest sympathies to you and your children and your family. I pray that you will find peace in knowing that Susan is well and painfree and dancing in heaven. You have been a loving caregiver and an inspiration.

  1151. Comment by Jennebelle | 08.6.2009 | 8:25 am

    I am so sorry to hear about Susan. At least where she is she will hurt no more.

    Love to all of you!

    (Saskatchewan, Canada)

  1152. Comment by Dominique | 08.6.2009 | 8:26 am

    Susan was and continues to be an inspiration as do you.
    Fight like SUSAN! Take care of yourself and your family and may you feel the best wishes of all your blog readers and the cycling community!

  1153. Comment by CellPhoneGuy | 08.6.2009 | 8:26 am

    Twin Six’s home page says it all.

  1154. Comment by Erin | 08.6.2009 | 8:27 am

    Much, much love to you and the kids, from yet another Internet stranger.

  1155. Comment by jwbikes | 08.6.2009 | 8:27 am

    Elden,
    I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family. I wish you peace and strength.

    Jeff

  1156. Comment by gregc | 08.6.2009 | 8:27 am

    You and Susan have inspired legions of us to fight the battle as evidenced by the swelling Livestrong team and > $500,000 so far. The well wisher comments like this (1121 comments already at 7:21 AM on Thursday) are a testimony of her spirit. Susan is at rest now, its up to all of us to honor her memory and persevere in the fight against cancer. Be strong, we are with you.

  1157. Comment by Ed | 08.6.2009 | 8:27 am

    Don’t know you or Susan, but your story and her fight inspire me. Words cannot convey the sadness you must feel, as I feel as though we have all lost a friend. You will be in my thoughts, Ed

  1158. Comment by Andy R. | 08.6.2009 | 8:28 am

    I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength, and I stand and watch until at last she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come down to mingle with each other. Then someone at my side says, ‘There she goes!’

    Gone where? Gone from my sight … that is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and just as able to bear her load of living freight to the place of destination. Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says, ‘There she goes!’ there are other eyes watching her coming and their voices ready to take up the glad shouts ‘Here she comes!’
    ~ by Henry Van Dyke ~

  1159. Comment by Daddystyle | 08.6.2009 | 8:28 am

    RIP Susan, she lives on in u and your family.

    Love the Stanhopes

  1160. Comment by Chris from Denver | 08.6.2009 | 8:29 am

    I’m sorry to hear the news, fatty. I’ve been enjoying your blog for about a year now and wanted to post my first comment to say thank you for sharing your life with us. So, thank you.

  1161. Comment by Mandy | 08.6.2009 | 8:29 am

    I would say I am so sorry for your loss but Susan was not a loss at all. She was in inspiration and a fighter!!! Determined!!!! I am sorry that you all are left behind but what a lesson she not only taught you all but all of us bloggers and blog readers!!!. Plus…she will continue to touch lives for many years to come! I am sorry for you all and you all will be in my thoughts and prayers!!!

  1162. Comment by Ian | 08.6.2009 | 8:29 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family. Both you and Susan are a tremendous inspiration.

  1163. Comment by Kevin | 08.6.2009 | 8:30 am

    I admire the dignity with which your family has shown in this sad situation. My deepest sympathy.

  1164. Comment by frilly | 08.6.2009 | 8:31 am

    Elden, Peace & love to your family during this difficult time.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  1165. Comment by Johnny | 08.6.2009 | 8:31 am

    While it was a gut-shot reading the news this morning, there was a certain peace through the tears knowing Susan is in a better place. My condolences to you and your family.

  1166. Comment by imonmybike | 08.6.2009 | 8:31 am

    Many are thinking of you and your family. I add my prayers to numerous others for you and your family. Susan inspired us all.

  1167. Comment by Rick B | 08.6.2009 | 8:31 am

    Wow…so very sorry for you all. Just got the news via Lance Armstrong tweet…which is also how I learned of your blog within the past couple of weeks and now check it daily…numerous times. My deepest condolences…

  1168. Comment by Norma | 08.6.2009 | 8:32 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1169. Comment by sue | 08.6.2009 | 8:32 am

    Fatty my heart goes out to you and your family. What an incredible woman your Susan was and what a legacy of strength she has left for your children. I hope you can find some solace in this hardest of times. Let people take care of you too.

  1170. Comment by DarbE | 08.6.2009 | 8:33 am

    You may never read this due to the sheer volume of comments, but that volume ought to tell you just how much you and your family have touched the lives of those around you. I have never met you or Susan, yet my heart breaks for you and your family. Thank you for rallying a great group of people around a fight that must be won. My prayers are with you and I donate and fight in Susan’s honor. God be with you at this difficult time!

  1171. Comment by Emily | 08.6.2009 | 8:33 am

    my condolences to you and your family.

  1172. Comment by Fattier | 08.6.2009 | 8:34 am

    Fatty, the amount of money you have raised pales in comparison to the number of people you and Susan have inspired during this fight. No words can express my condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    Wearing the Team Fatty kit this Saturday will mean more than it ever has before.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1173. Comment by Scott Rosenbaum | 08.6.2009 | 8:35 am

    I am so sorry for your families loss.

  1174. Comment by giulia | 08.6.2009 | 8:35 am

    I just wanted to give my condolences to you and your family

    thank you for all you have done

  1175. Comment by Jeff | 08.6.2009 | 8:36 am

    Our thoughts are with you Elden and family. Our prayers will be for you. Susan has thouched so many lives through your amazing words- my life is better for having been able to view yours. Keep up your amazing work Fatty- you are an amazing person, husband and father- and will continue to be be all of those things and more!

  1176. Comment by RaginCajun | 08.6.2009 | 8:37 am

    Peace and strength to you and your family.
    J

  1177. Comment by Melissa | 08.6.2009 | 8:37 am

    I am just so very sorry…

  1178. Comment by Vance Longwell | 08.6.2009 | 8:37 am

    I ride to survive. Today, I ride for Susan. Please accept my most sincere condolences.

  1179. Comment by Rico | 08.6.2009 | 8:38 am

    Elden – My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1180. Comment by neil edward | 08.6.2009 | 8:38 am

    I am so saddened, but thankful for all Susan and you have done to inspire, starting with your immediate family and reaching out to a community of riders and good people across the country and globe. Let Susan power your legs and continue your (and our) fight.

    I feel the presence of my dad, whom I lost 3 yrs ago to pancreatic cancer, on hard climbs.

    One love.

  1181. Comment by VA Biker | 08.6.2009 | 8:38 am

    I commented last night, so I apologize for doing so again. When I think of Elden & Susan, this is the image that comes to my mind…

    http://tinyurl.com/ksnebd

    What an embodiment of love in one photo!

    Elden, thank you for sharing your life with us anonymous folks. We have been really fortunate that you have provided us with wit, compassion, and hope. We (I) can try to repay by helping to fight the scourge of cancer.

    Susan will not be forgotten. Fight Like Susan.

  1182. Comment by Hat | 08.6.2009 | 8:38 am

    Terribly sorry, Elden. Love to you and your family.

  1183. Comment by Ellen | 08.6.2009 | 8:38 am

    I am so sorry for you loss. Thank you to both you and Susan for having the courage to share your story and inspire so many people to join in the fight against cancer. It sucks. Thoughts and prayers.

  1184. Comment by Dingbat | 08.6.2009 | 8:38 am

    Our love and prayers are with you today more than ever.

    I’ll say a prayer for Susan and you, and go home tonight and hug my wife and daughter like never before.

  1185. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 8:39 am

    Thank you so much for all you have done. I’m sitting at my computer crying over someone I have never met, yet I feel like I know. Susan’s fight became personal to a lot of us.

    Fight Like Susan.

  1186. Comment by Cliff | 08.6.2009 | 8:39 am

    Elden,

    My heartfelt prayers, condolences and love are going out to you and your family. She fought the strong fight with you and her family alongside her. What you all went through is a testament of courage, perseverance, and generosity. Thank you for sharing your stories, your thoughts and your feelings with all of us. You’ve been an inspiration to all of us.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1187. Comment by FJ | 08.6.2009 | 8:39 am

    Nothing can really be posted to help, but all over the world, total strangers are thinking about you and wishing you well, me included.

    Francis

  1188. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 8:39 am

    You and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and keep fighting like Susan.

  1189. Comment by MattC | 08.6.2009 | 8:39 am

    I know there’s far too many comments here for everybody to read, but those who see this, check out the TwinSix site…they have SO MUCH Class!

    http://www.twinsix.com/

  1190. Comment by Micheal Green | 08.6.2009 | 8:40 am

    What an inspiration she is. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  1191. Comment by Greg in Cincy | 08.6.2009 | 8:41 am

    Our deepest sympathies on your loss – tonight we ride for Susan! What a legacy, what a life! So many people will be helped though your pain. God Bless You and your family!

  1192. Comment by Mark | 08.6.2009 | 8:41 am

    My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Elden. Take comfort in the fact that her spirit lives on in the inspiration she created and spread with her battle. I also must applaud your courage for sharing every step of this fight with us, your mostly anonymous, but no-less-caring fans and friends.

  1193. Comment by Ginger | 08.6.2009 | 8:41 am

    I’m sorry, Elden.

    You’ve both fought the good fight.

    All my sympathy.

  1194. Comment by Nathan Leigh | 08.6.2009 | 8:42 am

    I’m sorry for you and your family’s loss.

  1195. Comment by JAT in Seattle | 08.6.2009 | 8:42 am

    I’m so sorry.

  1196. Comment by flombe | 08.6.2009 | 8:42 am

    Sad news to learn. RIP Susan.

    Fatty, our hearts go out to you, your family and friends. Continue to inspire, but more importantly take care of yourself and those fantastic kids. And, go for a long ride!

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN and WIN

  1197. Comment by RockyCat | 08.6.2009 | 8:42 am

    Please accept my sincere condolences.

  1198. Comment by Dale | 08.6.2009 | 8:42 am

    I’m so very sorry to hear about your loss. Please keep up the good work you are doing in the fight against cancer. God bless you and your kids.

  1199. Comment by RLove | 08.6.2009 | 8:42 am

    Sympathies from Gordon,WI. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you for a couple years and will continue to be.

    Roger and Janice

  1200. Comment by PeterAK | 08.6.2009 | 8:43 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family Fatty. Susan lived and died for a purpose and you have done amazing things so far to make the most of that. Wishing you strength and peace as you grieve the loss of Susan.

  1201. Comment by UpNorth | 08.6.2009 | 8:43 am

    Good thoughts sent your way.

  1202. Comment by Tom | 08.6.2009 | 8:43 am

    Eldon,

    You and your family have my deepest sympathies. You are right, Susan did lead the charge, Susan and yourself have made a difference, she has set an example to us all.

  1203. Comment by Zee | 08.6.2009 | 8:43 am

    Fatty, you and Susan have touched my life. Once again, I sit here speechless because there’s nothing I can say. I just want you to know how deeply I am feeling for your family. When I lost my best friend last year, I always had to remind myself, “to be able to grieve means we once have loved” and you and Susan are loved every step of the way. Susan has fueled an incredible movement of fighters, and I hope this brings you some comfort in these times that will be so difficult. My heart is with you.

  1204. Comment by Marla | 08.6.2009 | 8:43 am

    Sorry, my thoughts and prayers arre with you and your family.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1205. Comment by Jen | 08.6.2009 | 8:44 am

    So sorry to hear. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  1206. Comment by Tiffany | 08.6.2009 | 8:44 am

    I am so sorry. My deepest and most heartfelt condolences go to you and your family. I didnt know you or Susan personally and yet, that knowledge still hasnt stopped my tears from falling. Stay strong.

    I know I wont forget Susan.

  1207. Comment by Ken | 08.6.2009 | 8:44 am

    My friends had just turned me to your blog. I am so impressed with your story, your family and Susan’s strength. You have inspired so many people. I am deeply sorry to hear of her passing.

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  1208. Comment by Juliana Aldous Atkinson | 08.6.2009 | 8:45 am

    We are all so saddened by the news back here at Microsoft Learning. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Elden.

  1209. Comment by Jana Jensen | 08.6.2009 | 8:47 am

    Safe passage Susan…
    I am so very sorry for your loss.

  1210. Comment by Mark | 08.6.2009 | 8:47 am

    I am very sorry to hear the news. My deepest condolences.

  1211. Comment by rich | 08.6.2009 | 8:48 am

    Elden, your family is in our prayers….

    -Rich

  1212. Comment by patricia | 08.6.2009 | 8:49 am

    Sending your family prayers, courage and strength as you grieve. Thanks for sharing your story. Susan inspired us all.

  1213. Comment by Tasha | 08.6.2009 | 8:49 am

    In tears right now. I don’t know what to say, other than the fact that I’m so, so sorry for your loss. And yes, Susan did not “lose” anything, neither the battle nor the fight – she was a winner to the end and beyond. Cancer may take what it can, but it never “wins” – certainly not in Susan’s case. I’d say – she kicked cancer’s ass.

  1214. Comment by SurlyCommuter | 08.6.2009 | 8:50 am

    We will continue to pray for you and your family.

    Travis

  1215. Comment by Kris | 08.6.2009 | 8:50 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1216. Comment by Dean | 08.6.2009 | 8:50 am

    Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

    Please let this be an inspiration to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  1217. Comment by brad w. | 08.6.2009 | 8:53 am

    i am so sorry for your loss.

  1218. Comment by Kylie | 08.6.2009 | 8:53 am

    My thoughts are with you and yours at this time Fatty.

    WIN

  1219. Comment by Jon | 08.6.2009 | 8:53 am

    WIN

  1220. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 8:53 am

    Your family is in my thoughts. I’m so sorry. Livestrong and Fight Like Susan. Perhaps together, we can make a difference.

  1221. Comment by Adventuresofsockmonkey | 08.6.2009 | 8:53 am

    Elden, I am so sorry for you loss. I know what this struggle must have been like for you and I am deeply saddened for you and your family. Be strong, it will be ok. You and your family are in my thoughts.

    Ari

  1222. Comment by Flying Ute | 08.6.2009 | 8:54 am

    Thank Goodness for the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

    My prayers are with you bro.

  1223. Comment by sharon | 08.6.2009 | 8:54 am

    I am so very sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you and your children and you all deserve peace and happiness.

  1224. Comment by HwyJay | 08.6.2009 | 8:54 am

    My sincere Condolences to your entire extended family.

  1225. Comment by jdevarennes | 08.6.2009 | 8:54 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. You and Susan have inspired a army of followers and we will continue the fight against cancer in loving memory of SUSAN and team fatty.

  1226. Comment by Keith | 08.6.2009 | 8:54 am

    I wish I could say something to help. When my sister died of brain cancer almsot 2 years ago in Park City I was numb for long time. People would offer comfort and condolences and I told them it was ok, but it’s never really ok, is it? I hope you are comforted in the fact that it’s only temporary and this situation has created so much good it’s beyond amazing.

  1227. Comment by BurkeInTheOzarks | 08.6.2009 | 9:00 am

    She, indeed, WON. And now she is finally free of the pain and physical limitations that cancer put on her.

    My sincere condolences, Elden.

  1228. Comment by david | 08.6.2009 | 9:01 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Thanks for sharing your journey.

  1229. Comment by Ahab | 08.6.2009 | 9:01 am

    No defeat, indeed. All the good that is, comes from the inspiration of the good that preceded it. We are each the composition of that which we have been gifted through the lessons of others.
    Until we meet again in Leadville . . .

  1230. Comment by srobb54 | 08.6.2009 | 9:02 am

    Your family has been on my mind so much this past week. Thank you for bringing your family’s battle against cancer to your blog. May we all battle our enemies as couragously as Susan. Elden, you inspired us all with your story. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    Steve

  1231. Comment by Cindy | 08.6.2009 | 9:03 am

    My heart breaks for you Elden and your family. Your love will live on! Peace my friend……

  1232. Comment by Evan | 08.6.2009 | 9:03 am

    Make sure to check out Twin 6’s site for their tribute.

  1233. Comment by Fred | 08.6.2009 | 9:04 am

    Eldon,

    “Pain is temporary. It may last a moment, or a hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take it’s place. If I quit however, it last forever. That surrender, even the smallest act of giving up stays with me. So when I feel like quitting, I ask myself which would I rather live with. Facing up to that question, and finding a way to go on, is the real reward. Better than any yellow jersey.”

    Lance Armstrong

    Susan’s pain is over. And eventually, you and your family’s pain of losing her will subside and be replaced by the memories of your life together. Focus on that.

    I think I’ll go home and tell my wife I love her. That’s what Susan has done for me.

    Fred

  1234. Comment by run-girl-run | 08.6.2009 | 9:04 am

    Elden –

    I read your tweet last night shortly after you posted the news. My heart sank for you but I also felt relief for the end of Susan’s suffering. I saw Lance’s tweet – and like someone earlier said, I think it was appropriate to say “Go Susan” even though he didn’t realize she had indeed gone to a pain-free place. This morning I read your post and began to read the hundreds (now more than a thousand) notes from your friends (we are your friends, though most of us only virtually).

    One day you’ll have the desire and be able to take the time to read through each of them.

    Just a moment ago I clicked to the Twin Six site via their monthly email and finally started sobbing for you and your family. They do indeed have class and with a simple pink WIN and tear, summed it all up.

    Elden, know you are loved and being thought about by so many.

    Fight Like Susan

  1235. Comment by Derek | 08.6.2009 | 9:04 am

    I can add nothing but a “deepest condolences to you and yours” to the chorus. Wish I could do more.

  1236. Comment by Deaner | 08.6.2009 | 9:05 am

    So sorry for your loss Elden. My thoughts are with you and your family. I’ll take inspiration from Susan’s fight against cancer and live each day to it’s fullest. Hopefully a good bike ride can help ease your pain.

  1237. Comment by Tammy | 08.6.2009 | 9:05 am

    Condolences from Nebraska. Wishing you peace today and the strength to continue to fight cancer For Susan in the future.

  1238. Comment by beadgirl | 08.6.2009 | 9:06 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

  1239. Comment by Donut | 08.6.2009 | 9:06 am

    I woke up yesterday compelled to wear my FC gear and I spent the day with a heavy heart and I still didn’t see it coming until I saw the title of your post this morning. My deepest condolances to you and your kids. I just want you to know I have been inspired like never before in my life to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

    Thank you Susan!!!
    Thank you Fatty!

  1240. Comment by otis' dad | 08.6.2009 | 9:07 am

    fatty, my best wishes to you and your family. you bring so much joy to the world — i wish that you wouldn’t have to suffer so much pain. keep on keeping on. you are an inspiration to so many including myself.

  1241. Comment by Jeffy | 08.6.2009 | 9:07 am

    Elden – I’m glad you two were blessed to find each other and have such a wonderful and inspiring time together. I wish you and your family peace. Jeff

  1242. Comment by CORoadRage | 08.6.2009 | 9:08 am

    You have laughed and we have laughed with you.
    And while we will continue to fight like Susan,

    right now we weep.

    When I am gone, release me, let me go
    I have so many things to see and do.
    You musn’t tie yourself to me with tears,
    Be thankful for our beautiful years.

    I gave to you my love. You can only guess
    How much you gave to me in happiness.
    I thank you for the love you each have shown,
    But now its time I traveled on alone.

    So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must,
    Then let our grief be comforted by trust.
    It’s only for a time that we must part.
    So bless the memories within your heart.

    I won’t be far away, for a life goes on
    So if you need me, call and I will come.
    Though you can’t see or touch me, I’ll be near
    And if you listen with your heart, you’ll hear
    All my love around you soft and clear.

  1243. Comment by asmathews | 08.6.2009 | 9:08 am

    My deepest sympathies for your loss. You have inspired me to do the best that I can to help fight cancer. Without the encouragement I got from seeing you and Susan fight, I would have never considered to the Philly Livestrong Challenge. I will continue battling this awful disease as a member of Team Fatty.

    Fight Like Susan

  1244. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 9:08 am

    Your family is in our thoughts. May you have the strength to deal with what you have to do.

    Fight like Susan!

  1245. Comment by terry | 08.6.2009 | 9:08 am

    So sorry for your lost. What an inspiration you, susan and your blog have been to us all.

  1246. Comment by jamie | 08.6.2009 | 9:08 am

    god bless fatty.

  1247. Comment by GJ | 08.6.2009 | 9:09 am

    Elden,
    My deepest condolences to you and your family. Your family’s story and the strength you’ve shown and obvious love you share has been a source of inspiration to so many. Thank you for sharing Susan’s fight and bringing the attention to the pain that many families face.

    Thank you.

  1248. Comment by Siobhan | 08.6.2009 | 9:09 am

    I guess we all knew it was coming, but in a way didn’t think it really would. She seemed kind of invincible and it seemed so wrong that someone so loved could actually die. God bless, and take care of yourself and your family.

  1249. Comment by M2 | 08.6.2009 | 9:09 am

    Susan is and always will be a winner. Our thoughts are with your family.

    Mike

  1250. Comment by doward | 08.6.2009 | 9:09 am

    Elden, I will always remember Susan. I share her/your story with everyone I know who has cancer, loves someone with cancer, or fights cancer. Susan has made me a warrior.

    Today my thoughts and prayers are for your family. I wish you and your family the best, and for Susan, God Speed.

  1251. Comment by Joe H. | 08.6.2009 | 9:11 am

    Elden — I am so sorry to hear this news. You and Susan are in the thoughts and prayers of all of us “out here,” and you are right in recognizing the good that came of her experience. Deepest condolences.

  1252. Comment by Mark R | 08.6.2009 | 9:11 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. Susan’s fight and your incredibly strength is an inspiration to us all. I feel great sadness for you and the children, and great relief that Susan no longer feels the pain of the awful villain known as cancer. Much love and prayers from Cambridge MA.

    Fight Like Susan!!

  1253. Comment by Mike J in Fremont | 08.6.2009 | 9:11 am

    My condolences to you and your family. I wish the best for you and your family. Please find some solace in what you and Susan have started. I am committed to help fight cancer because of you and have been working to light that spark in others. A beautiful and lasting legacy.
    mj in fremont

  1254. Comment by MTB W | 08.6.2009 | 9:12 am

    You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts.

    She fought like a lion and inspired you and many countless of your readers in so many ways.

    I wish you and family all love and strength.

  1255. Comment by K (late to the party) | 08.6.2009 | 9:12 am

    So very sorry to hear this. I’d say Susan won in many ways, not least because she had you fighting with her.

    Peace to you and your family.

  1256. Comment by Rose | 08.6.2009 | 9:12 am

    Many condolences from Manchester, NH.

  1257. Comment by Kathy McElhaney | 08.6.2009 | 9:12 am

    While out on my run this morning I prayed for you, before I knew the news. I am so sorry. There are not enough words to describe the pain of losing one you love so dearly. Your entire family has been an inspiration.

    We need to take every tear that has been shed over cancer and turn it into a new determination to fight this horrible disease.

    Will be praying for you in the days, weeks, and months ahead.

  1258. Comment by Jen | 08.6.2009 | 9:13 am

    No one who ever knew Susan (even if it was only though this blog) could ever say that she lost. Thank you for sharing her. Thank you for letting the world get to know her. The world is a little less bright today without her in it but in the end we are all better for having known her.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1259. Comment by Suzanne Wiegand | 08.6.2009 | 9:15 am

    Elden -

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family . . . I think we’ve all learned a lot from the way Susan lived her life and I want to thank her for sharing her strength with us. And I thank you for sharing this personal, painful yet uplifting story of hope with all of us.

  1260. Comment by Tammy Merryweather | 08.6.2009 | 9:16 am

    I found your blog through PW’s first post. It wasn’t until I saw your family photo that I realized that Susan and I were friends 20 years ago when we were in the same class at cosmetology school. It was just Susan, 2 other girls and I. It was a very small class and we became closer than most groups. We watched you two fall in love and get married. She always was kind and sweet. Now I know she was also very strong.

    Your family is beautiful and obviously amazing. I hope for peace for you as you adjust to your new situation. God bless your family. It’s forever, as is Susan’s influence on so many people who watched her fight through your blog.

  1261. Comment by brad | 08.6.2009 | 9:17 am

    My deepest condolences.

  1262. Comment by Laurie | 08.6.2009 | 9:17 am

    Elden, I have just finished most of my treatment for BC. During my high-dense chemo treatments…I would literally crawl to my computer to keep up with your blog. Susan’s strength inspired/touched me more than I could ever describe. Your love for her has inspired/touched my husband like nothing else and given him strength and the ability to be grateful through it all. Your choice to share this journey has forever changed our lives. There are no words to express our gratitude.

    Our wish is that you find some comfort in knowing that you and the kids are in our constant thoughts and prayers.

    We are totally committed to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN so that we can wipe out this incideous disease.

  1263. Comment by dan | 08.6.2009 | 9:18 am

    life is fragile, but love endures

    peace to your family

  1264. Comment by Ursula | 08.6.2009 | 9:18 am

    I am so, so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in our prayers.

  1265. Comment by Chris Ireland | 08.6.2009 | 9:18 am

    I am so sorry for your loss:( You’ve been a wonderful husband and father, you have also been an inspiration to many others. I know you’ll have the strength to carry on the fight against this insidious disease.

    Thank you for sharing it all with us…

  1266. Comment by Mehera | 08.6.2009 | 9:19 am

    I will treasure the bracelet she made for me. And I will remember the lessons she (and you, Elden) have taught us. I am so sorry.

    I’m remembering the sweet picture you posted of the two of you, one year on your anniversary. It shows a beaming, beautiful young Susan, and a totally smitten Elden nuzzling her cheek. I have kept that picture in mind all these months as I have prayed for you. Love like that is eternal.

  1267. Comment by Byron | 08.6.2009 | 9:19 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. You have been an inspiration in your ability to stay upbeat and positive in such a trying time, and turn something negative and horrible into a positive crusade against cancer.

  1268. Comment by flynn | 08.6.2009 | 9:19 am

    Sorry for your loss, thanks to you and your wife for everything

  1269. Comment by dcmurphy1515 | 08.6.2009 | 9:19 am

    I read over the messages of love and support that you have received. Wow! Look at what you and Susan have accomplished! Awareness, a Community, support for Cancer survivors everywhere, an inspiration for so many. She fought an won a different battle, and you were the wind beneath her wings. I’m a survivor that thanks you so much for your caregiving, the love you expressed in your blog, your funnies(I’m sure made her smile – it certainly made me smile) and your tireless dedication to her and the family. You did all you could do for Susan and I thank you! I know She knows you did the best for her Always! Take Care buddy and continue her legacy!

  1270. Comment by Tony | 08.6.2009 | 9:20 am

    So sorry for your loss. Our heart goes out to you and your family…

  1271. Comment by Mary Ann | 08.6.2009 | 9:20 am

    Susan is a total inspiration. And I will “Fight Like Susan”. My prayers to you and the your family.

  1272. Comment by chrisb46 | 08.6.2009 | 9:21 am

    Really sorry to hear about your loss Elden, but both you and Susan have inspired me to join the fight. Thanks for waking me up to this.

  1273. Comment by james | 08.6.2009 | 9:22 am

    i am very sorry for your loss… my heart aches for you… keep up the fight! liveSTRONG!

  1274. Comment by Justin | 08.6.2009 | 9:22 am

    My heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family.

    Susan’s light is brighter now than ever, it is eternal. The courage and inspiration that you, as a family, have shown through this ordeal has touched many.

    May we all remember to Fight Like Susan to help find a cure to this terrible disease.

  1275. Comment by Irene | 08.6.2009 | 9:23 am

    Dear Eldon,

    I’ve only recently followed your blog from Lance’s twitters. I’m very sorry for Susan’s passing. Susan has inspired me to get off my ass and live each day to it’s fullest. Susan has indeed won her fight and left a legacy against cancer. I am at awe by the devotion, compassion and energy you have given to this fight. You my friend, will continue to Win like Susan. Her plight has turned you into a new person, one that you probably never thought you could be. Susan is and always will be invincible. And you will always be her Superman. Thank you for sharing this journey so that so many of us can fight with you. My prayers and love to you and the family.

  1276. Comment by Adam | 08.6.2009 | 9:23 am

    I am so sorry to read about the loss of your lovely wife. I can’t even begin to imagine how strong you’ve been for so long to help her, support her and be there for her every step of the way.

    Her strength in fighting cancer has brought on a lot of new people to the cause (me included) and for that Susan will forever be remembered.

  1277. Comment by Nathan | 08.6.2009 | 9:24 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your wife is an inspiration to many.

    Nathan

  1278. Comment by M. L. | 08.6.2009 | 9:24 am

    So sorry for your loss. My best wishes to you, your children, and the rest of your family.

  1279. Comment by Erik | 08.6.2009 | 9:25 am

    Susan definitely lead the charge and won in the most important way possible. She made the world a better place by being in it and with you created a wonderful family and inspired legions of people. Tragically, she didn’t have as much time as she should have on the earth, but she certainly won. And through her, we have all won as well.

    I’m so sorry for your loss and wish you and your kids all the best.

  1280. Comment by matt | 08.6.2009 | 9:25 am

    thank you to you, your family and susan for the great example of dedication, drive, and love. you have inspired many people. she definitely did not lose.

  1281. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 9:25 am

    I’m praying for you, your kids and all of your family who have supported you and loved Susan. Thank you for sharing her inspiring life and death with us. She and you have given us a gift by personalizing the fight against cancer and spurring us out of complacency to action.

  1282. Comment by Steve | 08.6.2009 | 9:25 am

    I’ve been visiting your blog everyday since discovering it through Lance’s Twitter post.

    I know Susan will continue to inspire us all. Both through her strong fight and your strength in sharing your story.

    Your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.

  1283. Comment by LJ | 08.6.2009 | 9:26 am

    thoughts and prayers are with you and your inspiring family

  1284. Comment by Kevin Vigor | 08.6.2009 | 9:27 am

    Wishing you and yours peace and rest. You did everything you could, and more.

  1285. Comment by Rob | 08.6.2009 | 9:27 am

    What an inspiring story of strength in living and strength in caring. Much peace to you and your wonderful family, Fatty.

  1286. Comment by Mike Marx | 08.6.2009 | 9:31 am

    You shared your family’s life with us. Thank you for that Elden. Susan did WIN.

  1287. Comment by Caren Gioannini | 08.6.2009 | 9:31 am

    The love and memories you shared with Susan will live forever. Susan may not be with us physically to continue in this battle against cancer but the war WILL rage on!!

    My deepest sympathies. I hope that the love and outreach from the community you (and Susan) created provide some comfort to you, the kids and your families during this difficult time.

  1288. Comment by patrick | 08.6.2009 | 9:32 am

    i am so sorry for your loss. i am fighting cancer right now, and i will be riding livestrong in october. i have been inspired by Susan and i’ll add her name to my jersey. god bless

  1289. Comment by Ben | 08.6.2009 | 9:32 am

    My condolences to you and your family Fatty. Susan has been a huge inspiration, FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  1290. Comment by Janneke | 08.6.2009 | 9:32 am

    I can’t add anything new to all the wellwishers that have gone before me. Just know you all are in my thoughts.

    Livestrong, Fight like Susan, Win like Susan

    Janneke The Netherlands

  1291. Comment by XCTiger | 08.6.2009 | 9:33 am

    Eldon and Family,

    I am so sorry for your loss. Susan must have a wonderful heart and endless Love for you and the kids, because She fought a long and courageous fight to stay with you. She is finally at peace, without pain, but still with Love for all of you in her heart. That Love is something that cancer cannot take away, or diminish. It is that Love that will support and help you in the coming days, weeks, and years. She will always be with you. 12 years after my Fathers passing, I still feel his presence when I’m in need and know that he passes on to me some of his wisdom and advice when I’m stuck dealing with a problem.

    Thank you for sharing your families journey these past months. You and Susan have accomplished so very much through the words of this blog. Your mix of bike humor along with the serious realities of life has shown us all that life goes on regardless of the challenges that we are forced to face. You have spread awareness about the fight faced by families with cancer, and you are raising considerable money to support research.

    Maybe, above all those tangible things, You and Susan taught a very simple lesson that most of us have forgotten. We all need to remember that none of us knows what the next moment will bring to our lives. The clock ticks and our world as we know it changes forever. Be it a long battle with a health issue like cancer, or the sudden jolt of an accident takes us or a Loved one away. We may not have the opportunity to say goodbye, to tell those dearest to us how we feel about them. In the future I hope that all of us make sure that we never pass up the opportunity to tell our spouses, kids, parents, and siblings that we love them. That we find the time for an extra hug and a kiss whenever we feel like it. That we do the little things that really are the most important, and share how much Love you have. After all, in the next moment everything can change.

    You and your family will continue to be in my prayers and thoughts, along with far too many others who I know are fighting the same battle.

    Praying for Love, Peace, and Strength……

  1292. Comment by Kristin | 08.6.2009 | 9:34 am

    I was overwhelmed by so many emotions as I read your post today. Sadness, yes. Sympathy, of course. But you have done something amazing with this mountain that you’ve had to climb. You have given hope and laughter and perspective to so many people. Susan’s fight was not in vain. You (and I’m certain your sweet kids who have to be inspired by such an amazing mother and father) have made and will continue to make sure of that. Thank you for sharing your family’s story. May you be buoyed up by those who love you most as well as those of us from the blog/work world who know you best through your writing. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  1293. Comment by Marty Christian | 08.6.2009 | 9:36 am

    I am so very sorry. I have been where you are and it is not an easy journey. But my children were my top priority and their need to know that life continued and we would be able to learn to live a “new normal” life without their Dad was the goal that kept me functioning. I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers and wish you peace.

  1294. Comment by Justin | 08.6.2009 | 9:36 am

    My wife’s and my prayers go out to you and your family -

  1295. Comment by Andrew | 08.6.2009 | 9:37 am

    Sympathies from North Carolina

  1296. Comment by Jason | 08.6.2009 | 9:37 am

    Fatty:

    I think it’s been about 3 years or more that I’ve been reading your blog and through it have come to know of your love for Susan and the many great times the two of you had despite this challenge in your life. All I can say is that hearing your stories inspired me to be a better husband and love my wife more fully. You and your family will forever be in our prayers. May you find some peace during this hard time knowing that you and Susan have touched so many of our lives.

    Jason

  1297. Comment by joesaintjohn | 08.6.2009 | 9:38 am

    Susan will forever be an inspiration. You and your family are in my heart.

    Fight Like Susan. Win Susan. Livestrong.

  1298. Comment by clausinmadison | 08.6.2009 | 9:38 am

    I don’t normally comment . . . not sure why. This feels different. Your blog has been a staple of my morning routine for a few years now. The news last night hit me like a ton of bricks. I didn’t know I could feel those emotions for a person I have never “met”. You and Susan ARE amazing people, and both of you always will be. Nothing can change that.

  1299. Comment by Bigworm | 08.6.2009 | 9:39 am

    My heart goes out to you, My Brother. Godspeed, Susan!

  1300. Comment by AMB | 08.6.2009 | 9:39 am

    I am sitting at my computer crying for a family in pain … that I have never met. Please know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers for months. My boyfriend loves your blog and introduced me to it. I have been reading each entry since! God bless your family and the amazing Susan.

  1301. Comment by Casey | 08.6.2009 | 9:39 am

    I’m so sorry and I wish this hadn’t happened to Susan and to your family. I hope she went with grace and that she’ll be remembered with grace.

    Warmest thoughts…

  1302. Comment by Steve | 08.6.2009 | 9:39 am

    “I’m sorry” cannot begin to express our sorrow for you and your wonderful family. Know that Susan has gone on to a better place and is no longer in any pain. May God grant you and your family peace and know that we’re praying for you.

  1303. Comment by run-girl-run | 08.6.2009 | 9:40 am

    (Third try at posting – we must be crashing your site)

    I’ve not been able to contribute substantially to the Fight Against Cancer. Yesterday my situation changed. It wasn’t a huge windfall but I don’t think it was a coincidence.

    This morning I contributed to the LAF via the Philly team link in Susan’s Honor. Susan’s fight moved me to do that. She leaves a beautiful legacy.

    Fight Like Susan.
    End Cancer.

  1304. Comment by R.A.B. | 08.6.2009 | 9:40 am

    Smile, Fatty. She blessed you the day she picked you to share her side. She did not choose her parents or siblings or other family and even some of her friends sometimes are difficult sort out. But the day she picked you to be by her side, she blessed you. Thank you for sharing her inspiration. Keep Fighting!

  1305. Comment by Matthew | 08.6.2009 | 9:41 am

    As they have been for the past few weeks and months, my thoughts are with you and your family.

  1306. Comment by mamajenny | 08.6.2009 | 9:41 am

    I’m so sorry. I’m praying.

  1307. Comment by stir | 08.6.2009 | 9:42 am

    thoughts are with you.

  1308. Comment by Mindy | 08.6.2009 | 9:42 am

    Eldon–I’m sorry your Bride is gone. My heart aches for you and the kids. She has left behind a legacy of strength, joy, love, and determination which has not only inspired many on this website but has been communicated to your kids, even more than I can imagine.

    I’ll be praying for you all.

  1309. Comment by Rhys | 08.6.2009 | 9:42 am

    Susan is living on as a very strong motivational force for the rest of us. All the best, Fatty, to you and yours. Peace and love.

  1310. Comment by Tom | 08.6.2009 | 9:43 am

    So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts to you and your family.

  1311. Comment by karen l | 08.6.2009 | 9:43 am

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!!

  1312. Comment by Mike P | 08.6.2009 | 9:44 am

    Every morning I would click the FatCyclist bookmark on my browser, and hope for good news. I feel very sad about her passing, and am humbled by the amount of people she was able to inspire through your telling of her story.

    My thoughts are with you, your family, and especially your children.

  1313. Comment by MikeB | 08.6.2009 | 9:44 am

    We have never met, but I have followed your posts for years. I am so incredibly sorry for your family’s loss.

  1314. Comment by Derek | 08.6.2009 | 9:45 am

    My family and I have followed Susan’s struggle for some time now. You and your family have touched us in ways we cannot fully express. And even though we have never met we are shedding tears for your loss.

    Thank you for sharing and please know this, Susan will continue to be an inspiration for us all to continue the fight.

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  1315. Comment by Jenn | 08.6.2009 | 9:45 am

    T6’s website does indeed have a lovely tribute. Nice.

  1316. Comment by Piobaireachd | 08.6.2009 | 9:45 am

    My deepest condolences. ~Todd

  1317. Comment by Deb | 08.6.2009 | 9:46 am

    Oh Elden, I’m so terribly sorry. Susan seemed like a woman of true grace and courage, and I can’t imagine your pain.

  1318. Comment by scott r | 08.6.2009 | 9:46 am

    Fatty,

    I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful mother/wife. She has been such an inspiration to us. Our family will continue to pray for you and yours.

  1319. Comment by Lloyd | 08.6.2009 | 9:47 am

    I cannot begin to comprehend your loss. My heart and my prayers go out you and your family.

    And, I don’t think any of us, you included, fully understand the impact all of this has had on the fight against cancer. It may take years to fully comprehend it, and it will continue to go. This is a win… and yes, we all need to Fight Like Susan.

  1320. Comment by Paul H | 08.6.2009 | 9:47 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family. Thank you for sharing.

  1321. Comment by Dan G | 08.6.2009 | 9:47 am

    My sincere condolences to you and your family.

  1322. Comment by Heavy J | 08.6.2009 | 9:47 am

    So So sorry, Susan’s suffering is done, we are here to help yours..

    Praying….

  1323. Comment by Jar | 08.6.2009 | 9:48 am

    So sorry for her passing. God bless you and your family.

  1324. Comment by Claire | 08.6.2009 | 9:50 am

    My condolences to you and your family and friends. Be well.

  1325. Comment by Linda | 08.6.2009 | 9:51 am

    Susan will always be a winner…just from your writings one could sense the bravery and courage and downright love she possessed. God bless you and your children and the rest of your family….I am so sorry for your loss. Susan won the hearts of all of us.

  1326. Comment by rz | 08.6.2009 | 9:51 am

    I am crying right now.

    My condolences to you and yours, Eldon.

  1327. Comment by Wade Harris | 08.6.2009 | 9:52 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to Susan and her family. My wife too is battling breast cancer and is in the middle of her 3rd go around with this horrible disease. Susan is a huge inspiration – actually, you both are!!!!

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!!!

  1328. Comment by George | 08.6.2009 | 9:52 am

    My sincere condolences.
    Peace to you and your family.

  1329. Comment by jennifer robinson | 08.6.2009 | 9:53 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. You and your children will be in my prayers. god bless you and im sure susan was the luckiest to have such an amazing supportive family around her.

  1330. Comment by Jerry in Boulder | 08.6.2009 | 9:53 am

    Condolences to you and your family. Be Strong, Live Strong….Peace

  1331. Comment by dieselmike | 08.6.2009 | 9:54 am

    I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family and we will continue to Fight Like Susan.

  1332. Comment by JamesInPhoenix | 08.6.2009 | 9:54 am

    Our hearts break at the news of your loss. May God be with you and your sweet family to see you through this. Our prayers, love and thoughts are with you now more than ever.

  1333. Comment by costalrider | 08.6.2009 | 9:54 am

    So sorry to hear of your loss, we are all thinking of you.

  1334. Comment by joaon | 08.6.2009 | 9:54 am

    May Susan’s legacy live in our hearts, our minds and our actions for a long, long time. Godspeed, Susan. Livestrong!

  1335. Comment by Lesli | 08.6.2009 | 9:55 am

    My deepest sympathies.

  1336. Comment by EM | 08.6.2009 | 9:56 am

    Elden,
    The strength, courage, and humor that you and Susan have shown here have moved me to fight like you and to hate cancer like you do.
    I won’t stop fighting – that’s my promise to both of you and also to all those who, like me, have been inspired by the two of you.
    Be well and know that you’re family is much bigger than you ever realized.

  1337. Comment by bikecommuter | 08.6.2009 | 9:56 am

    Although I never met Susan, I will never forget her.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!!

  1338. Comment by Flatoutjim | 08.6.2009 | 9:57 am

    Hang in there big guy. I wish you and the family all the best.

    http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=rawlins+cross+Mcphersons+lament&search_type=&aq=f

  1339. Comment by Chris Fly | 08.6.2009 | 9:58 am

    Fatty,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, I can’t begin to imagine what you’ve had to go through. I just hope I can do half of what you’ve been able to do if I’m ever in this position.
    God Speed Brother!

  1340. Comment by sdcadbiker | 08.6.2009 | 9:59 am

    Vaya con Dios, Susan; go in peace and serve the Lord.
    Elden: you, Susan and your family have shown dignity, grace and strength that most of us would not be capable of. Thanks for sharing and inspiring.

  1341. Comment by ron from LIVESTRONG | 08.6.2009 | 10:00 am

    Fatty, my heart goes out to you, to your children and to all of your family.

    Susan ‘did not lose’ ~ her job was simply done here on this earth. Susan must be remembered by all as ‘inspiration’ and force us to fight this disease even harder. Susan was a role model of HOPE, determination and love.

    Fatty, may God Bless you for all of your kindness, for your humor and desire to help others, for that is the true meaning of life.

  1342. Comment by Alex | 08.6.2009 | 10:00 am

    My thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours. Susan is an inspiration to us all…human will must never be underestimated. Thank you for sharing with this most intimate time your life, and for allowing all of us the opportunity to know Susan and her courageous story.

  1343. Comment by Jonnie J | 08.6.2009 | 10:01 am

    Fatty – You are courageous people that have brought a mountain of good out of all this. You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.

  1344. Comment by Corey | 08.6.2009 | 10:01 am

    Condolences and prayers to you and the kids.

  1345. Comment by Fatboy | 08.6.2009 | 10:01 am

    Very sorry for your loss

  1346. Comment by geckonia | 08.6.2009 | 10:03 am

    Indeed… her light shone brightly before it faded… I too have been touched by Susan’s story and will never forget.

    Love to you and your family from a mountain biker in Marin.

  1347. Comment by Lisa B in Seattle | 08.6.2009 | 10:03 am

    You and your family are in my heart and my thoughts today and every day. I hope to live my life with the same strength and love that both of you showed every day. Today I ride for Susan.

  1348. Comment by akaKathy | 08.6.2009 | 10:03 am

    RIP Susan. You fought your battle with dignity and grace. By sharing your story (the good and the bad) your loving husband has gathered an army that will continue to fight in your name.

    Elden, you are a wonderful soul and my thoughts are with you and your family. I wish you peace.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1349. Comment by NEG | 08.6.2009 | 10:03 am

    Prayers and condolences. I want you to know that because of you and because of Susan I now go to my sheduled mammograms. I had avoided them for a long time or cancelled by appointments. You made me understand the importance of them again.

    Susan was inspiring and I also will not forget her.

  1350. Comment by mike | 08.6.2009 | 10:04 am

    best wishes and deepest condolences.

  1351. Comment by KevinO | 08.6.2009 | 10:04 am

    I’ve been following your blog for most of a year now, and I’m very sad to hear of Susan’s passing. As others have said though, she will live on through what you have done. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1352. Comment by Jamie | 08.6.2009 | 10:04 am

    I’m so sorry.

  1353. Comment by russ | 08.6.2009 | 10:05 am

    Thinking of you all..Stay safe

  1354. Comment by Libby | 08.6.2009 | 10:05 am

    I am so very sorry for your loss!
    Susan is in a better place and no longer in pain.
    I send my strongest thoughts to you and your family at this time.

  1355. Comment by Eugie | 08.6.2009 | 10:06 am

    Susan is inspiring, thank you for sharing her with us. Our prayers are with you and you children. Huge amounts of love are being sent your way.

  1356. Comment by jacked | 08.6.2009 | 10:06 am

    Last week my wife and I were going through her writing samples she saved from her 2nd grade students. Here is one that made me think of the Nelson family.

    “Dear Mommy,
    I am going to tell you a story about a little girl. The story is called The day Charrott’s mommy died. The day that her mommy died she never stopped crying. A little girl loved her so much she would not never stop thinking about her.
    The end”

    Our thoughts and prayer go out to the Nelson family. Thank you for sharing your lives with us and being such a force in our lives.

    David and Amy

  1357. Comment by Stevie | 08.6.2009 | 10:07 am

    Eldon, you and Susan touched us all. Your story has made a profound difference and through it Susan will *always* win.

    Find peace.

  1358. Comment by jessie | 08.6.2009 | 10:07 am

    You won Susan!

    “By and by, when the mornin’ comes,
    When all the saints of God are gathered home.
    We’ll tell the story of how we’ve overcome,
    And we’ll understand it better by and by.”

  1359. Comment by CyndiF | 08.6.2009 | 10:08 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family, Elden. So many of us have come to know you and Susan through this blog. We are all crying for you today.

  1360. Comment by Charisa | 08.6.2009 | 10:08 am

    Such a sad day. But we can and will keep fighting in Susan’s memory.

  1361. Comment by sMiles | 08.6.2009 | 10:08 am

    My thoughts are with you all and Love all around!

  1362. Comment by Heath | 08.6.2009 | 10:09 am

    Your blog and your wife’s battle have been an inspiration to so many. My wife introduced me to your family’s story last year and we have both be inspired by your family’s courage. Our prayers are with you and your family during this time.

  1363. Comment by Marc P Jones | 08.6.2009 | 10:09 am

    Thanks for sharing Susan with me and my family, may she live in your heart forever.

  1364. Comment by cmoons | 08.6.2009 | 10:09 am

    I dont have words to say. My condolences to you and your families.

    Be well.

  1365. Comment by Tim | 08.6.2009 | 10:09 am

    Hi Fatty. I’m sorry to hear about your loss. I also know what it means to lose those close to you, and I sincerely hope you and your family deal with this ok. It’s wonderful that you can take something positive from yours and Susan’s fight. Keep strong.

  1366. Comment by Brad Burgdorff | 08.6.2009 | 10:10 am

    My condolences on your loss. I only “found” you within the past couple of weeks, but I know that the battle was long fought. May all of us find the “Joy” in our daily struggles. God bless you, your family and peace be with Susan.

  1367. Comment by julia | 08.6.2009 | 10:10 am

    I am so sorry. You and your family will be in my prayers.

  1368. Comment by Stephanie | 08.6.2009 | 10:10 am

    My heartfelt condolences. I hope it brings some small comfort to know that you don’t grieve alone.

  1369. Comment by Garmon | 08.6.2009 | 10:10 am

    Elden,
    Your fight has been inspiring and brave. Deepest condolences to you and your family.

    Thanks so much for sharing your lives with us. Our prayers are with you and your family.

    Susan will always be an inspiration to us.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

    -Gary

  1370. Comment by jd | 08.6.2009 | 10:10 am

    My deepest sympathy for your loss. Thank you for sharing this difficult time with us. We are better people for it.

  1371. Comment by scsven | 08.6.2009 | 10:10 am

    I’m soooo sorry.

    You and Susan are in my thoughts and prayers.

    THANKS to both you and Susan for all you’ve done for the cancer and biking communities. Your positive impact is larger than you can possibly imagine.

  1372. Comment by Nick | 08.6.2009 | 10:10 am

    My sincerest regards to your friends and family.

  1373. Comment by ollyoop | 08.6.2009 | 10:10 am

    You have our sincerest condolences from the Yukon. Susan, your family and yourself are, and will continue to be, inspirational. Thank you for fighting so tirelessly against something we all hate so much.

  1374. Comment by Kerry | 08.6.2009 | 10:11 am

    We are with you!

  1375. Comment by dinglearm | 08.6.2009 | 10:12 am

    Our prayers and thoughts are with your family…Susan is truly an inspiration!

  1376. Comment by Katee W | 08.6.2009 | 10:13 am

    She didn’t lose! Susan did lead the charge and her memory will live on in many hearts. We will fight like Susan!

  1377. Comment by Stephen B. | 08.6.2009 | 10:13 am

    Susan was blessed to have you as her mate, Elden. Your kids are blessed to have you for a father. Thank you for sharing.

    Stephen

  1378. Comment by Jon | 08.6.2009 | 10:13 am

    I’m very sorry Fatty. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today.

  1379. Comment by Eddie in Georgia | 08.6.2009 | 10:13 am

    Praying for you and your family, God bless.

  1380. Comment by Jackie, John, Paul and Nina | 08.6.2009 | 10:14 am

    Sending love and peace to your family from ours in Grand Junction, CO.

  1381. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 10:14 am

    Thank you for sharing your love and your lives with us. My very deepest condolences.

  1382. Comment by Doug | 08.6.2009 | 10:14 am

    The World was “Touched by a Angel”. We shall never forget those who cancer took from us. Now more than ever let’s join together the world over and “FIGHT LIKE SUSAN”. Cancer Sucks!

  1383. Comment by David Hiller, Corvallis, OR | 08.6.2009 | 10:16 am

    Hello Elden,
    I am so sorry for your loss. I have been following your web site for the last 6-8mo. Thankyou for introducing me and everyone one else to your awesome family. I wish the best for you and your family. I too have my dad fighting prostate cancer and am not sure if he will make it to xmas this year. Cancer is such a bad disease. My heart goes out to you and Susan. Take care, I know you will make it through this period in your life. We all have pull together in times like these. God Bless and take care.

    Dave

  1384. Comment by Denise | 08.6.2009 | 10:17 am

    She won. For sure she won.

  1385. Comment by dcmurphy1515 | 08.6.2009 | 10:18 am

    Fight Like Susan!!!! Fatty – I know she would want you to do Leadville. She loves you very much and She wants you to go. She wants you to feel the love and support at Leadville that she couldn’t physically give you these last few days. You are physically ready – Now go and Fight like Susan and do your best! Know that she is watching over you and the kids now and forever. Her love is coming thru all of the responses you are receiving today. Take Care and Love and support from us all!

  1386. Comment by Bob & Lyna | 08.6.2009 | 10:18 am

    Susan, you live on! You live in our hearts! Thank you for sharing your fight with us. Thank you for sharing a courage that most of us never have to dig to find. You are a winner!

    We are thinking of you and your family.
    Love & Light,
    Bob and Lyna

  1387. Comment by Wendy | 08.6.2009 | 10:18 am

    My heart and prayers go out to your family.

  1388. Comment by David C. Smith | 08.6.2009 | 10:18 am

    Your wife did what we are here on earth to do, inspire each other to be better people. You are right, she didn’t lose. Not at all. From all that you’ve written, she embraced life, and knew every step of the way how lucky she was to have you and your family by her side. She won, and so do all of us for knowing her through you.
    We started the Mamma Jamma Ride to change the odds for everyone with breast cancer. Please don’t read this as any kind of solicitation, keep riding for LiveStrong. I’m writing you not as the Director for the Mamma Jamma Ride, but as a fellow human being who is sharing your grief. But please do know that all of us with Mamma Jamma are embracing you, and that your wife, you, and your whole family inspire us to continue her work to rid the world of breast cancer.

    Just as she was surrounded by love, so are you now.

    David C. Smith

  1389. Comment by itmustbeken | 08.6.2009 | 10:19 am

    I’m sitting in my office, wiping the tears away…praying for you and your family.

    Susan won.
    “And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.”

    May God bless and keep you in His care, always.

  1390. Comment by Guy | 08.6.2009 | 10:19 am

    Elden, please accept my deepest condolences. Best wishes to you and your family

  1391. Comment by Brewinman | 08.6.2009 | 10:19 am

    Tears roll down my face as I type this. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers for a very long time now. Please accept my most sincere condolences. You and Susan are an inspiration for SO many people, and this is only part of Susan’s legacy. Stay strong, take time for yourself, and Keep Turnin’ Those Cranks! You will get through this.

    Chad

  1392. Comment by SYL | 08.6.2009 | 10:21 am

    The inspiration Susan lit in you, your family and countless others is rare, she won. Your in our thoughts.

  1393. Comment by Ruth and David | 08.6.2009 | 10:21 am

    Our love and prayers are with you.

    Fight like Susan.

  1394. Comment by Debbie in Memphis | 08.6.2009 | 10:22 am

    Thank you for sharing your and Susan’s story and life with us. We will continue to fight for her and you. Sending love and prayers to you, your wonderful children and your family.

  1395. Comment by Jamie | 08.6.2009 | 10:22 am

    My sincere condolences to you and your family’s loss. Though I never met you or Susan I have followed along via your blog and I was truly inspired by your battle. I lost both of my parents to cancer way too early. Cancer s*cks! Please hang in there and take solace in the fact that people around the world are thinking of you and your family. LiveStrong!

  1396. Comment by Megan | 08.6.2009 | 10:22 am

    I know Susan and her story has inspired so many people and I believe you will go on and keep inspiring many more people.
    Keeping your family in my thoughts.

  1397. Comment by Sam and Holly | 08.6.2009 | 10:22 am

    You and your family are in our prayers!

  1398. Comment by Amy | 08.6.2009 | 10:23 am

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep your family in my thoughts.

  1399. Comment by D.Matt | 08.6.2009 | 10:23 am

    This blog has been one of the most inspiring things I have ever read. I hope that you and Susan know that you both have inspired and continue to inspire countless people around the world. My sincerest condolences go out to you and your family.

  1400. Comment by Chris | 08.6.2009 | 10:23 am

    You are your family are loved, just as Susan was.

  1401. Comment by Gibbles T. Chimp | 08.6.2009 | 10:26 am

    Condolences to you and yours Fatty.
    I will strive to fight like Susan in everything I do.

  1402. Comment by Lene | 08.6.2009 | 10:26 am

    I’m so sorry. Thinking of you and your family. Susan who was an amazing woman.

  1403. Comment by steve b | 08.6.2009 | 10:26 am

    My condolences.
    You have given me, and many others, a profound redefining of what it means to be victorious.

    Live Strong.

  1404. Comment by Tyson | 08.6.2009 | 10:27 am

    I’ve never in my life on the internet (and trust me, I’ve been around for a while) seen such a unanimous, explosive, and overwhelming show of support and honest emotion. It’s obvious that Susan’s story has touched a heck of a lot of people And that includes me.

    My condolences, Elden.

  1405. Comment by Gary | 08.6.2009 | 10:28 am

    As an occasional reader (first time commenter), I thoroughly enjoyed coming to your blog and reading about not only your stories of cycling but of Susan fighting like a true champion. She was strong, and so are you. The entire cycling community stands at your side mourning the loss of a wonderful mother, wife, family member, fighter. And no, in no way did Susan lose, if anything, she’s free. Free of the burden of illness, stress, fatigue, pain, and suffering. Whether or not you believe that she’s in heaven, a better place, watching over you, or whatever, you can know that Susan fought and fought hard and is now free. You can now set aside the stress of Susan’s illness and take time to remember all the great moments you shared with Susan and your family. May she rest in peace.

  1406. Comment by Hospice RN | 08.6.2009 | 10:28 am

    Please go do your ride—-and wear the FC jersey proudly—Susan wanted you to go…go ride for her!

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please use the hospice bereavement counseling (it’s free) for you and your children in the upcoming year.

    Please also keep Susan’s fight alive by continuing in your goal to raise money for the Lance Armstrong Foundation. It will be one of the many ways to keep things “normal” for you and your children and have wonderful memories of Susan making jewelry, encouraging you to find one more bike to raffle, saying one more thank you for all of your hard work, etc. :)

  1407. Comment by Kyle | 08.6.2009 | 10:28 am

    Tears and condolences for you and your family.

    You and Susan have reached so many, and will continue to do so.

  1408. Comment by UphillBattle | 08.6.2009 | 10:29 am

    Fatty,
    Susan, you, and your family have served as an inspiration to us all.
    The strength and dignity you displayed during these trying times is unparalleled.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.
    Fight like Susan!

  1409. Comment by Drew | 08.6.2009 | 10:30 am

    Thinking about you and your family in Iowa.

  1410. Comment by Marrock | 08.6.2009 | 10:30 am

    Mourn not the life that had passed, but celebrate the life that was lived.

    And I can think of no one more deserving of a good old fashioned Irish wake.

  1411. Comment by Jason Mitchell | 08.6.2009 | 10:30 am

    Susan did win… she showed you and your family and thousands of others how to be a fighter and bring out the best in people.

    I think I saw you and the rest of the crew riding up AF Canyon this morning on my way to Timponeke… a good ride for Susan eh?

    Thanks for your example of love, patience and diligence. You and your family will be blessed (heck, they already have). My best to you, brother!

  1412. Comment by Arpad | 08.6.2009 | 10:30 am

    Susan’s presence is the power that moves you forward. Her connection to you, your children, family and all of us out here is stronger than ever.

    We love you FatCyclist! Thank you, Thank You, THANK YOU!!!…for sharing your life with us.

  1413. Comment by Kate Morgan | 08.6.2009 | 10:30 am

    My most sincere sorrow and concolences to you and your family. Susan has been an inspiration to me and many other people in the cycling community to fight cancer every way that we can. I have been deeply moved by your story and hope that through my actions I can continue her legacy. What a brave fight she fought.

  1414. Comment by Kari | 08.6.2009 | 10:31 am

    To the Nelson family, peace be with you. Susan was and is an inspiring woman.

  1415. Comment by blair | 08.6.2009 | 10:31 am

    much love from san francisco to you and your family.

  1416. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 10:31 am

    Sincerely sorry for your loss. Thankyou.

  1417. Comment by Jim Board | 08.6.2009 | 10:31 am

    I have been a newcomer to this site and to your shared battle in recent weeks and, amidst so many posts and expressions of sorrow, I know that no words of mine will ease the pain that you, your family and friends must feel with Susan’s passing.

    Susan’s fight and thru’ you, our part in that fight, has touched the lives of many thousands around the world. This will live on in the memories of all of us who have been inspired by Susan and by you – a reach beyond reach and a true life everlasting.

    I feel myself wanting to cry for your loss. My journey home tonite (by bike) will be a time to reflect on those things that I care for and that I could lose. You and Susan have given me a great deal to think about and for that, amongst so much else you have my thanks.

    Peace, love and solidarity.

    Jx

  1418. Comment by Tom | 08.6.2009 | 10:32 am

    My condolences to you and your family. Susan’s fight has inspired so many people. Keep the fight going.

  1419. Comment by A.J. | 08.6.2009 | 10:32 am

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family Elden. May Susan Rest in peace and live in a better place w/ no pain/illness now. Don’t stop the fight you started w/ her help this way Susan will always WIN. LIVESTRONG & God Bless you & your family…..

  1420. Comment by BikeLemming | 08.6.2009 | 10:33 am

    Stay strong Fatty, the prayers and thoughts of thousands are with you…

  1421. Comment by Lisa | 08.6.2009 | 10:33 am

    Fatty, I’m so sorry. I know you and your family must be hurting pretty badly. For whatever it’s worth, we’re all here for you, sending you love and prayers. Though I never knew her, I feel I’ve lost a friend, and I’ll take a piece of Susan through my life with me–what a courageous person! I sincerely hope that when your daughters (and mine too) are adult women, we can tell them that this horrible, rotten, frightening, disfiguring disease is no more. Susan’s spirit shone brightly through her whole journey; you can’t extinguish that by death. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

  1422. Comment by Adam | 08.6.2009 | 10:34 am

    Nothing I can say that has not been said. Just wanted to add my name to the list of people morning with you. The loss of Susan must be incredibly hard for you to comprehend, despite the length of time you had to “prepare” yourself for it. I can only hope that you will be comforted a tiny bit by the impact she, and you, have had on the community and the world through cancer research advocacy, and that you will find the strength to continue your efforts in the future. Keep fighting!! Win Susan!!

  1423. Comment by Math. | 08.6.2009 | 10:34 am

    My deepest heartfelt condolences.

    Having lost someone I love lately I know that no words can change what you’re going through, but support is of the most importance, and I think you know we’re all behind you.

    Susan fought, Susan won….let’s keep the fight on until it over. Let’s fight like Susan!

    Math.

  1424. Comment by abelgus | 08.6.2009 | 10:34 am

    Bless Susan and you and your family – courage, honesty and integrity.

    Thank you all for being who you are.

  1425. Comment by Fonk | 08.6.2009 | 10:34 am

    I read the LiveStrong post on FB that began, “Posted new blog about our dear friend Susan who just lost her life to cancer.”, and thought, “Oh no, I hope that’s not Fatty’s Susan…” Sorry to hear that it is – my condolences to you and your family. The way that you two turned this very personal fight against this horrible disease into an overreaching fundraising effort against cancer at large is truly inspirational.

  1426. Comment by Laurence Wilks | 08.6.2009 | 10:35 am

    My wife died on November 27th 1996 from breast cancer so I know words can not help you at this moment in time. I hope that you are proud of the fight and the incrediable amount of money you both raised. My thoughts are with you.

  1427. Comment by Robert | 08.6.2009 | 10:36 am

    Your fight has not been in vain. Your family has touched so many people. I think the outpouring here proves that.

  1428. Comment by Shannon | 08.6.2009 | 10:36 am

    I’m sorry….

    LiveStrong

  1429. Comment by Mark | 08.6.2009 | 10:36 am

    Susan and you, and your family have taught us all how to fight with grace and dignity and tenacity.

    My sympathy to you, your family, and especially your children.

    Fight on.

  1430. Comment by pat1236 | 08.6.2009 | 10:37 am

    I am so sorry that Susan has lost her fight. I know that you will continue the fight in her memory. May God bless you and your family and give you the strength to go through the rough days that lie ahead.

  1431. Comment by Robert M. | 08.6.2009 | 10:37 am

    I’ve only been visiting your site for a few weeks, but I can’t tell you how much it has moved me. Please celebrate her life for as long as you live yours!!

  1432. Comment by Vic Aboudara | 08.6.2009 | 10:37 am

    I’m so sorry to hear of your loss – and I’m incredibly humbled by your positivity. I wish you and your family all the very best.

  1433. Comment by auggie | 08.6.2009 | 10:38 am

    Fatty,

    I’m very sorry to hear of your loss. I only recently discovered you, Susan and your blog–marvels all.

    Courage,

    Auggie

  1434. Comment by David | 08.6.2009 | 10:38 am

    Deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

  1435. Comment by adp | 08.6.2009 | 10:38 am

    Sending you best wishes from Texas. You are an inspiring family and my heartfelt thanks for setting a good example for the rest of us. Team Fatty will continue to WIN.

  1436. Comment by Jere | 08.6.2009 | 10:38 am

    I am saddened by your loss. Your story has been our story…and when we hear or see FIGHT LIKE SUSAN, we will know exactly what that means!!! What a wonderful and brave family you have been to help her through this. She must have been so very proud. Please keep us all fighting until there is nothing left to fight about.

  1437. Comment by Ed | 08.6.2009 | 10:39 am

    My deepest condolences and prayers to you and to your and Susan’s family and friends.

    It’s been a brave fight that’s still going on!

    Ed

  1438. Comment by Heidi | 08.6.2009 | 10:39 am

    Susan is LOVING where she’s at–trust me! Sending blessings to you all, and deepest thanks for sharing your experience with the rest of the world.

  1439. Comment by sam | 08.6.2009 | 10:41 am

    hold fast

  1440. Comment by Marcus | 08.6.2009 | 10:41 am

    Many condolences from expat France, and many thanks for the inspiration you have given me personally, both on and off the bike.

  1441. Comment by KevinL | 08.6.2009 | 10:42 am

    Susan’s strength was an inspiration–thank you for sharing her story with us. I can only hope to show, in my life, a small amount of the dignity, humor, compassion, and strength you’ve shown us here.

    My sympathy to you and your family.

  1442. Comment by skippy | 08.6.2009 | 10:42 am

    May God bless you and your family with peace and comfort.

  1443. Comment by Michelle | 08.6.2009 | 10:42 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. From reading your blog I’ve been so impressed with her strength and determination in this horrible fight against cancer. I hope your family will be comforted and have peace. I’m sure you have many great memories that will bring you joy. Her life will continue to inspire others to fight this awful disease.

  1444. Comment by matthew | 08.6.2009 | 10:43 am

    Thinking of your family in NYC……

  1445. Comment by jj | 08.6.2009 | 10:44 am

    blessings and love and prayers for you and your family.

    jj

  1446. Comment by Henry | 08.6.2009 | 10:45 am

    My thoughts and best wishes go out to you and your family…

  1447. Comment by Margaret | 08.6.2009 | 10:46 am

    Best wishes from Santiago. We have been following your story for a while now, and we think of you often. Peace to your whole family.

  1448. Comment by Danielle | 08.6.2009 | 10:47 am

    Susan was, and will continue to be, and inspiration to so many. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Danielle

  1449. Comment by Dana | 08.6.2009 | 10:47 am

    You are in our hearts and prayers. Know that both you and Susan inspire those who fight the fight with strength, courage, and dignity.

  1450. Comment by Lucas | 08.6.2009 | 10:47 am

    God bless your work and my sympathies go to you and your family in this time of grief.

    In heaven there is no head-wind,
    there are no buses that do not signal, no wanton pedestrians, no pot-holes, no bonking, and all the bikes glide effortlessly while being infinitely compliant, both vertically and laterally.

    truly a better place.

  1451. Comment by C | 08.6.2009 | 10:49 am

    I don’t know what I can say other than I’m sorry for your loss and I have been inspired by all that you’ve said and the courage your entire family, including Susan has shown.

  1452. Comment by Michael S | 08.6.2009 | 10:49 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless.

  1453. Comment by Eric F | 08.6.2009 | 10:50 am

    Sorry Fat :( Hang. You are an inspiration.

  1454. Comment by BJG | 08.6.2009 | 10:50 am

    Thanks to you and especially to Susan for all of your inspiration. Out thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ride hard and FIGHT!

  1455. Comment by Team LONGSTRONG | 08.6.2009 | 10:51 am

    You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Continue to LIVESTRONG, we will always remember to WIN SUSAN. Through your blog and LS09 efforts, you have done amazing things. Susan’s memory will live on.

  1456. Comment by Jeremy | 08.6.2009 | 10:51 am

    Speechless.

    Watching your fight and Susan’s fight from the internet and feeling like I lost something today. I shed tears for you and your family, but look forward to what you will now accomplish.

  1457. Comment by David | 08.6.2009 | 10:53 am

    My condolences to you, your family and friends. My thoughts are with you.

  1458. Comment by traildiva | 08.6.2009 | 10:54 am

    The world is a better place because of Susan.

    I’m so sorry she left it too soon. You and your family are in my thoughts.

  1459. Comment by Brenda | 08.6.2009 | 10:54 am

    Death is nothing at all

    I have only slipped away into the next room

    I am I and you are you

    Whatever we were to each other

    That we are still

    Call me by my old familiar name

    Speak to me in the easy way you always used

    Put no difference into your tone

    Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow

    Laugh as we always laughed

    At the little jokes we always enjoyed together

    Play, smile, think of me, pray for me

    Let my name be ever the household word that it always was

    Let it be spoken without effort

    Without the ghost of a shadow in it

    Life means all that it ever meant

    It is the same as it ever was

    There is absolute unbroken continuity

    What is death but a negligible accident?

    Why should I be out of mind

    Because I am out of sight?

    I am waiting for you for an interval

    Somewhere very near

    Just around the corner

    All is well.

    Nothing is past; nothing is lost

    One brief moment and all will be as it was before

    How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!

    Canon Henry Scott-Holland, 1847-1918, Canon of St Paul’s Cathedral

  1460. Comment by bruno | 08.6.2009 | 10:55 am

    my deepest condolences to you and your family.

    i’ve followed your blog since way back when (how many years has it been?) and am truly inspired by what you have done and for the brave fight Susan put on. I’ve never lost a relative to cancer so never I had an idea how painful a process it is.

    chapeau! to the elden family.

  1461. Comment by Samantha Lee | 08.6.2009 | 10:55 am

    Though I never knew Susan, she inspired me greatly. Though I’ve never met you Fatty, you do the same. Our prayers are with your family and we are grateful that Susan is now free of the pain of cancer. God bless.

  1462. Comment by Secretariat | 08.6.2009 | 10:56 am

    Eldon – Susan’s story and battle, and your willingness to share the highs and lows, have been life changing for so many of your blog-followers. Susan may have lost the battle on this front, but I think you have laid the foundations for winning the war. Keep it going, your message is certainly being heard!! Love you man!

  1463. Comment by David B | 08.6.2009 | 10:56 am

    Yes, fight like Susan.

  1464. Comment by Amy S (OH) | 08.6.2009 | 10:56 am

    I’m deeply sorry.
    My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

  1465. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 10:57 am

    Your tears are our tears, your pain is our pain, and the lessons Susan taught you are lessons that she has taught us as well. Our thoughts are with you, may God bless your family.

  1466. Comment by Eero | 08.6.2009 | 10:57 am

    I’ve been reading your blog for almost two years now. I feel like you are a friend. I’ve followed your whole story, Susan’s long battle, all of your stories and tales and trials.

    I’m so sorry, Eldon.

    You are right, we learn to live by this example.

    My heart goes out to you,
    E.

  1467. Comment by Lawrence | 08.6.2009 | 10:58 am

    My deepest condolences and prayers to you, your children, and your families.

    You and your family are truly inspirational!

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1468. Comment by Adrian S | 08.6.2009 | 10:59 am

    You and Susan are an inspiration. I pray that you and your family will find peace after such a difficult time.

  1469. Comment by Dan | 08.6.2009 | 10:59 am

    Sad and sobering news… I wish you the best.

  1470. Comment by AMR | 08.6.2009 | 10:59 am

    What Susan and you have done Elden – beautiful…in a very big way. All the people that are/will be positively affected.
    Your kids have massively inspiring & strong parents. Man. Speechless.
    I’m so sorry for your loss.
    To all the wishes, I add mine to you and your family.
    Love from Ottawa, Canada

  1471. Comment by James | 08.6.2009 | 11:00 am

    My condolences, and God bless.

  1472. Comment by Grace | 08.6.2009 | 11:02 am

    Elden & family: I am so sorry to hear about Susan’s passing, although I am glad that she is no longer suffering. I pray that God will grant you peace in this difficult time.

  1473. Comment by Zory | 08.6.2009 | 11:02 am

    My deepest condolences. I will never give up anything beacause I’ll think of people like you and Susan – true fighters.

  1474. Comment by George | 08.6.2009 | 11:02 am

    You have my deepest condolences…. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Susan was truly an inspiration to all.

  1475. Comment by tavis | 08.6.2009 | 11:03 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family. Susan has been a great inspiration in dealing with my father-in-law’s fight with cancer.

  1476. Comment by Robin | 08.6.2009 | 11:04 am

    Cancer SUCKS but both you and Susan will forever have changed the fight the will bring us closer to a cure for our children.

    Hugs and prayers to you and your entire family.

  1477. Comment by SE | 08.6.2009 | 11:05 am

    My prayers are with your family. I think you made Susan so very proud.

  1478. Comment by Marla | 08.6.2009 | 11:06 am

    I am so sorry to hear of Susan’s passing. She is an amazing woman and her legacy will continue. God bless you all.

  1479. Comment by eclecticdeb | 08.6.2009 | 11:06 am

    Words fail me. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself. I’ll be wearing my FC jersey tonight.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!

  1480. Comment by Heffalump | 08.6.2009 | 11:06 am

    I’m so sorry for this time of separation from Susan. She truly is an inspiration. I hope that there will be comfort that she is no more in pain, and her mind is clear and unclouded, and she is waiting for you.

    Thank you for sharing her with the rest of the world. Both of you have inspired many.

    Prayers for your comfort…

  1481. Comment by Angie G | 08.6.2009 | 11:07 am

    Fatty and Family- My thoughts and prayers are with you. There are no words that will help ease your pain. Susan continues to fight in every dollar we raise and every person we enlighten regarding the fight against Cancer.
    We will all carry a piece of her with us and with that she will always be here. Acting as that little voice in our heads when the climb gets tough, our legs are quivering with each pedal stroke and our lungs are on fire- she will be there cheering us on, telling us to keep going, that we can do this.
    Fatty you are right- She is not lost- She is pain free. Cancer can’t hurt her anymore. She has won!!!!!
    This is not the end for any of us, just the beginning of a new chapter.
    Love and payers

  1482. Comment by El_Animal | 08.6.2009 | 11:07 am

    My prayers are with your family, specially with your children. She is in a better place pedaling with a tail wind.

  1483. Comment by SpikeBlue | 08.6.2009 | 11:08 am

    My family sends their condolences to your family during this difficult time. I’ll be thinking of Susan during the coming Philly LIVESTRONG ride and the amazing good that she inspired in her name.

    Fight LIKE Susan.

  1484. Comment by Kristi in Ohio | 08.6.2009 | 11:08 am

    I am so very sorry for all of your loss.

  1485. Comment by Jordan | 08.6.2009 | 11:08 am

    We can all only hope to one day be as great as Susan was at battling this horrible disease. She is a champion among us and always will be.

    Cheers to her and remember all of the good times and let her life inspire us all to do more with ours…

    Jordan

  1486. Comment by Rob | 08.6.2009 | 11:09 am

    I will cycle home tonight, as every night wearing my Fat Cyclist jersey, But tonight it will be in memory of an incredible woman.

    Rob (London UK)

  1487. Comment by JB | 08.6.2009 | 11:09 am

    I can’t begin to express my condolences for your loss. I felt like I had been punched in the stomach when I read the first line of your post, and I’ve only been reading for a couple of weeks.

    My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family right now. You and your family appear to be very strong and tightknit and I can only hope that helps in the days and weeks to come.

  1488. Comment by Kerstin | 08.6.2009 | 11:09 am

    You and your family don’t know me, I have always just been an occasional lurker. I wanted to give you my sympathies and all that, but I realize the best way to do that if to go and donate to your team. I’d encourage others to do the same.

  1489. Comment by Fritz | 08.6.2009 | 11:09 am

    So very sorry, Elden. Thank you for making all of us a part of your family in this.

  1490. Comment by Ryan | 08.6.2009 | 11:12 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Elden. They have been for months, and are now more than ever.
    Susan’s legacy will live on forever through the work that was done while she was here.
    Thank you and Susan for all the inspiration you’ve provided!

  1491. Comment by darrell | 08.6.2009 | 11:12 am

    Even though I have only met you and Susan through this website I feel like I lost a family member. Focus on your kids and family. You are in my prayers.
    Sorry for you loss is such a small phrase but it really conveys my thoughts.

  1492. Comment by Sean | 08.6.2009 | 11:13 am

    Sorry to hear the news. My condolences to your family.

  1493. Comment by ieuan | 08.6.2009 | 11:14 am

    Condolences from England Buddy.

  1494. Comment by Mel | 08.6.2009 | 11:15 am

    My sincere condolences to you and your family. I’ve been following your blog for some time now, and marveled at her strength, and inspiration. We would all be better served fighting like Susan.

  1495. Comment by Jason | 08.6.2009 | 11:16 am

    As your certified (certifiable?) blog-stalker, I just have to say I’m so sorry. You have brightened many a day for me, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  1496. Comment by Michael P. | 08.6.2009 | 11:16 am

    My sincere condolences. I am so sorry for your lost. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  1497. Comment by Jennifer G | 08.6.2009 | 11:16 am

    I am heartbroken for your family. Thank you, Susan, for fighting so honorably and for letting the rest of us learn from you by sharing your journey with us. We are all better for it. We will miss you.

  1498. Comment by mark | 08.6.2009 | 11:17 am

    God bless you and your family.
    Your wifes courage has touched me through your words..
    as mj wrote… livestrong.

  1499. Comment by Lone Star Lifer | 08.6.2009 | 11:17 am

    Words are futile but they are all I have. Bless you, Susan and the family for letting us take this journey with you. I pray for you all to be surrounded by more love than you can imagine. Know there are many, many, many folks around the world sending thoughts and prayers your way today.

  1500. Comment by Roadie Steve | 08.6.2009 | 11:17 am

    We’ll keep riding and fighting for Susan as long as cancer exists. liveSTRONG Nelson family.

  1501. Comment by Andy R. | 08.6.2009 | 11:18 am

    Elden,

    Both Susan and you are “winners” in the true sense of the word. Keep up the good fight, there’s still much work to be done.

    Sincere condolences to you and your family.

  1502. Comment by Betty Maxey | 08.6.2009 | 11:18 am

    She most certainly did not lose; she completed her difficult challenge. She fought with dignity, and you tended her with honor through hard times. My sympathy to you and her family.

  1503. Comment by Elizabeth | 08.6.2009 | 11:19 am

    You have my sincere condolences on your loss of Susan. Your dedication to her during her fight with cancer has been inspirational. You are truly her hero. My prayers are with you and your family as you miss her and grieve her loss.

  1504. Comment by Joshua Duggan | 08.6.2009 | 11:19 am

    I’m so, so sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts! It is amazing the community that you and Susan have inspired.

  1505. Comment by gretchen | 08.6.2009 | 11:20 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll be thinking of you and your family on my ride tonight.

  1506. Comment by Laura G | 08.6.2009 | 11:20 am

    I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences; and for the inspiration.

  1507. Comment by Hank S. | 08.6.2009 | 11:21 am

    My sincerest condolences.

  1508. Comment by David Lazar | 08.6.2009 | 11:21 am

    Elden, you and Susan were an inspiration to me, and to many, many others. She will live on in your heart, the hearts of your dear children, and so many others. You are all in our prayers, and I am here for you.

  1509. Comment by Craig Brown | 08.6.2009 | 11:21 am

    Blessing on you, Susan, and your family. Much love.

  1510. Comment by Militant Cyclist | 08.6.2009 | 11:22 am

    I’m truly sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you, riding sombre and slowly today.

  1511. Comment by Lindsey | 08.6.2009 | 11:23 am

    I just found out about your blog through the Livestrong Foundation. I think you are amazing and I send my sincerest condolences to you and your family. I’m glad she is free now.

  1512. Comment by Charlie Brown | 08.6.2009 | 11:24 am

    She’ll live on in our thoughts! I’m so glad I had a chance to meet her at Leadville a couple of years ago and know that many of the racers will dig a little deeper this year in her memory and to try to be as strong as she was.

    Hug your kids and keep up the good fight!

    With heart felt condolences to you and your family,

    Charlie

  1513. Comment by steve sax | 08.6.2009 | 11:27 am

    I am sitting here weeping shamelessly for the loss of a woman I have never met, wife and mother and sister-in-law and friend and daughter to other people I have never met. Who touched so many people she never knew.

    By fighting. By inspiring me to fight.

    I, too, will fight.

    And inspire others to fight as well…

    We all share your loss, Nelson family.

  1514. Comment by Brad B | 08.6.2009 | 11:27 am

    Thank you for allowing all of us to be a part of your struggle. I wish your kids and your family all the best during this difficult time. Susan has impacted more lives than you’ll ever know, and her memory will live on forever.

  1515. Comment by Jeff in Ottawa | 08.6.2009 | 11:27 am

    My deepest sympathies.

  1516. Comment by Kristen Barnett | 08.6.2009 | 11:28 am

    I really don’t know what I can say in a time like this. But I would like to thank you for letting all of us learn about Susan. You both have been a huge inspiration to me and you are a truly strong human being. WE WILL WIN THE FIGHT.

  1517. Comment by Carrie | 08.6.2009 | 11:29 am

    Elden & family,

    Sending my condolences to you all during this difficult time.

    Your loss has made me think of this quote from Ernest Hemingway’s A Farewell to Arms. “The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.”

    If you believe Hemingway, maybe there is some sense for why Susan was taken way too soon…for through your blog Elden we got to know your amazing wife and I feel as though I can say she was one of the very good, the very gentle and incredibly brave.

    I wish you peace and memories to last forever in the hearts and minds of you & your children. Susan will never be forgotten!

    Fight like Susan!
    Carrie~

  1518. Comment by Hansi Johnson | 08.6.2009 | 11:30 am

    Thoughts and positive energy for you and your family.
    Tonight’s ride is in remembrance of Susan…..

    Hansi Johnson
    IMBA

  1519. Comment by TomE | 08.6.2009 | 11:30 am

    Fatty – thank you for opening up your world and family to us. We are all better for being part of Susan’s Army!!! You and your family are in our thoughts.

  1520. Comment by Tracey | 08.6.2009 | 11:30 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your family are in my prayers.

  1521. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 11:31 am

    My condolences and best wishes Fatty. How your family has turned this tragedy into something so positive is an inspiration.

  1522. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 11:33 am

    So sorry to hear……I don’t know what to say, but felt I had to say something after following Susan’s fight all this time. God Bless and your family is in our prayers.
    The Parkin Family
    Scottsdale AZ

  1523. Comment by Orbea Girl | 08.6.2009 | 11:33 am

    Sincere sympathies and support from the South of France: Susan was and will continue to be an inspiration.

  1524. Comment by Ian | 08.6.2009 | 11:33 am

    Peace to you, Susan and your family.

  1525. Comment by the-fred | 08.6.2009 | 11:33 am

    All my sympathies. Your blog is inspirational, thanks for doing it. Cancer really does suck hard. Stay strong, ride free.

  1526. Comment by Liza P | 08.6.2009 | 11:36 am

    When you are done reading these, maybe you’ll remember to hug your kids, and then tell them that those hugs are from someone they don’t know and will never meet, but who cares about them just the same. Even in nights when they feel alone and sad and dark, there are hundreds, maybe thousands of people who carry your families story around in their hearts, and who are sending them little bits of love and kindness and condolences. Out of sadness and loss comes increased compassion and love, and you should all soak up every little bit of it. We hope you will all take some solace in knowing we all are sending you love(….and $5 bills to Livestrong) as our token and symbol.

  1527. Comment by Sigga | 08.6.2009 | 11:36 am

    My condolences to you and your family.

  1528. Comment by Robb | 08.6.2009 | 11:36 am

    I am so sorry.

  1529. Comment by Dan C from MD | 08.6.2009 | 11:37 am

    Elden & family, I have been following your blog for a few years and was hoping this day would never come. I have been inspired by your writing and by Susan. I have laughed mostly but today I cried. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  1530. Comment by steve | 08.6.2009 | 11:37 am

    “Don’t Say She Lost.” Susan redefined what it means to WIN.

  1531. Comment by alex | 08.6.2009 | 11:38 am

    Your family is in my preyers….

  1532. Comment by ralph | 08.6.2009 | 11:38 am

    Do not go gentle into that good night,
    Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
    Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

    Though wise men at their end know dark is right,
    Because their words had forked no lightning they
    Do not go gentle into that good night.

    Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright
    Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,
    Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

    Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,
    And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,
    Do not go gentle into that good night.

  1533. Comment by kedrin | 08.6.2009 | 11:39 am

    another first time commentator. very sorry to hear about this.

  1534. Comment by Matt from PHX | 08.6.2009 | 11:40 am

    Fatty (and family) – hang in there.
    If I could do 10% of what you’ve done in these recent years, I would be a great man. I admire you, and am inspired.

    Susan was lucky to have you.

  1535. Comment by Alison Behan | 08.6.2009 | 11:40 am

    Oh I am just so sorry to read this post. I am so sorry for your loss. Susan was an incredible person and the fact that she has left such a legacy is a true testament to the person that she was. Sending your family prayers through the whispers of the breeze from Ireland.

  1536. Comment by Karen | 08.6.2009 | 11:40 am

    The love Susan had for you and your children will never be lost or forgotten. The memories will carry you through. I’m so sorry.

  1537. Comment by marc from slc | 08.6.2009 | 11:43 am

    my deepest condolences to you and your family. you were fortunate to have time with her as was she with you.

  1538. Comment by Bill | 08.6.2009 | 11:44 am

    My Condolences… Livestrong Fatty. Saying prayers for you and your family.

  1539. Comment by Jack | 08.6.2009 | 11:46 am

    Condolences to all the family. Your willpower is an inspiration to us all. Keep on fighting. Keep on winning.

  1540. Comment by Betty | 08.6.2009 | 11:47 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family…

  1541. Comment by metalcommuter | 08.6.2009 | 11:48 am

    Sorry about your loss. I will pray for you and your family.

  1542. Comment by nono | 08.6.2009 | 11:49 am

    My heart is aching for you, my throat hurts because of the lump in it, and I can’t stop the tears from falling as I type this.

    I wish you and your family peace and comfort in your memories and love of Susan. You have given her a legacy that has touched so many people.

    Sudbury, MA

  1543. Comment by Jen | 08.6.2009 | 11:49 am

    I have followed your blog for some time and I am so sorry. Thank you for letting us be part of your journey and I hope you can feel love and support from all those you’ve touched over the years.

    I also hope you will Fight Like Susan and ride in memory of her at Leadville next week. It would be a wonderful tribute to her and I think it is exactly what she would want you to do.

  1544. Comment by Scott | 08.6.2009 | 11:49 am

    Life is not measured in terms of years. It’s measured in deepness of impact. Susan has left a crater that won’t be soon forgotten. She has impacted lives of people from one side of this country to the other and around the world. Her story has left a mark on each one of us (as readers). A chance to evaluate those things that are really important in life and treasure those moments.

    I pray that you experience a peace and understanding that you can’t explain. God Bless.

  1545. Comment by Marc | 08.6.2009 | 11:50 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family. You and Susan are truly an inspiration.

  1546. Comment by Christine | 08.6.2009 | 11:51 am

    My heart goes out to you and your children.
    16 years ago my best friend was diagnosed with breast cancer and died one month after her diagnosis….today she lives on in the memories of her friends and her children and all those fighting against cancer in her name.
    Susan will be remembered and loved and has inspired so many people to fight. We will all continue to fight and yours and Susan’s lives are a huge catalyst in that fight. Thank you both for inspiring so many people around the world to continue the battle against cancer.
    Cancer sucks… keep fighting!

  1547. Comment by Mark W | 08.6.2009 | 11:52 am

    Elden: I don’t really know what to say other than prayers and sorry.
    Like you we are the same age with kids around the same age.
    Like you I like to ride.
    I have been reading the blog for a good few years.
    Like you this has been a journey.
    Take your time to say goodbye.
    Susan’s spirit definitely live on – in all of us that has been touched by Susan and you.
    Let me quote another wise person (this time Billy Joel):
    Goodnight my angel now it’s time to dream
    And dream how wonderful your life will be
    Someday your child will cry and if you sing this lullaby
    Then in your heart there will always be a part of me
    Someday we’ll all be gone
    But lullabies go on and on
    They never die that’s how you and I will be

    take care my friend
    Mark in Vancouver

  1548. Comment by Amy from Texas | 08.6.2009 | 11:52 am

    I’m so sorry.

  1549. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 11:52 am

    God Bless you in this time.

  1550. Comment by karen in AK | 08.6.2009 | 11:53 am

    We all benefit from having had the opportunity to live in Susan’s time. An amazingly courageous woman who is giving the rest of us motivation to live our best lives. Thank you for sharing so much with us. Love to you and your family.

  1551. Comment by Joyce | 08.6.2009 | 11:53 am

    Susan’s spirit lives on in your love for her, your children and your commitment to fight cancer. These are all beautiful gifts she leaves behind. My sincere condolences. The grace you show in sharing such a deeply personal journey is amazing.

  1552. Comment by Jeanette | 08.6.2009 | 11:54 am

    Susan won! She fought! Now her journey begins. Free from a body that let her down. She live on! Susan won!

    Thank you for sharing all of her with all of us.

    Peace to you all.

  1553. Comment by Lief Zimmerman | 08.6.2009 | 11:54 am

    You illustrated the need to live and love like there is no tomorrow.
    You did it, continue to do it, and shared with us, your neighborhood.
    Thank you.

    http://blief.zwise.net/?p=434

  1554. Comment by Pam D | 08.6.2009 | 11:54 am

    Susan didn’t lose… but YOUR loss is immense, and I’m so sorry. Praying that much good will come from her fight and that many will grab the baton and run with it.
    Blessings, prayers, and sorrow…

  1555. Comment by Tanya in LA | 08.6.2009 | 11:54 am

    Prayers are being said now for you and your sweet family. Take care of yourselves. I have read your blog for a while now, thanks so much for sharing with strangers and bringing more awareness for cancer research and patient support.

  1556. Comment by Brian | 08.6.2009 | 11:55 am

    Peace.

  1557. Comment by Bonzai Buckaroo | 08.6.2009 | 11:56 am

    I am at a loss for words expressing my feelings. Susan has humanized the cause for curing cancer. Thank you for sharing.

  1558. Comment by Dave.B | 08.6.2009 | 11:56 am

    Having just recently encountered your website and thus your story I’m saddened to hear this news. I hope that you and your family find the grace and strength necessary to mourn and to heal. I’m very sorry for your loss and pray that God grants you peace in this time.

  1559. Comment by Bill Martin | 08.6.2009 | 11:56 am

    “outrageous endurance” says a lot, Susan has left our world a better place. My heart goes out to you and because of your sharing I am inspired to think of others more and to not take a single ride for granted. Thanks for sharing and may you find peace and be able to enjoy her legacy in the kids and what you started.

  1560. Comment by robohoff | 08.6.2009 | 11:56 am

    My heart goes out to you, your family & friends. I have silently followed Susan’s & your fight, strength and power. Know that the world is a better place because of Susan & you.

  1561. Comment by jarviscera | 08.6.2009 | 11:58 am

    Thanks for letting us know about and be a part of Susan’s fight.

  1562. Comment by Bruce Bebow | 08.6.2009 | 12:00 pm

    Elden,

    Words cannot express my sorrow for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

  1563. Comment by Erin | 08.6.2009 | 12:00 pm

    So sorry for your loss. I am inspired to hear about Susan’s fight, and how many people she inspired along the road. Kellene,Rocky, and all of your family, I hope you can find peace in this time. May Susan’s true self be the lasting memory, and her strength carry all through the toughest of times within each of our lives.

  1564. Comment by Martin | 08.6.2009 | 12:01 pm

    So sorry to hear the news. Thoughts are with you and your family. Be strong.

  1565. Comment by Marianne | 08.6.2009 | 12:01 pm

    We are keeping you and your family in our thoughts.

  1566. Comment by Phedre | 08.6.2009 | 12:01 pm

    You and yours will be in my thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to you.

  1567. Comment by Jayme | 08.6.2009 | 12:02 pm

    So sorry for your loss…your an amazing person and you will continue to do amazing things.

  1568. Comment by Alejandro | 08.6.2009 | 12:02 pm

    I, like a lot of people, recently found your blog ever since the day Lance posted it on his Twitter account. I’ve been reading ever since. You and Susan have inspired me. You are both incredible.

  1569. Comment by deezee | 08.6.2009 | 12:02 pm

    So very sorry…

    Cancer is touching so many or our lives. One day I hope that won’t be so…

  1570. Comment by LimesNow | 08.6.2009 | 12:03 pm

    The one I lost was my beloved stepmother, not the love of my life. I has affected me so profoundly that I cannot imagine the pain you are feeling. I have worked very hard to support breast cancer research and The Race for the Cure, but I am a tiny ray of light compared to what you have done. I hope you and your loved ones find peace. I am honored to have learned of Susan only at her death.

  1571. Comment by Isaac Ben-Moshe | 08.6.2009 | 12:03 pm

    Elden-
    May God comfort you and your family among all those who mourn. May Susan’s memory be a blessing to you, and to us all.

  1572. Comment by DougRob | 08.6.2009 | 12:05 pm

    My thoughts go out to you and your family. I am crying right now.

  1573. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 12:06 pm

    She didn’t lose.

    May God surround you with His peace and love during this time.

  1574. Comment by Ady | 08.6.2009 | 12:07 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. I am so saddened by your loss yet so inspired by Susan’s courage to the end and inspired also by your steadfastness, dedication and love throughout it all. Like many others, I will be praying for you and yours. God bless you and your children and God bless Susan.

    Ady from the UK.

  1575. Comment by SteveinLenox | 08.6.2009 | 12:07 pm

    I and my family have loved Susan.We will continue to love you and your children. The inspiration for this fight have touched thousands. Susan is immortal as are are you Elden. Love Forever in Lenox,Ga
    Steve,Melissa,Adam,Kyle and Kayla SMAKK

  1576. Comment by KeepYerBag | 08.6.2009 | 12:09 pm

    ~ weep ~

  1577. Comment by monkeywebb | 08.6.2009 | 12:10 pm

    So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing Susan with us over the past years. I and many others are far better for it.

  1578. Comment by Gillian | 08.6.2009 | 12:10 pm

    Blessings and peace to you and your family.

    Win.

  1579. Comment by regis C | 08.6.2009 | 12:10 pm

    today i understan from my doctor some about my seroius desease in the blod , i am a litle scared about it but i can jus imanginate your felling, i lost my father in law to cancer 5 years ago and your writhing make me faeel proud of you and proud of what we done with my father in low, keep it ostron and keep it strong for me to
    big hugh

  1580. Comment by The D | 08.6.2009 | 12:11 pm

    Sincerest condolences to you and your family, Elden. I think a lot of us aspire to fight our battles with as much grit and grace as Susan fought hers.

  1581. Comment by Tami | 08.6.2009 | 12:13 pm

    Fatty & Family…I’ve stalked this blog for a little while, mainly to read Susan’s story. Sorry….

    Cancer freakin’ sucks!

  1582. Comment by Kerry | 08.6.2009 | 12:14 pm

    Just another petal in the bouquet of condolences
    for you and yours.

  1583. Comment by Jennifer P. | 08.6.2009 | 12:16 pm

    Sending prayers and condolences to you and your family!

  1584. Comment by Aaron | 08.6.2009 | 12:16 pm

    We’re praying for you and your family. Thank you for sharing your fight with us. I know we have all been touched and inspired by Susan’s courage.

  1585. Comment by Peter | 08.6.2009 | 12:17 pm

    Deepest condolences from Calgary. Thinking of you and the kids… This sucks.

  1586. Comment by cj | 08.6.2009 | 12:18 pm

    I’m so sorry Eldon.

  1587. Comment by Carole | 08.6.2009 | 12:19 pm

    Deepest sympathies from Santa Barbara. Thank you for sharing your story.

  1588. Comment by BigE | 08.6.2009 | 12:20 pm

    My condolences to you and your family during this trying time. You and Susan have touched so many lives in such a amazing way that she will live on in the hearts of many of us for quite some time.

  1589. Comment by Lou | 08.6.2009 | 12:21 pm

    My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I’m at a loss for words. Cancer sucks!

  1590. Comment by tmqdoc1 | 08.6.2009 | 12:21 pm

    You can be proud that you and Susan have motivated thousands of others to continue the fight. I will pray for you and your family. God Bless

  1591. Comment by Sonja O'Brien | 08.6.2009 | 12:21 pm

    My deepest sympathies from Seattle…. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  1592. Comment by Christopher | 08.6.2009 | 12:22 pm

    Fatty,

    I haven’t posted on your site before, but I check it everyday.

    Even though there are already around 1500 comments on this post, and I certainly don’t expect you to read everyone, I just wanted to say you and your family are an inspiration. We haven’t met you, but my family thinks of you often.

    We wish you the best.

    Christopher Clifford

  1593. Comment by Mark Coulson | 08.6.2009 | 12:24 pm

    Elden,

    I suppose my comment here on your blog will get lost among so many others (the number is impressive). But my hope and wish at this singular moment is of peace and comfort for you and your children and that the love and support of family and friends may be an unfailing source of mental, emotional, and spiritual strength.

  1594. Comment by Susan (another one) | 08.6.2009 | 12:24 pm

    I’m sad to hear and will be thinking about you and the kids this evening.

  1595. Comment by RG | 08.6.2009 | 12:24 pm

    I am so very sorry. Thinking of you and your family.

  1596. Comment by rexinsea | 08.6.2009 | 12:24 pm

    Elden – Susan and you have created an indisputable legacy of inspiration, motivation, levity and humor. Be proud of your accomplishments. I will always remember that Susan allowed you to share her story in a way to inspire so many of us out here in your community to unite against cancer and I’m honored to be a part of Team Fatty. My heart, prayers, and warm thoughts go out to you and your family during this time. I’ll continue on this fight with you when you are ready.

    WIN

    Condolences,
    Rex Thompson

  1597. Comment by Stephanie | 08.6.2009 | 12:26 pm

    I found your site a few months ago through Ree Drummond. I was amazed then at the strength you and your family showed in the battle against an insidious evil. Susan showed an amazing courage that very few have. Cancer has been in my family before, so I can feel your pain. I have my own medical mysteries, so I can relate to trying to raise funds to fight the unknown. All I can say now is that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you begin to mourn the heart of your family.

    May the memories never fade, but may the pain pass swiftly. Know that the love of many surrounds you in your darkest hour.

  1598. Comment by Brian | 08.6.2009 | 12:28 pm

    So Sorry to hear about Susan. You & your family are in my prayers. She is an inspiration to everyone.

  1599. Comment by iammykl | 08.6.2009 | 12:28 pm

    I don’t know you or your wife, but the two of you will be in my thoughts. I’m so sorry about your loss. God bless you.

  1600. Comment by Badder | 08.6.2009 | 12:28 pm

    May Susan rest in peace. You have created something wonderful with your blog, touched a lot of people, and shared a very personal story with us all.

    All the best to you and your family. Be strong for each other, and lean on each other.

    regards, Gary

  1601. Comment by P | 08.6.2009 | 12:29 pm

    I’m so sorry, Elden. Go to Leadville and kick butt, for Susan and for you.

  1602. Comment by JS | 08.6.2009 | 12:30 pm

    So sorry to hear. My condolences to you and your family and thanks so very much for sharing her inspirational fight.

  1603. Comment by Lisa | 08.6.2009 | 12:30 pm

    I have been praying for you all since I found your blog weeks ago. My heart grieves for all of you. Your courage during this journey has been unbelievable. Having lost my mother to cancer at six, I believe that your children will one day treasure the “journal” you have recorded along the way. Your words will be such a comfort to them as they remember their mom…and your strength as you so lovingly cared for her.

  1604. Comment by Shane | 08.6.2009 | 12:30 pm

    My sympathies Elden – may the hours, days, weeks and years ahead be filled with happy memories and warm feelings about (and from) Susan.

  1605. Comment by Marrock | 08.6.2009 | 12:33 pm

    As an aside, has anyone seen http://www.TwinSix.com yet?

  1606. Comment by Jack | 08.6.2009 | 12:33 pm

    A M E N

  1607. Comment by Dallas Mortensen | 08.6.2009 | 12:36 pm

    Elden, Im so very sorry to hear about Susan. She fought a long and strenuous fight till the very end. I am trying to come back for the funeral but am not sure if i can get away from work now. say hello to the kids for me and let me know if there is anything i can do. Ill try to call my mom tonight and hopefully will get to talk to you. I love you all and you are certainly in my prayers

  1608. Comment by controlcancer.ca | 08.6.2009 | 12:36 pm

    Our condolences are with everyone Susan touched through her strength of heart and conviction of action. It is a great loss when our community loses a leader of her talent and resolve.

  1609. Comment by cyclingeurope | 08.6.2009 | 12:36 pm

    thank you Elden for sharing Susan with the world. We are better people for it.

    I pray that you and your family quickly find peace in the remembrance of how bravely this wonderful woman lived her life and how she so inspired us. I believe this will inspire even more people to give to Team Fatty Fight Like Susan, because even more than ever, we want to fight like Susan.

  1610. Comment by Nicole | 08.6.2009 | 12:36 pm

    I’m praying for you and your family. Susan’s strength, your strength, and your family’s strength is truly inspiring.

  1611. Comment by Lou | 08.6.2009 | 12:37 pm

    I hope you find comfort in knowing she is in a better place and not in pain. My deepest sympathies to you, your family, and friends.

    Much love from a fat cyclist.

  1612. Comment by Brenna | 08.6.2009 | 12:39 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. May you and your family find peace during this difficult time knowing she is no longer suffering.

  1613. Comment by Sari | 08.6.2009 | 12:39 pm

    All our thoughts and condolences to you and your family. Susan’s fight was amazing and will continue to inspire thousands of people everyday.

  1614. Comment by JewelD | 08.6.2009 | 12:40 pm

    Our love, prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Susan is an inspiration for so many. Thank you for sharing a bit of her with us.

  1615. Comment by AmyH | 08.6.2009 | 12:40 pm

    Sending warm wishes to you and your children as you process this loss and transition into a new “normal.” My heart breaks for your children as they go on to live without their mother but she left them with such a valuable lesson in how to live. I wish you all the best.

  1616. Comment by ronk | 08.6.2009 | 12:40 pm

    My heart sank on reading the header. I am sorry for your loss. But know this…. You and Susan have made a difference in my life…and my family’s life. Reading your blog and what your family has gone through and how strong Susan was has really changed the way I look at my wife and kids…and life. Thank you for sharing everything with us. We’ll continue to pray for your family.

  1617. Comment by Erik Husby | 08.6.2009 | 12:43 pm

    You are not alone in the fight. Thanks for sharing so much of your life with us.

  1618. Comment by wil | 08.6.2009 | 12:43 pm

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

  1619. Comment by Elisabeth | 08.6.2009 | 12:43 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with your family as you begin to heal from this horrible loss. Susan HAS won.

  1620. Comment by Brian | 08.6.2009 | 12:45 pm

    Words fail. Susan, you, and your entire family are an inspiration and model for everyone.

    Susan wins.

  1621. Comment by BryanS | 08.6.2009 | 12:47 pm

    To say that I’m sorry for your loss seems too little. I wish I had better words – but I do not.

    We are all saddened to hear of this and our thoughts go out to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I cannot imagine your grief. We will try to help to lighten the load.

    Fight Like Susan.

  1622. Comment by Timo Roivas | 08.6.2009 | 12:49 pm

    Condolences from Finland. RIP Susan.

  1623. Comment by Carl | 08.6.2009 | 12:50 pm

    I think I first saw your website a while back then found it again, the same day my stepsister Susan was diagnosed with secondary Liver Cancer, so you can still say Win Susan, because there are plenty of Susan’s out their fighting like susan and being inspired by you!

    Go to Leadville make us proud.

    Livestrong
    Fight like Susan

  1624. Comment by Todd | 08.6.2009 | 12:50 pm

    Elden:

    I’m so sorry for your loss, for you and your children.

    Rest in peace, Susan.

    Prayers to the family.

  1625. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 12:52 pm

    In the words of my grandmother’s native tounge “Susan slaan agg-us ban-ocked latt”

  1626. Comment by AndyC | 08.6.2009 | 12:54 pm

    My sincerest condolences on your loss to you, your children and your extended family. I am greatly saddened. Susan was an inspiration to us all.

    In her memory I will be wearing my Fighting for Susan jersey on tomorrow’s ride to work.

    Be Strong!

  1627. Comment by Abbie D | 08.6.2009 | 12:55 pm

    I’m so very sorry for your loss, and the hurt that you all must be feeling right now. I’m praying for your strength.

    Always in my thoughts…

  1628. Comment by Allison Fontana | 08.6.2009 | 12:56 pm

    I learned of your blog through Lance Armstong’s tweet. I first read “Six Minutes of Joy” and, being a mountain biker myself, found great joy in watching your video. I then went on to read “Messed Up” and could hardly read through my tears. The words you used to describe your experiences and feelings were truly moving. I continued to read previous blogs for at least an hour. Your stories of Susan inspired me to make a donation on her behalf and I’ve been checking your blog ever since to see how Susan was doing.. I’m deeply saddened that the world has lost a person as special as your wife. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Her spirit will live on through you and your children and through the work you have all done (and continue to do)to fight cancer.
    Good luck to you, Elden. I’ll continue to read and support Susan’s cancer-fighting goals.
    Sincerely,
    Allison Fontana
    P.S. On a lighter note, go to Leadville. As long as your children are O.K., I think that Susan would want you to be happy. It will be good for you to be doing something you love and to be among your friends.

  1629. Comment by Heidi | 08.6.2009 | 12:57 pm

    My thoughts go out to you and your family. Thank you for all that you and Susan have done to fight cancer and raise awareness. Though all the things that you have done and continue to do, Susan will live on and continue to do great things.

  1630. Comment by HWoodley | 08.6.2009 | 12:58 pm

    Sympathies from Los Angeles.

  1631. Comment by Glenn | 08.6.2009 | 12:59 pm

    Sympathies from Hawaii. Thank you for sharing your stories with us. God Bless.

  1632. Comment by Doug | 08.6.2009 | 1:01 pm

    Sympathies from St. Peters MO

  1633. Comment by Jeff | 08.6.2009 | 1:01 pm

    I’m very sorry to hear about your loss. I will be donating to Elden cause. Condolences from Orem Utah.

  1634. Comment by Amy | 08.6.2009 | 1:01 pm

    Saw you speak at Interbike last year and heard of this awful news on Slowtwitch. My deepest sympathies. If you go to Leadville, tear it up, and hopefully I’ll be there to cheer you on at the finish.

  1635. Comment by CD | 08.6.2009 | 1:01 pm

    My sympathies to you and your family.

  1636. Comment by JFK | 08.6.2009 | 1:02 pm

    I am so, so sorry.

    Susan’s battle has touched more people than you will probably ever know. Those of us wearing the FS jerseys, who tell the story, others who then join in the fundraising.

    Yes, Susan’s struggle is over, but the rest of us will be fighting so that her daughters will not have to face virulent breast cancer, so that all of us have hope if that dreaded diagnosis is given.

    We will win *for* Susan and her sisters and brothers in this fight.

    May you and your family find comfort and peace in this difficult time.

  1637. Comment by devin | 08.6.2009 | 1:02 pm

    That was a long tough fight,, Stay Strong and Remember how much she Loved You and the Family.
    Be Good And Think Good Thoughts

  1638. Comment by Pat | 08.6.2009 | 1:03 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. There are prayers being sent your way from Minnesota.

  1639. Comment by Doug | 08.6.2009 | 1:03 pm

    Sincerely thinking of you and your family.

  1640. Comment by Haven (used to be Kt) | 08.6.2009 | 1:05 pm

    Elden, I’m so sorry for the loss your family has sustained.

    Susan is an inspiration to a huge number of people. We’ll always remember her, because she helped all 500+ of us to be better people.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN. What an appropriate sentiment!!!

  1641. Comment by KP | 08.6.2009 | 1:07 pm

    Prayers for you and your family from Columbus, Ohio.

  1642. Comment by AJM | 08.6.2009 | 1:07 pm

    We’re so sorry for your loss. And thank you for sharing Susan’s story with all of us. What a brave thing for your family to do. We are all better for it.

  1643. Comment by mrbill | 08.6.2009 | 1:09 pm

    Our deepest sympathies

  1644. Comment by J-L | 08.6.2009 | 1:10 pm

    I have been reading your blog for quite awhile, and was hoping never to read the post that I just read. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I will miss Susan, and I never even met her. What a strong woman.

  1645. Comment by Fort James | 08.6.2009 | 1:11 pm

    God bless you and your family. Rest in peace Susan.

    Words cannot express what I want to say.

  1646. Comment by ME | 08.6.2009 | 1:11 pm

    Peace to you.

  1647. Comment by Kayte | 08.6.2009 | 1:12 pm

    I am terribly sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your battles with us.

  1648. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 1:12 pm

    It’s the courage of people like Susan who stand in there and fight with all they’ve got that will eventually inspire enough support to win this battle once and for all. You have my condolences, and my thanks for bringing this story to light.

  1649. Comment by Amy B.- Portland, OR | 08.6.2009 | 1:12 pm

    Thoughts and wishes to you and your family.

  1650. Comment by Midge | 08.6.2009 | 1:16 pm

    I am so very sorry. My deepest condolences. You’ve done something wonderful with your blog and with Team Fat Cyclist. Susan will be missed by everyone who was touched by your experiences.

  1651. Comment by run-girl-run | 08.6.2009 | 1:16 pm

    It’s not unusual for me to check in often waiting for Fatty’s latest post, but today, I’m clinging to this site. I read every new comment. And today I’m continuously check Elden’s team fundraising site. He’s getting so close to his $90,000 goal. I started watching this morning when I made my donation (inspired by Susan and wanting to help). At that time there was about $80,000 raised. It’s inching up.

    At the time of this post, the total is $86,500.

    I think we can help Elden reach his fundraising goal TODAY.

    Here’s a link to Fatty’s Livestrong donation page… http://philly09.livestrong.org/fatty

    Let’s help Win this Fight!

  1652. Comment by Wil | 08.6.2009 | 1:17 pm

    Deepest condolences.

  1653. Comment by T.J. | 08.6.2009 | 1:17 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear this my prayers go out to your family. I will remeber this while I’m riding for team fatty now I’m riding for Susan and not just team fatty.

  1654. Comment by coffee | 08.6.2009 | 1:19 pm

    Eldon, your strengths cannot be matched but only envied by most other men. You are special to have had such a very special woman as Susan. Her memory will live on in the many lives she has touched. I am happy that her pain has subsided and would yours also with time. I’ll pray for you, the kids, and your family and friends. May God comfort and continue to bless you.

  1655. Comment by The Human Wrecking Ball | 08.6.2009 | 1:20 pm

    You and Susan did so much good with the hand you were dealt. You have all my positive thoughts and prayers. I am humbled and inspired by you both.

  1656. Comment by Yappi | 08.6.2009 | 1:20 pm

    Deepest sympathies to you and your family. You have touched us all by sharing your story.

  1657. Comment by El Gato | 08.6.2009 | 1:20 pm

    Godspeed Susan! Blessings to you and your family Elden.

  1658. Comment by Kelly | 08.6.2009 | 1:20 pm

    Very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with your family.

  1659. Comment by Wade | 08.6.2009 | 1:20 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. Our prayers go out to your family and you.

  1660. Comment by Jim G | 08.6.2009 | 1:21 pm

    Words fail……….. my deepest sympathies to you and your family. You and Susan are truly a great inspiration to us all. May we all fight like Susan.
    Pedal on Elden. WIN.

  1661. Comment by Emily | 08.6.2009 | 1:21 pm

    so sorry for you all.

  1662. Comment by Nancy | 08.6.2009 | 1:22 pm

    You and your family have fought this long battle with grace. Please accept my sincere condolences.

  1663. Comment by R | 08.6.2009 | 1:23 pm

    My sincere condolences. Your comment “Fight like Susan” inspires us in countless ways…

  1664. Comment by R Smith | 08.6.2009 | 1:23 pm

    “1,653 Comments ”
    I think that says alot about the effect your experiences have had on others.
    I hope you’re able to find the comfort and strength you need. My condolences to you and your family.

  1665. Comment by Rebecca & Richard | 08.6.2009 | 1:24 pm

    So sorry to read the news. You and Susan have inspired us in your love for one another and your fight. We will be riding in the Philly Livestrong.

  1666. Comment by Nando | 08.6.2009 | 1:24 pm

    My condolences. You inspire us all to live and be better.

  1667. Comment by truman | 08.6.2009 | 1:25 pm

    I’m so sorry…

  1668. Comment by AndySam | 08.6.2009 | 1:26 pm

    BIG comforting hugs to everyone from Ireland …

    “No man is an island, entire of it self; every man is a piece of the Continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less …..
    …. any man’s [or woman's] death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankind; And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee [and me].”
    John Donne (1572-1631)

    Susan – Rest in Peace … you DID make a difference, a POSITIVE difference!

  1669. Comment by Kristina | 08.6.2009 | 1:29 pm

    My thoughts and hugs go to you and your family. We will stand by your side to keep up the fight!

  1670. Comment by Mike Correll | 08.6.2009 | 1:30 pm

    I will be praying for you and your kids. Susan has gone onto another place where she is healthy and alive again. Keep up the good fight, your inspiration has prompted me to become more active in the fight against cancer.

  1671. Comment by pat | 08.6.2009 | 1:30 pm

    I know this is a crushing blow for you and your family, I can’t even begin to imagine what this must be like for you and your kids. I truly hope you quickly find the ability to focus on the great times, that thoughts of Susan inspire a smile or chuckle as you remember the times you spent with her. Find solace in the fact that you have driven the fight against cancer to new heights and have inspired thousands to “Fight Like Susan” I’ll be thinking about you guys as I try to finish Leadville next week….

  1672. Comment by Andrew from Norway | 08.6.2009 | 1:32 pm

    Condolences to you and your family Mr Fatty. I believe your wifes story, and your blog has touched many people, the world over. Thank you for sharing this story with us. God bless.

  1673. Comment by Kim | 08.6.2009 | 1:33 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Susan was an amazing fighter & an incredible inspiration.

  1674. Comment by Natty Dixon | 08.6.2009 | 1:34 pm

    Bummer dude. Ride safe and take care.

  1675. Comment by Kevin | 08.6.2009 | 1:37 pm

    You have my condolences. You and Susan have been an inspiration to me on how to deal with extreme adversity.

  1676. Comment by Jason Olson | 08.6.2009 | 1:37 pm

    Thank you Susan for leading us in this fight. We will take it from here. Bless.

  1677. Comment by Stefanie | 08.6.2009 | 1:37 pm

    God bless you and your family!

    Rest in Peace Susan

  1678. Comment by Ryan | 08.6.2009 | 1:38 pm

    My heartfelt condolences. Susan was an inspiration to the end and her life will continue to inspire.

  1679. Comment by Maria | 08.6.2009 | 1:38 pm

    I am so very, very sad of this news. Although I didn’t have the privilege of actually meeting Susan, I always kept her close in thoughts and prayers. She and her fighting spirit have inspired me in so many ways. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

  1680. Comment by Colin | 08.6.2009 | 1:38 pm

    Peace and God bless you and your family.

  1681. Comment by Nina | 08.6.2009 | 1:40 pm

    I’m sorry to hear about your loss. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring others to help with the fight. It was special to be able to do something that felt like it was helping…riding for a purpose. Your post about Susan’s fight and leading the charge was powerful. I know there are no words that can sufficiently ease the sadness that you’re feeling. But I want to be among the numbers of people that are posting so that you can know, just how many lives you and your family have touched. God bless you and your family.

  1682. Comment by CW | 08.6.2009 | 1:40 pm

    Your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Though I have never met you or your family, I feel as if I have lost a friend and wanted to offer my condolences along with so many others.

    Susan’s courage throughout this fight is an inspiration to us all.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1683. Comment by Psychalist | 08.6.2009 | 1:41 pm

    Eldon,

    So sorry to hear about Susan.

    I came to your site via cycling but found inspiration and courage through your words that go beyond the mere two wheels we both enjoy. Though I’ve never met you or your family, your brave sharing of the story of Susan’s battle touched many hearts across the globe, including mine.

    God bless you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Your story will inspire us all to continue this war.

    Rest in peace Susan.

  1684. Comment by Lora | 08.6.2009 | 1:42 pm

    I am so terribly sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

  1685. Comment by JK | 08.6.2009 | 1:42 pm

    Fatty, You and Susan are an inspiration. I’m so sorry for your loss, and so grateful for all of the fine writing you’ve shared about bicycling, life, love, and Susan’s courageous fight.

  1686. Comment by Jim Hart | 08.6.2009 | 1:42 pm

    You are both inspirations for us all. My condolences.

  1687. Comment by Anna | 08.6.2009 | 1:42 pm

    My very deepest condolences to you and your family. Keeping you all in my thoughts.

  1688. Comment by Juls | 08.6.2009 | 1:43 pm

    Fatty, I am sending as much peace you way as I can. You and your kids are in my every thought and prayer.

    But, I also want to say “thank you”. Thank you for letting us into your lives. Thank you for giving us a vehicle to help. Thank you for inspiring us.

    Susan will be missed. But, Susan will continue to inspire. Never forget that.

    Much love and peace –
    Julie from Ohio

  1689. Comment by Rob | 08.6.2009 | 1:45 pm

    Sometimes we go away and we don’t come back. I’m sorry Elden.

  1690. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 1:45 pm

    Peace. Susan and you both inspired thousands. She will never be absent.

  1691. Comment by Salty Seattle | 08.6.2009 | 1:48 pm

    As a female cyclist, it’s easy to get discouraged, and feel like, “I can’t”. That I’m playing in the sandbox with the big boys, and they’re liable to kick sand in face very soon.

    Susan has changed all that for me. Not only do I say, “I can”, she has shown me that, “I will.”

    Thank you for sharing her with all of us.

  1692. Comment by Steve Allison | 08.6.2009 | 1:48 pm

    Elden,

    My heart goes out to you and your family. Susan certainly put up a fierce struggle and motivated many others to join the battle against cancer.

    Diane, my best friend, lover and wife of 41 years also died of cancer on June 28th, 2009 after fighting this evil disease for more than two years. She was my life and I miss her terribly.

    You remain in our thoughts and prayers. We cannot rest until the evil of cancer is defeated.

  1693. Comment by Ian | 08.6.2009 | 1:48 pm

    Wow. Through youh Susan touched so many lives, probably far more than she realized. There are many, many folks out there with an extra tear in their eye today.

    I’m one of them.

    Elden, now you need to get yourself to the Leadville race next week, and Fight Like Susan. I’ve a feeling it could be your best Leadville race ever, and also the toughest, for many reasons.

  1694. Comment by Jackson Griffin | 08.6.2009 | 1:49 pm

    You and Susan are heroes. You have used this blog for something more than detailing the minutiae of your life. Susan did win because by her hard waork she has fought cancer. Thank you.

  1695. Comment by Jessica J. | 08.6.2009 | 1:51 pm

    I am sending you my prayers and so much love. I am amazed at how hard you guys fought through this without giving up and it is so inspirational to so many people. LOVE truly does make the world go ’round! Thank you for showing people what true love really is.

  1696. Comment by Julie | 08.6.2009 | 1:51 pm

    Godspeed and God bless you, Susan.

    Now, you go to Leadville and kick a$$. Make her even more proud of you than she already is.

  1697. Comment by Leah | 08.6.2009 | 1:52 pm

    Many prayers, you and your family are in my thoughts.

  1698. Comment by LittleChainring | 08.6.2009 | 1:53 pm

    My condolences to you and your family.

  1699. Comment by BotchedExperiment | 08.6.2009 | 1:54 pm

    I’m sorry to hear the news and am hoping and praying for peace for your kids.

    I’m proud and inspired by your strength and endurance.

  1700. Comment by James S | 08.6.2009 | 1:55 pm

    Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time. Peace be with you

  1701. Comment by J. Scott Hamilton | 08.6.2009 | 1:55 pm

    I hope your Leadville frame is strong enough for two, ’cause I’m sure she’ll be with you.

    Stay strong!

  1702. Comment by Bruce | 08.6.2009 | 1:56 pm

    I wish you and your family peace. Grace, you already have…………

  1703. Comment by buckythedonkey | 08.6.2009 | 1:57 pm

    So sorry to hear today’s news. All the best to you and your family from all of us.

    WIN

  1704. Comment by Mary | 08.6.2009 | 1:57 pm

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family. A woman like Susan will be sorely missed and forever remembered in the hearts of her family and friends … and by the many people who came to know her through your blog.

  1705. Comment by Annie | 08.6.2009 | 1:58 pm

    Elden, may God be with you and your family. I am so sorry.

  1706. Comment by Jo-el | 08.6.2009 | 1:58 pm

    I found your blog through Pioneer Woman and have been so inspired by Susan and your family. My condolences are with you and your family.

  1707. Comment by Carl | 08.6.2009 | 1:58 pm

    Elden,

    You and Susan have inspired so many people with your strength and perseverance. Your family is in my prayers and we will all continue to follow Susan’s example in the fight against cancer.
    If you decide to ride Leadville and need some support, I’m just a few hours away and I would be glad to help out.

    Jason

  1708. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 2:01 pm

    Know that you and your family are being surrounded by love……may peace and serenity follow.

  1709. Comment by Pete | 08.6.2009 | 2:04 pm

    Elden and family-

    I am so sorry to hear your news. Thank-you for sharing with all of us during this battle, Susan, you and your family are an inspiration.

    -pete

  1710. Comment by brado1 | 08.6.2009 | 2:04 pm

    Our most sincere condolences… from my family to yours. You and your family will in our thoughts and prayers. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1711. Comment by Peter | 08.6.2009 | 2:05 pm

    May God be with you and your family.

  1712. Comment by Tommi | 08.6.2009 | 2:07 pm

    Our most sincere condolences to your family. Susan continues to be an inspiration to all of us, thank you for allowing us to be a part of her amazing fight.

  1713. Comment by Chris | 08.6.2009 | 2:07 pm

    Grieving for my Dad is much easier because I can ride my bike. I hope you find the same comfort.

    Looking forward to riding in Philly’s LS Challenge for Susan, you, and your family.

    God Speed Elden,
    ~C

  1714. Comment by Max | 08.6.2009 | 2:09 pm

    My deepest condolences, Elden. :(

  1715. Comment by Lisa | 08.6.2009 | 2:09 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all…so saddened to read that Susan has passed…you are a true inspiration to your family and those you surround yourself with both daily and here in cyberspace…may your memories and children help bring you peace….God Bless You.

  1716. Comment by Renee | 08.6.2009 | 2:10 pm

    My sincere condolences to you and your family.

  1717. Comment by Torie | 08.6.2009 | 2:11 pm

    So very sorry. Words cannot express my sympathy for you and your family at this time.

  1718. Comment by John Umland | 08.6.2009 | 2:11 pm

    You lost a great partner Elden. You lost your soul mate. I’m sorry.
    God is good
    jpu

  1719. Comment by erin johnson | 08.6.2009 | 2:11 pm

    i’m so sorry…

    susan WON…she touched ALL our hearts…and your family too…

    God bless…

  1720. Comment by Pedalwest | 08.6.2009 | 2:11 pm

    Please know that our warm thoughts and healing prayers are close at hand for you and your family. We have learned a lot from your heroic efforts and her courageous battle.

    Blessings to you all.

  1721. Comment by Aine | 08.6.2009 | 2:13 pm

    So sorry. You and Susan are incredibly inspiring.

  1722. Comment by Hank Beaver | 08.6.2009 | 2:14 pm

    My heart dropped when I read your tweet last night. I am so very sorry! :( I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers!

  1723. Comment by LisaD | 08.6.2009 | 2:16 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Susan’s fight and watching this blog its supporters grow has been so inspirational.

  1724. Comment by Jen | 08.6.2009 | 2:16 pm

    So sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You’re right, there is absolutely no way anyone could ever say that she lost. No way at all.

  1725. Comment by Alex Baker | 08.6.2009 | 2:19 pm

    Such bad news but Susan is an inspiration to so many people and so are you Elden. Take care.

    Cancer – your days are numbered.

    Alex

  1726. Comment by james | 08.6.2009 | 2:19 pm

    Class, brutal honesty, pure love. Amazing.

  1727. Comment by Jim | 08.6.2009 | 2:22 pm

    My prayers are with you and your family.

  1728. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 2:23 pm

    I’m so sorry, and gratefull you shared the journey with us. You both have inspired many people to fight like Susan.

  1729. Comment by Justin | 08.6.2009 | 2:24 pm

    Over the past several months i’ve been reading your blog, I feel like i’ve gotten to know you and your family. I feel like I was welcomed into your family with open arms even though i’m just one of thousands who feel the same way. When I navigated my way to your blog this afternoon my heart sank and my eyes started to water when I read that Susan’s long fight is over.

    I feel like i’ve lost not an anonymous person i’ve only read about but rather a close friend.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Elden!

  1730. Comment by Scott HMB | 08.6.2009 | 2:25 pm

    Your family is an inspiration to all.
    My deepest and most heart felt condolences.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1731. Comment by Kala | 08.6.2009 | 2:30 pm

    Adding myself into the unending list of supporters. I feel as though I’ve grown to known you, your family and Susan’s battle in the past year from reading your blog. Her story hit home close to me, as I love my aunt in November from cancer, and she was also a fighter.

    Elden, even though you do not know me personally, or even more than just a commenter on your site, your family is most definitely in my thoughts and prayers through this very difficult time.

    At least we can rejoice in the fact that Susan has done so much for us, like you said, and also she is in pain no longer. That doesn’t make it easier, but may it comfort you to know that she doesn’t hurt anymore.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN. AND NEVER FORGET!

  1732. Comment by Andy | 08.6.2009 | 2:30 pm

    I am so sorry for you and your family. Susan fought as hard as anyone has and inspired all of us.

  1733. Comment by DanielM | 08.6.2009 | 2:31 pm

    Elden,
    I’m so sorry to read about Susan. You and your family are in my thoughts.

  1734. Comment by Rokrider | 08.6.2009 | 2:31 pm

    My deepest condolences to you Elden and your family. Although I never had the chance to meet Susan, tonight I am mourning the passing and celebrating the life of an amazing woman. I am so sorry for your loss. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  1735. Comment by badgergirl | 08.6.2009 | 2:31 pm

    My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.

  1736. Comment by John From Long Island | 08.6.2009 | 2:34 pm

    My deepest condonlences to you and your family. She put up one hell of a fight.

  1737. Comment by mikE | 08.6.2009 | 2:34 pm

    I am sorry for your loss. Never forget her and she’ll be with you always.

  1738. Comment by Elizabeth | 08.6.2009 | 2:34 pm

    My sincere condolences Elden, to you and your family.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
    Susan is a winner in my book!

    Peace,

    Elizabeth

  1739. Comment by nikared | 08.6.2009 | 2:34 pm

    Elden, you continue to be an inspiration to us all. The world needs more MEN like you.

    My deepest condolences to you and your kids and entire family…

  1740. Comment by BikeGirl | 08.6.2009 | 2:36 pm

    Elden, family and friends –

    My sympathies to you all. I never met Susan, but was deeply touched by her spirit and courage. I am so sorry for your loss.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1741. Comment by Richard | 08.6.2009 | 2:38 pm

    Elden .. I am so sad to hear the news… today I will ride wearing the “Susan” Fatcyclist shirt in her memory :) with my pink “Cancer Sucks” socks — and suck it does.

    So sorry for your loss, but rest assured she is looking down on us all — and she will not be forgotten

    Richard

  1742. Comment by KC | 08.6.2009 | 2:38 pm

    In the difficult days ahead, take comfort in knowing that you and your beautiful wife have inspired so many to take up the challenge and to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  1743. Comment by Kristy - bandychick | 08.6.2009 | 2:39 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. The fight she fought is one that many of us are or have battled – my mom just won (for now anyway), while my grandmother just got knocked down for the 4th time…she’s still fighting. I fear my fight will come some day too as it’s in the genetics. Supporting Susan, you, and the cause – ride on.

  1744. Comment by Donna | 08.6.2009 | 2:40 pm

    My deepest sympathy for you and your family. Susan is at peace now and pain free. She’s be watching over you and cheering you on in your fight against cancer. Susan will always live on in your work.

  1745. Comment by Molly | 08.6.2009 | 2:41 pm

    may peace and love be with you and your family. thank you for letting others going through similar experiences feel less alone.

  1746. Comment by kawika | 08.6.2009 | 2:41 pm

    i’m so sorry for your loss. there’s not much to say at this point, but you have many people supporting you. i hope that the coming days bring peace to you and your family.

  1747. Comment by DD | 08.6.2009 | 2:41 pm

    I’m sitting here sobbing. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1748. Comment by Jen | 08.6.2009 | 2:42 pm

    Thank you for your words through the years, for sharing your journey so far. I wish for your family healing in the future. Thank you for helping other cancer patients — for that we all WIN.

  1749. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 2:42 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

  1750. Comment by Danielle | 08.6.2009 | 2:42 pm

    Much love and light to you and yours, Elden. May you find grace. Know that she is with you and the kids at every moment.

  1751. Comment by AngAk | 08.6.2009 | 2:43 pm

    So very sorry to hear of your loss. I went through this in January. Treasure the memories.

  1752. Comment by Sandy | 08.6.2009 | 2:44 pm

    Susan was a true HERO. My deepest condolences to the Nelson family. Fatty, please don’t stop writing, riding and fighting cancer. You and Susan have inspired so many to join the fight. My prayers today are for you and your children.

  1753. Comment by BB | 08.6.2009 | 2:45 pm

    Fatty, I’m very sorry to hear of your loss. We are all supporting you.

  1754. Comment by tubenerd | 08.6.2009 | 2:46 pm

    I am very sorry to hear this Eldon. My condolences to you and your family.

  1755. Comment by jrp | 08.6.2009 | 2:47 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear about you and your families loss.

    I’ve been enjoying your blog for a couple of years and you have been an inspiration not just as a fellow cyclist but as a husband and a father.

    Please keep sharing because we’ll keep reading.

  1756. Comment by Juan Altitude | 08.6.2009 | 2:47 pm

    Tragic. Moving. Inspiring. Fight like Susan indeed!

  1757. Comment by Chris Palmer | 08.6.2009 | 2:48 pm

    Eldon, my thoughts are with you and your family. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  1758. Comment by Charlotte | 08.6.2009 | 2:49 pm

    So sorry to hear of your loss. My mum passed away recently at 59 and she so wanted to fight but cancer never gave her the chance to even start. So glad there are people like you and Susan fighting on the behalf of people like her, it’s inspiring, you do an amazing job with this site. Thinking of your family.

  1759. Comment by Peter | 08.6.2009 | 2:50 pm

    Susan, you, and your family have won the respect and affection of thousands. Know that our thoughts are with you now and in the future.

  1760. Comment by Racer34 | 08.6.2009 | 2:50 pm

    Elden,
    As you can see by the nearly 1800 posts above, we have all been deeply touched by Susan’s story. We are here to not only read your blog, but to also; sympathize with your feelings, join your plight, share in your pain and joy, and enjoy your personality.

    Susan,
    Thank you for your courage, tenacity, and will. The world is a better place because of your presence in it.

    We will never look at the word WIN the same again.

  1761. Comment by E-Jayjo | 08.6.2009 | 2:50 pm

    Susan has inspired me, as have you! So many people will remember Susan and her strength because of the honest way you wrote about your journey here. People who you guys don’t even know exist will carry on your message! I sincerely thank you for sharing.

  1762. Comment by Eric in Baltimore | 08.6.2009 | 2:51 pm

    Another wish of condolences to you and yours. Positive vibes and all that…

  1763. Comment by northern neighbor | 08.6.2009 | 2:52 pm

    Eldon and family,

    Thank you for sharing Susan with us. She was a great and noble woman and we all were inspired by her and your response to this awful assault on her health. She did not bend; she did not yield. Heroic.

  1764. Comment by Kathy | 08.6.2009 | 2:52 pm

    I am so inspired by not only Susan, but the strength of your entire family. I aspire to always fight like Susan! You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

  1765. Comment by Deb | 08.6.2009 | 2:53 pm

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. As a 4x cancer survivor, I have always hated the term “lost their battle/fight.”
    You are absolutely right…Susan did not lose!
    My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1766. Comment by blinddrew | 08.6.2009 | 2:53 pm

    So sorry to read this, so proud of Susan.

  1767. Comment by marit c-l | 08.6.2009 | 2:54 pm

    Please know that I am thinking of you, Susan, and your entire family. Sending as many well wishes and good vibes as I can. I am so sorry for your loss, but I am inspired by your and Susan’s message of courage and hope.

  1768. Comment by Country Girl Kate | 08.6.2009 | 2:55 pm

    I was proud to join Team Fatty and am thrilled at the amount of money the challenge raised.
    I’m saddened to hear of Susan and your post is such a beautiful tribute. My sincere condolances.

  1769. Comment by Sophia | 08.6.2009 | 2:56 pm

    I am so sorry to hear the news. You, Susan, and your family remain an inspiration to me.

  1770. Comment by Adventure Nell | 08.6.2009 | 2:57 pm

    My condolences to you and your entire family. Susan was a true fighter and her memory will live for a long, long time.

    Peace and Prayers

    Nell

  1771. Comment by Graham in England | 08.6.2009 | 2:59 pm

    Thanks for sharing Susan’s fight with us. You and your family will be in my thoughts

  1772. Comment by Jason | 08.6.2009 | 3:00 pm

    You guys are some of the bravest, most special people. My family’s thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

  1773. Comment by Melinda | 08.6.2009 | 3:01 pm

    So so sorry.We are with you in the same way you were there for Susan.

  1774. Comment by Jared & Kelly Wilks | 08.6.2009 | 3:01 pm

    Elden,

    Kelly and I are both very saddened at the loss of Susan. Susan was a great support to us when our twins were born. Following her example, we’ve tried to be as generous with others as she was with us. You’ve been gone for a few years and we had so little time to get to know you, but it was not hard to remember you when we got the news today. You are a great father and husband, and I’m confident Susan is grateful. Please accept our fondest wishes for you and your children.

  1775. Comment by BIA | 08.6.2009 | 3:04 pm

    Peace to all of you!

  1776. Comment by NorCal_Rider | 08.6.2009 | 3:04 pm

    My sincerest sympathy and condolences.

    I had not seen your blog until today when I saw a post on RBR about your wife. Having read your blogs, I can’t believe how strong both you and your wife were through out this most difficult time. I supported and took care of my father during his battle with esophageal cancer, and it was difficult just taking care of him – let alone 4 children too. Cancer truly is an evil that must be beat. I know I have and will continue to donate and promote others to support cancer research.

    LiveStrong and Fight Like Susan!!

  1777. Comment by Kqadams | 08.6.2009 | 3:05 pm

    Dear Elden & Family,

    I have been so impressed by you all, by Susan and her desire to keep making bracelets to benefit others in the midst of her own struggle, by your kids who both take on adult roles and keep being kids, and by you, Elden, who have amazingly kept your sense of humor and perspective, and kept honest about all the conflicting emotions that arise in a terrible time like this.

    My thoughts have been with you all for weeks, and today’s post was what I was dreading when I got into work this morning. I know your very strong family (near and far) will pull you through this.

  1778. Comment by Joel P. | 08.6.2009 | 3:06 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. Know that Susan lives on in the thoughts and memories of thousands who have found strength and inspiration from following your life through your postings. You have touched my life and heart and I had only found your site since the TDF. I have been a fighter and a fundraiser for several years in upstate NY for the Roswell Park Cancer Institute in honor of family and friends who have lost their battles with cancer and am now more resolved to keep up the fight.

    Thank you for all you do.
    Peace
    Joel

  1779. Comment by Judy | 08.6.2009 | 3:08 pm

    *huggles*

  1780. Comment by Phil | 08.6.2009 | 3:11 pm

    Absolute inspiration; further donations will be made.

  1781. Comment by tea-rider | 08.6.2009 | 3:11 pm

    Thank you for sharing your life and hers with the world. My prayers are with you.

  1782. Comment by eflinkster | 08.6.2009 | 3:14 pm

    My thoughts are with you and your family. Godspeed Susan.

  1783. Comment by bristol_bull | 08.6.2009 | 3:15 pm

    Hang in there man – some tough days and some better days ahead for you all – big hugs to the girls and manly handshakes to the guys from Colorado.

  1784. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 3:15 pm

    She didn’t lose. She fought, hard. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  1785. Comment by Leigh | 08.6.2009 | 3:19 pm

    My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. Susan went home knowing that she inspired thousands of people to fight the good fight.

  1786. Comment by Christina | 08.6.2009 | 3:20 pm

    I am so sorry. I am sure you and your family will find the strength to keep going, now that she is resting after this long battle. Sympathies from Milwaukee.

  1787. Comment by ChickWhoRips | 08.6.2009 | 3:21 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. I know how hard it is to loose a loved one to cancer.
    You are right she didn’t loose and neither did you and your family. You all became stronger through all of this.
    Many hugs, happy thoughts and memories.

  1788. Comment by Steve | 08.6.2009 | 3:21 pm

    Heartfelt sympathies from Saint Albans Vermont

  1789. Comment by Pat | 08.6.2009 | 3:22 pm

    You’re in my prayers.

  1790. Comment by Sudar | 08.6.2009 | 3:23 pm

    I wish you and your family strength and peace in this difficult time. You’ve been amazing through this whole process, and I am certain Susan recognized that. Through you, Susan changed the world, something we’ll never forget.

  1791. Comment by DebbieQ | 08.6.2009 | 3:23 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  1792. Comment by Don | 08.6.2009 | 3:25 pm

    Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss.
    The thoughts and prayers of my family are with you and yours.
    God Bless you all!

    -Don

  1793. Comment by montanapat | 08.6.2009 | 3:26 pm

    So sorry to hear about Susan. Sending good thoughts to you and your family from Montana.
    Livestrong, fight like Susan!

  1794. Comment by Michael | 08.6.2009 | 3:27 pm

    Many prayers and condolences. Thank you for the courage that you and Susan showed to the world and thank you for your courage in sharing it. She fights on, for her courage has inspired many others to action.

    May God grant you and your family His Peace.

  1795. Comment by Juliette | 08.6.2009 | 3:27 pm

    Dear Fattty – I have followed your blog for a few years now relating entirely to all your cycling posts. I admire your strength in sharing your families journey over the last few years and send my most sincere sympathies to you and your children, I cannot imagine the loss you are all feeling. Know that you are all in our thoughts here in Canada.

  1796. Comment by Jake R | 08.6.2009 | 3:29 pm

    Fatty,
    Im sorry. Susan is in a place now where cancer does not exist. She is in a better place now. She is free.

    My thoughts go out to you and your family.

    Jake

  1797. Comment by BGT | 08.6.2009 | 3:29 pm

    I’ve been looking at this comment box for a long time now, at a loss for words…… I’m filled with tears, awe and pride. Tears over the passing of your beloved wife, the adored mother of your kids and clearly a woman loved by so many. Awe over your strength and compassion through this difficult journey and your courage in sharing it so openly and intimately on this blog. And finally, pride in being part of the amazing community of people drawn to your website who have all tried to wrap their arms around you with the gift of hope, comfort, support and love. With heartfelt condolences to you and your family…. LiveSTRONG and rideSTRONG at Leadville.

  1798. Comment by Jennie | 08.6.2009 | 3:30 pm

    I’m so sorry.

    But you’re absolutely right, her fight (and yours!) has been great and inspirational.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1799. Comment by cyn | 08.6.2009 | 3:32 pm

    I’m sorry for your loss. keep fighting!

  1800. Comment by Rhonda | 08.6.2009 | 3:32 pm

    Very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and your famuily.

  1801. Comment by Lucy | 08.6.2009 | 3:32 pm

    There are no words that can erase the sadness and grief, but we are praying for you. You and Susan have inspired us to keep up the fight. Thank you for sharing your story, your joys, frustrations and grief.

    Blessings,
    Lucy

  1802. Comment by Jan | 08.6.2009 | 3:34 pm

    Thank you for your gutsy postings – about your life, your family, about Susan. You and Susan have been an inspiration on so many levels. May your good words and efforts inspire others to FIGHT LIKE SUSAN until those words become obsolete.

  1803. Comment by Erica | 08.6.2009 | 3:37 pm

    Our thoughts are with you.

  1804. Comment by Esther | 08.6.2009 | 3:37 pm

    There are many newcomers to your site today whose thoughts are with you. My dad died of cancer last year. I hope your family is feeling the relief of knowing that Susan is free from her pain now. Thank you for everything you have done to fight cancer.

  1805. Comment by RonN | 08.6.2009 | 3:37 pm

    May God bless and comfort you, your fmaily and all Susan touched.

  1806. Comment by bubbaseadog | 08.6.2009 | 3:39 pm

    god bless you all keep fighting this terrible scourge keep winning for susan for she won so many with her valiant fight….take the family away for a while may be to leadvile now you should ride ….ill always treasure my win susan jersey….take care my friend of many letters continue the fight. sam k

  1807. Comment by Stephen McKnight | 08.6.2009 | 3:41 pm

    My deepest condolences. You and Susan are such an inspiration to me.

  1808. Comment by Kevin | 08.6.2009 | 3:41 pm

    I can’t imagine loosing my spouse. I am so sorry for your loss. Susan fought the good fight. It is up to those of us who remain to continue.

    Daily I read your blog. Your words mad me feel like you are a good friend and neighbor. I have been and continue to pray for you and your family.

    May the wind be at your back. Put the hammer down and ride.

    God Bless,

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1809. Comment by Fay | 08.6.2009 | 3:43 pm

    So very, very sorry. I wish for you and your lovely children much strength, comfort, and serenity.

  1810. Comment by Dhscubs | 08.6.2009 | 3:46 pm

    God bless.

  1811. Comment by Mssi | 08.6.2009 | 3:46 pm

    She will soar on wings like eagles; She will run and not grow weary, she will walk and not be faint. God be with you are your family. Your wife’s courage and strength will give inspiration to all.

  1812. Comment by Lins - Aust | 08.6.2009 | 3:46 pm

    I am so sorry. You and Susan have done so much for the fight against cancer and will always be remembered.

  1813. Comment by Jake | 08.6.2009 | 3:47 pm

    Sorry, to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1814. Comment by Alison Shearer | 08.6.2009 | 3:48 pm

    I’m so very sorry for you and your boys.

  1815. Comment by Brian | 08.6.2009 | 3:48 pm

    You and Susan have inspired many. My thoughts are with you and your family. Keep fighting!

  1816. Comment by liz foreman | 08.6.2009 | 3:49 pm

    elden,

    our deepest condolences to you and your family. please know that your extended family (all of us who read fat cyclist) are thinking of you.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN,

    liz

  1817. Comment by heather | 08.6.2009 | 3:50 pm

    my sincere condolences to your family. i wish you all peace.
    countless thanks to both you and susan for fighting in such a visible and public way against cancer.

  1818. Comment by Henri | 08.6.2009 | 3:52 pm

    You inspire us brother. You have our sympathies from Halfmoon Bay British Columbia.

  1819. Comment by Mark | 08.6.2009 | 3:55 pm

    Fatty,
    I’m so sorry. Praying for you and your family.
    Love never fails.

  1820. Comment by Rob | 08.6.2009 | 3:55 pm

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with all of us. I will be praying for you family through this tough time.

  1821. Comment by bob | 08.6.2009 | 3:56 pm

    Thoughts and prayers from Kansas City.

  1822. Comment by Charles Cushman | 08.6.2009 | 3:57 pm

    Susan’s and your strength has been and always will be an inspiration to me. Thank you so much.

  1823. Comment by ricky | 08.6.2009 | 3:57 pm

    So many mixed emotions after reading the expected news about Susan and some of these heartfelt comments.

    It’s difficult to find the right words and anyway you surely can’t read all of these posts.

    Then I remember that one of the emotions many must feel is inspiration and realise that your blog is for everyone.

    Simply – thanks for sharing everything honestly and I wish all the best for you and your family in the future.
    Ricky

  1824. Comment by Naveed Gibran Benjamin | 08.6.2009 | 4:02 pm

    Elden,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Susan fought the good fight and keeps fighting through you and your kids. God bless you and yours.
    Gibran

  1825. Comment by Morag & Chris Stewart | 08.6.2009 | 4:03 pm

    We just started following your story and we’ve been inspired by you, Susan and your family. We are thinking of you. thank you for sharing your story.

    Morag & Chris, Ontario, Canada

  1826. Comment by Darren Hill | 08.6.2009 | 4:04 pm

    Elden, Susan has provided great inspiration that will live on forever. My deepest symapthies to you and your family.

    Darren

  1827. Comment by Chris | 08.6.2009 | 4:05 pm

    Fatty, I’m so sad to read this today. I wish you and your family all the strength and courage in the world as you cope with your loss.

    You and Susan are so inspiring. As you must realize, through your words and deeds the story has become larger than just yours. Thank you for sharing, thank you for teaching, and thank you for putting real life into a blog that I thought was just about bikes.

    LiveStrong, friend.

  1828. Comment by Paul | 08.6.2009 | 4:06 pm

    I agree that it’s not true that Susan “Lost,” but instead Won a victory. Her plight inspired Fatty to take up the challenge of publicizing the need to fight cancer, and by virtue of being a talented writer, has made Susan’s story real and compelling to thousands of people. As a result, thousands of people got involved in countless fundraising schemes to support the cancer fighting efforts of the Livestrong Foundation. We have gotten involved as well by raising money and attending the San Jose celebration, including the bike ride. I was particularly moved by the video with Eldon and Susan. Later on the bike, the public outpouring of support affected me deeply, and made me realize that there is a vast number of people who suffer in some way from cancer.

    As engineers, we like to talk about “root cause.” Dare I say that a common root cause is Susan? What if Susan had not fought (and fought gallantly)? Doesn’t it seem likely that she would have passed from the scene quickly and with less global impact? No, quite the opposite is the reality of her fight. The thinking path is: Susan, inspired Eldon, motivated Team Fatty, generation of more resources for fighting cancer AND more awareness among many, many people.

    As I read the FatCyclist headline, I was sort of angered that anyone might think that Susan “Lost.” I remembered how track relay races are run. Even though the “best” runners are often used in the last lap, sometimes the biggest gains are made in an earlier lap. If…cancer developed a huge early lead, I contend that Susan (with her amazing courage and fighting spirit) took a Big chunk out of cancer’s lead in this race. She ran her lap and now she’s finished her race. Cancer is doomed to lose the race eventually, and we will look back at those who had spectacular laps that broke down cancer’s lead. Susan will be remembered now and in the future as one of the people who was important in the ultimate defeat of cancer.

    Just my thoughts.

  1829. Comment by Chris | 08.6.2009 | 4:09 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve been reading your blog for a while now, and each post would either make me laugh or cry. I wish you and your children the best and will keep you in my thoughts.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1830. Comment by Travis | 08.6.2009 | 4:09 pm

    My heartfelt sympathies to you and all those who loved Susan. Susan is an inspiration and her memory lives on with all those who vow to fight.

    Travis

  1831. Comment by AD | 08.6.2009 | 4:11 pm

    Fatty – I am so sorry. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers, and will continue to inspire me.

    -AD

  1832. Comment by Paul | 08.6.2009 | 4:12 pm

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

  1833. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 4:15 pm

    I went to work today, saddened by your news. When folks asked what was wrong, I said “I lost a friend last night”, for even though we never met, Susan has had a part in my life and my families life from when you choose to share her story.
    To you, your boys and your girls, I give my support.
    To cancer, I give you a fight. Susan’s battle may have ended but all of our battle against cancer just got another reason to fight it. I’m working strong and doing my part to fight cancer (through Livestrong). Susan’s death will not have been in vain.

  1834. Comment by Jay | 08.6.2009 | 4:16 pm

    Elden — my heartfelt condolences. Our thoughts are with you. Jay

  1835. Comment by Sasha | 08.6.2009 | 4:16 pm

    So Sorry. Keep the memories bright.

  1836. Comment by cordy | 08.6.2009 | 4:17 pm

    You and yours are in my thoughts.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1837. Comment by maggie | 08.6.2009 | 4:19 pm

    thinking about you and your family. riding for Susan from here on out…

  1838. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 4:20 pm

    All the best to you and your family, thanks for the inspiration you provide. Every time I put on my Fat Cyclist jersey going forward it will be different, a good different.

  1839. Comment by Accident Prone | 08.6.2009 | 4:20 pm

    I can’t believe it. Even after following your blog for years and knowing how things were going lately. The idea that Susan has died is hard to stomach. It takes my breath away, so I can only imagine what it has done for you. I am so sorry. Thanks to you Susan’s fight will live on and someday will win.

  1840. Comment by Will | 08.6.2009 | 4:21 pm

    Heard the news from BikeSnob this morning. I’m not a regular reader, but I’m still keeping you and your family in my prayers. Live Strong.

  1841. Comment by Bob and Diane | 08.6.2009 | 4:21 pm

    Not sure what to say… Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  1842. Comment by Dave | 08.6.2009 | 4:22 pm

    Very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. It’s been a difficult read at times, like today, but it’s also been profound and inspiring.

    I hope that many lives will be helped or saved by your sharing of Susan’s fight.

    Thank you.

  1843. Comment by Tracy | 08.6.2009 | 4:22 pm

    I am a sporadic reader of your blog. We’ve never met, we’ll probably never meet. I’ve followed your story for a while now and when I saw the news of Susan’s passing on another blog, I cried. I am sorry for you loss, touched by your love and very grateful that you shared it with the world. I hope the outpouring of love you see here with help lighten your burden.

  1844. Comment by Lindsay | 08.6.2009 | 4:22 pm

    My deepest condolences!

    You are so right: Susan didn’t lose!

    Her strength and bravery has touched thousands of us, all over the world.

    She lives on in all of us who have been inspired by you and your family.

    She lives on in all of us who have been so touched by your willingness to share with us and all of us who are awed by your amazing wife’s strength and determination.

    She lives on in all of us who have shed tears over this news today, because she will not be forgotten and has created a passion to help fight this disease in many.

    She lives on in the hearts of thousands of people, who never knew her, but prayed for her, raised awareness and money in honor of her, and have sent thoughts and prayers your direction for months.

    I hope and prayer for comfort and healing for your family.

  1845. Comment by Roo | 08.6.2009 | 4:25 pm

    I’m so sorry. I have one of the bracelets she made. Every time I wear it will be a reminder to FIGHT. Thank you so much for letting all of us know her through your blog.

  1846. Comment by Ben | 08.6.2009 | 4:25 pm

    We’ve never met, but I feel like I know you and your family from this blog. My mom is currently fighting the same type of cancer as Susan battled, its a cruel thing. I’ve literally been in a daze since I read this last night – you are very much in my thoughts.

    Time for all of us to step up.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

  1847. Comment by Robin Price | 08.6.2009 | 4:26 pm

    I am so sorry to hear of Susan’s passing. If I can become half the warrior as Susan, I will be fierce indeed. Fight Like Susan!!!

  1848. Comment by Tom from Vancouver | 08.6.2009 | 4:27 pm

    My condolences for your loss.

  1849. Comment by Claire | 08.6.2009 | 4:29 pm

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN! Words to live by. Sharing your life, and Susan’s, has made us stronger. Thank-you for your generosity.

  1850. Comment by Mary | 08.6.2009 | 4:29 pm

    Prayers for comfort for you and the kids as you struggle to carry on without your wife and mother. Thanks for sharing and inspiring all of us!!

  1851. Comment by graisseux | 08.6.2009 | 4:33 pm

    This isn’t the end. Prayers for you and your family.

  1852. Comment by Erine | 08.6.2009 | 4:33 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and to yours, Fatty. While I never had the opportunity to meet Susan, she- and indeed, you- inspired and continue to inspire and encourage my little family. We fight cancer too- every day- and it was with a heavy heart that we heard of Susan’s passing.

    What an incredible blessing she was and is still, and what a gift you’ve had by being with her! My prayer for you and for your family and all those who know and love you is that you will all find peace in knowing that her life and yours have touched so many, and peace in knowing that Susan is without pain, keeping watch over the man and children that she loved so much. God bless you-

  1853. Comment by Michelle | 08.6.2009 | 4:33 pm

    You do not know me, nor do I know you, but I am *SO* sorry for your loss! (((HUGS))) to you and your family.

  1854. Comment by Gina | 08.6.2009 | 4:36 pm

    Peace be with you and your family.

    Fight like Susan!!

  1855. Comment by JB | 08.6.2009 | 4:37 pm

    *sniff* That sucks. I don’t have anything to add, really. Except this: give your kids a hug. They could probably use it right about now.

    And, when you feel like it, go for a ride. You deserve it (and probably need it too).

  1856. Comment by Jeremy | 08.6.2009 | 4:38 pm

    Such sorrow. She, you and your children define courage. May happiness enter your life again.

  1857. Comment by Tinkerbell | 08.6.2009 | 4:39 pm

    I’m so sorry and feel like I’ve lost a friend, even though you’re all on the other side of the world and I’ve never met you. My thoughts and wishes are with you and your family, you are such wonderful inspirations. Keep fighting and hugs to you all.

  1858. Comment by Amy N. | 08.6.2009 | 4:41 pm

    You also don’t know me, but I’ve been a lurker since Ree shared your story and it touched me to the core. Please accept my condolences on the loss of your wife. You’re right, she didn’t lose.

  1859. Comment by Lin | 08.6.2009 | 4:42 pm

    Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. All the best to you and your family in the coming days and years. You are a strong family and you have an amazing circle of friends.

  1860. Comment by Hovah Freeman | 08.6.2009 | 4:45 pm

    I’m so, so sorry for your loss. My deepest and most sincere condolences. You lost but her memory makes her a winner forever.

  1861. Comment by Jeff Bramhall | 08.6.2009 | 4:46 pm

    I’ve always been a cursory follower of your blog and admired that you’ve so successfully used it for advocacy but still maintained your irreverent humor.

    I’m so sorry for your loss and so inspired by your willingness to share and to do good.

  1862. Comment by Azriel Abramovich | 08.6.2009 | 4:47 pm

    My deepest condolences fatty.
    For years many people, as I have, have followed your blog and felt close to you and Susan, even without knowing it. She was a lucky woman to have such a family!

    Her memory will live on. Rest Susan, rest in peace.

  1863. Comment by Elizabeth | 08.6.2009 | 4:53 pm

    Regards and sympathy to you and your family. You and Susan have inspired us all.

    Fight like Susan!

  1864. Comment by Don | 08.6.2009 | 4:54 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. You and Susan are an inspiration to all of us.

  1865. Comment by ladeeluk | 08.6.2009 | 4:55 pm

    Just heard, my computer is down so I’ve only got the one in the office for the time being. My prayers are with you and your family. We gotta keep fighting this disease!

  1866. Comment by Lorraine | 08.6.2009 | 4:59 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. It’s not often that I cry for people I’ve never met, but I am today. You moved me with your chronicle of her fight and your fight as well. I promise to do my best to fight like Susan.

  1867. Comment by sharon | 08.6.2009 | 5:09 pm

    Dear fatty,
    I can’t find the words to tell you how sorry I am. At least her suffering is over now. your heroic fight was inspiring and through your words I felt I somehow understand , even if I was never in that situation – of fighting when there is no hope of recovery, focusing on the important things in life – family and friends. thank you for making us a part of that. sharon from Tel Aviv. Israel.

  1868. Comment by Lancitog | 08.6.2009 | 5:13 pm

    My deepest condolences fatty.
    I have been following your blog for a year. Your blog has been part of my family dinner discussions many atimes. Thank you for your example and your great fight against this awful disease. You have motivated me to “FIGHT LIKE SUSAN”!!

  1869. Comment by Dolph | 08.6.2009 | 5:13 pm

    Very sad for yours and your families loss. Keep on pushing on brother. Just ride.

  1870. Comment by Bike Rog | 08.6.2009 | 5:18 pm

    My condolences to you and your family. I’ve been following your blog hoping this day would not come, but when it did, I realized what an inspiration you and Susan are to the rest of us.

    Ride on Fatty … may you always fight like Susan.

  1871. Comment by Dan | 08.6.2009 | 5:18 pm

    I can only repeat what many others have said, my sincerest condolences for your loss.

    The next time I wear my Fatcyclist jersey it will have an even stronger meaning. Susan DID NOT lose. She is an inspiration.

    Go to Leadville and ride in her honor. We’ll be there and you’ll be in our thoughts.

    Fight like Susan!

  1872. Comment by Greg | 08.6.2009 | 5:22 pm

    Our thoughts are with you and your family.

  1873. Comment by Eric Smith | 08.6.2009 | 5:22 pm

    May your family be comforted in the time ahead. We are all inspired and challenged to have watched this battle which, by the way, Susan won!

    She ain’t fighting any more brother. She’s free.

  1874. Comment by Jen | 08.6.2009 | 5:24 pm

    My deepest sympathies to you and your family during this time. Susan is a true champion.

  1875. Comment by Ben | 08.6.2009 | 5:26 pm

    Fatty,

    My sincere condolences to you and your family. Ever since following your blog, Susan’s story has inspired me. My prayers are with you.

  1876. Comment by Rob Jones | 08.6.2009 | 5:28 pm

    Dear Elden and Family,

    I’m so very sorry to hear of Susan’s passing.
    My sincerest condolences.

    Rob

  1877. Comment by Nate | 08.6.2009 | 5:29 pm

    I am so sorry Elden..Know that we are thinking of you and the rest of the family

  1878. Comment by The Trout Underground | 08.6.2009 | 5:30 pm

    Nobody gets out alive, and it’s how we live while we’re here that matters. She lived strong, and served as an inspiration.

    What’s left? Hope, I guess – and the knowledge that the sun never sets on one part of the globe without rising on another.

    Godspeed, Susan.

  1879. Comment by Lucky Cyclist | 08.6.2009 | 5:32 pm

    If ever there was a time to be just one more, it’s now.
    So I join the many others here who have been touched by your family.
    I’m sorry for your loss,
    Thank you for including me(us) in this battle.
    Joshua McCarrel

  1880. Comment by eric | 08.6.2009 | 5:34 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. The fight against cancer will be won and on that day it’ll be your and Susan’s victory. You and Susan have made me a part of the fight against cancer and I promise I won’t quit.

  1881. Comment by Kristina | 08.6.2009 | 5:37 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. You and Susan are truly an inspiration, and you remind us everyday that a few people can make a huge difference!

  1882. Comment by Susan | 08.6.2009 | 5:38 pm

    I’m so sorry. You and Susan, and your children, have been an inspiration on how to fight and win against all odds. My deepest condolences.

  1883. Comment by Palma's | 08.6.2009 | 5:38 pm

    Our sincerest condolences.

  1884. Comment by Wonderdyke | 08.6.2009 | 5:40 pm

    Elden – No words to express my sorrow. Been trying to post all day but so many want to leave their respects. You were the inspiration for my blog and Susan was the inspiration for many to join the fight against cancer. I’ve spent my day telling virtually everyone I met about Susan’s courage in the hopes that I could move them in the way she moved all of us. Peace to you and your family. To the rest of us – damnit – FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!!!!

  1885. Comment by Harald | 08.6.2009 | 5:41 pm

    Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. Your fighting spirit continues to insipre so many. Thank you for all that you have done and are doing.

  1886. Comment by Scrod | 08.6.2009 | 5:41 pm

    All the best to your family. Find solace in the knowledge that Susan’s legacy will reach far beyond the four walls of your home.

  1887. Comment by Marc | 08.6.2009 | 5:42 pm

    My condolences to you and your family.

    Susan, you, and your family fought the good fight and never gave the cancer anything for free. In our darkest hour, we should all be like Susan.

    Take care. We will remember Susan. And we will fight.

  1888. Comment by Kelly Myers | 08.6.2009 | 5:42 pm

    Prayers, and more prayers going out for your family.

    I have been following your blog since finding you through PW’s site. I stand in awe of you and Susan.

    P.S. My mom just got diagnosed today. I thank you and Susan for your inspiration to go on and fight. My battle cry is ready thanks to you. Thank you.

  1889. Comment by Sayrah | 08.6.2009 | 5:43 pm

    I am so sorry. You and Susan are such inspirations of love. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Hugs to you all,
    Sarah K

  1890. Comment by Bobby | 08.6.2009 | 5:44 pm

    You and your family have our deepest condolences. Know that we will all keep fighting the good fight for people like Susan.

  1891. Comment by JB | 08.6.2009 | 5:44 pm

    My deepest and sincerest condolences.

    From someone who, a few years back, had to deal with a comparable situation, I’m sure you’re totally focused on others right now, especially your kids, but please do not forget that, at least once in a while, you need to make time for yourself. If the schedule can possibly be made to work, I think you should go to Leadville.

  1892. Comment by Tanja | 08.6.2009 | 5:46 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear of Susan’s passing.
    My condolences, stay strong.

  1893. Comment by Brian M | 08.6.2009 | 5:46 pm

    Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. You have been an incredibly strong husband, father and friend, and your children have learned what true love is. May you find peace in knowing that she is at peace.

    Brian

  1894. Comment by Pete D | 08.6.2009 | 5:46 pm

    Sad day. Be strong. I am saying a few prayers for you and your family. Cherish the memories.

  1895. Comment by TK | 08.6.2009 | 5:49 pm

    Susan, you ARE a winner. May you rest in peace. Down here, we will keep fighting like you, and for you.

  1896. Comment by justhomas | 08.6.2009 | 5:49 pm

    I cannot add anymore to what has already been said other then that you are in our thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

  1897. Comment by Aurelien | 08.6.2009 | 5:50 pm

    My sincere condolences. When I was diagnosed, I went to read your story through Livestrong. Susan was an inspiration through my story. I would to thanks her and you guys, and will for ever remember her and her strong attitude. You can always count on us for support and love.And maybe a worldwide cycle ride on the same day could be an idea to celebrate Susan.

    Be strong, love to you and your family

  1898. Comment by Jon Grinder | 08.6.2009 | 5:51 pm

    Man, I am so sorry to hear this. Please hug your kids, for me. And, if you need a shoulder, mine is here, in line with the thousands of others…

  1899. Comment by b | 08.6.2009 | 5:52 pm

    Very sorry to hear that Susan’s battle has ended.

    Both you and Susan are an inspiration to us all.

  1900. Comment by Carole | 08.6.2009 | 5:53 pm

    I am so sorry. My heart hurts for you and your family. May God bless you and comfort you and ease your pain. Susan is at peace.

  1901. Comment by the weak link | 08.6.2009 | 5:54 pm

    God bless you and your family in the days to come.

  1902. Comment by ComingHome | 08.6.2009 | 5:55 pm

    How can I express my sorrow to someone I have never met? I am thinking of Susan, you, and your family at this time, as I have thought about your both in the past. My grief is mixed with pride about her/your tenacity, braveness, and goodness. You both have changed me.

  1903. Comment by bec | 08.6.2009 | 6:03 pm

    I have been awed by Susan’s strength and by your family’s love. I am so sorry for your loss. Peace to you all.

  1904. Comment by Gary | 08.6.2009 | 6:09 pm

    My heartfelt condolences to your family. Susan’s spirit lives on in the inspiration her story will continue to provide to me and anyone else who has been touched by it.

  1905. Comment by bednie | 08.6.2009 | 6:11 pm

    It was a battle for the ages. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

  1906. Comment by dpcowboy | 08.6.2009 | 6:13 pm

    My gal Sal and I share a hope that you and your kids live with only the best memories of Susan. Be well, for all your days to come.

  1907. Comment by Emilio | 08.6.2009 | 6:16 pm

    I’m sorry.

  1908. Comment by Dave | 08.6.2009 | 6:17 pm

    Can one person really make a difference in this world? You and your family have allowed all of us around the world to witness that one person can. Somehow, we are all better people for sharing in your experience. Imagine how the world is going to change as each of us recommits to love more and to livestrong.

  1909. Comment by sm | 08.6.2009 | 6:19 pm

    My best to your family.

  1910. Comment by Bart McDonough | 08.6.2009 | 6:23 pm

    My family and I are very saddened to hear this news — very sorry for your loss. We all have something to learn by how hard she fought – appreciate you sharing the struggle as it has obviously inspired thousands.

  1911. Comment by Craig | 08.6.2009 | 6:24 pm

    Nelson family, my deepest condolences on your loss. I’ve read your blog for a few years and have been moved by Susan’s fight. The day you wrote that she was terminal, I sobbed like a baby and went and gave my wife a huge hug. Susan has moved many to action to fight this nasty horrible disease, that is her legacy to the world. Take comfort in the knowledge that Susan is finally cancer free and that you’ll see her again.

  1912. Comment by Linda | 08.6.2009 | 6:25 pm

    I knew this was coming, but it still made me gasp in shock. I’m so sorry but I am also so amazed. Amazed at thousands of comments from people, literally all over the world, and half a million dollars raised for cancer research. What started out as a funny blog about cycling has become so much more now, as you put you and your wife’s pain, dignity, humor and grace out there for everyone to see and be inspired by. Your efforts have inspired people, yes, but your efforts to raise money will help more people than you ever could have dreamed of. Not many people can say they have done what you and Susan have done. I know there’s nothing I could say to help you deal with the loss of your wife and best friend, but I am sorry.

  1913. Comment by Andy Morris | 08.6.2009 | 6:27 pm

    My thoughts are with you at this horrible time for you. Your strength, love and good humour have been an inspiration to me.

  1914. Comment by jarocco | 08.6.2009 | 6:27 pm

    Saddened to hear this news. Always hoped that somehow there would be a turn around. Add me to this long list of sympathies. You both inspired many of us.

  1915. Comment by steven | 08.6.2009 | 6:28 pm

    God bless you, your family and friends thru this terrible loss.

  1916. Comment by Mike Walkenhorst | 08.6.2009 | 6:31 pm

    Heartfelt condolences from the Walkenhorst family! Susan, you inspire us all! Thank you!

  1917. Comment by Dan Acker | 08.6.2009 | 6:32 pm

    I am sorry to hear the news. I was dreading this day.

  1918. Comment by Matt | 08.6.2009 | 6:32 pm

    I’m very sorry that things had to go this way. You’ve done an amazing job wringing every ounce of good possible from impossibly bad circumstances. Inspiring.

  1919. Comment by Patty | 08.6.2009 | 6:33 pm

    I work at a medical school. Lots of cancer research being done there. The fight will continue–for Susan and everyone like her.

  1920. Comment by jj | 08.6.2009 | 6:34 pm

    Elden – My heart aches for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss and for the dark moments that still lay ahead. Both you and Susan have epitomized courage and grace throughout her fight, and I have learned much from both of you through your blog. She will never be forgotten.

  1921. Comment by mieleluna | 08.6.2009 | 6:35 pm

    I thought of Susan when I was giving birth to my daughter nine months ago. My husband and I talked about you and Susan when we were celebrating our anniversary just two days ago. We are long-time readers and riders.

    Today the sky over Utah is unsettled. There is a dusty wind making the mountains hazy. I am a native New Yorker, from Manhattan. On gorgeous, perfect cloudless days in September I get sad. In that same way, on hot, windy, dusty, summer days here in Utah I will think of Susan.

  1922. Comment by Tammy | 08.6.2009 | 6:36 pm

    I’m brokenhearted. My condolances to you and your family. You will be in my prayers.

  1923. Comment by Annie | 08.6.2009 | 6:38 pm

    I have been filled with trepidation every time I came to your blog during the past few weeks … dreading this inevitable post. I don’t really know what to say, but can’t imagine not saying something. You and Susan have been, and will continue to be, an inspiration for so many.

    Being willing to lay open such a personal journey is something I cannot imagine doing. But you two did … and by doing so, you have raised not only over $500,000 to fight the vicious “c” word, but have created a lasting legacy for Susan. For she will be remembered by a legion far more vast than those who knew her personally. Livestrong Nelson family … there are thousands of us that wish it so.

  1924. Comment by Neil | 08.6.2009 | 6:39 pm

    I felt compelled to lend my voice to the massive outpouring of support and condolences.

    Thank you for sharing Susan’s fight with us. Thank you on taking her fight and making it your own, making it Team Fatty’s fight, making it our fight.

    You’ve given more of yourself than anyone would ever ask, in return I hope the sheer volume of replies to this news shows you what it means to us.

    Neil from Melbourne Australia

  1925. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 6:40 pm

    I am a very passive viewer of this site. I’ve seen Susan’s name many times. I have never even seen a picture of her, have no idea who she really is, and yet i still have tears. She won, God loves her.

  1926. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 6:41 pm

    May God bless and keep Susan and watch over you and your children.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o2qJl7TP9IM

  1927. Comment by Bill H-D | 08.6.2009 | 6:42 pm

    And the fight goes on! May WIN SUSAN be the battle cry, FIGHT LIKE SUSAN the mantra.

    Thanks Fatty for taking the long pull. As you can see we are many who ride in your paceline.

  1928. Comment by John | 08.6.2009 | 6:42 pm

    What an amazing legacy.

    A half-million dollars raised and counting. Two-thousand virtual strangers moved enough to leave their condolences – no doubt thousands more equally moved. A beautiful family.

    I did not know her, but Susan Nelson lived strong.

    May God bless her and hold her tight.

  1929. Comment by Genevieve | 08.6.2009 | 6:43 pm

    Dear Fatty, I was very saddened to hear of the loss of your beautiful spouse. I have learned a lot about riding, life, and love from your blog. Thank you for sharing, especially during these extremely painful times for you. I’m sending you and your lovely children my deep condolences and warm wishes, Genevieve (Vancouver, BC).

  1930. Comment by Torch | 08.6.2009 | 6:51 pm

    Her pain is over, but her memory will last in the hearts of your legions of readers. Keep riding, bro.

  1931. Comment by Vicki | 08.6.2009 | 7:00 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is being prayed for now!!

  1932. Comment by Lana | 08.6.2009 | 7:01 pm

    Very sorry for your loss. Being newer to your blog from Lance, I have read about everything, and more than once. It has been both inspiring and heartbreaking at the same time. Just know there are thousands of us out here that support you and family. Any my family from Minnesota will keep you in our thoughts, prayers, and our hearts. Thank you for sharing your journey as hard as it has been. It has not gone unnoticed or without love. LIVESTRONG fatty, Susan is very proud of you and your boys right now.

  1933. Comment by Lance | 08.6.2009 | 7:04 pm

    Susan will encourage us all to win . Stay fat,fatty.

  1934. Comment by Jeff | 08.6.2009 | 7:06 pm

    I learned about your blog today from a posting on my local cycle club’s yahoo group page.

    I read of Susan’s death and then went on to read your bio, then the Christmas letter, and then cried.

  1935. Comment by Bruno | 08.6.2009 | 7:06 pm

    That´s sad news. I´m also new to your blog from LA Twitter and even in that condition i can´t control the tears that drop in my face. My truly feelings are with you and your family. Respect from Brazil.

  1936. Comment by sansauto | 08.6.2009 | 7:07 pm

    Our prayers are with you and your family

  1937. Comment by Kate | 08.6.2009 | 7:08 pm

    My prayers are with you and your family.

  1938. Comment by Gina | 08.6.2009 | 7:12 pm

    I am not sure what to say. You and Susan are a great inspiration of love and “for better or worse”.
    Prayers to you and your entire families.

  1939. Comment by lizbon | 08.6.2009 | 7:13 pm

    I am so glad to see nearly 2,000 comments here. Just wanted to say that I’ve been very touched by the way you’ve written about her battle and your time with her the whole way through. It can’t have been easy to write about, much less to live through.

  1940. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 7:17 pm

    I just read about Susan on Bikesnob’s blog. I am so sorry. I have been reading about Susan for almost a year and have really been impressed by your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

  1941. Comment by Dave | 08.6.2009 | 7:17 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are headed your way. Take care

  1942. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 7:24 pm

    Inspirational Life

  1943. Comment by Jan | 08.6.2009 | 7:27 pm

    Elden, I’m so sorry for your loss.

    Love and Prayers from NH.
    -Jan

  1944. Comment by Meagan | 08.6.2009 | 7:31 pm

    So sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers tonight and in the coming days.

    Susan certainly did not lose. She fought until the very end and taught all of us what true courage looks like.

    Thank you for sharing your family’s journey with all of us, it has been inspirational.

    ~Meagan

  1945. Comment by McMorey | 08.6.2009 | 7:33 pm

    Like you, I’m a fat cyclist, and like you my life has been ravaged by cancer: my mother when I was 10, my father, a good friend, the best and nicest mother in law on this planet and many others but I can’t imagine the pain of watching your wife die as you (and my father) did. I hope your life will continue as my father’s did. He was a force in many lives and 15 years after his death I still find people who remember and respect him. Please accept my condolences and best wishes for healing and a continued full life.

  1946. Comment by Ted Heise | 08.6.2009 | 7:33 pm

    Lifting you and yours up in prayer.

  1947. Comment by ShedBiker | 08.6.2009 | 7:34 pm

    Cancer sucks. Susan fought the good fight. What a beautiful woman. And you were there for her. You are a good man. My thoughts and best hopes are – and have been – with your family.

  1948. Comment by Karen | 08.6.2009 | 7:35 pm

    I’m so sorry. Susan battled with such grace. She – and you – continue to inspire me.

  1949. Comment by Jessica | 08.6.2009 | 7:36 pm

    I am so so sorry. She put up a beautiful fight.

  1950. Comment by cg | 08.6.2009 | 7:38 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

  1951. Comment by shannon m. | 08.6.2009 | 7:39 pm

    I am so so sorry. I’ve been following your blog and rooting for Susan for a while now, and I want you to know that you are both a huge inspiration to me. Love to you and yours.

  1952. Comment by Michael | 08.6.2009 | 7:40 pm

    Thoughts and prayers from Richmond, VA. With Susan’s fine example, and your tireless efforts, her death will not be in vain.

    God Bless You and Your’s!

    Michael

  1953. Comment by Amie | 08.6.2009 | 7:42 pm

    I started reading your blog after the Pioneer Woman raffle. What I’ve read has been so inspirational.

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will in be in my thoughs and prayers.

  1954. Comment by Kathy | 08.6.2009 | 7:43 pm

    Thoughts and prayers to you and your family in this difficult time.

  1955. Comment by Anonymous | 08.6.2009 | 7:45 pm

    I will ride for your family.

  1956. Comment by Kara | 08.6.2009 | 7:45 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I came your way via Ree, and I have been so inspired by your dedication to Susan, your children, to the fight against cancer, and your biking.

    Susan sure did lead the charge. Amazing woman. And thank you for sharing her with us.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  1957. Comment by Leslie | 08.6.2009 | 7:48 pm

    I’m sorry.

  1958. Comment by sk8ermom3 | 08.6.2009 | 7:48 pm

    Elden, our famly’s prayers are with you and your family. Your dedication to Susan guaranteed her winning in the end. God Bless You.

  1959. Comment by Tomingeorgia | 08.6.2009 | 7:48 pm

    Prayers are with you my cycling brother…You have a great group of friends and family around you…Let them help you through this…and thank you and Susan for including all of us in Susan’s story of courage and strength…You two are an inspiration to us all…Livestrong Elden!! Tom

  1960. Comment by GrannyGear | 08.6.2009 | 7:51 pm

    Make an impact. Susan did.
    Thoughts are with you.

  1961. Comment by Claire | 08.6.2009 | 7:51 pm

    I’m so very sorry Elden I am thinking of you am your family during this time.

    Susan was the one person who inspired me to donate. Your exciting competitions and witty banter are all fabulous and I wouldn’t be without them but it was Susan that made me move from reader to doer.

    She will continue to be an inspiration to us all, he fight will not go unnoticed or be forgotten.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!

  1962. Comment by Brian Sherry | 08.6.2009 | 7:53 pm

    Fatty/Elden/Superman – the news came to me this evening just as I was finishing a ride. My emotions range from sadness – as you were obviously an amazing partnership – to relief as I cannot imagine having to watch someone you are so spiritually connected to suffer relentlessly. You are an inspiration in every sense of the word.It is amazing to me that people that I have never met have touched me so deeply. I shall ride in Philadelphia with both pain and inspiration in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with your family for today and those that are yet to come. Susan – godspeed to you – watch forever over your family for they need you now more than ever. Fatty – few compare. Ride on.

  1963. Comment by deb | 08.6.2009 | 7:57 pm

    So terribly sorry for your loss. Susan is finally at peace. Thank you for sharing your story, and all of us that have been touched by your story will continue to…
    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!
    Prayers to you and your family-
    Deb

  1964. Comment by Fluxus | 08.6.2009 | 7:58 pm

    So sorry, FC. You and your family are in my thoughts.

  1965. Comment by paige | 08.6.2009 | 7:58 pm

    I’m so sorry. She didn’t lose. You didn’t lose…your whole family are heroes to the tiniest hair on your heads and down to your toenails.

    I am so sorry that you had to be heroes in this particular story.

    Fight like Susan!

  1966. Comment by Adam | 08.6.2009 | 8:00 pm

    Elden,
    My condolences to you and your family from my family. I started reading your blog on my journey from being a fat cylist to just being a cyclist, the craziest thing is that along the way I cared much less about the bikes and more abot how you and your family were doing. Reading these comments, and how your story has changed, helped heal, and inspired is truly amazing. So many people have shared their personal story of dealing with the pain of cancer, I hope it only strengthens your resolve to continue fighting this epic battle. Please know that while 2000 have posted here, there are many more standing by your side ready to take up the battle call to rid this world of such a terrible disease.

  1967. Comment by CJ :) | 08.6.2009 | 8:03 pm

    Susan most assuredly didn’t lose. She lived, loved and fought like a champion. No one is truly gone until the ripples they create in life cease to expand, and Susan’s ripples will live on for a very, very long time.

    My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

  1968. Comment by Mark J. Aus | 08.6.2009 | 8:03 pm

    I am sorry for your loss. Your families story with its battle with cancer is an inspiration and reminds me what is truly important.

    Thank you for sharing this very personal battle.

    Mark

  1969. Comment by scot | 08.6.2009 | 8:03 pm

    sorry

  1970. Comment by Stacie | 08.6.2009 | 8:03 pm

    I am so sorry. She was and well remain a true inspiration. My thoughts are with you and yours.

  1971. Comment by julie | 08.6.2009 | 8:04 pm

    sending so much love to your beautiful family.

  1972. Comment by randomhigh | 08.6.2009 | 8:04 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. my deepest condolences to you and your family. we will always remember Susan for her courage, strength and love for you and your family.

  1973. Comment by Dan | 08.6.2009 | 8:05 pm

    Elden,

    I am so sorry, my deepest sympathy. You and your family are in my thoughts. I lost my stepfather last year to lung cancer, and the loss is still raw.

    Fight Like Susan!

  1974. Comment by Erin | 08.6.2009 | 8:10 pm

    I am a long time reader who has never commented. I have to tell you what an inspiration you have been to so many. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. And you are right, Susan didn’t lose, she lived and continues to live through you and your children.

  1975. Comment by Bonnie | 08.6.2009 | 8:12 pm

    I knew in reading your blog that one day I would see a post like this, and yet when I saw it tonight, my heart went straight to my stomach. I’m so sorry to hear the news and you and Susan have been such an inspiration, reading about your struggles and the good fight you have put up against cancer. I send my condolences to you all and hope you find strength in the love that you share.

  1976. Comment by Catherine Potter | 08.6.2009 | 8:12 pm

    I’m a former serious bike rider with stage 4 breast cancer and have been following your blog daily for two years plus. Checking on you every day, loving your rides, and so sorry about your loss. You are a fine person and my prayers go out to you and your family. Thank you again for sharing.

    Catherine

  1977. Comment by jaredsnow | 08.6.2009 | 8:16 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear the sad news. It’s not something I can even begin to understand. My entire family is praying for you and your family.

  1978. Comment by Keith | 08.6.2009 | 8:16 pm

    Hey Fatty,

    Of course I want to reiterate the heartfelt condolences previously extended to you and your family in ALL of the 1,943 comments posted prior to mine. I only became privy to your blog recently when L.A. made mention of your blog on Twitter. That day I found myself immersed in your musings, and crying tears of sadness & joy as I read as far back as my A.D.D. would allow. Even though I could never fathom the difficulties involved in caring for a terminally ill loved one, I felt apart of your struggle – you made that possible (quite unselfishly I should add).

    This is how I see it: Susan, raised out of her saddle, is dancing on the peddles locked on the wheel in front of her as she takes full advantage of the slipstream. As she approaches the line she moves left and with a vicious kick she leaps forward and drops the field in a final sprint matched by no other rider. As she crosses the line in 1st she lifts off her machine holds her arms in the sky in a triumphant show of victory – SUSAN YOU WON!!!!

  1979. Comment by Doug Gage | 08.6.2009 | 8:16 pm

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN
    From Orangeville, Ontario, Canada

  1980. Comment by Nancy | 08.6.2009 | 8:17 pm

    I am so sorry for your family. Your writing has been honest, and inspirational. My thoughts are with you and your children. Thank you for sharing your lives.

  1981. Comment by joliver3 | 08.6.2009 | 8:18 pm

    Nelson family, I’m so sorry to hear this. After the battle you all waged no one would ever say that any of you lost. My thoughts are with you all.

  1982. Comment by gjmAlcyon | 08.6.2009 | 8:18 pm

    Having watched and read all these years, I will not ever again sit astride my bike without thinking of Susan and her fight. I will not ever again turn the cranks one revolution without thinking of her grace and courage. In that Susan lives on, forever.

  1983. Comment by Heather | 08.6.2009 | 8:19 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. Susan was so blessed to have you. And we all know how you feel about her. The fight continues. We won’t let you down. Peace, my friend.

  1984. Comment by Elizabeth | 08.6.2009 | 8:23 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. It was a privilege to know her, just a little, through your postings. She was a brave woman.

  1985. Comment by Cat | 08.6.2009 | 8:25 pm

    The post I loved the most about your life with Susan is Gratitude (5-09-08)-I have it bookmarked. You talk about what “six months to live” really means. I am so glad you and Susan and your family got more time than was expected.

    Thank you for sharing this most intimate journey with us. I know I have done a lot of thinking about what I would be like if ever my husband and I are in this situation-I hope we would Fight Like Susan and Eldon.

  1986. Comment by Ricky-Davy | 08.6.2009 | 8:25 pm

    My deepest sympathy to the entire, extended Nelson clan. Your loss could never be measured. Her story, through your writings, have inspired a group to come together for a single purpose, fight cancer as hard as Susan did.
    I am so sorry for your loss. WIN SUSAN!!!!!!!

  1987. Comment by Jason Crane | 08.6.2009 | 8:26 pm

    I wish love and peace for you and your family.

    Jason

  1988. Comment by Rob and Lisa | 08.6.2009 | 8:28 pm

    We sit together at the table tonight as husband and wife thinking of your loss and crying over the news. You and your wife are inspirational to us and we will not forget Susan. My husband wears a Team Fatty jersey at every bike race in her honor and was hoping to medal this past weekend for her. We’ll miss her and never even met her. What a gift she had to make that happen. We’ll be praying for healing during this tough time for you and your family. From Lake Mills, WI.

  1989. Comment by Kris | 08.6.2009 | 8:29 pm

    I am sorry for your loss. I hope your memories and the knowlege that she’s at peace and not in pain give you comfort. You’re in my prayers.

  1990. Comment by the inadvertent farmer | 08.6.2009 | 8:30 pm

    Every day I visit here dI pray that this post will never come…I am so sorry for your loss. Your inspiration has been vast, I don’t think you will ever know just how many lives you and Susan have touched, thank you. Kim

  1991. Comment by Ina | 08.6.2009 | 8:33 pm

    Fatty
    I have only recently begun following your blog. But know this. Since reading about Susan, she’s given me the strength and the drive to quit smoking for good. I haven’t had a cigarette in 3 weeks. And I thank Susan and you. My deepest sympathy and everflowing rivers of tears to you and your children in this time. Susan didn’t lose. She lived strong. And she’s given me the strength to live long(er).

  1992. Comment by Terry | 08.6.2009 | 8:34 pm

    Over the years your family became a part of ours, we learned to bike, we laughed with you, we learned to get involved and make a difference. Now we cry and greive with you.

  1993. Comment by TimZim | 08.6.2009 | 8:36 pm

    So sorry to hear about your loss; I hope that we get to $1M soon, all for Susan.

  1994. Comment by G. Merrill | 08.6.2009 | 8:36 pm

    My sincere condolences, Eldon. Thank you for sharing your story with the world. The impact you’ve made cannot be measured in donation dollars. Many people I know have been following your blog with great wonder, concern, and interest. She was an inspiration and so are you. May your family and children be blessed with understanding and peace at this difficult time.

  1995. Comment by Jen | 08.6.2009 | 8:37 pm

    Deepest sympathies to you and your family.

  1996. Comment by david davis | 08.6.2009 | 8:39 pm

    We are sorry for your loss. You are the girls are im out thoughts.

    DD

  1997. Comment by Dustin | 08.6.2009 | 8:39 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  1998. Comment by System6 | 08.6.2009 | 8:39 pm

    Wishing you peace in your life. Keep going.

  1999. Comment by Jason | 08.6.2009 | 8:42 pm

    After reading your blog pretty much everyday for the last 3 years, I feel that your family is part of my family in many ways. When I read the first line tears welled up in my eyes and the knot was in my stomach.

    I am deeply saddened for your loss but am happy that Susan taught cancer that it picked the wrong person to pick a fight with. Your family has also taught all of us that not fighting cancer isn’t the way that we should act.

    FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

  2000. Comment by Bnp | 08.6.2009 | 8:42 pm

    Both of you have inspired me. From now on I will Fight Like Susan.

  2001. Comment by Melody | 08.6.2009 | 8:43 pm

    I’m so sorry Eldon, for you and your kids and family. I’m glad Susan is at peace and I hope you all will be soon. I’ve signed on every day to check your blog knowing one day the news would come – good or bad. Peace to all of you.

  2002. Comment by Leonie | 08.6.2009 | 8:44 pm

    Please accept my condolences, I have followed your blog for a long time now and was so hoping for a miracle for you both. My thoughts are with you and your children at this sad time. Please take comfort in the all messages and support that you have recieved from around the world, so many people have been touched by your kindness, endurance and love.

    I have made a donation today in honour of Susan

    Condolences and love from Australia

  2003. Comment by Jeremy | 08.6.2009 | 8:44 pm

    1998+ posts says it all.

  2004. Comment by Lisa | 08.6.2009 | 8:47 pm

    I just want to add my condolenses to the many others expressed here. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I will pray that you each have peace in your hearts and the strength each day to fight like Susan.

  2005. Comment by erik | 08.6.2009 | 8:54 pm

    Sorry Elden.

    What a difference you and Susan made.

    Peace and love for you and family.

  2006. Comment by txhorns | 08.6.2009 | 8:56 pm

    My sympathies and best hopes for your family. Peace be with you.

  2007. Comment by Thursday's Child | 08.6.2009 | 8:58 pm

    Oh honey. I wish I’d known her the way you’d known her and come to love her the way you did. But even the small window into your life that you gave me in your blog revealed how amazing she was. My life was enriched by her life. She will be missed and not forgotten – I will take her fighting spirit into the future with me to battle every day, to live life to the fullest. Thank you to your lovely Susan, and thank you to you, too.

  2008. Comment by Patrick | 08.6.2009 | 9:00 pm

    Elden,

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your family’s story has touched me deeply. My heart goes out to you and your family.

    Pat

  2009. Comment by ekopski | 08.6.2009 | 9:02 pm

    Susan is still fighting, through me, through you, through all of us…our prayers are with you and your family.

  2010. Comment by Angela | 08.6.2009 | 9:03 pm

    So sorry for your loss, may you and your family find peace at this difficult time.

  2011. Comment by naru | 08.6.2009 | 9:04 pm

    My deepest sympathies for you and your kids.
    Susan’s spritit will forever live amongst us.

    As I write this to you, my 16 year old nephew begins his fight against brain cancer. He will begin 6 weeks of chemo and radiation treatment very shortly…

    I am grateful for what you and Susan have done to fight cancer. I’m sure that your efforts will help my nephew beat this cruel enemy. Thank you.

  2012. Comment by Jeri | 08.6.2009 | 9:04 pm

    My heart aches for your loss, and your childern’s loss of their mother. She will look over you all from her now peaceful, painless place and will live in your hearts forever. Thank you for sharing her, and your life, with us. May peace be with you all at this difficult time.

  2013. Comment by Russell | 08.6.2009 | 9:06 pm

    As a follower of your blog, I’ve always felt like a part of a group of friends. Being involved with Team Fatty in the Seattle Livestrong Challenge I felt like part of a family. Thank you Nelson Family for enriching my life.

  2014. Comment by Matt | 08.6.2009 | 9:08 pm

    Eldon – my heart feels for you and your family. My wife and I have been fighting breast cancer for the past year. Like you, we have two children, somewhat younger than yours, but nevertheless.

    You need support right now, and you have it from this community, your local riding community, family and friends – among others. The entire experience, as strong as you have seemed in your blog writings, brings stress like no one can understand except you. Don’t hold it in.

    Susan has won by bringing that much more exposure and understanding to the fight against cancer. Together, you both are bringing the fight to cancer in a big way.

    Win cancer patients. Win Susan.

  2015. Comment by Padraig | 08.6.2009 | 9:10 pm

    My condolences for your loss. Your effort and hers will live on.

  2016. Comment by rdatman | 08.6.2009 | 9:14 pm

    I was made aware of your struggle from Lance’s tweet, but found that I was deeply moved by Susan’s story.

    Cancer has affected my family too. God bless and keep faith in those things which are pure and good.

  2017. Comment by Ashbygirls | 08.6.2009 | 9:15 pm

    Your family has taken something awful and turned it into something beautiful that has touched thousands and thousands of people all over the world. What a fitting memorial. From our family to yours…

  2018. Comment by Dennis | 08.6.2009 | 9:18 pm

    God Bless you and your family in this difficult time Elden. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. You and Susan did fight cancer and did LIVEStrong, it will not be in vain.

  2019. Comment by Linda | 08.6.2009 | 9:19 pm

    My thoughts and prayers with you and your family tonight. Susan was an inspiration and her fight will live on through so many.

  2020. Comment by Glyn | 08.6.2009 | 9:22 pm

    Peace to you and your family Elden, my deepest condolences.

  2021. Comment by Ronna | 08.6.2009 | 9:26 pm

    What an amazing woman Susan was. You both have brought so much to my life. It is strange when some of the most influential people in our lives are people we have never met. You have my most sincere condolences.

  2022. Comment by Parker | 08.6.2009 | 9:26 pm

    Eldon:

    My deepest sympathies.

    Parker

  2023. Comment by AnnieM | 08.6.2009 | 9:27 pm

    Susan had so much love, faith and support in this fight…much more than anyone would normally receive in a lifetime..all because of you. [[[Hugs]]]]

  2024. Comment by paul | 08.6.2009 | 9:28 pm

    deepest sympathy

  2025. Comment by Gentleman Cycler | 08.6.2009 | 9:29 pm

    The pain will pass in time, but Susan shall live on in memory through you and all she knew. Forge on and deepest sympathies to you.

  2026. Comment by Zoe | 08.6.2009 | 9:30 pm

    Some, though are alive, live like already dead.
    Some die, but what left behind lives on for ever.
    Susan won.

  2027. Comment by Steve Davis | 08.6.2009 | 9:34 pm

    I’ve been pulling for you and Susan for a long time now and reading that she died brings a lump to my throat. I’ve been reading your blog for years and feel privileged to have been let in on your family’s struggle with cancer. Your writing is important and will undoubtably help others who sadly find themselves in similar situations. Thank you for sharing Susan’s battle with me.

    You and your children are in my thoughts. Heartfelt condolences from Boston.

  2028. Comment by Rogarr | 08.6.2009 | 9:35 pm

    I’ve followed your blog for several years, my boys go to school with yours, and I’ve even done a couple of rides with you. You’ve opened you life to so many of us, and we’ve all been inspired by it. This news feels like a death in our family too. Stay strong, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Fight like Susan!!!!!

  2029. Comment by Christina | 08.6.2009 | 9:40 pm

    I don’t have any words, really, but wanted to say something. I don’t know you or your family, but have visited your blog often. I have known many people affected by this disease, and just spoke with my mom today about another family dealing with this transition from all-together to missing one. I pray that you will continue to be surrounded by those who are supporting you. Your words are amazing. I believe that God will make all things right again one day, so ultimately that is where our hope lies. But I also think that it is because of people like you, and the perspective that you have chosen to put forth/hold onto that there is hope for others. There is a fight, but it is worth fighting. There is a victory even though there may be pain. Thank you for sharing your life, and Susan’s.

  2030. Comment by Brian | 08.6.2009 | 9:44 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you. Susan has been an inspiration to my fiance and myself for a long time now. My hope is that one day the work you have done on behalf of Susan will come to bear fruit and this messy, god awful disease will be gone! Stay strong and FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!!!!!!!!!

  2031. Comment by Mike | 08.6.2009 | 9:47 pm

    I’ve already left my condolences, but I just want to say that you’re on my mind, Elden.

    I only “met” Susan once—back when she was pretty healthy. You introduced me by my blog name from downstairs, “Guess who’s here—it’s Caloi Rider.” I don’t think I even saw her, but her voice was audibly cheerful. I felt pretty socially awkward during that whole experience (never mind that I couldn’t even get Botched’s bike up the teeter until you lowered it—I was such a nerd!), but meeting Susan was probably the least awkward moment that day. In that brief moment, you and she seemed like the ideal couple.

    Like I said, just know that you’re on my mind. I’m not in Utah, and I’m probably the last person you’d ask for anything, but if I can do something for you, please drop me a line.

    “Although otherwise a lively attribute, hope stands quietly with us at funerals. Our tears are just as wet, but not because of despair. Rather, they are tears of heightened appreciation, evoked by poignant separation. These tears change, ere long becoming tears of glorious anticipation.”
    -Neal A. Maxwell

  2032. Comment by Linda D. | 08.6.2009 | 9:47 pm

    I am so sorry to hear of Susan’s passing. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

  2033. Comment by Jeff | 08.6.2009 | 9:54 pm

    I have read your blog for so long, and personally experienced so many of your battles, that you and Susan have begun to feel like family. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers, as Susan has been all along.

  2034. Comment by Michael | 08.6.2009 | 9:54 pm

    I lost my father and grandmother in the past year. I can only imagine what you and your friends and family are going through.

    Thanks for letting us all get to know Susan through your blog.

  2035. Comment by Chezhed270 | 08.6.2009 | 10:00 pm

    Thank-you for opening your hearts and lives to us even at this most difficult time. You and your family are in my prayers. You and Susan have inspired and will continue to inspire so many people to live better lives.

  2036. Comment by PJAndrist | 08.6.2009 | 10:01 pm

    Elden and family,

    Please know that you and your family have my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. I don’t know you and have never met you but thank you for sharing your life, thoughts and fight with cancer through your blog. Thank you for letting us get to know your family and especially Susan. You have inspired me to do more! Fight like Susan!

    Best,

    Paula

  2037. Comment by MarkB | 08.6.2009 | 10:02 pm

    My sincerest sympathies to you and your family, Eldon. Your lives, full of passion and purpose, have been a sobering reminder of the precious value of a life few others even register.

    Susan fought; you fought with her. She is now at rest; you will sing her song of strength, you and your wonderful children.

    When you see her again (and you will), she will have the smile that will never fade. As much as it hurts right now, it’s something to look forward to.

    Blessings of the Father to you all…..

  2038. Comment by DD | 08.6.2009 | 10:06 pm

    God bless Fatty.

  2039. Comment by Jeffrey White | 08.6.2009 | 10:15 pm

    I’ve been following your blog for some time now. I’m so, so sorry for your loss. But I sincerely believe that you didn’t lose and that disease didn’t win. No illness could even deign to compete against a wife, let alone a mother, nor could death. Thank you for sharing with us a little taste of the victory that was Susan’s life.

  2040. Comment by kathleen | 08.6.2009 | 10:16 pm

    thinking of you and yours. and fighting. like susan.

  2041. Comment by annie | 08.6.2009 | 10:18 pm

    Tender thoughts and prayers from Oregon. We cannot know what you’re feeling, but we hope that you and your family can gain some strength and peace each day.
    Susan is so loved.

  2042. Comment by Terrance Carroll | 08.6.2009 | 10:26 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You and Susan were and always will be an inspiration to me.

  2043. Comment by Correy | 08.6.2009 | 10:42 pm

    So sorry for your loss. I hope you and your children take comfort in the many happy memories you had together with Susan. She lives on in your hearts, and will guide your ways in the future.

    Condolences from NH.
    -Correy

  2044. Comment by Dean | 08.6.2009 | 10:44 pm

    Condolences to you & your family from Oklahoma. As a ‘fat cyclist’ myself, I was first drawn to your blog by the name . Your wife’s courage and strength and your love and compassion are an inspiration.

  2045. Comment by rick | 08.6.2009 | 10:45 pm

    sincerest condolences from Taos, New Mexico

  2046. Comment by threespeed | 08.6.2009 | 10:48 pm

    My deepest sympathies, and thanks to you both for keeping such a positive attitude. I just finished volunteering on the Pan-Mass Challenge (www.pmc.org) fundraising bike ride — we are all riding toward the same goal. As many of the signs along the route and on our riders said, “Cancer sucks.”

  2047. Comment by Kendra | 08.6.2009 | 10:50 pm

    Thank you for sharing your life and your story with us. My sympathies to you and your family.

    Kendra

  2048. Comment by VegasSwimMom | 08.6.2009 | 10:52 pm

    God Speed Susan on your journey. I donated to Team Fatty for Susan, the first such donation to LiveStrong. I will donate each year in memory of her story, your story, your family story. “Cancer Sux” was the tag line I used which was taken from Brandon in Las Vegas who passed last year from cancer. My new tag line “Fight Like Susan” . . . . . God Speed

  2049. Comment by Stephanie | 08.6.2009 | 10:52 pm

    Dear Eldon, you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers for months now. I’m so sorry for your loss. Let’s hope that your blog brings more awareness to this terrible disease. My mother had breast cancer 46 years ago, and she was so hoping that they would have a cure in her lifetime. She survived, but is now fighting pancreatic cancer all these years later. Fight. Fight. Fight Like Susan.
    God bless you all.

  2050. Comment by Jim Masters | 08.6.2009 | 10:59 pm

    :(

  2051. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 11:04 pm

    I’m a long time reader of your blog, and I just want to say that Susan was an amazing, strong, and courageous woman, and her spirit lives on. You are a hero for being there for her and your kids, all while raising over half a million dollars to help others in their fight against this terrible disease. My thoughts to you and your family.

    Sarah

  2052. Comment by Evie | 08.6.2009 | 11:07 pm

    So sorry to read the news…God Bless you and all your family…hug your children and never let go…God blessed you all with a wonderful Wife & Mother and now you are all blessed to have her as your very own special angel to watch over and guide all of you…God HAS BLESSED SUSAN first with all of you on this earth and now her home with him in heaven!
    LIVE STRONG! Live life…Cry…Laugh…& always LOVE!

  2053. Comment by Sarah | 08.6.2009 | 11:16 pm

    my heart aches for you and your family. I echo the sentiments of so many here who have said simply that cancer sucks! and I commend you in your efforts to fight it with all you’ve got. God bless you and your family, and may you find peace and comfort in knowing just how many lives have been touched by your telling of Susan’s story.

  2054. Comment by Mark | 08.6.2009 | 11:28 pm

    I’ve only recently been “lurking” on your blog, reading as you share your thoughts and being amazed at your openness as you write about what you’re going through.

    While I don’t know you and only barely know yours and Susan’s story, my heart went out to your when I read this entry and I wept for you and your loss.

    You and your family are in my prayers. Fight like Susan!

  2055. Comment by jym | 08.6.2009 | 11:33 pm

    I’m glad you posted this in the evening, because I don’t know how I would have been able to explain to my boss that I needed the rest of the day off because I was so upset by a blog post. I kept checking back all day thinking how strange it was that you hadn’t posted, and when I finally checked back one last time before bed (east coast here) I was absolutely devastated. Even now it has taken me 24 hours to find the words to express myself.

    The thousands(!) of comments here are testament to not only the work you have done, but the hope you have inspired. You have fought, and continue in an enormous way, to fight a good and proud fight against an enormous opponent. A fight in which you have enlisted an army and a fight in which we will, one day, all claim part of the victory.

    Please accept my deepest condolences at this time for you and your family and wonderful children. I truly hope that one day, thanks in part to the work you have done and the good you have inspired in others, no family will ever go through what you and yours have gone through.

    My peace and prayers and blessings.

  2056. Comment by Rick N in Torrance CA | 08.6.2009 | 11:34 pm

    Fatty, I am so sorry for you and your family’s loss. I came across your site only a week ago. Thank you and your family for sharing yours and Susan’s story. These must be difficult times but you have so much support from all over the world, it is truly amazing and reading some of the comments reaffirms my belief in the goodness of people. God bless you and your family and know if you need anything, your family, friends and your internet friends will be there to help.

  2057. Comment by Stacy | 08.6.2009 | 11:42 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all now. We are so deeply sorry. Rest in peace Susan and may your legacy live on forever. Fighting on…

  2058. Comment by Janet Lyn | 08.6.2009 | 11:42 pm

    Typing through tears, and I don’t even know you and your much-loved wife Susan, except through your writing. But I know you and your family are in agony at her loss.

    There really are no words…only heartfelt prayers for you and your children for grace, strength, peace and some measure of comfort from all the love surrounding all of you now.

  2059. Comment by Di | 08.6.2009 | 11:51 pm

    Wow. I just don’t know how to express this sense of emptiness. I know it is a difficult journey, but God gave you and Susan a prominent role. She has certainly earned her reward in Heaven, as have you.

  2060. Comment by Jeff | 08.6.2009 | 11:55 pm

    I lost my wife, Diane, to metastatic sarcoma in 1996. She fought cancer on her own terms and with every fiber of her being, but despite aggressive chemo and radiation, she lived only 6 months after diagnosis and died 2 weeks before her 31st birthday. Reading your blog brought back so many memories, some bad, some truly wonderful, and some I had almost forgotten. You’ve made a tremendous difference not only in the fight against cancer, but also by touching the lives of countless new friends, most of whom you don’t know and will never meet. You’ve handled life’s hills, peaks, descents, switchbacks, and obstacles with strength, perserverence, dignity, love, and humor. You’ve cleared the toughest “moves” life will ever throw at a person–perhaps a bit bruised, but not beaten–and now standing not at the end of the trail but at the beginning of a new one. Ready to ride foward towards shaping a future in which cancer is read about in history books, not medical texts. Big Tibble as a metaphor for life! Susan will live forever through you and through all you continue to do on her behalf and on behalf of all of us who have ever been touched by cancer. Thank you for sharing Susan and your family with us and for inspiring us to continue to fight like Diane, fight like Susan, and LiveStrong. My heartfelt thoughts and best wishes for you and your family during these difficult times. With respect and admiration, from Winston-Salem, NC,

    Jeff

  2061. Comment by lisa | 08.7.2009 | 12:00 am

    my heart goes out to you and your family… I am so so sorry.

  2062. Comment by Gordon In Melb, Australia | 08.7.2009 | 12:00 am

    My sympathies to you and your family.

    In my book you are all winners, just like Susan.

    Keep fighting and riding.

  2063. Comment by Sarah | 08.7.2009 | 12:15 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family. Susan was an inspiration to us all.

  2064. Comment by bunnygirl | 08.7.2009 | 12:39 am

    The body passes but the love lives on. Prayers and best wishes to you and your family.

  2065. Comment by ScottN | 08.7.2009 | 12:41 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family. I’ve been following your blog on and off for a while now and have found it interesting, thought-provoking and heartbreaking at times.

    Susan’s fight and you and your family’s support of her and the fight against cancer is inspirational.

  2066. Comment by Simon Sharwood | 08.7.2009 | 12:58 am

    My sincere condolences to you all. Susan’s experiences and your family’s dignified responses have been inspirational.

  2067. Comment by Nix | 08.7.2009 | 1:03 am

    My heart goes out to you and all your close ones. Couldn’t leave a reaction yesterday, was just crying. Despite never met each other in real, want to be able to come over and give you a big bear hug.

    Thank you Elden for sharing this news with us, can’t imagine how it must be now for you.

    Love from Cape Town, South Africa

  2068. Comment by Luigi | 08.7.2009 | 1:04 am

    Fatcyclist, I’m so sorry to hear this.
    Susan, your spirit lives on, your children stay with a great man.
    Thought that the best way for me to show my condolences is to make a donation to LAF.
    I’ve a very special friend in Brasil who’s also fighting cancer.
    Sympathies from Italy

  2069. Comment by Laughing Orca Ranch | 08.7.2009 | 1:04 am

    Susan is a WINNER! She touched thousands of people through the battle that she was fighting and caused them to rally together to fight with her.

    Yay Susan!!!!!

    Now you and your family will continue her battle and carry the torch. You won’t give up, no matter how sad and lonely for her you might get. Fight like Susan!

    Hugs for all of your family, and for you and your children especially.

    ~Lisa
    New Mexico, USA

  2070. Comment by Beth | 08.7.2009 | 1:04 am

    I’m sure your hearts are heavy. May her spirit lift you to great heights. Her life was inspirational and valiant. Your memories must be deep and great. Rejoice in them.

    Humbly, I offer my sympathy.

  2071. Comment by Gareth | 08.7.2009 | 1:24 am

    So sorry to hear of your loss.
    My thoughts are with you and your family in this difficult time.
    Stay Strong!

  2072. Comment by Nico | 08.7.2009 | 1:29 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. Much love from Germany to you and your family.

    *Nico

  2073. Comment by Shari | 08.7.2009 | 1:29 am

    Heartfelt sympathies to you and your family, and deep appreciation for how you’ve shared your journey, the good and the bad. Thank you, Elden. I’m so, so sorry.

  2074. Comment by Tim D | 08.7.2009 | 1:33 am

    I hope that over the next years you and especially your children can read these comments and realise what a truly amazing family they are part of.

    Our thoughts are with you.

  2075. Comment by Dan O | 08.7.2009 | 1:44 am

    Wow – sorry to hear that.

    With time, hope you and your kids get through this okay.

  2076. Comment by Ben | 08.7.2009 | 1:51 am

    Sympathies from London.

  2077. Comment by Jennifer | 08.7.2009 | 2:08 am

    Your strength has motivated me through your blog. Looking forward to your next entry, no matter when you write it. As a French residant, I’ve never thought cycling was interesting until I read your blog. But your dedication to your family and fight against the unknown is so inspirational to me and others. Sympathies to you and family of champions!

  2078. Comment by Rob C | 08.7.2009 | 2:36 am

    I was so very very sorry to hear about Susan, much more than I thought possible for someone I’d never met. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  2079. Comment by Dave | 08.7.2009 | 2:50 am

    … so sorry for your loss. Reading this blog has been so emotional and inspirational.

  2080. Comment by Ludy | 08.7.2009 | 2:53 am

    You have been so brave, and I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family – you should be so proud of everything you have achieved.

  2081. Comment by Randy | 08.7.2009 | 3:08 am

    May you and your family find peace.

  2082. Comment by loo | 08.7.2009 | 3:12 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family Fatty.

  2083. Comment by Votske | 08.7.2009 | 3:15 am

    my condolences to you and your fam.
    life can be a bitch sometimes…

  2084. Comment by Mike | 08.7.2009 | 3:26 am

    So sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and family.

    There is wonderful poem by Dylan Thomas called Don’t go gentle into that good night.

    Do not go gentle into that good night,
    Rage, rage against the dying of the light

    From what I have read about Susan…you all raged

    Fight on

  2085. Comment by Abhi | 08.7.2009 | 3:29 am

    My condolences and prayers are with you. I have followed this for a long time and please do understand that you have inspired a lot more people to be brave and fight.

  2086. Comment by Sean | 08.7.2009 | 3:33 am

    I’m very sorry for your loss

  2087. Comment by Vale | 08.7.2009 | 3:38 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts. Wish I knew what to say, wish there was something to say, besides cancer sucks and let’s keep fighting.

  2088. Comment by Moldy | 08.7.2009 | 3:38 am

    Sorry for your family’s loss Elden

    Half way around the world in Perth WA, Susan’s fight and your devotion have been admired

  2089. Comment by Uncle Bob | 08.7.2009 | 3:55 am

    My very deepest sympathies for your loss.

  2090. Comment by Rowan | 08.7.2009 | 4:34 am

    While I have been a long time reader of your blog I have never felt I have needed to add a comment, until now, and even at this point I feel I am short-changing the moment.

    I think you and Susan have fought long past the point where a lot of others people would have retired.

    Somewhere there should be a monument raised to you and Susan.

  2091. Comment by Blake | 08.7.2009 | 4:41 am

    Elden, you have my deepest sympathies for your loss. I am a recent follower of your blog, infact I found it only after my Grandmother lost her fight with brain cancer. The first post I read described exactly what she was going through, and it touched me deeply. What you have done with the Livestrong charity means the world to me and my family.

  2092. Comment by Born 4 Lycra | 08.7.2009 | 5:00 am

    It’s about 24 hours since I first posted on this thread. I truly hope this is not deemed inappropriate because I am one of those people who always look for something good out of the bad. If you now decide to race Leadville (I am not sure of the dates) you and Susan who will be with you for the whole ride not just the drinkstops are so going to smash that 9 hour mark. If not this year then next. Susan will always be your real superpower as it would seem she has become for the rest of us. You are a truly remarkable family and I think Fighting like Susan has only just begun.

  2093. Comment by Monica | 08.7.2009 | 5:18 am

    Just found your blog a week ago and was saddened by your family’s struggle with this rotten disease. My sincerest condolences.

  2094. Comment by Mark | 08.7.2009 | 5:28 am

    Sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts go out to you and your children…

  2095. Comment by David | 08.7.2009 | 5:37 am

    We’re thinking of you and your family, there’s not much I can say except that you inspire us.

  2096. Comment by Lee | 08.7.2009 | 5:48 am

    While I’ve never posted any comments before, I’ve followed your blog for some time now, and really enjoyed the funny parts. Susan’s story, well, that’s been quite the drama. It’s a wonderful thing that you’ve been able to help so many others through her story.

    I’d just like to offer my sympathies and wish you and your family the best.

  2097. Comment by anji | 08.7.2009 | 5:49 am

    I am so sorry for you and your family’s loss. I will sing the mourning song for you, next time I am at the great river.

    Take care…
    angela
    Algonquin First Nation

  2098. Comment by Lauri | 08.7.2009 | 6:00 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I pray God will continue to bless and comfort you and your family as you work through this stage in your life. Keep up the fight Elden. You have been and will continue to be an inspiration to me.
    Lauri

  2099. Comment by Carol | 08.7.2009 | 6:06 am

    I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

  2100. Comment by Emily F. | 08.7.2009 | 6:16 am

    I’m so sorry. God bless your children and yourself.

  2101. Comment by Lori | 08.7.2009 | 6:17 am

    I am so sorry for your loss Elden. My heart goes out to you and your family.

  2102. Comment by Keith | 08.7.2009 | 6:18 am

    Your writing and Susan’s life have been an inspiration. God bless you.

  2103. Comment by Jono | 08.7.2009 | 6:21 am

    Condolences Elden. Your family is an inspiration to many. Thanks to all of you for bringing the story. And the fight.

  2104. Comment by Alex Stocks | 08.7.2009 | 6:28 am

    My deepest sympathies.

  2105. Comment by Riley | 08.7.2009 | 6:34 am

    My condolences Elden. Let’s all keep fighting.

  2106. Comment by Terry | 08.7.2009 | 6:41 am

    You all have inspired so many. Our fight continues in the name of Susan and so many countless others. We must WIN! God bless you all.

  2107. Comment by Paul | 08.7.2009 | 6:43 am

    So sorry to hear about your loss.

    I hope that Susan, yourself, and your family can now have the peace you deserve.

    Thank you for sharing your story with all of us. My heart goes out to your family.

    Paul

  2108. Comment by Emily | 08.7.2009 | 6:55 am

    All my heart goes out to you and your family. Just like all the other readers that you’ve reached out to and touched, it has been such an inspiration to be a part of your adventures. So sorry for your loss, wish there was something better to say. Wishing you the very best from Chicago.

  2109. Comment by Joanna | 08.7.2009 | 7:02 am

    Love is forever and all eternity. Susan will always be with you and yours.

    We will remember.

    Peace.

  2110. Comment by Niamh | 08.7.2009 | 7:11 am

    I am so very very sorry. There are no words. Thinking of you all here in Ireland.

    Fight like Susan. Fight like my mother. Fight and we will win.

  2111. Comment by Anonymous | 08.7.2009 | 7:15 am

    R.I.P. Susan. You put up an amazing fight.
    Prayers going out to all of you…

  2112. Comment by David | 08.7.2009 | 7:15 am

    Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

  2113. Comment by Jules Jergenson | 08.7.2009 | 7:17 am

    So sorry to hear of Susan’s passing! What an inspiration you both are.

    = GIVE LIKE FATTY =
    = FIGHT LIKE SUSAN =

  2114. Comment by Allison | 08.7.2009 | 7:18 am

    My deepest condolences, Fatty. Susan fought a long, hard battle and inspired many with her tenacity. We will continue to fight for her, fight like her, and be proud doing it.

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  2115. Comment by Linda | 08.7.2009 | 7:20 am

    peace now for Susan…and my prayers to you and your family

  2116. Comment by DLG | 08.7.2009 | 7:21 am

    My sympathy goes out to you and your family. Words alone can’t alleviate, so take solace in that which often can’t be described…the fight of the human spirit, it is one of the primary aspects that sets us as a human race (and your wife) apart. Peace be with you and yours.

    I was just a casual reader of your blog but I became more avid as my mother in law’s fight against leukemia progressed. There are amazing medical procedures she has benefited from and I know that it was born of research. Thank you for your leadership in LAF and hopefully a cure will be found.

    And thank you for the courage to share you story, you have touched so many and in an often inhuman world, remind us of the power of humanity.

  2117. Comment by Steve | 08.7.2009 | 7:24 am

    Words fail. I was just gutted when I read the news. Everyone keep fighting like Susan.

  2118. Comment by Deb Mc | 08.7.2009 | 7:24 am

    Thinking of you and the kids, Fatty. What a difference Susan made in so many lives. What a blessing she married such a good man.

    The fight will go on. We WILL win.

  2119. Comment by Shawn | 08.7.2009 | 7:27 am

    Elden, I have been reading for a while but never took the time to comment. I have enjoyed not only your upbeat posts on riding but also have shed many a tear. I think Russel summed it up very well a few posts ago. You were the one who decided to share your life and your story with so many people. You do walk as giants among men and I only hope that when I have a family I can be half the man you are. You have touched so many people through your story and inspired many more to go and kick the crap out of cancer. I know I have signed up for many more rides for causes because of you. I am a better person for it as well. I find myself enjoying my rides, my family, and my friends more now than I ever have. Inspiration…You better believe it! You have started something great and while it may have started as a way to vent it has evolved into something that you could have never imagined.
    Fight we will together..Win we will together…Susan we will never forget. I wish you and your family peace and God Bless. Your kids should be so proud of their mom and dad.

  2120. Comment by Chris from Dallas | 08.7.2009 | 7:33 am

    This is heartbreaking. You guys are in our thoughts. Give like Fatty. Fight like Susan.

  2121. Comment by Rosemary | 08.7.2009 | 7:33 am

    I am holding you and your family in my heart. I will do my best to come as close as I can to live up to the challenge of fighting like Susan.

  2122. Comment by mtnman4life | 08.7.2009 | 7:37 am

    To you and your loved ones my heart goes out. I felt a simmilar loss when my brother died many years ago of cancer and I know that he would appreciate what you and your family have done to support the fight against cancer. thank you! ride on!

  2123. Comment by Liberty on Bikes!/bob | 08.7.2009 | 8:01 am

    Thank you Fatty,
    for opening up your life for all of us to draw inspiration from. I personally thank you though,
    we may all have heros on bikes, but you have become a hero to many of us that sometimes have no clue when it comes to being a dad and a husband. Susan and you inpsire thousands, and in a multitude of ways.

  2124. Comment by Frank | 08.7.2009 | 8:02 am

    My deepest and most sincere condolences to you, and your family. Susan was an inspiration, and you are an amazing example of the power we each have to fight cancer. May God bless you and your family.

  2125. Comment by Elaine | 08.7.2009 | 8:02 am

    I’m so sorry to read this news. My heart breaks for you and your family. Your fierce devotion to Susan has been inspirational. Both of you have been such fighters and you will both continue to make a difference in the fight against cancer. Thank you for sharing such a personal story with so many.

  2126. Comment by single speed tim | 08.7.2009 | 8:07 am

    My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

  2127. Comment by Joe | 08.7.2009 | 8:09 am

    I hate cancer.

    I just hate it……..

  2128. Comment by aquaignis | 08.7.2009 | 8:12 am

    Elden,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
    Susan and you have done miraculous things in this
    ongoing battle against cancer…the grace, strength and spirit you’ve all shown during such adversity is an inspiration to the rest of us. Fight Like Susan and Livestrong! Blessings to You All in Light and Love! ~lisa~

  2129. Comment by Joe | 08.7.2009 | 8:19 am

    I too have lost someone to the evil that is cancer. My father died a little over 2 years ago due to lung cancer. One comfort you can take is that she is no longer suffering. Thankfully with my father we also took comfort in that he had a long, wonderful life– almost 82 years. With Susan, judging from how she fought that beast and what you have written about her, while her life was cut all too short, you too can take comfort that she had a wonderful fruitful life.

    Last fall, I almost lost my wife, another Susan, but this was to a virus that attacked her heart causing congestive heart failure. They had to resuscitate her 3 times and told me she would not make it to the morning. But she did and is doing wonderful!! There must be some sort of strength in the name Susan!!

    You have handled this situation with far more strength and grace than I when losing my father and almost losing my wife. May you take that strength and hold on to Susan’s strength and keep the fight going. Keep strong brother!!

  2130. Comment by Rod | 08.7.2009 | 8:27 am

    Rest Susan.

  2131. Comment by sarah | 08.7.2009 | 8:30 am

    Thank you for sharing your story, life, and family.

  2132. Comment by michwea | 08.7.2009 | 8:31 am

    Elden,

    I am so sorry for your loss. Know that Susan is at peace now. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Live Strong…

  2133. Comment by Charise | 08.7.2009 | 8:33 am

    My deepest sympathies for you and your family’s loss of a wonderful person.

    And Susan didn’t lose the fight…she started an amazing fight against cancer led by Team Fatty.

  2134. Comment by CG from South Africa | 08.7.2009 | 8:35 am

    Eldon
    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I have followed your blog for more than a year and have laughed and cried with you often. Your writing and Susan’s grace have inspired me to love deeper and do more and through sharing your family with the world I have learned to fight live’s adversaries with courage and honesty. May you find peace in the days to come.

  2135. Comment by Mavryk20 | 08.7.2009 | 8:44 am

    Fatty,

    The massive contribution from team fatty to the livestrong challenge this year is an unbelievable testament to the fight in both Susan and you. Together, and thanks in great part to Susan and yourself, we are beating cancer. I am so sorry for your family’s loss, but grateful for the inspiration your family has provided. We’ll be praying for you all in this trying time.

  2136. Comment by renee | 08.7.2009 | 8:44 am

    I am sorry to hear of your wife’s passing. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

  2137. Comment by Jeff Gates | 08.7.2009 | 8:48 am

    Elden,

    I’m very sorry to hear of your loss. Susan was a very brave person, from what I understand. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and the kids. Hang in there! Because of you and your efforts, her fight will be known by and mean a lot to many.

    Sincerely,

    Jeff Gates

  2138. Comment by Suzybelle | 08.7.2009 | 8:52 am

    My husband died suddenly one night 5 years ago. He didn’t get a chance to fight, we didn’t even get a chance to say goodbye, and our children didn’t get a chance to tell him how much they loved and admired him. I know right now SUCKS, but you are lucky that you were able to have some closure. Just remember it could always be worse.
    And . . . don’t do anything too crazy for a while. I made too many changes too fast. Please take your time.
    Kindred Soul ~ Suzybelle

  2139. Comment by Ailie | 08.7.2009 | 8:53 am

    You and your family are in my thoughts,. I am so sorry.

  2140. Comment by Courtney | 08.7.2009 | 8:54 am

    I have been hanging around your site lately after I found it through your sisters blog. I want to send my sincerist condolences and well wishes to you and your family. It sounds like she was an extremely strong women! God Bless.

  2141. Comment by alx | 08.7.2009 | 8:59 am

    sorry friend. stay strong. you guys are in my thoughts.

  2142. Comment by Mike E | 08.7.2009 | 9:00 am

    She had the best family anyone could have asked for to support her. The hardest part is over. My thoughts are with you, susan and your whole family. Take care of each other.

  2143. Comment by Andrew | 08.7.2009 | 9:00 am

    I live an hour from your front door.

    Yesterday in Utah the wind howled & wildfires raged north of Salt Lake. The sunset was a massive globe of red sinking through the clouds.

    Sitting & watching it with my 9 month old daughter, I could not help but think it was Susan’s soul, taking a final powerful lap around the Wasatch range, & the world was shuddering with her power, and the grief of those left behind in blinding smoke & wind.

    Although we have never met, I found myself sharing deeply in your grief, because of what you have written. I’ve been a long time reader, and like so many here, your articulate sharing of this horrible journey has drawn us in…

    As a fellow “public blogger” I know that they delicate things & very difficult to write well, they are a real-time art form, a serialized novel of a life as it is lived & sometimes ended, this one started out as one thing, and quickly became something else much more powerful, both in the money you have raised, and how so many have connected & shared & felt more thankful for our own health.

    There is no novelists roadmap on how to “write” this kind of experience as it happens, no social guidelines for writing profound pain & grief & making something good from it

    There is nothing good to come from cancer, except in appreciating the good days we have, in sickness & health.

    Your skill has brought about a singing, a roadmap, a perspective as powerful & moving as the crazy atmospherics in Utah yesterday.

    My deepest condolences and thank you for all you have done with tremendous grace & skill.

  2144. Comment by Boyd | 08.7.2009 | 9:07 am

    Sincerest condolences. I am so sorry to hear you news. Your story has transcended bikes and shown us that love, family and faith will endure.

  2145. Comment by L'Hippo - DFW, Texas | 08.7.2009 | 9:12 am

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

    Your bravery, honesty, and sincerity in this battle WON thousands of people over to the cause and for that you should be proud. She was lucky to have you at her side and be her voice.

    Love and peace to you, mon ami

  2146. Comment by Gary | 08.7.2009 | 9:13 am

    She is at peace. My heart goes out to you and your family

  2147. Comment by Amy Slate | 08.7.2009 | 9:27 am

    Eldon,

    I found your blog through PW and I was honored to make a contribution to help Susan and others fight the menace that is cancer. Thoughts and prayers from Baton Rouge are with you, your family and friends and especially with your dear children as they learn how to navigate this world without their mother.

  2148. Comment by Linda | 08.7.2009 | 9:29 am

    Oh Fatty. I am SO very sorry for your loss. I stumbled upon your blog about a month ago and was instantly hooked (I went ALL THE WAY BACK to read from the beginning!), and I’ve been keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

    Susan fought a good fight, and she was and continues to be an inspiration to so many.

    God Bless you and your family as you find your way through this time. You continue to be in my prayers.

  2149. Comment by Angela b | 08.7.2009 | 9:34 am

    Thank you for letting us into your lives. How fortunate you are to have shared such love. Take good care of yourself now, and your boys. All my thoughts and prayers with you.

  2150. Comment by Patrick - San Francisco, CA | 08.7.2009 | 9:38 am

    You and your family are in my heart and in my thoughts. Your blog has meant so much to me as I have never been able to deal with the passing of those in my own life.

    WIN SUSAN.

  2151. Comment by winner27 | 08.7.2009 | 9:40 am

    Susan is and will always be a winner. Words can’t express how sorry I am. Peace and love to you and your amazing family.

  2152. Comment by Ron K | 08.7.2009 | 9:43 am

    God’s blessings to you and your family – my prayers go with you,

  2153. Comment by ELF | 08.7.2009 | 9:47 am

    Susan has WON…my heart and the hearts of so many others. Thank you for sharing her with all of us. You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

  2154. Comment by Chris Deacon | 08.7.2009 | 9:54 am

    My Family and I are think of you at this time.

  2155. Comment by Todd | 08.7.2009 | 10:06 am

    I cried by myself in my office when I read the news. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

    Thank Susan, and you, for being an inspiration.

  2156. Comment by Kellie | 08.7.2009 | 10:09 am

    I am sorry to hear of Susan passing away, but am glad for her that she is out of pain and free from disease. What an inspiration you, Susan and your family have been while you have all fought against this disease! And I love your observation – you are so right – she didn’t lose! She fought hard and her ultimate reward is to be in heaven – free of her illness and as beautiful as you always remembered her to be! I hope you and your family continue to take good care of yourselves – lots of hugs, tears and talking will get you through the next days, months. I’m experiencing that in my own family – it will be two years this August 27th since I lost my husband and my children’s father. Time will help, I promise. God Bless all of you.

  2157. Comment by Cortney | 08.7.2009 | 10:11 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family. Thank you so much for sharing this painful and inspiring journey with all of us. Words cannot express what a gift it has been. Thank you Susan.

  2158. Comment by Kate | 08.7.2009 | 10:12 am

    I am sorry for your family’s loss. But you should know that you and Susan have really inspired a lot of people, and I am grateful to you.

    Thank you for sharing her (and yourself) with us.

  2159. Comment by Jill | 08.7.2009 | 10:18 am

    Thank you for sharing one of life’s most difficcult journeys. As difficult as it may be, the sun will shine embracing you with Susan’s love.

  2160. Comment by Susan C | 08.7.2009 | 10:23 am

    I’m so sorry to hear about Susan’s passing. I lost my dear sister-in-law to breast cancer on August 6th of last year. Her name was also Susan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  2161. Comment by Laura Conaway | 08.7.2009 | 10:25 am

    Please know how sorry I am that this happened and how inspired I’ve been by your love and courage. Ride on, and please, keep writing.

  2162. Comment by kaye | 08.7.2009 | 10:25 am

    absolutely right………..she didn’t lose – she has courageously lead! Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family – kaye

  2163. Comment by donna | 08.7.2009 | 10:35 am

    I am so sorry for your loss – what an inspiration you and your family have been. God bless – donna

  2164. Comment by Jan B | 08.7.2009 | 10:37 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family. You are in my prayers.

  2165. Comment by Jo | 08.7.2009 | 10:39 am

    I am so sorry to hear of your beautiful wife’s passing. You are an inspiring family and I wish you all of God’s comfort and love in the coming days. Peace be with you.

  2166. Comment by Teresa | 08.7.2009 | 10:40 am

    I saw on Pioneer Woman that Susan had died. I send you and your family my deepest sympathies for your loss. I will say a prayer for you all.

  2167. Comment by Sheila Barfield | 08.7.2009 | 10:40 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. I read about it in REE’s Website and want to drop a line. You have a lot of well wishers there too.

  2168. Comment by Angie from iHeartFaces | 08.7.2009 | 10:43 am

    I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss. I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers.

  2169. Comment by Kelly S. | 08.7.2009 | 10:44 am

    My father died of a brain tumor. While nothing can fill the void cancer causes, thank you for your efforts to fight.

    May happy memories comfort you in your time of loss.

    Kelly in Ohio

  2170. Comment by Mark | 08.7.2009 | 10:46 am

    Sorry for your loss. Cancer effects all of us. My father-in-law is fighting Pancreatic Cancer right now and it’s taking it’s toll, as I am sure you know. Don’t stop till there is a cure!

  2171. Comment by Chris | 08.7.2009 | 10:49 am

    I am so so sorry. I lost my grandma to breast cancer.

  2172. Comment by stacyrings | 08.7.2009 | 10:52 am

    So very sorry to hear about Susan. I hate cancer. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you all.

  2173. Comment by Sue | 08.7.2009 | 10:53 am

    My loving prayers are with you, and your family today. You’ve been an inspiration to 1000’s, and you were a rock to your wife when she needed you most. You’re a good man, and God truly knew what he was doing when he put you two together.

    Thank you for sharing your story with us, she leaves an incredible legacy behind her.

  2174. Comment by Pam Armstrong | 08.7.2009 | 10:53 am

    So sorry to hear about Susan. But things happen for a reason, and obviously the reason was so that Susan could inspire you and thousands of others to help fight cancer and live life more fully. Susan won big time.

  2175. Comment by Jamie | 08.7.2009 | 10:55 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Your blog has given me great hope in some trying time’s. Know that my heart is with you. I will also donate in on her behalf.

  2176. Comment by shelly from tn | 08.7.2009 | 10:56 am

    you and your family are in my heart all my love, prayers and thoughts go to all of you today. i know it had to be hard to share your story so far but it has made me think about my life. thank you from the bottom of my heart susan i hope i have half the fighter in me that you had. god bless all of you.

  2177. Comment by Char | 08.7.2009 | 10:56 am

    My deepest condolences for you and your family. I’m so sorry.

  2178. Comment by Heather Bond | 08.7.2009 | 11:00 am

    Love and prayers to you and your little ones.

  2179. Comment by Sarah | 08.7.2009 | 11:04 am

    I just wanted to stop by and pass along my deepest sympathy. My thought and prayers are with you and yours. Blessings, Sarah

  2180. Comment by Kerry | 08.7.2009 | 11:06 am

    So sorry, Elden.

  2181. Comment by Lori | 08.7.2009 | 11:06 am

    Thinking of you & your family as you move forward always remembering the beautiful person you loved. Thank you for fighting the fight and sharing your journey so others could fight with you.

  2182. Comment by Lorena | 08.7.2009 | 11:07 am

    I’m so sorry, I have no words… My deepest condolences for you and your family.

  2183. Comment by Christi | 08.7.2009 | 11:08 am

    Please accept my condolences!!!

  2184. Comment by Kelly | 08.7.2009 | 11:08 am

    My thoughts are, as they have been, with you and your family.

  2185. Comment by Jeanne | 08.7.2009 | 11:09 am

    all my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep fighting….it is a horrible, horrible disease.

  2186. Comment by Nate | 08.7.2009 | 11:10 am

    I never posted but read your blog. I’m very sorry for your loss.

  2187. Comment by bradk | 08.7.2009 | 11:13 am

    WoW! Look at all the love. You and your family are loved. The Keyes family loves you and will miss Susan.

  2188. Comment by Karen D. | 08.7.2009 | 11:14 am

    I am SO sorry for your loss. I heard about your family from Pioneer Woman and your story has touched my heart. My mother died of breast cancer and my brother is currently battling stage 4 colon cancer. Words can’t describe how you must feel right now – a mixture of emotions, I’m sure. You and your children will be in our prayers.

  2189. Comment by fwcpc | 08.7.2009 | 11:14 am

    Strength to you and your children. You have truly shown us how to live a life of love and caring

  2190. Comment by Heather | 08.7.2009 | 11:14 am

    I just HAVE to tell you that my world stopped and was quiet when I heard the news. The world gained much from her presence. I honor Susan, you, and your entire family.

    I hate cancer (and cystic fibrosis).
    Heather

  2191. Comment by kjfitz | 08.7.2009 | 11:18 am

    Eldon, I’m so sorry. Se WAS and inspiration. I never know what to say at times like this. Just know we are all thinking about you. Cancer sucks.

  2192. Comment by Johanna | 08.7.2009 | 11:18 am

    My heart goes out to you and your kids. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Susan was such a valiant fighter, and an inspiration to all of us. And you are right – she DID NOT lose. Quite the opposite – she is a winner in every way, and you can take much comfort in that fact.

  2193. Comment by Linda | 08.7.2009 | 11:21 am

    i can’t help but think of a certain passage that talks about running the race as to get the prize. i just know that susan is standing, smiling now – holding a big, fat, shiny prize. you must be so proud…

  2194. Comment by Alice | 08.7.2009 | 11:22 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. Susan had the love of a man who is as inspiring as she was. Thank you for sharing your story with us, we have been touched deeply.

  2195. Comment by Shawn | 08.7.2009 | 11:23 am

    Thanks for inspiring me and so many others with this fight! My sympathy and heart goes out to your entire family!

  2196. Comment by Ty | 08.7.2009 | 11:23 am

    Elden, I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your kids will be in our prayers.

  2197. Comment by Greg | 08.7.2009 | 11:27 am

    Condolences and love from Lehi.

    Good luck to you and everyone else who is still suffering.

  2198. Comment by Samantha | 08.7.2009 | 11:32 am

    My sincere condolences to you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

  2199. Comment by Tamara | 08.7.2009 | 11:32 am

    Sympathies and prayers to you and yours. And eternal thanks to Susan and those that joined her in the fight.

  2200. Comment by Hillary K. | 08.7.2009 | 11:33 am

    Rest in peace Susan. I’m heart sick for you Eldon. We are all still with you Fatty, and we’ll fight hard. Love and prayers for you and your family. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!!!

  2201. Comment by Theresa | 08.7.2009 | 11:34 am

    My heart goes out to you and your family. We will pray for all of you. God Bless you and God Speed.

  2202. Comment by Trish | 08.7.2009 | 11:35 am

    You don’t know me or my family (and conversely, I don’t know yours but I’m catching up) however, I just had to tell you that I am so heartbroken for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers today, tomorrow and always. My grandmother died from her second bout with breast cancer. Susan sounded a lot like her, someone to respect and look up to. We’ll be praying for you and the kids.

    Found you through Pioneer Woman btw

  2203. Comment by Kristi | 08.7.2009 | 11:37 am

    What an incredible legacy Susan has left your children. I stand in awe of the manner in which the two of you together turned crisis into opportunity!

  2204. Comment by Norbert | 08.7.2009 | 11:38 am

    Sincerest condolences to you and your family.

  2205. Comment by Heather | 08.7.2009 | 11:38 am

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Susan’s couragous fight inspired so many of us who never had the pleasure of knowing her personally.

    Please know that I will be holding you up in prayer in the coming days.

  2206. Comment by Norbert | 08.7.2009 | 11:38 am

    My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Your strength is inspiring.

  2207. Comment by cyntax | 08.7.2009 | 11:39 am

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. I’ve watched your blog evolve over the years and I deeply respect the courage and commitment you’ve shown by writing with honesty, humor, and insight about your family’s struggle. Thinking of you, the kids, and of course Susan.

  2208. Comment by Kelly | 08.7.2009 | 11:41 am

    You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

  2209. Comment by Marilyn S | 08.7.2009 | 11:43 am

    My sincere condolences to you and your family for the loss of Susan.

  2210. Comment by Jessica | 08.7.2009 | 11:44 am

    I came across your blog today. My heart reaches out to you and your family. I will be praying for you.

  2211. Comment by Sheila | 08.7.2009 | 11:44 am

    I am so very sorry for the sad news, but encouraged by the strength and tenacity Susan showed up to the very end. What a beautiful spirit, and what a beautiful family. My love to you all.

  2212. Comment by Stephanie | 08.7.2009 | 11:45 am

    I will be praying for you and your family. Susan was blessed to have a family that loved as you did.

  2213. Comment by Alicia | 08.7.2009 | 11:47 am

    I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved wife. I pray that you and your family will never forget her lessons of love and perseverance.

  2214. Comment by Chelsi | 08.7.2009 | 11:48 am

    From my family to yours- we are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Thank you for doing what you do and bless you for inspiring us all.

    Chelsi from British Columbia, Canada

  2215. Comment by Bill Messick | 08.7.2009 | 11:49 am

    I’m so very sorry for your loss, I will ride with you and your family in my thoughts and heart. Thank you for sharing your story with us, it has inspired me and lot’s of people around the world to ride and fight for something greater!

  2216. Comment by Coleen | 08.7.2009 | 11:50 am

    My sincere sympathy to you, your children, your family and friends and all who know and cared for Susan. May God bring you all peace in the coming days.

  2217. Comment by Rebecca Goldberg | 08.7.2009 | 11:52 am

    . ..tears running down my cheek. . .”fight like susan”
    I am heartbroken for you. Been following your inspiring journey and valiant battle. May God swathe you in strength, healing, courage–in this heavy, sad sad time–and in all that lies ahead of you. I can’t believe she is gone. God Bless you all.
    Peace, Comfort and Love to you
    Rebecca

  2218. Comment by Guy | 08.7.2009 | 11:55 am

    Thank you for sharing Susan and her life with all of us. Sharing your pain and Susan’s good fight will ease the suffering for many others.

  2219. Comment by PennyPue | 08.7.2009 | 11:58 am

    Rest in Peace, Susan.

    It’s our turn to continue the fight.

    Fatty, please take care of yourself and your family. Don’t forget to call on your BlogFamily if you need us.

  2220. Comment by Alison | 08.7.2009 | 12:00 pm

    Even though no words can truly ease the pain you’re feeling right now, just remember that she loved you and knew, when her time came, that she was loved by you. Keep your head up.

  2221. Comment by ripa21 | 08.7.2009 | 12:03 pm

    I’m so sorry. I have found myself with tears for no reason since I heard the news two days ago. One way I look at Susan’s life is that of a relay race. She ran an amazing leg and she’s passing the baton. The race is definitely still on and will continue until a cure is discovered. It is now our job to carry the baton.

    Eldon, we are all here for you and your children. Any time you need us, just ask and we will be there for you.

    God bless. Win and Fight Like Susan.

  2222. Comment by Goannatree | 08.7.2009 | 12:06 pm

    I’m praying you and your boys. May your Susan, the valiant, brave and beautiful woman, mother and wife, rest in peace. Her legacy is extraordinary.

  2223. Comment by Steph Bachman | 08.7.2009 | 12:06 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

    I am keeping Team Fatty in my prayers.

  2224. Comment by Sharon | 08.7.2009 | 12:07 pm

    I’m very sorry for your loss.

    My prayers are with you.

  2225. Comment by Becky | 08.7.2009 | 12:08 pm

    Prayers are going up for you from Minneapolis, MN. May you somehow go on.

  2226. Comment by Lindsay | 08.7.2009 | 12:09 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family and I hope that Susan’s fight will soon play a part in kicking cancer’s butt forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  2227. Comment by Anne | 08.7.2009 | 12:10 pm

    I learned about your site and Susan’s fight through the Pioneer Woman. I am now crying in front of my computer to learn this heartbreaking news. What an incredible woman. What an incredible family. There is so much love and support for you; I hope you can feel it like a physical presence in this time when words are feeble and inadequate.

  2228. Comment by Java Girl | 08.7.2009 | 12:10 pm

    As a fellow patriot of fighting pain, I watch my daughter everyday battle it. I don’t know your family only through this crazy internet, but felt that I was there through your writing. I’ve always thought there are all these bereavement classes, but nothing to teach you how to deal with the now and what you/we go through. Thank you

  2229. Comment by Calamity Anne | 08.7.2009 | 12:11 pm

    She’s your special angel now!

  2230. Comment by Susan | 08.7.2009 | 12:12 pm

    You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers as you navigate this difficult time.

  2231. Comment by Julia | 08.7.2009 | 12:12 pm

    God bless you and your family.

  2232. Comment by Lori Kelso | 08.7.2009 | 12:12 pm

    I’m so sorry for your and your family’s loss.

  2233. Comment by Grammar Snob | 08.7.2009 | 12:13 pm

    God Bless you and your family. May Susan continue to shine her light upon you.

  2234. Comment by Bri | 08.7.2009 | 12:15 pm

    my heart weaps for you.

  2235. Comment by Glenna | 08.7.2009 | 12:17 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You, along with Susan, can rest in peace knowing you fought the fight. She held on incredibly-something that only great love can accomplish. Now that she has ‘passed’ the test of mortality, our prayers are that you can go forward as a family with love for each other and remembrance of the great love Susan has for each of you and you for her. In days to come your reuniting will be glorious! May you have comfort in knowing this as you now experience the sorrow of her loss for a time. Our love to you.

  2236. Comment by Richard | 08.7.2009 | 12:20 pm

    Words fail me: I am sorry for your loss.

  2237. Comment by Liz | 08.7.2009 | 12:21 pm

    I just found out the news through a blog I follow regularly-the pioneer woman. As someone who lost my mother just a month ago after her battle with relapsed AML, I know how hard it was, is now, and will be. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  2238. Comment by kristen | 08.7.2009 | 12:22 pm

    God bless you and your family.

  2239. Comment by jody | 08.7.2009 | 12:22 pm

    Susan won. She beat cancer in a way that crippled it…..she joined people together to fight this disease and we WILL beat it one day. It’s days are numbered.

    Thank you Susan for your brave fight. And thank you Eldon for working so hard to raise awareness and funds while going through such a hard time. I am so very, very sorry for your tremendous loss.

    I lost my dad to cancer 15 years ago. He was an amazing man, and I fight for him.

  2240. Comment by Nick | 08.7.2009 | 12:24 pm

    Our most heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Elden.

  2241. Comment by Jen | 08.7.2009 | 12:25 pm

    Wishing comfort and peace to your family, with a grateful heart for the enormous impact Susan has made, and will continue to make. Thank you for sharing your lives with us, and for helping us joing and continue the fight.

  2242. Comment by Elisabeth | 08.7.2009 | 12:26 pm

    God bless you. You and your amazing kids will be in my prayers. I wish I knew what else to say.

  2243. Comment by Michele | 08.7.2009 | 12:27 pm

    Deepest sympathy to you, your family and all friends of Susan. Continued prayers go out to all of you. May God be with you. So sorry…

  2244. Comment by sarah | 08.7.2009 | 12:30 pm

    Thinking of you and your children. You have set a great example for them.

  2245. Comment by Amanda | 08.7.2009 | 12:32 pm

    i am so sorry. i have no other words – blank. deepest sympathy to you and your family. truly.

  2246. Comment by Ann | 08.7.2009 | 12:33 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I am also proud of the work you have done. I hope your family can remain strong and confident in the fact that you did all you could, and have touched so many others in the journey.

  2247. Comment by Heidi | 08.7.2009 | 12:33 pm

    Thoughts and prayers from Indiana

  2248. Comment by deniz | 08.7.2009 | 12:36 pm

    Thanks for sharing your fight. Bless you.

  2249. Comment by Glenna | 08.7.2009 | 12:36 pm

    P.S. Susan is not here now, but she is not far. Her love for you, her family, is great and I am sure will be felt throughout your lives.

  2250. Comment by SKB | 08.7.2009 | 12:37 pm

    No one who strives to live life on their own terms can ever be called a loser. Susan was, is, and will always be a fighter and a winner. I don’t know what your beliefs are, but, according to mine, Susan will now be able to be with us in Philly, in Seattle, and everywhere she wants to be. Right now, I am sure she is with you, whole and healthy and smiling.

  2251. Comment by PStarr | 08.7.2009 | 12:37 pm

    I am so sorry for your lost…you are in our thoughts and prayers in Texas

  2252. Comment by Rachel | 08.7.2009 | 12:40 pm

    What a wonderful perspective to have. She is victorious!!! She won her battle with cancer!!! I pray that God surround you with love and loving people. I pray that He pours out His peace (a peace that we can’t comprehend…but we can accept) on you and your family (and your Fat Cyclist fans and readers too!). What an inspiration you and Susan have been to so many people!!! May God bless you more than you could ever expect or imagine.

  2253. Comment by julie | 08.7.2009 | 12:40 pm

    Our family has lost several loved ones to Cancer. It’s a beast. I’m praying for you and your children and your journey ahead.

  2254. Comment by Wren | 08.7.2009 | 12:46 pm

    Both you and Susan have handled this fight with grace and strength. I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your children will be in my thoughts.

  2255. Comment by MiaKatia | 08.7.2009 | 12:49 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children and your families. Susan and you have been and will continue to be inspiring.

  2256. Comment by Chutneyboy | 08.7.2009 | 12:49 pm

    Deepest condolences, Fatty. Yours and Susan’s strength through all this is remarkable and inspiring. My heart goes out to you and your children, as the fight goes on.

  2257. Comment by Wesley Miller | 08.7.2009 | 12:50 pm

    My heart goes out to you and your family,my sincerest and most heartfelt sympothies.

  2258. Comment by Patricia | 08.7.2009 | 12:52 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your loving Family.

    Susan is with our heavenly father, in his loving embrace. May he bless and keep you all…..

  2259. Comment by Melanie | 08.7.2009 | 12:52 pm

    Thank you for sharing Susan with us. Her strength was indeed inspiring and her legacy will live on as you and your family continues to fight against cancer. God Bless you all and may you have a peace in your heart.

  2260. Comment by Stephanie | 08.7.2009 | 12:54 pm

    My sympathies are with you and all of your families.

  2261. Comment by Kristie | 08.7.2009 | 12:55 pm

    I am so very sorry as I read this. Please know you and your entire family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  2262. Comment by junemoon | 08.7.2009 | 12:57 pm

    Prayers and compassionate thoughts and energy are being sent and held for you and your family. Bless you for your efforts toward finding cures for this insidious disease. junemoon

  2263. Comment by Leslie | 08.7.2009 | 12:59 pm

    Peace to you and your family.

  2264. Comment by Lisa | 08.7.2009 | 1:01 pm

    My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I was watching so you think you can dance when they had a heart wrenching number dedicated to a woman with cancer. It was beautiful, I thought of you and Susan and her valiant fight. Live Strong.
    With love and prayer ~

  2265. Comment by Jaybird | 08.7.2009 | 1:04 pm

    Prayers through tears for your family. May God bless you in this time.

  2266. Comment by Crank | 08.7.2009 | 1:05 pm

    http://samsaracanbefun.blogspot.com/2009/06/passing-of-storm-flight-of-dove.html
    The most importrant thing to know is that you are not alone. Never give in, never give up. Cry when you must, but do it for yourself. She is pain free now, and in a better world. Peace and quiteness of heart to you in your time. The wound will never heal, but the good will not fade either.

  2267. Comment by tim doust | 08.7.2009 | 1:06 pm

    god bless susan on her new journey my prayers are still with keep strong and live you and your families life to the full

    god be with you

  2268. Comment by Elaine | 08.7.2009 | 1:10 pm

    I am so sorry you lost her. I am so happy you shared your life with her. x

  2269. Comment by Anna | 08.7.2009 | 1:14 pm

    Deep condolences. Lots of love to your children. Remember the good times.

  2270. Comment by Sabrina | 08.7.2009 | 1:34 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. May God grant you peace, and patience during this difficult time.

  2271. Comment by Pete | 08.7.2009 | 1:36 pm

    My thoughts are with you and your family. You have touched so many people know that God has a place for Susan, you and your family.

  2272. Comment by cathy | 08.7.2009 | 1:42 pm

    God Bless you and your family, and your beautiful, courageous wife.

    Peace be with you.

  2273. Comment by Ron S. Doyle | 08.7.2009 | 1:51 pm

    Ride on, Fatty. I just lost my Mom in June and my friend was diagnosed with B-cell lymphoma two weeks ago. An infinite amount of empathy is coming your way.

  2274. Comment by Steve | 08.7.2009 | 1:55 pm

    Thoughts and prayers from SC.

  2275. Comment by Major Icehole | 08.7.2009 | 1:57 pm

    I’m so sorry to haer about your loss.

  2276. Comment by jean | 08.7.2009 | 2:04 pm

    screw cancer!

  2277. Comment by Nick | 08.7.2009 | 2:07 pm

    I don’t know you although I live close by and share your feelings about some of the places you ride. I also share your feelings about Susan not losing. I still wear a bracelet for my wife’s cousin who fought until a year and a half ago and continues to inspire to this day. He did not lose and Susan did not either. The calm strength it takes to fight (and live with) this thing to the end is the victory and will continue to inspire for generations. Thanks for letting us in.

  2278. Comment by Rachel | 08.7.2009 | 2:26 pm

    I am so touched by the love and commitment you and your wife had for each other. I didn’t know either of you, but I know what it feels like to loose someone. My prayers are with you and your family.

    Psalm 54:4 “Surely God is my help; the Lord is the one who sustains me.”

  2279. Comment by Kate | 08.7.2009 | 2:37 pm

    My best thoughts are with you and yours. You have all helped so many of us see what’s really important. Thank you, thank you for your bravery.

  2280. Comment by Anne | 08.7.2009 | 2:41 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. I send you many warm thoughts in this difficult time.

  2281. Comment by Jay | 08.7.2009 | 2:41 pm

    Deepest condolences from Iowa. Wishing your family the best.

  2282. Comment by Erin | 08.7.2009 | 2:46 pm

    I’ve read the journey. At times I didn’t want to click.
    No.More.Pain. That’s a win.

    Plus, she, via you, left an unbelievable legacy. You are so brave.

    Erin

  2283. Comment by Bash | 08.7.2009 | 2:50 pm

    The fight goes on.

  2284. Comment by CovingtonKat | 08.7.2009 | 2:55 pm

    May time ease the loss, blossom the memories. Let love heal the pain, and friends ease the emptiness. Thinking of you, Fatty, and your whole family.

  2285. Comment by Traci L Brennan | 08.7.2009 | 2:55 pm

    Susan did NOT lose…she has left an indelible image on so many around the world. But WE have lost…a valiant woman in our midst. Thank God for memories. My prayers and love go out to you and the family.

  2286. Comment by Heather | 08.7.2009 | 3:09 pm

    My condolences to you and your family. My heart goes out to all of you.

  2287. Comment by Maggie Harline | 08.7.2009 | 3:15 pm

    Dear Nelson Family..It’s so so amazing the power that some people have with their BLOGS. I found you through Pioneer Woman’s blog. Your words that describe your family and your dear wife are so beautiful. May you and yours be commforted at this difficult time and for time to come.She will be missed, but what a lovely family she has forever.

  2288. Comment by Karyn | 08.7.2009 | 3:48 pm

    Elden, “To live in hearts we leave is not to die.” Susan lives in each and every one of us thanks to you. Both of you have shared so much of your lives with us that it feels like family. My prayers and condolences to you, your family and our entire family of Fattys.

  2289. Comment by Chris | 08.7.2009 | 3:48 pm

    Fatty, you and your family have been and will continue to be an inspiration to others out here dealing with cancer. Thank you for sharing and we’ll all keep fighting like Susan.

  2290. Comment by Lauren | 08.7.2009 | 3:56 pm

    As a part of the Cycles Gladiator group that works all of the Livestrong events, I’ve gotten a chance to meet and talk with many of the members of Team Fat Cyclist and hear your story. We’ve all been moved and inspired by your efforts and on behalf of myself and the entire Cycles Gladiator team, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. We’ll be thinking of you and talking of you in Philly.

    Fight Like Susan.

  2291. Comment by tj | 08.7.2009 | 3:59 pm

    …You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May we all find it in ourselves to fight like Susan…

    …Many blessings to you and yours…

  2292. Comment by TCluff | 08.7.2009 | 4:16 pm

    Heartfelt condolences, we will continue moving together. Hearts, thoughts, and prayers are with you and yours.

  2293. Comment by Skenry | 08.7.2009 | 4:31 pm

    God bless you and the children, my thoughts, prayers and dreams are with you all.

  2294. Comment by Kate | 08.7.2009 | 4:40 pm

    Susan certainly didn’t lose.
    She won because she died with dignity, surrounded by the people she loved and who loved her back.
    She won because she fought the way she wanted to.
    She won because her battle has inspired people to help others.
    She won because she will be remembered forever – not only by those she knew but by those she had never met.

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

  2295. Comment by billy | 08.7.2009 | 4:52 pm

    Sending nice thoughts to you and your family–from Austin TX.

  2296. Comment by Ian | 08.7.2009 | 4:55 pm

    Heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. The journey you’ve traveled over the past few years is truly moving, and I don’t think you can be thanked enough for sharing it with us. Thank you for being such an inspiration. Susan lived quite a life…

  2297. Comment by Harry Rosenthal | 08.7.2009 | 5:19 pm

    I cried again.
    I was inspired Again.
    our trancendence of pain allows us continue.
    a lot like cycling.

  2298. Comment by Margo | 08.7.2009 | 5:25 pm

    Through this website, we’ve all gained the strength and the courage and the drive to fight cancer – and that’s all because of Susan. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  2299. Comment by Sharon M | 08.7.2009 | 5:26 pm

    My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You and Susan have touched many, many lives and truly made a difference. Love, Sharon M.

  2300. Comment by Kathy | 08.7.2009 | 5:27 pm

    I found your blog several weeks ago. I check very often to hear your journey. Your love of life and all it contains comes across very loud. You are an inspiration. I lost my dad 9 years ago. Today when I think of him, I smile. I now look forward to those thoughts. He was a wonderful person I am glad I got to know. Enjoy your smiles!

  2301. Comment by Katie | 08.7.2009 | 5:41 pm

    I’m so sorry. The way you wrote about Susan made her an inspiration to me, how I live and how I behave with my children. You and she are both amazing. Her legacy is huge.

  2302. Comment by Adam | 08.7.2009 | 5:45 pm

    God bless you and your family. From Adam – Leesburg, Virginia

  2303. Comment by Arnnette | 08.7.2009 | 5:46 pm

    There are no words to express what I’m feeling at this moment. Just know that you, susan, and your family are being thought of and prayed for, from AZ

  2304. Comment by Amy G. | 08.7.2009 | 5:49 pm

    My heart is broken for you and your children upon hearing the news of Susan’s passing. I was late to come upon her story and your blog, but I’m so very glad that I did. What an amazing and courageous woman you shared a life and a family with. She will live on in you and each of your kids forever, and will always be there, just beyond reach, watching over all of you as you continue to live an amazing life. I wish you all peace, healing, and lots of love. My deepest condolences.

  2305. Comment by Robin from Ok | 08.7.2009 | 5:54 pm

    I don’t even know what to say. Lost my best friend to breast cancer 4 years ago August. I’m so sorry Eldon.

  2306. Comment by candi summers | 08.7.2009 | 6:00 pm

    What a brave, wonderful woman your Susan was. Cancer is an evil force that bonds together all of us who have been touched by it in one throbbing, heaving battle. Victory will be ours. Victory is already Susan’s. Fight on.

  2307. Comment by Peg | 08.7.2009 | 6:03 pm

    Allez Fatty, fight like Susan! What an inspiration you are for all of us. Susan’s spirit is soaring now. Peace to you and your dear family.

  2308. Comment by andy | 08.7.2009 | 6:52 pm

    Susan will never be lost. You are all an inspiration. Kia Kaha!

  2309. Comment by Mittelstadt Family | 08.7.2009 | 7:06 pm

    We have all won something from Susan’s valiant battle, and I continue to reflect on what you have shared over the years with readers both close and distant. Elden, you and Susan have touched so many people you have never met in this virtual world but thanks to you, she became our friend too and very real to us as we all revisit, with heavy hearts, your eloquent tales of her wisdom, kindness, triumphs and struggles. Susan’s plight has had a profound impact on so many of us–she has brought home the terrible disease that is cancer and made it all too real–and you have been so generous in opening up your private lives to reach out and wake us all up to new possibilities. Together you and your exceptional family have taught us so much over the years. Her legacy is a tribute to the ethos of living each day to its fullest, putting life’s challenges into real perspective and teaching by example to try harder, be kinder, and to love and cherish our family and friends. Thank you for reminding us what dignity means and for lifelong inspiration. Our deepest condolences.

  2310. Comment by Dave | 08.7.2009 | 7:13 pm

    Condolences, sorrow… I don’t know… Be happy with your time together, and the gift of her legacy. We should all be so lucky.

  2311. Comment by Bill | 08.7.2009 | 7:18 pm

    I’m one who discovered your blog only recently through the tweets of Lance Armstrong. You don’t know me but I feel I have come to know you somewhat through your heart-felt expressions in word.
    I’ve come to believe that the way we should define success in our lives is by our ability to show compassion and share in the suffering of others. I think you’ve done that by being there for Susan and by being there for your children as they grieve the loss of their mother.
    My deepest sympathies to you and your family. May God give you a sense of peace and comfort now and in the coming days, weeks and months.

  2312. Comment by bo | 08.7.2009 | 7:29 pm

    My deepest condolences, Elden. Susan will be missed, but always remembered.

  2313. Comment by Lynda | 08.7.2009 | 7:32 pm

    I am so sorry to hear about your wife. I do not know you or your children, but I know a little of your pain. My husband died an early death,also. Our children were 15,13, and 8. Advice now is not a good thing, but I have some for you if you are interested: Please keep talking about Susan to the kids, verbally reliving little memories, because it will help them remember so much better. Now it seems like they could never forget, but they do. Or they remember a skewed version of the truth. Especially the younger ones! And talking about the funny, silly, stupid, and even annoying memories is very therapeutic! God bless you all. Susan seems like she was very special. And you and your children are, too! Lynda

  2314. Comment by Beth | 08.7.2009 | 7:36 pm

    A sunset on earth is a sunrise in heaven.

    Deepest condolences to you and your family. Susan will live on in the hearts of many as we continue to fight a fierce battle against cancer.

    Thank you for sharing your story and your love for Susan with us all.
    Beth

  2315. Comment by Denise | 08.7.2009 | 7:50 pm

    I only recently starting reading your blog because of Pioneer Woman. I was praying hard, wishing endlessly and hoping against hope that Susan would WIN her battle and beat cancer to death and stomp it to the ground. I am so sorry for your loss. It breaks my heart that their mother will not physically be with them any longer. What a beautiful woman.
    Stay strong and keep doing what you love.
    It’s funny – since I dipped into this blog reading world, I have cried more than ever in my life. So many wonderful and amazing people out there that I never would have known.
    Thoughts and prayers Fatty –
    Denise.

  2316. Comment by Pamela | 08.7.2009 | 7:55 pm

    I’m a regular reader of Ree over at Pioneer Woman and in one of her latest posts she mentioned your wife had passed away. I’m just stopping by to say that I’m so sorry. From what little I’ve read on your blog, it sounds like your wife put up a fantastic fight and has touched many lives over the years. It sounds like she was an amazing person. My heart breaks for all of you. You are in my prayers.

  2317. Comment by Aileen | 08.7.2009 | 8:00 pm

    Fatty, my husband reads your blog and tells me about it. I am very sad for your great loss and I will be praying for God’s strength and comfort for you and your family in the coming days, weeks and years. Keep the faith. God knows your loss and shares your grief. You always bring a smile to our faces with your blogs we look forward to your inspiration. Love, and prayers from South Florida.

  2318. Comment by El Freako | 08.7.2009 | 8:00 pm

    I am so sorry that Susan lost her battle. I am sure words cannot satisfy what you are feeling and what anyone can say to you at this moment to ease the pain. Hang tough my fellow cyclist.

  2319. Comment by robOnWheels | 08.7.2009 | 8:18 pm

    Thousand*S* of comments in, my comment will be but a drop in the ocean – but your family’s story has moved me and so I will leave these words to thank you for sharing it. I am reminded to be thankful for my loved ones, and also, as the gentleman who propelled me into cycling reminds me almost every day, thankful for health above all else. As witnessed by this page (and even the pavement at the top of the Alpine Loop, for goodness sakes!), Susan and your family have touched so many lives. You and your family will remain in my thoughts, and I thank you for writing words with such impact here.

  2320. Comment by Pip | 08.7.2009 | 8:27 pm

    Just adding my condolences. I’ve been thinking of you all since hearing of Susan’s passing. I hope the thought that thousands of us are behind you at this time will help you find the strength you will need over the next few weeks and months. Keep riding, keep fighting.

  2321. Comment by Cory | 08.7.2009 | 8:47 pm

    My condolences. We’re all thinking of you and your family.

  2322. Comment by michelle | 08.7.2009 | 8:58 pm

    So heartbreaking and yet uplifting — Susan fought the good fight, inspired others to do the same, and left an amazing legacy in her loved ones. What more could a person hope to accomplish in life?

    Peace and condolences to your family.

  2323. Comment by Chris | 08.7.2009 | 9:12 pm

    Elden, I’m kind of at a loss for words but I’m going to give it a shot…

    Anyone who followed along with Susan’s story knew from the start that she was already a winner, so I’m glad in a way that the battlecry has changed from Win Susan to Fight Like Susan. Now it will remind us that (and I’ll shamelessly steal a phrase you know very well) “we are all better than we think we are” and we can always reach a little deeper within ourselves to excel in our own lives and or to somehow make a difference in the lives of others.

    My very deepest condolences to you on her passing, but please take comfort in knowing that she can finally rest after her terrible struggle.

  2324. Comment by Karen Whitlock | 08.7.2009 | 9:24 pm

    What an amazing legacy to have accomplished so much and inspired so many! I obviously didn’t know Susan but could not help to see that she was a strong and determined person. My sincere condolences, your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Keep riding, keep writing and fight like Susan.

  2325. Comment by Joy | 08.7.2009 | 9:25 pm

    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. No words could lessen the pain of your loss, but know that a lot of people are thinking and praying for you. Hugs from Canada.

  2326. Comment by Katie | 08.7.2009 | 9:26 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear of you and your family’s loss. Susan was a true inspiration and a God send to many people without even knowing it. Thanks for sharing her story. I wish for you all that it might have had a different ending.

    Our prayers are with you.

  2327. Comment by Maureen | 08.7.2009 | 9:32 pm

    I came late to your and Susan’s story via the Pioneer Woman. You and your family have been on my mind since I read of your loss. I will keep you all in my prayers. God Bless.

  2328. Comment by Debbie from Illinois | 08.7.2009 | 9:58 pm

    I am so sorry.

  2329. Comment by eric | 08.7.2009 | 10:04 pm

    You and your family are in our prayers.

  2330. Comment by Poohla | 08.7.2009 | 10:27 pm

    I read about your fight on The Pioneer Woman blog. I send my condolences to you and your family. You have a wonderful support system and the love you have for your incredible wife will help in your continuing fight. Thank you for sharing her with the world. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  2331. Comment by LuckyLab | 08.8.2009 | 12:12 am

    I am so sad for your whole family. The world has lost a great, inspirational woman but has not lost *the* inspiration. We will fight like Susan.

  2332. Comment by b | 08.8.2009 | 12:27 am

    I am so sorry for your loss, Elden.

  2333. Comment by DavidC | 08.8.2009 | 1:15 am

    Elden, everyone else has said what I would like to…you and your family are in my thoughts. FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  2334. Comment by Scott | 08.8.2009 | 1:33 am

    My family is thinking about yours today. Thank you for sharing your story, and strength to you and your children.

  2335. Comment by Donna | 08.8.2009 | 2:36 am

    My heart bleeds for you and your family. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Susan was a beautiful woman and soul and her legacy will never end. Livestrong always

  2336. Comment by HOWARD | 08.8.2009 | 4:06 am

    I feel for you brother. Just remember the time you had together you loved a lifetimes worth.My next ride here in England will be ridden with you and your wife in mind, tears may obscure vision . Keep on pushing on Phat Cyclisr, I am going to sell a bike (I have over 10) and give you the money. Love your work.

    Howard

  2337. Comment by Emily | 08.8.2009 | 5:21 am

    Sending love, condolences and prayers to you and your family.

    Emily in Ft. Worth

  2338. Comment by dc dirtbag | 08.8.2009 | 5:49 am

    So sorry man.
    I don’t have words.
    She was an inspiration and your love for her is truly beautiful.
    Take care.

  2339. Comment by joe caffrey | 08.8.2009 | 6:07 am

    I’m sorry. I hope the sorrow is replaced by peace.

  2340. Comment by Linda M. | 08.8.2009 | 6:19 am

    Just as so many others, I have never met you or Susan, but to Fight Like Susan is something I will always remember & pray to have the strength to do. No words can console you at this time, but know that another person has been touched by Her fight & another persons prayers are with you & your family.I too, will always remember.

  2341. Comment by Alison | 08.8.2009 | 6:31 am

    Take care….

  2342. Comment by Just me. | 08.8.2009 | 6:54 am

    This will go against the grain but give me a moment. You’re cancer, and you decide to pick on Susan. What a stupid mistake to make. Not only can she fight back like no one else, but she rallies behind her an army of people ready to fight cancer as well.

    Susan wins.

    I’m so sorry you’re now left with this fight. But at least you have an incredible example of bravery and strength. And you are not alone.

  2343. Comment by Denise | 08.8.2009 | 7:54 am

    Susan lives on in your heart and in your writing. My heart goes out to all who loved Susan; the sense of loss never disappears, but the good memories live on too.

  2344. Comment by Ryan | 08.8.2009 | 8:26 am

    I am so sorry for you and your family’s loss.

  2345. Comment by Eric | 08.8.2009 | 8:33 am

    Prayers for you and your family. The courage you and Susan have shown is an inspiration.

  2346. Comment by Johnny | 08.8.2009 | 9:03 am

    My thoughts are with you and your family. I know what it’s like to lose someone this way.

  2347. Comment by Sara | 08.8.2009 | 9:07 am

    Peace to you and your family.

  2348. Comment by Sara | 08.8.2009 | 9:29 am

    Peace be with you. Thank you for sharing your story so openly. You are an inspiration to those of us who have also lost family members.

  2349. Comment by vXhanz | 08.8.2009 | 10:05 am

    I’m very sorry for your loss and you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

    V

  2350. Comment by Malia | 08.8.2009 | 10:22 am

    No words are adequate. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Peace, hope and rest to you and the kids.

  2351. Comment by Erin R. | 08.8.2009 | 10:32 am

    I just wanted to extend my condolances to you and your family. As a recent widow (I lost my husband last year, I’m only 26, he was 37) I can truely say I know what you’re going through. I hope you find comfort in knowing that she’s an angel now and completely perfect once again.

  2352. Comment by MilanoTom | 08.8.2009 | 11:30 am

    Prayers and tears from Rhode Island.

    Regards,
    Tom

  2353. Comment by SmWonder00 | 08.8.2009 | 11:45 am

    So sorry to hear of Susan’s passing. May your family find peace.

  2354. Comment by Chris Coyle | 08.8.2009 | 12:28 pm

    I’m so sorry …

    WIN,

  2355. Comment by Laura | 08.8.2009 | 4:09 pm

    I am so sorry about your family’s loss. I pray that everyone out there will keep fighting for a cure. May God bless you. Susan is looking down on your family with pride and she knows you will continue on with that same spirit that carried her through to the end.

  2356. Comment by Louise | 08.8.2009 | 6:55 pm

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for your whole family.

  2357. Comment by Scott in MN | 08.8.2009 | 7:50 pm

    Elden,

    I am so sorry for you and your family’s loss. I was on vacation in Northern Minnesota (Boundary Waters) and did not hear the news until now. I proudly wore my Fat Cyclist Jersey and T-Shirt on my rides and hanging out around Ely, MN. My and my wife’s hearts are heavy. Take care of your family as you always have. God bless you and you all remain in our thoughts and prayers.

    I will FIGHT LIKE SUSAN!

    Scott

  2358. Comment by Fred | 08.8.2009 | 8:17 pm

    God bless you and the family. Thank you for your ongoing blogs. WIN!

  2359. Comment by Cat | 08.8.2009 | 8:42 pm

    So sorry Fatty. Love to all of you.

  2360. Comment by Kerri | 08.8.2009 | 8:51 pm

    I’m so sorry. My best to your family in this difficult time.

  2361. Comment by Allison | 08.8.2009 | 9:38 pm

    My sincere sympathy to you and your family. Thank you for telling your story.

  2362. Comment by chtrich | 08.8.2009 | 10:30 pm

    I’ve been out of town all week…So sorry to hear the news! You’ve both been so strong during everything. I know Susan’s in a better place now and will always be looking over you. May God bless you and your family going forward!
    Stay Strong and keep fighting!

  2363. Comment by Christina | 08.8.2009 | 10:40 pm

    Thank you for sharing so much.
    Strength and peace for you and your family.

  2364. Comment by Stephanie | 08.8.2009 | 10:54 pm

    Elden & family,

    My deepest, heartfelt condolences go out to you. We may be strangers to one another but love, courage, and spirit are in us all.

    Stephanie

  2365. Comment by Stan | 08.9.2009 | 12:19 am

    I just want to join with the thousands of others who you’ve touched and say that I’m so sorry to read this. It’s been a terrible ordeal for you, but at the same time, you’ve done something amazing with it. Thank you for everything.

    Stan

  2366. Comment by suzanne | 08.9.2009 | 12:19 am

    I am so sorry! Your wife left an amazing legacy! What a gift! Much prayers to you and your precious family.

    Fight Like Susan!!!!

  2367. Comment by Sean Cormack | 08.9.2009 | 12:29 am

    Fatty

    As much as I’d like to have the words right now, I dont.

    Susan won, without a doubt.

    Our hearts, our opinions and our beliefs that people such as her exist on this plant for a reason, she won them all.

    There is a poem that I hold close to my heart, it was read at a funeral of my Nan.

    Sincerest love to you all

    From this day forth, I will FIGHT LIKE SUSAN

    If tomorrow starts without me,
    And I’m not there to see;
    If the sun should rise and find your eyes
    All filled with tears for me;
    I wish so much you wouldn’t cry
    The way you did today,
    While thinking of the many things,
    We didn’t get to say.

    I know how much you love me,
    As much as I love you,
    And each time you think of me,
    I know you’ll miss me too;
    But when tomorrow starts without me,
    Please try to understand,
    That an angel came and called my name,
    And took me by the hand,
    And said my place was ready,
    In heaven far above,
    And that I’d have to leave behind
    All those I dearly love.

    But as I turned to walk away,
    A tear fell from my eye,
    For all my life, I’d always thought,
    I didn’t want to die.
    I had so much to live for,
    So much yet to do,
    It seemed almost impossible,
    That I was leaving you.

    I thought of all the yesterdays,
    The good ones and the bad,
    I thought of all the love we shared,
    And all the fun we had.
    If I could relive yesterday,
    Just even for a while,
    I’d say good-bye and kiss you
    And maybe see you smile.

    But then I fully realized,
    That this could never be,
    For emptiness and memories,
    Would take the place of me.
    And when I thought of worldly things,
    I might miss come tomorrow,
    I thought of you and when I did,
    My heart was filled with sorrow.
    But when I walked through heaven’s gates,
    I felt so much at home.

    When GOD looked down and smiled at me,
    From His great golden throne,
    He said “This is eternity,
    And all I’ve promised you.”
    Today for life on earth is past,
    But here it starts anew.
    I promise no tomorrow,
    But today will always last,
    And since each day’s the same way
    There is no longing for the past.

    But you have been so faithful,
    So trusting and so true.
    Though there were times you did some things,
    You knew you shouldn’t do.
    But you have been forgiven,
    And now at last you are free.
    So won’t you take my hand.
    And share my life with me?

    So when tomorrow starts without me,
    Don’t think we are far apart,
    For every time you think of me,
    I’m right here, in your heart.

  2368. Comment by scank | 08.9.2009 | 4:15 am

    I’m sorry to read this sad news, my thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. Take care.

  2369. Comment by Rob FishrCutB8 Duffield | 08.9.2009 | 6:09 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Team Fish will be riding in Philadelphia to help kill cancer–you and your family will be very much on my mind that day.

  2370. Comment by Holly Hofler | 08.9.2009 | 9:02 am

    My deepest sympathy and prayers for your loss. I was unaware of your struggle and my thoughts are with you and your loved ones.

  2371. Comment by Slowracer | 08.9.2009 | 9:29 am

    Dear Fatty.
    I have been away for six months and just checked in (Aug 9th 2009)to catch up.I am deeply saddened by your news.
    I hope the kids and you are holding up.
    ‘Slowy’

  2372. Comment by Brad | 08.9.2009 | 9:34 am

    My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

  2373. Comment by Allen | 08.9.2009 | 10:04 am

    Fatty,
    Sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

  2374. Comment by Randall | 08.9.2009 | 10:36 am

    May Susan be with you and your family on every ride, and during the tough moments between rides. From Virginia, we wish you God’s choicest blessings.

  2375. Comment by Patrick | 08.9.2009 | 10:42 am

    I’m so sorry, Fatty. Things will get better.

  2376. Comment by Marie | 08.9.2009 | 1:20 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. My God watch over you and bless you always. Susan is now at peace and is smiling down on you now.

  2377. Comment by Heather (RunFasterMommy) | 08.9.2009 | 1:25 pm

    I’m so sorry. Susan will be added to my list of reasons why I will never give up the fight, we will find a cure!! Be strong, my thoughts are with you!

  2378. Comment by Steve Courtright | 08.9.2009 | 1:42 pm

    Dear El,

    My deepest condolences. I’ve been reading your blog for a long time and have always, and will continue to admire your spirit, strength, patience and wisdom. I grew to love Susan with you, through your loving stories and posts about the kids. I am sad to see this day come, but happy that Susan is at rest, happy that you have the kids to help you remember her, and happy that you will continue the good fight. My warmest and best regards. Steve Courtright, Evanston, IL.

    If ever in the Chicago area, come ride with us.

  2379. Comment by Nikki Shaver | 08.9.2009 | 3:59 pm

    Dear Fatty

    I have been reading your blog on and off for the past three years. As it happens, I started reading it during a very difficult time in my life, and you got me through with laughter and inspiration.

    I am more sorry than words can say. Susan was a wonderful person, even if I knew her only through your writing, and the love you two shared leapt off every page of this blog.

    My thoughts are with you, and with the kids.

  2380. Comment by Michael | 08.9.2009 | 4:33 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear Susan died. My heart goes out to you & your family.

  2381. Comment by Mike | 08.9.2009 | 4:33 pm

    I’m sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

  2382. Comment by Amy | 08.9.2009 | 5:18 pm

    My prayers are with you. I pray that Heavenly Father will bring you and your family peace, comfort and continued joy.

  2383. Comment by Warhawk | 08.9.2009 | 5:18 pm

    Sincerest condolences. The fight continues.

  2384. Comment by Forrest | 08.9.2009 | 8:59 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  2385. Comment by Nick | 08.9.2009 | 11:23 pm

    When I read those words, I felt sick to my stomach. I’ve never met you, and odds are never will, but the Nelson family has been in my thoughts for some time now, and as I struggled with my own mortality as of late, I realized that if I had a fraction of your wife’s dignity, I’d quit my whining and face it head on.
    And so I did. That’s what your wife meant to me.

    Just hang in there, and realize your family, virtual and real, will be there for you. And so will she.

    RIP Susan.

  2386. Comment by Lance | 08.9.2009 | 11:32 pm

    Peace! And keep the rubber side down!

  2387. Comment by Mark Kynaston | 08.10.2009 | 1:45 am

    So sorry to hear your sad news. Sending you and the children all our very best wishes as this most difficult time. Love from the Kynaston family.

  2388. Comment by J. B. | 08.10.2009 | 2:12 am

    Peace be with you, Fatty.

    What a way to make something positive out of what could be a tragedy.

    Aloha from Hawaii,
    J. B.

  2389. Comment by angie | 08.10.2009 | 4:32 am

    thankyou and my condolences to you and your family

  2390. Comment by Phil G. | 08.10.2009 | 5:51 am

    A friend of mine from a triathlon website kept tabs on your blog – I started reading it, too.
    I can’t express that much more than what others have posted here, since it won’t do much for you. I am deeply saddened and hurt that Susan passed away. It appears that Susan did leave a TREMENDOUS impact on you and many others – to be strong and fight through life!
    I hope you are doing well, Fatty. Continue your fight and keep Susan’s spirit alive.

  2391. Comment by Judy L | 08.10.2009 | 6:22 am

    She made a mark.
    God bless her – God bless you and your family.

  2392. Comment by jeff | 08.10.2009 | 6:24 am

    My condolences. I know that you and all your children will miss Susan terribly, but your lives are forever richer for having had her in your lives.

  2393. Comment by Ajifa | 08.10.2009 | 6:32 am

    Fatty,

    Susan is such an inspiration to many. Even though she is no longer with us physically, her spirit will always live on in the thousands she inspired. May God keep you and your family as you go through this tough time. Rejoice in the life lived by this wonderful woman.

    Much love in Christ.
    Ajifa

  2394. Comment by Shellyg8r | 08.10.2009 | 6:35 am

    Our prayers are yours…

  2395. Comment by pammap | 08.10.2009 | 6:37 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    Thank you for sharing Susan with us. I will think of her every time I proudly wear my Susan Nelson bracelet or my pink WIN jersey.

  2396. Comment by Lisa | 08.10.2009 | 7:56 am

    Dearest Fatty,

    I’ve been a quiet follower. I have prayed for your family everyday and am so sorry for your loss! You all have my deepest sympathy. I hope your strength and faith carry you through this most difficult time!

    Lisa

  2397. Comment by Tiger | 08.10.2009 | 8:23 am

    I’ve been trying to think of something to write on here since Friday. And I still haven’t come up with the right thing to say. Sending strength and love to you and your family. You’re right–she didn’t loose. And she will continue to WIN as her story inspires so many to fight cancer.

    I will FIGHT LIKE SUSAN.

  2398. Comment by Brady | 08.10.2009 | 8:37 am

    I just wanted you to know that there is another person out there praying for you and your kids.

  2399. Comment by Steve | 08.10.2009 | 9:14 am

    I am truly sorry, and I know that your’s and Susan’s story has touched so many peoples lives. The fight goes on.

  2400. Comment by Dee | 08.10.2009 | 10:00 am

    I’m so sorry. Susan will live on in all of us.

  2401. Comment by terry | 08.10.2009 | 10:26 am

    I hope the service went well. And hope you,friends and family are in peace. My sympathies go out to all your family for their loss.

  2402. Comment by RoverDave | 08.10.2009 | 10:26 am

    Fatty,

    We love you man, we love your family and we love all you have and are doing. You are a true man who fights and loves his wife and family. I am sorry for your loss, and even though that does nothing to lessen the pain, I think its obvious you are not and never will be alone. I am doing what I can in NC to tell Susan’s story and wear my Team Fatty jersey on every single one of my rides. I will be wearing it on the MS150 ride this year in New Bern as well to continue to help FIGHT LIKE SUSAN and make her story known to all!

    Stay strong!

    Dave

  2403. Comment by Libby | 08.10.2009 | 2:47 pm

    So sorry for you and the kids. thank you for sharing Susan’s story. Wishing you peace as you grieve.

  2404. Comment by rafael | 08.10.2009 | 4:30 pm

    Sorry about the lost. My wishes and prayers go directly to you and your family!

  2405. Comment by Simon | 08.10.2009 | 5:36 pm

    So sorry for you and your family, Fatty. Peace x

  2406. Comment by Daniel | 08.10.2009 | 7:00 pm

    Texas 4000 rides for Susan

  2407. Comment by Ryan | 08.10.2009 | 9:10 pm

    I’m so sorry. My thoughts and prayers. Thank you so much for sharing her inspiration. She won’t be forgotten.

  2408. Comment by cattio | 08.10.2009 | 9:39 pm

    Elden/Fatty,

    I’ve been reading for a while, but have never commented before, so I’ll be brief:

    I think that you are amazing. Please accept my most sincere condolences. I’m helping my father as he fights pancreatic cancer. I can only pray to have a fraction of the strength that you have had in taking care of your wife and family. She’s at peace now. Many blessings to you and yours.

    ~Catherine

  2409. Comment by Margot Core | 08.10.2009 | 10:12 pm

    Fatty, I am so sorry. My deepest condolences.

  2410. Comment by Tina | 08.10.2009 | 11:22 pm

    I am so sorry.

    A poem by John O’Donohue

    Beannacht

    On the day when
    the weight deadens
    on your shoulders
    and you stumble,
    may the clay dance
    to balance you.

    And when your eyes
    freeze behind
    the grey window
    and the ghost of loss
    gets in to you,
    may a flock of colours,
    indigo, red, green,
    and azure blue
    come to awaken in you
    a meadow of delight.

    When the canvas frays
    in the currach of thought
    and a stain of ocean
    blackens beneath you,
    may there come across the waters
    a path of yellow moonlight
    to bring you safely home.

    May the nourishment of the earth be yours,
    may the clarity of light be yours,
    may the fluency of the ocean be yours,
    may the protection of the ancestors be yours.
    And so may a slow
    wind work these words
    of love around you,
    an invisible cloak
    to mind your life.

  2411. Comment by Monica | 08.10.2009 | 11:44 pm

    Only a truly wonderful woman could affect so many. I hope that my life can be so meaningful. You have brought out the best in your wife, and she in you, I can’t think of a better way to be honored. May your family find the peace and comfort they deserve.

  2412. Comment by Michelle | 08.11.2009 | 3:09 am

    Susan’s legacy will live on for a very long time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family xx

  2413. Comment by Ian | 08.11.2009 | 4:11 am

    Elden,
    My sincerest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your wife, Susan. My wife recently lost her mother and I can appreciate the grief all are feeling.
    My sympathies,
    Ian

  2414. Comment by JEB | 08.11.2009 | 6:57 am

    Elden,

    I commented earlier, too, but a couple more thoughts came to mind.

    We should all define ourselves by what we do, not by the circumstances we are given. I think Susan personified this.

    And if it is the path through life that matters most, then I think Susan won.

    Thank you for sharing so much of your life with us and giving us the chance to learn from Susan.

    Jeb

  2415. Comment by Kim | 08.11.2009 | 8:36 am

    Sincere condolences, Elden. From across oceans, hugs and warm energies.

  2416. Comment by AB | 08.11.2009 | 11:10 am

    Our condolences. All the best to your family
    Adam + Jenny

  2417. Comment by Nancy | 08.11.2009 | 12:13 pm

    As I send my condolences, I also want to express the gratitude I feel on so many levels. For sharing the story and reminding those of us with distance from this disease how deeply and devastatingly it impacts all of us. Also, as a mom, a sister, and a daughter I am grateful for the legacy you’ve left of Susan. Your kids have no idea now how much your work will mean to them later. And, maybe mostly, I’m grateful for how you’ve honored Susan. Your adoration and love for her is evident, and every person, no matter what trials they endure, deserves that. Albeit short, Susan’s life was a beautiful thing, and thanks to you and your support, we are able to share that.
    Good luck with the kids and your new challenges! Get some rest, too.
    best,
    nancy

  2418. Comment by Karen Lee | 08.11.2009 | 1:01 pm

    I don’t know you, but learned of your story and blog from Alicia McCauley, who I met at a conference this summer. I am inspired by all you shared together with your wonderful wife, and saddened by your grief. Please accept my humble love and condolences from Los Angeles, California.

  2419. Comment by irishpunk59 | 08.11.2009 | 1:33 pm

    So sorry to hear of your lose our thoughts are with you

  2420. Comment by christine | 08.11.2009 | 7:22 pm

    prayers for all of you and blessings for the rich and full experiences that you were able to share with susan. my thoughts are with you and your loved ones from new york.

  2421. Comment by Jose | 08.11.2009 | 8:57 pm

    My thoughts are with you

  2422. Comment by McBain_v1 | 08.12.2009 | 5:49 am

    Jesus :-( I’ve just dipped back into your blog after about a week and this news is just shattering. Sat here at work with tears in my eyes – colleagues looking at me like I’m some kind of pansy. We’ve never met and probably never will but your reporting about your wife’s courage and strength are really inspirational. May your God walk with you and keep you strong.

  2423. Comment by Victoria | 08.12.2009 | 12:47 pm

    I’m so sorry. Sending prayers and love your way.

  2424. Comment by Glenn | 08.12.2009 | 7:37 pm

    My thoughts are with you and your family. LIVESTRONG!

  2425. Comment by Amy Kloner | 08.13.2009 | 7:08 pm

    I am so touched by what I’ve read of your incredible wife and beautiful family. I hope the the wonderful memories that you’ve shared over the years carry you through the difficult times. I hope you feel her love and strength, as she is certainly by your side still. My heart, love, and prayers go out to you and your family.

  2426. Comment by Vince | 08.13.2009 | 9:29 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  2427. Comment by Greg Streuber | 08.13.2009 | 11:21 pm

    Words fail me, the fight you both shared (and you, Elden continue)have inspired countless like myself beyond belief . . .
    Godspeed

  2428. Comment by Rachael | 08.14.2009 | 11:28 am

    Elden
    I am so sorry to hear your sad news.
    Susan LIVEDSTRONG.

  2429. Comment by Tarah | 08.14.2009 | 2:06 pm

    I’m so sorry… Thank you for sharing Susan’s story with your humor and candor…look how much you and Susan have done for this fight against our horrible foe, cancer. I lost my mama to breast cancer 5 years ago.

  2430. Comment by Charliegirl2008 | 08.16.2009 | 10:40 am

    I cannot begin to express my sadness, Susan fought harder than anyone to beat this disease and she WON for many many years. Her bravery should be a beacon to us all. My thoughts, love and prayers are with you and yours Elden, may you all
    find peace and solace.

  2431. Comment by megsrides824 | 08.16.2009 | 1:02 pm

    Oh Fatty, I’m so terribly sorry. You are right, though, Susan did not lose. No one can inspire the numbers of people or amounts of money she (and you) did and be considered a loss. No doubt your grace and humor and charm were as helpful to her as they are to the rest of us who find hope in your words.

    Keep the rubber side down, friend.

  2432. Comment by Sharm | 08.16.2009 | 7:58 pm

    I’m so happy that Susan is finally free of cancer and pain. My best to you and your beautiful children. I’ve been quietly reading the blog for several months… You are an inspiration.

  2433. Comment by Michael | 08.17.2009 | 4:30 am

    I send all my heartfelt condolences to you, your children and your family!

  2434. Comment by bruce | 08.17.2009 | 11:39 am

    Sorry for your troubles. My best to you and your children.
    Bruce from Ireland

  2435. Comment by Ryan | 08.17.2009 | 11:27 pm

    As an occasional reader of your blog I was very sad to come upon this news I am very sorry for your loss. MY spouse is a breast cancer survivor 4 years and counting and you, Susan and you blog have been an inspiration for me. It seems to my you and Susan both won by having each other

    I pray for peace and healing for you and your children

    Smooth trails fatty

  2436. Comment by lisa | 08.18.2009 | 4:23 am

    my heart goes out to you and your family. condolences for your loss.

    lisa

  2437. Comment by Janet | 08.20.2009 | 8:08 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss, words cannot adequately describe what you feel & how sorry we all are. I hope and pray that you & your family will find peace and healing.

    -Janet

  2438. Comment by Kevin | 08.27.2009 | 10:53 am

    Hello. Found your moving story through a Lance twitter. Was moved to tears within minutes. I’m the father of 2 boys and 2 girls, including boy/girl twins. Found myself literally unable to keep reading. But I’ve kept coming back. I’m a fatty cyclist myself: 230 on a bad week, 210 when I can use correct belt hole. 190 in my dreams. ride a giant carbon that groans under my current weight. Thank you for your candor, your strength, and your beautiful family.
    My kids just returned to school, and I choked up watching mom come home with backpacks and paper and pens, knowing you’re doing this on your own this year. You’re in my prayers. Kevin

  2439. Comment by Salvaggio | 09.2.2009 | 3:35 pm

    Just catching up with the blog after a few weeks away. Very sorry to hear your news. My heart goes out to you and your children.

  2440. Comment by becca | 09.2.2009 | 7:55 pm

    Like others, I am just catching up after a few weeks away. I am at such a loss for words… Our house is grieving for yours.

  2441. Comment by Alex | 09.15.2009 | 1:23 pm

    I am an occasional reader of your blog and I was deeply saddened today to read of the loss of your obviously beloved wife. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    I will never ride a bike like you do, due to physical limitations, but I have been excited to read about all your adventures and the love you have clearly shown through the care you gave your wife as she fought. My best to you from Massachusetts.

  2442. Comment by Graham | 10.20.2011 | 7:23 pm

    My sincere condolences and this is a destiny from God. Surely, one day we as God’s creature will also die. I hope sincerely the family receives the death of Susan and I am sure, she was in heaven.

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